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[QUOTE=H Mobius;1342440]I think one description could be that mongers quietly blend in and mix with 'normal society', who by virtue of their carnal desires assist with the economic needs of women who are willing to massage or otherwise service unfamiliar men from off the street.[/QUOTE]Wow, thats very deep and eloquently worded. So much so that I don't understand I bit of it, LOL. Don't get me wrong Mobi bro, I'm certain its stupidity on my part but your explanation sounds so good but I no understand, LOL.

[QUOTE=Oldee;1342514]Wow, thats very deep and eloquently worded. So much so that I don't understand I bit of it, LOL. Don't get me wrong Mobi bro, I'm certain its stupidity on my part but your explanation sounds so good but I no understand, LOL.[/QUOTE]My bad. Well, take me for example. I'm your typical flathead caveman with zero mojo who can't score girls to save his life. So, I pay for action when I need to get with a woman. These typically jobless women are here to make fast money and have the stomach to provide me with 'R' to 'XXX' services, even though they just met me 2 seconds ago. If they are willing to take care of me (which has got to be a sheddy job) , I take care of them in the form of repeat business and in some cases generous tips.

But, I can't tell anyone (especially legit women) what my 'hobby' is or how I REALLY spent my weekend so I keep it to myself. I blend in at the mall or any public place and no one knows or cares that I partake in what 'normal society' would regard as a lewd lifestyle.

I'm sure a lot of members can get any girl they want but monger for their own reasons, and if asked by the girl 'was it good for you? ' will not make reference to their favorite AMP girl.

By the way you're one of the more clever guys here.

[QUOTE=Hard808;1336642]Looks like her rack and belly getting bigger. Guess fireman husband has been having some fun.[/QUOTE]I haven't had a good enough look at her midsection to confirm preggo, but this morning she was showing a huge amount of cleavage. A co-worker of mine whose SO works morning and first evening news at KHON says that her boobs are fake. Just reporting. No first hand knowledge. On KITV, Moani and Yamin were looking real hot this morning. Especially Yasmin in a miniskirt riding high on her thighs. Saw that she got engaged this weekend to Sal.

[QUOTE=Kalani69;1343900]I haven't had a good enough look at her midsection to confirm preggo, but this morning she was showing a huge amount of cleavage. A co-worker of mine whose SO works morning and first evening news at KHON says that her boobs are fake. Just reporting. No first hand knowledge. On KITV, Moani and Yamin were looking real hot this morning. Especially Yasmin in a miniskirt riding high on her thighs. Saw that she got engaged this weekend to Sal.[/QUOTE]She's pregnant. She said so a little while ago. Guess fireman got lucky.

[QUOTE=Hawaii Raven;1343949]She's pregnant. She said so a little while ago. Guess fireman got lucky.[/QUOTE]Good for him! Locked down a nice piece of ass too!

I can barely watch KITV News though. KHNL-KGMB broadcasts in full HD. KITV fills the screen with fake HD. It's standard def blown up. It is just horrible to watch that cruddy picture. They got some fine ass bitches too, they need to show 'them off in HD!

[QUOTE=Hawaii Raven;1343949]She's pregnant. She said so a little while ago. Guess fireman got lucky.[/QUOTE]Got a peek at Moani in the evening news last night (Thurs) she did a story (forgot what it was all about) but was looking good and a good surprise for the eyes.

[QUOTE=Snatchthat; 1225616]Sorry this type of protections will only work for the m0ng3rs here. Because the unfortunate truth [email]L@dies[/email] Is that when you show up to a sting what can you do to prevent getting caught.

Here are my tips and I will explain why it is helpful as a preventive measure not guarantee to not get stung just lessens your chances a lot.

1. First and foremost the best thing I can offer is the Tor Project. Basically it hides your IP address and give you a foreign IP, why is this helpful? Well when you come to this site or any other sit, I. E. Yahoo. Com and log into your Yahoo! Messenger they can do what is called a "back track" to see where your location is and run it through their system to see if your IP address is registered to a Name and Address, here is the website:

[url]http://www.torproject.org/[/url]

This one little step already lessens your chance of getting busted, here's why in any sting operation that is carried out for online things they need to concretely say we are chatting with "so so" so they may ask for your real name I. E David. Then when they track it back to who is on the IP address that is register David first name and Lynchhimnow Last name with the address on file, you are now 1 step towards being the Jon of the Day. So if ever in conversation they ask your name is that your real name, be affraid.

