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[QUOTE=Castlerae;2440370]Forty dollars for 'general admission' with implications that you might end up standing in line.

Sixty-five for 'VIP admission' with admission to a 'pre-event' party and 'special' access to booths and events at the convention.

Probably not. By the time I throw in driving costs, that's about an hour's room fee at the local AMP, and I know what I can get there.[/QUOTE]Hmnn. Never been to an event like this. Used to watch Annette Haven's movies back in my adolescent days but have no idea who the stars are now. It's the same night as the NFL Draft located in downtown Chicago. It would be pretty funny if like half of the NFL teams had their "war rooms" set up at this Sexcon location haha! With the 7th pick of the 2015 NFL draft the Chicago Bears select: the blond with the nice rack haha!

[QUOTE=Kellster;2441539]Hmnn. Never been to an event like this. Used to watch Annette Haven's movies back in my adolescent days but have no idea who the stars are now. It's the same night as the NFL Draft located in downtown Chicago. It would be pretty funny if like half of the NFL teams had their "war rooms" set up at this Sexcon location haha! With the 7th pick of the 2015 NFL draft the Chicago Bears select: the blond with the nice rack haha![/QUOTE]Got the date wrong- Sexcon is Wednesday night, draft is Thursday night- my bad.

Just to let you guys know, tickets will not be sold at the door. You have to buy them online. But I got a hook up with tickets. Retail is 40 dollars. I can get them for 30 dollars. If my guy doesn't sell out of his stash of tickets. Cash only. PM me for more info. The show is on Wedensday starting a 9 pm.

$30 sounds like a terrific deal (25% discount!) considering that the online $40 price also has additional tax. [URL]http://www.thechicagosexcon.com[/URL].

I've never been to an event like this. But very curious to check it out. From what I glean from the website it appears to be a non-nude event hosted by various vendors in the adult industry.

Is it something that's just filled with teasers or there is sufficient value for the money paid to get in the door.

[QUOTE=RonM;2441627]Just to let you guys know, tickets will not be sold at the door. You have to buy them online. But I got a hook up with tickets. Retail is 40 dollars. I can get them for 30 dollars. If my guy doesn't sell out of his stash of tickets. Cash only. PM me for more info. The show is on Wedensday starting a 9 pm.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lebruno;2442240]$30 sounds like a terrific deal (25% discount!) considering that the online $40 price also has additional tax. [URL]http://www.thechicagosexcon.com[/URL].

I've never been to an event like this. But very curious to check it out. From what I glean from the website it appears to be a non-nude event hosted by various vendors in the adult industry.

Is it something that's just filled with teasers or there is sufficient value for the money paid to get in the door.[/QUOTE]I have no idea. This is the first event like this I'm going to. I know Las Vegas has their yearly Adult Video Show. I can't go to Vegas. So this show is the closest thing to attending the Vegas Event. I got my ticket already. Since no one PM'ed me. Guess I'lll be the only one from the board going. I'll report back on how the event was.

I still want to go despite my work meeting next day AM. LOL. Lets see. Hope your contact is yet to run out of his tickets.

[QUOTE=RonM;2443030]I have no idea. This is the first event like this I'm going to. I know Las Vegas has their yearly Adult Video Show. I can't go to Vegas. So this show is the closest thing to attending the Vegas Event. I got my ticket already. Since no one PM'ed me. Guess I'lll be the only one from the board going. I'll report back on how the event was.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Eustisflman;2438595]Do they do outcall otherwise its train and or uber and I am not a fan of either when out playing in an area I don't know.[/QUOTE]I have set up an appointment with Eva for an outcall to my place. Looks like the apt girls are only incall.

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/petite-young-and-sexy-open-minded-asian-girl-available-for-outcalls/20393655[/URL]

I am still researching for one more date for another night. Have a few on my plate to pick from. Anyone have a favorite on this list?

Eveline.

[URL]http://enchantedsins.com/[/URL]

Or.

Kimmy.

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/kimmy-is-back-new-and-real-pics-are-100-me-or-your-appointment-is-free-7736326195/23070515[/URL]

[QUOTE=Eustisflman;2443805]I have set up an appointment with Eva for an outcall to my place. Looks like the apt girls are only incall.

