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Quoting Deb: "I sometimes write and post too much".
Thank you Deb-now good night. PLEASE.
[QUOTE=Deb4512;2092436]Why put these women down? Some guys who have other preferences, fat or old women, would say that the women (girls) you guys like would make them gag or lose their lunches! I never had a weight problem until a few years ago, and it happened when I started working graveyard shift. My body looked more like Paris's (and escort from a few pages back). Actually my body was perfect, it always has been, otherwise I wouldn't have been hired as a stripper or started escorting in the first place. I've only continued escorting with the weight gain since I don't have a choice. There's someone for everyone guys. I know that men have unusual fetishes, mommy / son role play, brown showers, golden showers, dom and sub role play. Not everyone is of the norm. Also, why put down anyone at all? If you don't like the way they look, don't see them! It's as easy as that. Also, if you don't like the way they look, don't look at them either! I wonder what you guys look like? You must all look like Adonis the way you talk about women. And for gosh sakes, to say "Don't look at her face." regarding a woman who's only in her 30's, because you think she's too old looking! She's beautiful! The comments were ridiculous!
I'm so aggravated reading derogatory comments about escorts (age, body type). I will have Paris's body again so no one can talk about me this way. Also, being in shape is way healthier obviously. It hasn't been too long ago since I was perfect. I've always been athletic and nothing on me sags even now. And BTW, my face is still wrinkle free so it doesn't have to be covered no matter what. I will rival all the Argentinian women, since I was more beautiful than any of them when I first started out. I can't count how long I was mistaken for a 20 something year old girl.
Anyway, it's downright misogamy to talk about women this way. You all have mothers and probably sisters too, don't you? How would you like anyone talking about them like this? I was thinking today about how I've been feeling since being burnt by quite a few people and I'm really angry I let it happen. It tends to make a person harder on the outside. But even before then I was pissed off, although I was much more sweeter and softer. I still care about people and have a sweet, soft, sensitive side, but I don't have the propensity to show it lately. I think that many people involved in the sex industry have trauma backgrounds, escorts and also the guys who see them as well (meaning you guys!) I think that's why a lot of escorts are f'ed up and treat you all badly. Also, I think that's why many of you are so angry, bickering and fighting with each other. You know that Ledger and Monger Expert probably have trauma histories too. (especially Ledger). If you do have experienced trauma in your pasts and have become abusive due to it, remember how you felt when you were being abused. You're passing your experiences on to others. Just my opinion as a counselor by the way.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Deb4512;2092436]Why put these women down? Some guys who have other preferences, fat or old women, would say that the women (girls) you guys like would make them gag or lose their lunches! I never had a weight problem until a few years ago, and it happened when I started working graveyard shift. My body looked more like Paris's (and escort from a few pages back). Actually my body was perfect, it always has been, otherwise I wouldn't have been hired as a stripper or started escorting in the first place. I've only continued escorting with the weight gain since I don't have a choice. There's someone for everyone guys. I know that men have unusual fetishes, mommy / son role play, brown showers, golden showers, dom and sub role play. Not everyone is of the norm. Also, why put down anyone at all? If you don't like the way they look, don't see them! It's as easy as that. Also, if you don't like the way they look, don't look at them either! I wonder what you guys look like? You must all look like Adonis the way you talk about women. And for gosh sakes, to say "Don't look at her face." regarding a woman who's only in her 30's, because you think she's too old looking! She's beautiful! The comments were ridiculous!
I'm so aggravated reading derogatory comments about escorts (age, body type). I will have Paris's body again so no one can talk about me this way. Also, being in shape is way healthier obviously. It hasn't been too long ago since I was perfect. I've always been athletic and nothing on me sags even now. And BTW, my face is still wrinkle free so it doesn't have to be covered no matter what. I will rival all the Argentinian women, since I was more beautiful than any of them when I first started out. I can't count how long I was mistaken for a 20 something year old girl.
Anyway, it's downright misogamy to talk about women this way. You all have mothers and probably sisters too, don't you? How would you like anyone talking about them like this? I was thinking today about how I've been feeling since being burnt by quite a few people and I'm really angry I let it happen. It tends to make a person harder on the outside. But even before then I was pissed off, although I was much more sweeter and softer. I still care about people and have a sweet, soft, sensitive side, but I don't have the propensity to show it lately. I think that many people involved in the sex industry have trauma backgrounds, escorts and also the guys who see them as well (meaning you guys!) I think that's why a lot of escorts are f'ed up and treat you all badly. Also, I think that's why many of you are so angry, bickering and fighting with each other. You know that Ledger and Monger Expert probably have trauma histories too. (especially Ledger). If you do have experienced trauma in your pasts and have become abusive due to it, remember how you felt when you were being abused. You're passing your experiences on to others. Just my opinion as a counselor by the way.[/QUOTE]The majority of the posting here relating to a woman's appearance is subjective and most certainly relevant. A women's body type is one of the main criteria involved when selecting a provider and will remain one of the most important topics of discussion on a forum such as this. I have nothing against fat women personally but as A2 stated when I am paying a girl for sex I expect a certain standard. After all I am the paying customer. This subject came about from discussion of providers using politically correct terms in ads and in my opinion amounts to deception just as pictures taken with certain poses often hides the woman's true form and is done intentionally.
As far as our looks go again we are the customers here and it is the provider's prerogative to turn us down on a date whenever they please. And many do for various reasons.
This does not imply that I am misogynistic-I believe this is the word you intended to use as the term you chose (misogamy) is defined as the hatred of marriage. Now it appears you are the one labeling us by throwing this insult and casting judgment. You are entitled to your opinion but stop trying to guilt us into becoming politically correct posters. We are not just a bunch of cavemen here as you try and portray us.
And just because you have a psychology background doesn't make you an expert here. You remind me of a liberal who always thinks they know what's best for everyone else and pushes for change that often makes things worse. What's next? Is every provider going to get a trophy now like our kids just for being in the game?
I sincerely hope you have your hard hat and safety goggles on the next time you login.