2. Prepaid Mobile Broadband, there are many providers in the market right now that provide anonymous prepaid mobile broadband, AT&T, VERIZON, Sprint, Virgin Mobile. You pic your poison, most come with $40 5GB data plans, this costs money, I recommend but it is not necessary, but this step reduces your chances of being picked as the Jon of the Day by 97. When you have a mobile broadband prepaid account put whatever name and an out of state address on it. Why well it no longer is a state matter with an out of state address and when you choose a mobile broadband provider please ensure you use one with that allows you to pay anonymously, also for I think iPad users it does come with a pre paid whatever account you pick and you can use prepaid credit cards that you can find at food pantry, the visa gift cards, register whatever name online and use that name to pay for the data plan, I believe Virgin has an anonymous way to pay through their top up cards, all vendors have a kiosk in their stores to pay via cash, all would be considered safe unless they really want to nab you and get the store you go to to get their video showing that it is you. So basically this is a cost method not free, but up to you to do what you want with your safety, if you own an iPad I strongly suggest the 1 GB data plan for $20 bucks don't hook up to your wireless in the house, keep it separate at all times.

3. VPN, another choice that costs money some are very feasable with cost per use, acts like the Tor project, use the VPN service that the service has no offices in USA, you can choice from a wide variety, so pick you poison Highly suggest any service outside of the USA. They can't subpeona an international company over state stuff. Reduces you risk 98.

4. Finally, google voice, quite possible your best friend if you have a prepaid data plan on your iPhone or Android you are in tip top shape, if not no worries you can use google voice with your computer, google. Com / voice set it up and what not, their is a trick to do this anonymously use a work phone for it to call to dial in the the 2 digit verification # this way it is not your home phone, landlines are the easiest way to do this. I would suggest more tricky ways to do this but it is really involved and super complicated and also limited to what a person has at hand.

This is free by the way, you can call from you internet browser, set up appointment, and of course if the provider is running late it would definitely help if you had this on your phone as an APP, here a suggestion miss out on a session with a provider and I will try to hook you up with a cheap iPhone cost is relatively the same as one session. But read up on it just if you cellular service is on contract under your name you don't want to use that phone for this stuff feel me.

Well those are my top 4 secrets to never getting caught, of course it only limits you from getting caught because it makes it not 100% to say you are so and so, so they will never risk an officer's life unless they can say 100% we know who the Jon is. If you watched news you would see how they followed the Jon form home to location and made the arrest. If they don't know where you are well they are not going to pick you.

As a reward from my countless efforts please provide me with the intel via private message for the active providers out here that making the kala go the distance.[/QUOTE]I just got a smartphone and recall there being a discussion on apps that mask your caller I'd. I tried searching and only found this post. Was Google Voice the only option? Or am I mis-remembering that there were more opinions being shared? Please PM me if you have other info on an app that works well.

Thanks

I'm just curious as to what's everyones favorite mongering activity isthese days1 know most of us participate in more than one but whats your current favorite or favorites if evenly participated in. Please don't make it a debate about which venue is better etc.In other words dont diss another venue choice. Just curious as there seems to be more AMP and MT forum activity than before. The bar posts are kinda dead activity these days for example. Could it be that there's a shift in mongering trends lately?

[QUOTE=Oldee;1344973]I'm just curious as to what's everyones favorite mongering activity isthese days1 know most of us participate in more than one but whats your current favorite or favorites if evenly participated in. Please don't make it a debate about which venue is better etc.In other words dont diss another venue choice. Just curious as there seems to be more AMP and MT forum activity than before. The bar posts are kinda dead activity these days for example. Could it be that there's a shift in mongering trends lately?[/QUOTE]I'm actually migrating from AMPs to MTs. Mostly because if the level of service. The hours that I go mongering it's difficult to get a "good one" at an AMP. My only complaint with MTs is that my schedule rarely allows me to make an appt more than a few ours in advance so a lot of the time I'm stuck with myself.

As for the bars, I've never had any luck at the KBs, I go mostly if I'm just looking for company and nothing else. Hooked up once at SP3.

[QUOTE=Oldee;1344973]I'm just curious as to what's everyones favorite mongering activity isthese days1 know most of us participate in more than one but whats your current favorite or favorites if evenly participated in. Please don't make it a debate about which venue is better etc.In other words dont diss another venue choice. Just curious as there seems to be more AMP and MT forum activity than before. The bar posts are kinda dead activity these days for example. Could it be that there's a shift in mongering trends lately?[/QUOTE]For me KB and AMP go hand in hand. I usually go just to drink, hangout with friends, just have a good time. Occasionally I'll buy a girl a drink or two if we click. Then just before the nights over, I'll head to a AMP. I do MT weekly, but strictly legit purposes (I'm getting old). The days of good legit w / HJ are gone. With a MT priority is massage.

[QUOTE=Magnod; 1344504]I just got a smartphone and recall there being a discussion on apps that mask your caller I'd. I tried searching and only found this post. Was Google Voice the only option? Or am I mis-remembering that there were more opinions being shared? Please PM me if you have other info on an app that works well.