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/petite-young-and-sexy-open-minded-asian-girl-available-for-outcalls/20393655[/URL]

I am still researching for one more date for another night. Have a few on my plate to pick from. Anyone have a favorite on this list?

Eveline.

[URL]http://enchantedsins.com/[/URL]

Or.

Kimmy.

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/kimmy-is-back-new-and-real-pics-are-100-me-or-your-appointment-is-free-7736326195/23070515[/URL][/QUOTE]I recommend eveline. She's great! Also, Becky is great if your in town. [URL]http://yoursweetkaylee.com/home[/URL] she'll be here the 27th. Another site talks about kimmy well but for some reason I remember something negative so I never met her. I could be crazy though.

FB.

[QUOTE=FngrBngr;2444102]I recommend eveline. She's great! Also, Becky is great if your in town. [URL]http://yoursweetkaylee.com/home[/URL] she'll be here the 27th. Another site talks about kimmy well but for some reason I remember something negative so I never met her. I could be crazy though.

FB.[/QUOTE]Intrigued by the pic? $$$ is steep, but if whole hour and GFE, maybe so. How well did ya like her? Thanks.

Eva just pulled the plug. Not sure why as I don't normally but I stated "here is my google number" and not "here is my number". Response back from her.

I'm sorry sweetie but I do not accept Google numbers, Skype numbers, or any type of app phone numbers.

If I call and it's that type of number I will not go see the person.

You will need to give me a real cell number in order to meet.

Now if I had not said that she would of never known. Not sure how you all do it up here, but down south its pretty common. I have a family etc and will NEVER give out my cell number.

[QUOTE=Eustisflman;2444507]Eva just pulled the plug. Not sure why as I don't normally but I stated "here is my google number" and not "here is my number". Response back from her.

I'm sorry sweetie but I do not accept Google numbers, Skype numbers, or any type of app phone numbers.

If I call and it's that type of number I will not go see the person.

You will need to give me a real cell number in order to meet.

Now if I had not said that she would of never known. Not sure how you all do it up here, but down south its pretty common. I have a family etc and will NEVER give out my cell number.[/QUOTE]I use my cell number when contacting a provider. I'm single so I don't have to worry about getting or receiving a call from a provider.

[QUOTE=Eustisflman;2444507]Eva just pulled the plug. Not sure why as I don't normally but I stated "here is my google number" and not "here is my number". Response back from her.

I'm sorry sweetie but I do not accept Google numbers, Skype numbers, or any type of app phone numbers.

If I call and it's that type of number I will not go see the person.

You will need to give me a real cell number in order to meet.

Now if I had not said that she would of never known. Not sure how you all do it up here, but down south its pretty common. I have a family etc and will NEVER give out my cell number.[/QUOTE]Use cash and buy a Tracfone. They sell cheap (under ten dollar) phones in Walmart. Add another twenty for air time, and you've got thirty dollars (MOL) invested in a phone you can give out to anyone because it's untraceable. Don't want to worry about getting caught if you taking it home? Trash it or ask around here to see if someone will take it off your hands for a few bucks.

I use google voice all the time. Work and play. Would never even mention that it's a Google number. GV does leave a paper trail, that's a pain to manage. But if my wife ever found me with a burner, I'd have the same trouble No plan is perfect. In the case of Chinese women, use weChat. Much better than Google voice or a burner phone. Best by far. Bob.

[QUOTE=Eustisflman;2444507]Eva just pulled the plug. Not sure why as I don't normally but I stated "here is my google number" and not "here is my number". Response back from her.

I'm sorry sweetie but I do not accept Google numbers, Skype numbers, or any type of app phone numbers.

If I call and it's that type of number I will not go see the person.

You will need to give me a real cell number in order to meet.

