"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Rouleur;2843362]In other words, don't post this:

If you really look like this.[/QUOTE]There you go -perfect example of a catfish gone bad!

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2843126]I hear you. You do what works -or doesn't work -for you. I am prominent in my community -as many of you are -and it would be a disaster to be discovered. Remember the AM fiasco? So I do not give a flying * what the girls like or do not like. When they meet me and engage in an arrangement they are well taken care of per the agreement. The SDs who get complaints obviously are using inaccurate pics that do not resemble them at all. If you are single put a nice pro shot up there and rock your truthfulness. If you are like most of us and have an SO then stealth is the key to protect you and your lifestyle as you know it. What happens when your SO makes a profile and sees your pics in the private section-Boom! You're busted.[/QUOTE]No matter how slick we think we are sooner or later you get busted if you play long enough or if the so is plain stupid or just doesn't care what you do as long as it doesn't follow you home. Oh and your right as long as you have the green most could give that flying fuck what you look like.

I had a couple of coffee dates last week with a girl from SA, and decent visit to the FC. She claimed to be attending a local University, but was on break last week. She had told me she could meet me any day after 10 am which I thought strange for a student. I inquired about her class schedule and she said all of her classes ended by 10 am. Ok. It's possible but.

Today she txt's me at 8:30 am saying she's at the gym for the next hour. I txt back saying. I thought you had class!

I've not heard back. LOL!

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2843126]What happens when your SO makes a profile and sees your pics in the private section-Boom! You're busted.[/QUOTE]Wow! That's Scary! I never truly factored in the risk around SO potentially getting her own account and getting your balls busted. Many of us tend to underestimate the possibility of our SO setting up accounts on the SD sites to snoop or otherwise. You never know. Its better to be careful than sorry.

[QUOTE=BikeRider;2843987]I had a couple of coffee dates last week with a girl from SA, and decent visit to the FC. She claimed to be attending a local University, but was on break last week. She had told me she could meet me any day after 10 am which I thought strange for a student. I inquired about her class schedule and she said all of her classes ended by 10 am. Ok. It's possible but.

Today she txt's me at 8:30 am saying she's at the gym for the next hour. I txt back saying. I thought you had class!

I've not heard back. LOL![/QUOTE]So Bike -do you care if she isn't a student? If she is good in the FC and takes care of business for you just enjoy it. Sounds like you scared her off. OTOH, if you want to rule out Pros, UTRs, or nefarious scammers the truth might help. We lie to the SBs all the time in hiding our true identities. Maybe these girls don't want to be I'd'ed either.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2844471]So Bike -do you care if she isn't a student? If she is good in the FC and takes care of business for you just enjoy it. Sounds like you scared her off. OTOH, if you want to rule out Pros, UTRs, or nefarious scammers the truth might help. We lie to the SBs all the time in hiding our true identities. Maybe these girls don't want to be I'd'ed either.[/QUOTE]True, and I only care in regards to the type of arrangement we have. I won't put a UTR on an allowance, but I will and have non-UTR women. That's just my preference.

No great loss if I scared her off. She was a solid 8 in looks, but the FC wasn't anything special.

[URL]https://www.beewake.com/[/URL]

I just saw this. It probably will only be useful to the brothers in large cities and silicon valley for now. Hopefully, it takes off. I've not tried it yet to see how works.

I'm on s. A. And have been for a couple years. I don't have a picture on s. A. And will not send a picture through the site. I tell her I will email or text a picture, the picture I send was taken in the mall from a distance say 40 feet or so. I'm not looking at the camera, if I was approached with that picture, obviously someone took my picture without my permission and is trying to steal my identity.

[QUOTE=Bowtie;2841116]Mad is spot on, this forum is a good place to start. Actually, this entire site is. If its just a physical void you are looking to fill, there are many options from street walkers to high end escorts. I've dabbled a bit in these areas but I'm looking for emotional connection as well. You may get that to some extent with the previous mentioned categories, but a true girlfriend or sugar baby fills my void better. I need the daily greetings, chit chat, understanding what's going on in their lives and family etc. That's just my thing, what I'm missing in my 30+ year marriage. Having that closer connection makes the physical side that much better, and its better on the soul. I've not heard too much on here regarding that. I've been at this pretty hard for 4 or 5 years now, it can be tough on ya plus I don't want to negatively effect my young friends. I want to help them, make it a good experience for them. Not just taking money to f some old dude. I help every one of them in some positive way, that is what I use to justify it in my mind. Right or wrong, I don't know, but I do know I will never stop. Just got back from a road trip to spend some time with a beautiful 25 yo friend. OMG, we rocked each others world. She was very surprised in fact. I'm not, keep in mind the guys of her generation can hardly take care of themselves let alone a young lady.[/QUOTE]Funny you should mention having that closer connection being important. I had a summer arrangement that ended when school started as my 26 yo SB was a school teacher and our schedules no longer matched with both us being married. I just got back on SA last week after being off for a few months. After a few days I get a message from my old friend wanting to know if we could try it again. Her reason was that she missed feeling cared for. Her most recent experiences on SA had left her longing for me even more. She has spring break next week and I'm taking a day off from work to see her. Should be fun!

[QUOTE=BaldEagle;2844862]I'm on s. A. And have been for a couple years. I don't have a picture on s. A. And will not send a picture through the site. I tell her I will email or text a picture, the picture I send was taken in the mall from a distance say 40 feet or so. I'm not looking at the camera, if I was approached with that picture, obviously someone took my picture without my permission and is trying to steal my identity.[/QUOTE]You can right click on any SA photo and have Google do a search online for the image.

I would say about 1 in 10 profiles I have checked lead to their real identity via Facebook, Twitter or LinkedIn.

Do the same for any photo your are using. The fact you email it does not exempt it from being subject to right click Google Search. Strong cropping helps fool the search algorithm.

[QUOTE=ArcherSterling;2845083]You can right click on any SA photo and have Google do a search online for the image.

I would say about 1 in 10 profiles I have checked lead to their real identity via Facebook, Twitter or LinkedIn.

Do the same for any photo your are using. The fact you email it does not exempt it from being subject to right click Google Search. Strong cropping helps fool the search algorithm.[/QUOTE]They recently disabled right clicks. There are workarounds but it was easy just to right click on the image.

[QUOTE=Spider2112;2845652]They recently disabled right clicks.[/QUOTE]I had no problem doing this all day.

[QUOTE=ArcherSterling;2845743]I had no problem doing this all day.[/QUOTE]It was disabled last week. There were some posts on the other sugar threads. It stopped working for me too at that time but it's all back to good.

[QUOTE=BikeRider;2844614][URL]https://www.beewake.com/[/URL]

I just saw this. It probably will only be useful to the brothers in large cities and silicon valley for now. Hopefully, it takes off. I've not tried it yet to see how works.[/QUOTE]Holy shit, Bike! I just downloaded this and gave it a test spin. It's fantastic. It pulled up two hotel rooms near me for a third of what they would normally rent for overnight, indicated they were available immediately and I could book through the app and pay when I checked in!

I'm certain another SD invented this app, and I'll kiss him too!

Peace,

Scott.

[QUOTE=FScott;2846005]Holy shit, Bike! I just downloaded this and gave it a test spin. It's fantastic. It pulled up two hotel rooms near me for a third of what they would normally rent for overnight, indicated they were available immediately and I could book through the app and pay when I checked in!

.[/QUOTE]What market are you in?