Thanks[/QUOTE]But google voice works best.

Aloha Gang,

Anyone know who the HOT girls are at Aoyama on King Street? Looking to hook it up with a J girl and wanted to cut to the chase and go for the hotties first.

Mahalo,

GK

[QUOTE=GKaniho; 1345749]Aloha Gang,

Anyone know who the HOT girls are at Aoyama on King Street? Looking to hook it up with a J girl and wanted to cut to the chase and go for the hotties first.

Mahalo,

GK[/QUOTE]You been a busy man lately bro, LOL. Happy for you man. Anyhow, I'll tell you about the Aoyama girls if you answer my question in my post below, LOL. Na na just kidding. The Aoyama chicks are a hit and miss thing meaning that there may be many girls some days and almost none on other days. I need to warn you that its not like KB, VB, or TB where they have more similaritys than differences. Jbars are a different animal. Your best bet is to score with a new to hawaii girl which they often have. The turnover at Aoyama is alot being many are here on vacation and don't have working visas. I know you got game but its hard to score with them in 1 night unless they like you or drunk. I've scored a few times but only once 1st night 3years ago with a hot chick named Aya. Lucky for me, she was drunk, LOL. Guy, I speak jap and go jbars here and japan. Got to tell you that it aint easy here. Personally, I think Waikiki hunting for j chicks is made for a guy like you bro. Got more chance and much cheaper too.

Mahalo Oldee, I always appreciate your advice and honesty. I have been busy lately but also spending a lot of money on my so called habit. Haha.

I will probably take your advice some day and go j chick hunting in Waikiki. My problem right now is I got to wait until the ole hag, oops (wife) , goes to sleep and by then Waikiki is dead. Guess that's why I go to the bars in hopes of that easy score. So far so good, but its not great. Still looking for great. Haha Mahalo Oldee!

Aloha no,

Guy.

[QUOTE=Oldee;1345843]You been a busy man lately bro, LOL. Happy for you man. Anyhow, I'll tell you about the Aoyama girls if you answer my question in my post below, LOL. Na na just kidding. The Aoyama chicks are a hit and miss thing meaning that there may be many girls some days and almost none on other days. I need to warn you that its not like KB, VB, or TB where they have more similaritys than differences. Jbars are a different animal. Your best bet is to score with a new to hawaii girl which they often have. The turnover at Aoyama is alot being many are here on vacation and don't have working visas. I know you got game but its hard to score with them in 1 night unless they like you or drunk. I've scored a few times but only once 1st night 3years ago with a hot chick named Aya. Lucky for me, she was drunk, LOL. Guy, I speak jap and go jbars here and japan. Got to tell you that it aint easy here. Personally, I think Waikiki hunting for j chicks is made for a guy like you bro. Got more chance and much cheaper too.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Oldee;1344973]I'm just curious as to what's everyones favorite mongering activity isthese days1 know most of us participate in more than one but whats your current favorite or favorites if evenly participated in. Please don't make it a debate about which venue is better etc.In other words dont diss another venue choice. Just curious as there seems to be more AMP and MT forum activity than before. The bar posts are kinda dead activity these days for example. Could it be that there's a shift in mongering trends lately?[/QUOTE]Howzit Oldee! I got gun shy of AMP's, just afraid of LE, or being spotted by any acquaintances. So, instead, have been hitting the KB's and VB's where the coverup excuses if exposed are much more believable. But have been moving to takeout from these girls. I look for the ones that have a place that I can go to.

I'm older so I look for the more mature decent looking ones, versus the young good looking ones. I basically go to the bars to make contact, test drive the service then setup future meetings at their place.

[QUOTE=NinjaLurker; 1346341]Howzit Oldee! I got gun shy of AMP's, just afraid of LE, or being spotted by any acquaintances. So, instead, have been hitting the KB's and VB's where the coverup excuses if exposed are much more believable. But have been moving to takeout from these girls. I look for the ones that have a place that I can go to.

I'm older so I look for the more mature decent looking ones, versus the young good looking ones. I basically go to the bars to make contact, test drive the service then setup future meetings at their place.[/QUOTE]I've been frequenting KBs for a long while, and have never been able to get take out from the girls there. I've hinted that, it's what I'm interested in but usually get declined politely, even after several visits and copious amount of drinks. What's your technique in getting the service? Or if you don't mind, sharing a location (in PM if you'd prefer).

[QUOTE=Thirteentwenty;1346644]I've been frequenting KBs for a long while, and have never been able to get take out from the girls there. I've hinted that, it's what I'm interested in but usually get declined politely, even after several visits and copious amount of drinks. What's your technique in getting the service? Or if you don't mind, sharing a location (in PM if you'd prefer).[/QUOTE]VB are a lot easier than KB's. You need to pay for the service at the bar, whether booth or backroom first. Sometimes it takes a couple of times before they trust you. Look at it this way, it would be unsafe for them to go one on one outside the bar with a total stranger.