Now if I had not said that she would of never known. Not sure how you all do it up here, but down south its pretty common. I have a family etc and will NEVER give out my cell number.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bob521;2444900]I use google voice all the time. Work and play. Would never even mention that it's a Google number. GV does leave a paper trail, that's a pain to manage. But if my wife ever found me with a burner, I'd have the same trouble No plan is perfect. In the case of Chinese women, use weChat. Much better than Google voice or a burner phone. Best by far. Bob.[/QUOTE]I just use a burner app. Works good, no one is the wiser.

Burrners don't work for me and why spend 30 just to trash it each time. Just not sure why email works great but they have a problem with something like google voice. Ohh well, I sent her a nice reply on it. Lets see where that goes. For me its not so much about the legal but more about the control of when it rings and when txt come.

[QUOTE=Bob521;2444900]I use google voice all the time. Work and play. Would never even mention that it's a Google number. GV does leave a paper trail, that's a pain to manage. But if my wife ever found me with a burner, I'd have the same trouble No plan is perfect. In the case of Chinese women, use weChat. Much better than Google voice or a burner phone. Best by far. Bob.[/QUOTE]

I was in a pinch and went to see Asian at hotel, seems that what they all do now, call girl says come any time will be ready, I come hour later go to elevator with a Chinese man and women in it, we go to same floor I get out first make it to room there behind me I act looking for room key. He then Says that my room, I say o I make call I got wrong room, walk down the hall make a call confirm it the room, I see he leaves so I go back and had good time. Never ran into the boss before, any of you?

Yeah, this happened to me years ago. Passed the boss on my way to and from the room. The girl actually said it was her boss. LOL.

[QUOTE=Langley08;2445199]I was in a pinch and went to see Asian at hotel, seems that what they all do now, call girl says come any time will be ready, I come hour later go to elevator with a Chinese man and women in it, we go to same floor I get out first make it to room there behind me I act looking for room key. He then Says that my room, I say o I make call I got wrong room, walk down the hall make a call confirm it the room, I see he leaves so I go back and had good time. Never ran into the boss before, any of you?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Langley08;2445199]I was in a pinch and went to see Asian at hotel, seems that what they all do now, call girl says come any time will be ready, I come hour later go to elevator with a Chinese man and women in it, we go to same floor I get out first make it to room there behind me I act looking for room key. He then Says that my room, I say o I make call I got wrong room, walk down the hall make a call confirm it the room, I see he leaves so I go back and had good time. Never ran into the boss before, any of you?[/QUOTE]Face to face? No, but one visit, I went to a hotel and was told to go to the side entrance where the provider would let me in. As I went to door, I saw a guy sitting in an expensive-looking car in the parking lot keeping an eye on me. Didn't take too much imagination to figure ot that he knew precisely where I was going.

Seniors only. PM.

I am posting this in the general thread as it is not a review of a provider and may not belong to the BP thread.

Today, I accidentally stumbled into BP sites in other countries. The exercise turned out very interesting to say the least.

For one, providers in Countries where prostitution is either legit or accepted widely are posting BP ads that appear to have legit images (not stolen) and many of those ads carry full-blown nude pics and even videos. Many of these ads appear as candid personal ad rather than a canned business ad. I also found several genuine ads by non-pros like college kids advertising who part-time to raise some extra cash. Its also of interest to note the comparable costs of this hobby in places like Bangkok, Philippines or Korea. In some places they list out all that one could expect to get for the money like BBBJ, CIM, CG, etc. Here's a sample for you to look at and feel free to go explore the world. In the least you'll find it interesting!

[URL]http://roma.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/charming-no1-high-class-luxury-gfe-companion-escort-larryyssa-available-247-call-me-393294217956/3008070[/URL]

[URL]http://panama.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/alexa21-la-diablita-estoy-esperandote-para-complacerte/2818991[/URL]

[URL]http://seoul.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/jinny-24-years-old-korean-university-sudent-jinny9494gmailcom/3165151[/URL]

[QUOTE=Lebruno;2448353]I am posting this in the general thread as it is not a review of a provider and may not belong to the BP thread.

Today, I accidentally stumbled into BP sites in other countries. The exercise turned out very interesting to say the least.

