Fruit. Shopping. Driving Lessons, And Nice Guy
It's not magic. Doesn't have to be expensive. One girl at the old Anna's UTR (years ago) actually would ask me to get hamburgers at McDonald's next door. Anna had zero facilities, not even a sink. So in that case food was scarce. Most don't care for candy, I agree. If the girl has a mandatory day off try to make (secret) arrangements outside of the store. Keep it low key. I mean, don't start by taking then to a motel. Not in the beginning. Since they are not allowed to fraternize the meetings must be discrete and secret. Shopping and lunch. I taught 4 different girls to drive. (By the way that's scary as shit!) If you are successful your weekly meetings can expand. I've take people (Mei) to the art institute, Field museum, hiking. Eventually you can move up to hotels. Try to avoid shit-holes. Super-8 is reasonably nice. Anna's new place had no shower. So Mei and I would rent a hotel room and she could get a nice shower, good meal. And, actually, as I come to recall, the first time I met Mei, Anna (at her legit place) asked me to go get a pizza. Mei and I ate pizza the first day we met.
Now Revqtr I wanted to mention something that helped me get out of the house. SCORE. Score. Org It's basically older business people providing business consulting to entrepreneurs. I go out every day. I have a day job as a finance guy and my own business, plus the massage business. Plus score. Every Thursday and Friday is SCORE. I get a lot out of it. And it give me time to go to both real and pretend meetings.
Bob.
[QUOTE=Revgtr;4139926]This reminds me of when I first started going to AMPs in the early '90's. I was mainly frequenting the VIP spa on Wise Rd in Schaumburg which eventually morphed into the location at 5050 and. Cumberland. I started bringing a small box of candy as a present every time I went there. They seemed to get a kick out of it and would share with the other girls. Eventually they started calling me "Candy Man" and always remembered me. As I began frequenting other spas, and girls moved on to other locations, these same girls would remember me and new girls would also enjoy my boxes of candy and call me "Candy Man". I became pretty well recognized at a lot of spas by doing this. It was a lot of fun and I managed to get excellent service as a result. So many good memories.
I have been pretty much retired from the spa scene for a while now as I no longer work and don't have a lot of excuses for getting away from the house without my wife, LOL. The AMP scene from the early 90's through 2006 seemed much different than it is now. There were actually young Asian girls who were born in the US working at VIP and some of the other spas. I probably averaged 3-4 appointments per month and will never forget those times.
Anyway, the box of candy strategy was a huge winner for me. The other bit of advice is to always treat the girls like you would someone that you were dating. They have a very boring routine and deal with a lot of total assholes. They always seemed to appreciate good conversation and a sense of humor.[/QUOTE]