[QUOTE=Thirteentwenty;1346644]I've hinted that, it's what I'm interested in but usually get declined politely, even after several visits and copious amount of drinks. What's your technique in getting the service?[/QUOTE]Doing OK. After planting the seed of "take-out" in their heads wean them off with the nekos and let them make the moves; ignore them. Suggest you use the "home champagne" term once as the seed and don't go back to the subject. They'll know already and will accept, when and if.

[QUOTE=Thirteentwenty;1346644]I've been frequenting KBs for a long while, and have never been able to get take out from the girls there. I've hinted that, it's what I'm interested in but usually get declined politely, even after several visits and copious amount of drinks. What's your technique in getting the service? Or if you don't mind, sharing a location (in PM if you'd prefer).[/QUOTE]If they get the idea that you just want a fling, that probably is already a no. Of course some girls are different and will go with you for x amount of dollars. All my experiences always dealt with a relationship thing with not costing much, but more headaches.

[quote=thirteentwenty;1346644]i've been frequenting kbs for a long while, and have never been able to get take out from the girls there. I've hinted that, it's what i'm interested in but usually get declined politely, even after several visits and copious amount of drinks. What's your technique in getting the service? Or if you don't mind, sharing a location (in pm if you'd prefer).[/quote] Aloha Korean Bar Tours

[QUOTE=NinjaLurker;1346884]VB are a lot easier than KB's. You need to pay for the service at the bar, whether booth or backroom first. Sometimes it takes a couple of times before they trust you. Look at it this way, it would be unsafe for them to go one on one outside the bar with a total stranger.[/QUOTE]I agree VBG's are easier than KBG's because they know what you are there for, they don't play games, and you get what you pay for.

[QUOTE=Jj6969;1347337]I agree VBG's are easier than KBG's because they know what you are there for, they don't play games, and you get what you pay for.[/QUOTE]Na, just kidding JJ. Me too. I'd just add to negociate price wisely as some VBGs can be robs too. However, if he has a preference for k girls, then I reccomend you and Nlurker coach him.

[QUOTE=Oldee;1347360]Na, just kidding JJ. Me too. I'd just add to negociate price wisely as some VBGs can be robs too. However, if he has a preference for k girls, then I reccomend you and Nlurker coach him.[/QUOTE]Get one BIG time ROB at SP3, who went ask a fellow monger for $$$$$ to do the deed. Braddah wen buy her choke drinks and thought he was goin score, when she invited him back to her place. Thats when she went tell him five hundreh dollah! Glad he said fuck that and left.

Found this kool documentary about have sex in Cuba.

[url]http://vimeo.com/33851895[/url]

Enjoy

Aloha everyone! Hau'oli Makahiki Hou! Hope your year is starting out well!

Back in September of '09 many of you may remember I was in a near-fatal auto accident that kept me off of the board for six months. Speculation ran wild that I had met the same fate as Kapalua. Anyway, I am finally back as close to 100% healthy as I will ever be. On the flip side now that I have my health, my finances have become a major concern to me.

This past fall I received a HUGE payment for past work that was owed me for several months. Of course, with Monica and Coco back in December, checking out many other girls in September, October and November, and taking a trip to Manila and fucking myself silly, I went through about half of that money! I had to take the remaining funds and put it in a place where it would be safe from my mongering ways; but be accessible through some bit of effort for my real living needs.

I will continue to read the board and of course be available via PM, but won't be mongering as I did before. To be as cash poor as I have been for the last four or five years, and then to blow though what should have been a very comfortable cushion in my finances has awakened me. I think this year I am going to look into getting help with this addiction. I am going to try to limit my visits to once a month, then once a quarter. I will see if I can adhere to that before seeking professional help. I don't want to quit, but rather limit my experience in the "provider" industry. I could never quit. I want to be realistic.

I wish you all well, and in no way am condemning the hobby or anyone at all. But rather finally realizing that I cannot participate anymore or else I will wind up homeless. It's amazing when I think of my situation in the late-'90s through mid-'00s. I had expendable income and thought that it would never end. I was spending $2400 (a dozen visits) per month easy back then. Oh the times, they are a changin'!

Wish me luck!

Hypo

[QUOTE=Hypo Luxa; 1350046]Aloha everyone! Hau'oli Makahiki Hou! Hope your year is starting out well!

Back in September of '09 many of you may remember I was in a near-fatal auto accident that kept me off of the board for six months. Speculation ran wild that I had met the same fate as Kapalua. Anyway, I am finally back as close to 100% healthy as I will ever be. On the flip side now that I have my health, my finances have become a major concern to me.