For one, providers in Countries where prostitution is either legit or accepted widely are posting BP ads that appear to have legit images (not stolen) and many of those ads carry full-blown nude pics and even videos. Many of these ads appear as candid personal ad rather than a canned business ad. I also found several genuine ads by non-pros like college kids advertising who part-time to raise some extra cash. Its also of interest to note the comparable costs of this hobby in places like Bangkok, Philippines or Korea. In some places they list out all that one could expect to get for the money like BBBJ, CIM, CG, etc. Here's a sample for you to look at and feel free to go explore the world. In the least you'll find it interesting!

[URL]http://roma.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/charming-no1-high-class-luxury-gfe-companion-escort-larryyssa-available-247-call-me-393294217956/3008070[/URL]

[URL]http://panama.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/alexa21-la-diablita-estoy-esperandote-para-complacerte/2818991[/URL]

[URL]http://seoul.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/jinny-24-years-old-korean-university-sudent-jinny9494gmailcom/3165151[/URL][/QUOTE]My one and only experience was in the Philippines way back in 1984. Girls were super easy to find. Taking a gal back to the hotel for the entire night costs about the same as getting a BJ from a Streetwalker here in Chicago. But how many times can one go to those countries to get cheap Asian girl sex? You factor in your passport, travel expenses, and expenses when you get there, it's alot cheaper to play with the gals here than go to those countries. Just sayin'.

[QUOTE=Lebruno;2448353]

[URL]http://seoul.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/jinny-24-years-old-korean-university-sudent-jinny9494gmailcom/3165151[/URL][/QUOTE]Too bad they are not around here and it is not feasible to travel just for this for me but I find statements like this coming from the Korean provider to be endearing in its own way.

"People tell me I am not very beautiful type but they said I am pretty and cute. ".

I really enjoyed reading Jinny's Ad. One of the very sincere Ads that I've seen on BP.

[URL]http://seoul.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/jinny-24-years-old-korean-university-sudent-jinny9494gmailcom/3165151[/URL]

She also says " No incall request please I live with my family". LOL.

[QUOTE=SamSinger;2448986]Too bad they are not around here and it is not feasible to travel just for this for me but I find statements like this coming from the Korean provider to be endearing in its own way.

"People tell me I am not very beautiful type but they said I am pretty and cute. ".[/QUOTE]

Here's some questions for the Seniors that hopefully will provide needed clarity!

1. Is escorting legal in the USA?

2. If its true, then why BP advertisers and folks like us are scared shit to pursue ' escort' business?!

3. At what point does escorting becomes prostitution?

4. Can anyone become an escort or are there pre-requisites to be a legal escort?

5. Also, are there State specific rules for escorting? Thanks.

[QUOTE=Lebruno;2449317]Here's some questions for the Seniors that hopefully will provide needed clarity!

1. Is escorting legal in the USA?

2. If its true, then why BP advertisers and folks like us are scared shit to pursue ' escort' business?!

3. At what point does escorting becomes prostitution?

4. Can anyone become an escort or are there pre-requisites to be a legal escort?

5. Also, are there State specific rules for escorting? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Hello Lebruno, Ok here is the deal as to the best of my knowledge. Note: I am NOT in any way giving legal counsel, or recommending that you follow my recommendations here. This is for adult conversation and story telling purposes only. Note also, that the posts you are reading on this forum are in NO way describing any act in particular as they are of a ficticious nature, which may or may not have happened.

With that said, escorting is NOT legal in the USA except for in select places (counties) in Nevada. What I was referring to is the act of paying for sex directly.

Platonic escorting IS legal. Meaning you may hire a woman to go to dinner or some other public function with you to be represented as your girlfriend, or fiance etc. Just as you would hire someone to clean your house or do other work for you. Got the picture?

Now, as long as there is NEVER any direct discussion of money for sex, or an implication thereof, what two consenting adults do in private is their own business.

This would include having sex, which would be perfectly fine under those specific circumstances, while the burden of proof would be on the prosecutors to prove that your intent was to ultimately pay for what are considered illicit acts.

As far as your BP reference, please read post #2375 on th eCraigslist forum to see how that will work out for you if you are not careful. The rest of your questions are of a very specific nature and I would refer you to an attorney specializing in criminal law in your local jurisdiction to get the appropriate answers.

Hope this helps. If you have further questions, please reply to this.

Stay Safe.

G2.

So funds were tight and I was tired of paying for it anyways. CL seemed like the answer. After a long long time I found a woman. We met, had sex, and I liked her as a person. She knows I am married and is ok with that. She is really a cool person to talk with and I got to know her a little bit. The sex was ok not the best and not the worst.

So my problem. I feel strange. I can probably meet her as often as I want and have sex with no cost. I think I feel strange because I actually like her. I am used to being with a working girl for 45 min or an hour and leaving satisfied. This could turn into a great thing and I am thinking of dumping her after one meeting. Maybe it was the sex being just ok, maybe I am afraid of having the same person week after week. I just feel weird. I thought I was tougher than this mentally.

Anyone else have this happen?

[QUOTE=Lebruno;2448353]I am posting this in the general thread as it is not a review of a provider and may not belong to the BP thread.

Today, I accidentally stumbled into BP sites in other countries. The exercise turned out very interesting to say the least.

For one, providers in Countries where prostitution is either legit or accepted widely are posting BP ads that appear to have legit images (not stolen) and many of those ads carry full-blown nude pics and even videos. Many of these ads appear as candid personal ad rather than a canned business ad. I also found several genuine ads by non-pros like college kids advertising who part-time to raise some extra cash. Its also of interest to note the comparable costs of this hobby in places like Bangkok, Philippines or Korea. In some places they list out all that one could expect to get for the money like BBBJ, CIM, CG, etc. Here's a sample for you to look at and feel free to go explore the world. In the least you'll find it interesting!

[URL]http://roma.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/charming-no1-high-class-luxury-gfe-companion-escort-larryyssa-available-247-call-me-393294217956/3008070[/URL]

[URL]http://panama.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/alexa21-la-diablita-estoy-esperandote-para-complacerte/2818991[/URL]

[URL]http://seoul.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/jinny-24-years-old-korean-university-sudent-jinny9494gmailcom/3165151[/URL][/QUOTE]I used to have an account on the international version of this board, and loved to read some of the adventures our overseas brethren were having in Asia. Low prices, plentiful supply, and most important, no major hang-ups from the local governmental types. But as others have said, between the cost of getting a passport and getting there, it's something most guys will do only once. For me, if I go, it might be my retirement treat to myself, but that will depend on what happens between now and then.

[QUOTE=RonM;2448963]My one and only experience was in the Philippines way back in 1984. Girls were super easy to find. Taking a gal back to the hotel for the entire night costs about the same as getting a BJ from a Streetwalker here in Chicago. But how many times can one go to those countries to get cheap Asian girl sex? You factor in your passport, travel expenses, and expenses when you get there, it's alot cheaper to play with the gals here than go to those countries. Just sayin'.[/QUOTE]I have been in New Zealand twice, once 2 years ago, and once 4 years ago. Prostitution is legal and Christchurch has about 15 massage parlors, Auckland has many more, and both cities have about a column and a half of ads in the newspaper. The ad girls list their price, and will send pics email. The massage parlors are usually 100 NZ dollars (about 70 US dollars) for one hour, GFE, I always got my choice of 3 to 5 gals, they loved my Western accent. The gals in newspaper ads usually charged 80 NZ to 120 NZ. In the pubs, you had to negotiate. About 90% of the providers are caucasian. A few are Maori. Oh, and orgies are 200 NZ.

I'm wondering what are the closest spots from the USA One could enjoy such bounties sans fear and that doesn't cost an arm and a leg to travel there.

Does any of these not-so-far places count? - Bahamas, Cuba, Mexico, Jamaica, CostaRica? Do share any worthwhile experiences / tips!

[QUOTE=Castlerae;2450305]I used to have an account on the international version of this board, and loved to read some of the adventures our overseas brethren were having in Asia. Low prices, plentiful supply, and most important, no major hang-ups from the local governmental types. But as others have said, between the cost of getting a passport and getting there, it's something most guys will do only once. For me, if I go, it might be my retirement treat to myself, but that will depend on what happens between now and then.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lebruno;2450508]I'm wondering what are the closest spots from the USA One could enjoy such bounties sans fear and that doesn't cost an arm and a leg to travel there.