This past fall I received a HUGE payment for past work that was owed me for several months. Of course, with Monica and Coco back in December, checking out many other girls in September, October and November, and taking a trip to Manila and fucking myself silly, I went through about half of that money! I had to take the remaining funds and put it in a place where it would be safe from my mongering ways; but be accessible through some bit of effort for my real living needs.

I will continue to read the board and of course be available via PM, but won't be mongering as I did before. To be as cash poor as I have been for the last four or five years, and then to blow though what should have been a very comfortable cushion in my finances has awakened me. I think this year I am going to look into getting help with this addiction. I am going to try to limit my visits to once a month, then once a quarter. I will see if I can adhere to that before seeking professional help. I don't want to quit, but rather limit my experience in the "provider" industry. I could never quit. I want to be realistic.

I wish you all well, and in no way am condemning the hobby or anyone at all. But rather finally realizing that I cannot participate anymore or else I will wind up homeless. It's amazing when I think of my situation in the late-'90s through mid-'00s. I had expendable income and thought that it would never end. I was spending $2400 (a dozen visits) per month easy back then. Oh the times, they are a changin'!

Wish me luck!

Hypo[/QUOTE]I am in the same boat as you. I blew a LOT of money in a very short period of time on a binge that I terribly regret right now. And I have sought help too. Will PM you.

[QUOTE=Hypo Luxa; 1350046]Aloha everyone! Hau'oli Makahiki Hou! Hope your year is starting out well!

Back in September of '09 many of you may remember I was in a near-fatal auto accident that kept me off of the board for six months. Speculation ran wild that I had met the same fate as Kapalua. Anyway, I am finally back as close to 100% healthy as I will ever be. On the flip side now that I have my health, my finances have become a major concern to me.

This past fall I received a HUGE payment for past work that was owed me for several months. Of course, with Monica and Coco back in December, checking out many other girls in September, October and November, and taking a trip to Manila and fucking myself silly, I went through about half of that money! I had to take the remaining funds and put it in a place where it would be safe from my mongering ways; but be accessible through some bit of effort for my real living needs.

I will continue to read the board and of course be available via PM, but won't be mongering as I did before. To be as cash poor as I have been for the last four or five years, and then to blow though what should have been a very comfortable cushion in my finances has awakened me. I think this year I am going to look into getting help with this addiction. I am going to try to limit my visits to once a month, then once a quarter. I will see if I can adhere to that before seeking professional help. I don't want to quit, but rather limit my experience in the "provider" industry. I could never quit. I want to be realistic.

I wish you all well, and in no way am condemning the hobby or anyone at all. But rather finally realizing that I cannot participate anymore or else I will wind up homeless. It's amazing when I think of my situation in the late-'90s through mid-'00s. I had expendable income and thought that it would never end. I was spending $2400 (a dozen visits) per month easy back then. Oh the times, they are a changin'!

Wish me luck!

Hypo[/QUOTE]All the best to you! Glad you've regained your health!

[QUOTE=Hypo Luxa; 1350046]Aloha everyone! Hau'oli Makahiki Hou! Hope your year is starting out well!

Back in September of '09 many of you may remember I was in a near-fatal auto accident that kept me off of the board for six months. Speculation ran wild that I had met the same fate as Kapalua. Anyway, I am finally back as close to 100% healthy as I will ever be. On the flip side now that I have my health, my finances have become a major concern to me.

This past fall I received a HUGE payment for past work that was owed me for several months. Of course, with Monica and Coco back in December, checking out many other girls in September, October and November, and taking a trip to Manila and fucking myself silly, I went through about half of that money! I had to take the remaining funds and put it in a place where it would be safe from my mongering ways; but be accessible through some bit of effort for my real living needs.

I will continue to read the board and of course be available via PM, but won't be mongering as I did before. To be as cash poor as I have been for the last four or five years, and then to blow though what should have been a very comfortable cushion in my finances has awakened me. I think this year I am going to look into getting help with this addiction. I am going to try to limit my visits to once a month, then once a quarter. I will see if I can adhere to that before seeking professional help. I don't want to quit, but rather limit my experience in the "provider" industry. I could never quit. I want to be realistic.

I wish you all well, and in no way am condemning the hobby or anyone at all. But rather finally realizing that I cannot participate anymore or else I will wind up homeless. It's amazing when I think of my situation in the late-'90s through mid-'00s. I had expendable income and thought that it would never end. I was spending $2400 (a dozen visits) per month easy back then. Oh the times, they are a changin'!

Wish me luck!

Hypo[/QUOTE]Indeed I wish you the Best of Luck and thank you for the wealth of information you have provided in this forum. Even if you limit your mongering, please continue to keep in touch and post your observations and comments on what other forum members post and on what mongering you are able to do. We lost touch with Kapalua, and we do not need to lose anymore of our esteemed senior members like yourself. Again thank you, Best of Luck and Happy New Year to you.

Taking a break from AMPs doesn't have to mean break from here bro. There is still the wonderfull world of civilian women that we don't get enough reports on, hehe. I'm thinking of doing that myself this year. Someone said you was the monger Superman so I'd be a waste to let your talents go cold turkey, LOL. Have a good year bro.

You are somewhat of a legend on this board. First and foremost I am glad to see that your health has returned to near 100. I have always enjoyed your contributions and lived vicariously through your posts. In a way I read what you have shared as if the little brother was listening to his big brothers escapades. I myself am in a financial bind, so I can relate to what you are feeling money wise. You seem like a person whom I would have to liked to have met in person, shake your hand, buy you a beer, and share some stories. BTW, your're a heterosexual male with a working penis. It's not an addiction, it's a curse. LOL. I wish the best of luck to you brother.

[QUOTE=Hypo Luxa; 1350046]Aloha everyone! Hau'oli Makahiki Hou! Hope your year is starting out well!

Back in September of '09 many of you may remember I was in a near-fatal auto accident that kept me off of the board for six months. Speculation ran wild that I had met the same fate as Kapalua. Anyway, I am finally back as close to 100% healthy as I will ever be. On the flip side now that I have my health, my finances have become a major concern to me.

This past fall I received a HUGE payment for past work that was owed me for several months. Of course, with Monica and Coco back in December, checking out many other girls in September, October and November, and taking a trip to Manila and fucking myself silly, I went through about half of that money! I had to take the remaining funds and put it in a place where it would be safe from my mongering ways; but be accessible through some bit of effort for my real living needs.

I will continue to read the board and of course be available via PM, but won't be mongering as I did before. To be as cash poor as I have been for the last four or five years, and then to blow though what should have been a very comfortable cushion in my finances has awakened me. I think this year I am going to look into getting help with this addiction. I am going to try to limit my visits to once a month, then once a quarter. I will see if I can adhere to that before seeking professional help. I don't want to quit, but rather limit my experience in the "provider" industry. I could never quit. I want to be realistic.

I wish you all well, and in no way am condemning the hobby or anyone at all. But rather finally realizing that I cannot participate anymore or else I will wind up homeless. It's amazing when I think of my situation in the late-'90s through mid-'00s. I had expendable income and thought that it would never end. I was spending $2400 (a dozen visits) per month easy back then. Oh the times, they are a changin'!

Wish me luck!

Hypo[/QUOTE]Yes Brother, I do remember that accident. It was so bad that your physical conditioning was a main contributing factor in your recovery; a lesser man may not have even survived.

I support you in your intentions to cut back. When I first stumbled upon AMPs, I could only afford to go once-in-a-great-while, so I know how you feel.

It is great that you are being 'realistic', after all, people have needs. You're a red-blooded man and what's natural is natural.

Although you will be cutting back, I hope that you will still be able to continue to provide guidance to the Forum.

Good luck Hypo Luxa and keep in touch,

H M

[QUOTE=Hypo Luxa; 1350046]Aloha everyone! Hau'oli Makahiki Hou! Hope your year is starting out well!

Back in September of '09 many of you may remember I was in a near-fatal auto accident that kept me off of the board for six months. Speculation ran wild that I had met the same fate as Kapalua. Anyway, I am finally back as close to 100% healthy as I will ever be. On the flip side now that I have my health, my finances have become a major concern to me.

This past fall I received a HUGE payment for past work that was owed me for several months. Of course, with Monica and Coco back in December, checking out many other girls in September, October and November, and taking a trip to Manila and fucking myself silly, I went through about half of that money! I had to take the remaining funds and put it in a place where it would be safe from my mongering ways; but be accessible through some bit of effort for my real living needs.

I will continue to read the board and of course be available via PM, but won't be mongering as I did before. To be as cash poor as I have been for the last four or five years, and then to blow though what should have been a very comfortable cushion in my finances has awakened me. I think this year I am going to look into getting help with this addiction. I am going to try to limit my visits to once a month, then once a quarter. I will see if I can adhere to that before seeking professional help. I don't want to quit, but rather limit my experience in the "provider" industry. I could never quit. I want to be realistic.

I wish you all well, and in no way am condemning the hobby or anyone at all. But rather finally realizing that I cannot participate anymore or else I will wind up homeless. It's amazing when I think of my situation in the late-'90s through mid-'00s. I had expendable income and thought that it would never end. I was spending $2400 (a dozen visits) per month easy back then. Oh the times, they are a changin'!

Wish me luck!

Hypo[/QUOTE]At least you're not leaving for good. Looking forward to reading your future postings. Best of luck this year.

Best of luck. I know what you mean-I think we are all addicted to a degree. All the money I have spent since learning about AMPs or their derivitives has cost me lots since I started to earn a living. Being conservative- I estimate maybe 260G, basing on a quarter of a century, which if put in regular savings would have bought and paid for a nice house. If I started back when. Luckily not married or have a SO, so expenses can be wasted.

But I look at it also like well if I invested in the stock market-half of it would be gone-hehe.

Thats why I am glad I found this board so that I don't get blue balls and only go when there is a girl I must see. What helps is when these girls (favs) all go on vacation and to busy. Also made a promise not to go when my favorite pro football team was winning only losing (do you know how hard that is-literally and figuratively?). Anyway, save your money and recover. Best of luck in the new year.

[QUOTE=Blade82;1346930]If they get the idea that you just want a fling, that probably is already a no. Of course some girls are different and will go with you for x amount of dollars. All my experiences always dealt with a relationship thing with not costing much, but more headaches.[/QUOTE]These girls smell blood, if they can get you to buy them drinks, whether if KB or strip, why bother. You have to pick and watch how they operate. Maybe buy one token drink and talk nice and show you not interested. If they try ask you go back room, say you can't do it in a bar and that you are uncomfortable. Drop a hint, only way si back at your or their place. It takes time and money and being nice. Show that you are there to just cruz and drink and be nice. Won't work with all girls, but some will wonder what they got to do. Its the challenge to their ego. However don't have the time or inclanation, rather go for the guarens and get the AMP action.

[QUOTE=Crouchingtiger;1350128]These girls smell blood, if they can get you to buy them drinks, whether if KB or strip, why bother. You have to pick and watch how they operate. Maybe buy one token drink and talk nice and show you not interested. If they try ask you go back room, say you can't do it in a bar and that you are uncomfortable. Drop a hint, only way si back at your or their place. It takes time and money and being nice. Show that you are there to just cruz and drink and be nice. Won't work with all girls, but some will wonder what they got to do. Its the challenge to their ego. However don't have the time or inclanation, rather go for the guarens and get the AMP action.[/QUOTE]Thanks to all that responded to my post original post. I've just returned and will be giving all of your recommendations a try. And after reading them I suppose staying some what sober would help a lot. And definitely limiting their nekos will be in the near future. I've never heard of the "home champagne" line will have to give that one a go in a few.

Will post back if / when something happens.

Again thanks a million and happy mongering to all in this new year!

I didn't know where to put this info in the forum, but I thought some mongers might want to know:

The ad says this time; only serving as a Dom.

[url]http://hawaii.backpage.com/Domination/asian-dominatrix-amai-returns-_-_-_-_-_-21/3124600[/url]

[QUOTE=Crouchingtiger; 1350127]Best of luck. I know what you mean-I think we are all addicted to a degree. All the money I have spent since learning about AMPs or their derivitives has cost me lots since I started to earn a living. Being conservative- I estimate maybe 260G, basing on a quarter of a century, which if put in regular savings would have bought and paid for a nice house. If I started back when. Luckily not married or have a SO, so expenses can be wasted.

But I look at it also like well if I invested in the stock market-half of it would be gone-hehe.

Thats why I am glad I found this board so that I don't get blue balls and only go when there is a girl I must see. What helps is when these girls (favs) all go on vacation and to busy. Also made a promise not to go when my favorite pro football team was winning only losing (do you know how hard that is-literally and figuratively?). Anyway, save your money and recover. Best of luck in the new year.[/QUOTE]First off, I want to respond to your statement about the stock market. I taught myself how to trade about 20 years ago and have used the profits from my successful trading to fund my mongering habits. I only went mongering when I had profitable days and most of my mongering activities occurred during the Internet "bubble years" between 1996-2004. Now I use currency trading profits to fund my mongering. The stock market is "old school". Only amateurs trade it nowadays. Now granted, I don't monger nowhere near as much as the boom years but I still manage to make more than enough profit to cover a few trips a month to the AMP.

My point is: I never once had to use my so called "job money" to monger. I think that is due in large part to my discipline from the training I learned from trading. I think what Hypo is doing now takes a lot of discipline. You have to eventually come to a point in your life when you do have to quit this stuff. It is damn hard to do believe me. In fact my experiences where that the more "easy money" I made trading the more I would spend it. There were days where I made $3 to $5K a day consistently for years trading and my mongering habits followed suit. During the days of themeetingplace and the old GAIH days I would see 3 to 4 AMP girls a day sometimes. I was like a junkie. I just could not get enough. I remember one day I did Bonnie from NY twice, Ann from China Spa, I then went back to NY and did Kittie. And to top it off that night I discovered that Linda was back at Kiku and did her twice in the early morning. I spent over $1k that day. It was nuts. But a strange thing has happened recently. Age has crept in and I just don't have the desire to go the AMP much anymore. Age screws everything up. Your testosterone levels drop, your desire drops, it also gets harder to maintain hardness and an erection. Nature and time will eventually "cure" your addiction. Its probably a good thing because now I have all this money and I don't want to spend it. Thank you mother time for curing my addiction. Time heals all wounds I guess.

In retrospect I have no regrets over the money I spent. I had some great great times. In fact I had three relationships with three AMP girls. One turned out shitty and I got burned (my stupidity as a newbie). But the other two went great. My best one was a great two year relationship with an AMP girl from Taiwan that I met at the Rainbow 7 around Piikoi. I truly regret breaking her heart though but I had too. Its a long story. Maybe one day I will tell it. But like I said I have no regrets. I would have probably wasted all those trading profits on stupid "material things" if I was not a monger. Actually I could have just took the money and bought myself a professional "ball washer". Now that would have been cool. My very own professional ball washer. Just bring her to parties and she is on her knees the whole time washing my balls. Top that!

[QUOTE=Pau Hana Party; 1350349]I didn't know where to put this info in the forum, but I thought some mongers might want to know:

The ad says this time; only serving as a Dom.

[url]http://hawaii.backpage.com/Domination/asian-dominatrix-amai-returns-_-_-_-_-_-21/3124600[/url][/QUOTE]Can someone please explain to me why she qualifies as a so called "super star"? Am I missing something here?

[QUOTE=Mipene77; 1350557]First off, I want to respond to your statement about the stock market. I taught myself how to trade about? Years ago and have used the profits from my successful trading to fund my mongering habits. In retrospect I have no regrets over the money I spent. I had some great great times.[/QUOTE]Understand where you coming from budz. If it wasn't for my trading, not sure how my old acct. Exec. Job would have been able to support my habit. Not going to get into how my trading went, but I live very comfortable from a steady income&allowances from other investments, while making sure my daughters&grandkids are set for their future. Used the profits to invest in Currency, Gold, and RE (well did work with Ang & another BG who became a extremely successful RE that I still use today, that was WELL reviewed here and our old site&she still LOOKS TIGHT) , not only in Hawaii but other parts of the USA and abroad. Now, I don't trade as aggressively as back in the heydays of insanity and the bubbles, but we take advantage of opportunities.

No, I was not as banging as braddah Mi and another bud here who also traded, BUT I use to see; Indies&some famous PS&UTR's for extended OT, overnights, to weekends and even go to Maui (she always loves Maui PS&her bud). Had some long terms with Grace, Coco, Sunny, Blue, and Tomato. And yes, learned the hard way in the beggining when all it was about the $$$ and thinking with the wrong head, and all about her gettin HIGH! Live, learn, move forward. I always got along with Ang, and she is such a sweetheart and been on diff. Business ventures with her, its all good. Had a 5yr. Relationship with J until she had to go back to home to take care of her very sick mom, she wanted me to come with her, but my mom was also very sick, so we just keep in touch through cell / email / skype. Some of the other long relationships went awry bc of the chemicals, NOT me, I was into the all mighty $$$ and crown rocks. One sweetie is in heaven (reviewed here) , another is still tricking bc sometimes I see her DT, but NO WAY I would walk that track again. Another Indie / AMPG, went back to Cali to relax, and then when she came back to AMP. Noticed stretch marks, and yeah found out later she had one kid which lives with her sister in Cali, really not sure if was mine but when I saw pics of him, sure does look like my kids when they were that age. OH WELL.

Hard to say I outgrew the mongering, but I don't really do much (or stay stealth, unless I have something real good4share). I have met a few from CL and are steady FWB. One just came to visit her ohana4the holidays from Maui (she was born&raised here on the Wesside) for 2weeks, we keep texting and talking on the cell. Went out a few times, eat, movies, dancing, ended up making out Christmas Eve in Waiks, got a room by the Zoo, and banged our brains out for hours. She is cool, local flip / hawaiian girl, little older than me, but neva pound poi since her divorce 2yrs. Ago, so she was squirting all over the place. Its all good, kind of why I stay stealth, I love reading all of your expz. I guess I one old guy too, lucky I can still get it stiffee for without the V, and keep it up. I am lucky, plus it helps when I learned from Miko and her bud the Art of Her O. Keep it up friends, I am still around, missing the ole timers esp. Kapa (RIP). Malama and wishing you all a Healthy, Prosperous, and Banging 2012

Has anyone received threats via PM besides me? I got one saying eat shi. A$$hole. Soon the world will end. God will rid trash like me.