Does any of these not-so-far places count? - Bahamas, Cuba, Mexico, Jamaica, CostaRica? Do share any worthwhile experiences / tips![/QUOTE]Great Question! I have been thinking about this myself. I try thinking Canada might be a good option, but I spent a night in Toronto and coulnd't find anything decent but from what I understand it is there to be had. I also guess there are some new laws passed in Canada recently that affect things (negatively), but I don't really know. Perhaps I wasn't looking that good, plus it was a week night. Weekends might be better.

I also spent some time in Ottowa and it wasn't that great either.

Montreal I hear is great, but I don't know firsthand. Too bad Germany and Argentina are not close.

[blue]Unless your Spanish is really good or you have way, way, WAY more money than you need to spend in the states, Argentina should be off your list. It's an awesome place to live if you're a monger, but it sucks for short trips. Seriously, go to Germany and do the FKK's or Costa Rica if you want some Tika punanni.

A2[/blue]

[QUOTE=JoeD999;2450051]So funds were tight and I was tired of paying for it anyways. CL seemed like the answer. After a long long time I found a woman. We met, had sex, and I liked her as a person. She knows I am married and is ok with that. She is really a cool person to talk with and I got to know her a little bit. The sex was ok not the best and not the worst.

So my problem. I feel strange. I can probably meet her as often as I want and have sex with no cost. I think I feel strange because I actually like her. I am used to being with a working girl for 45 min or an hour and leaving satisfied. This could turn into a great thing and I am thinking of dumping her after one meeting. Maybe it was the sex being just ok, maybe I am afraid of having the same person week after week. I just feel weird. I thought I was tougher than this mentally.

Anyone else have this happen?[/QUOTE]Hey JoeD999, You are just having problems deciding which head to think with. IF you are getting it on the side with a provider, you are probably only looking for sexual gratification (supposedly). But if you mix emotions into the mix. (IE actually liking the woman you are fooling around with) You are now in dangerous territory. This situation is turning into an affair. When a woman does this, she is ready to terminate the relationship she is currently in. You can see where this will take you and I can assume you want to keep your marriage intact at this point. (though mongering doesn't help that) So you have to decide what you are really looking for and go from there. Maybe the new woman could reveal something about herself that will make you not like her as much, and will give you internal strength to treat her as less than a GF.

Just my. 02.

G2.

She's sweating me to meet, but I'm busy. Anyone? Seniors PM.

Just got back from my 6 trip to CR. Only go for 4 days each trip and get more then I can have. 60-100 for LTN (all night) for some girls if you work at it or have a nova. Average is 100 for an hr at places like Del Ray. Not sure from Chicago, but jet blue non stop from Orlando can be had for 300 RT.

[QUOTE=DaddyOne23;2450834]Great Question! I have been thinking about this myself. I try thinking Canada might be a good option, but I spent a night in Toronto and coulnd't find anything decent but from what I understand it is there to be had. I also guess there are some new laws passed in Canada recently that affect things (negatively), but I don't really know. Perhaps I wasn't looking that good, plus it was a week night. Weekends might be better.

I also spent some time in Ottowa and it wasn't that great either.

Montreal I hear is great, but I don't know firsthand. Too bad Germany and Argentina are not close.

[blue]Unless your Spanish is really good or you have way, way, WAY more money than you need to spend in the states, Argentina should be off your list. It's an awesome place to live if you're a monger, but it sucks for short trips. Seriously, go to Germany and do the FKK's or Costa Rica if you want some Tika punanni.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MrCharmo;2451045]She's sweating me to meet, but I'm busy. Anyone? Seniors PM.[/QUOTE]Hey Charmo! I'd be game to try her out. Digits / info?

Yeah Joe. You described it pretty well. I am also married. 62. Take Viagra, And I have three Chinese girlfriends. I have strong feelings for all four. (including the wife.) I also visit a couple other AMPs each week. So I obviously have no moral compass. The sex ranges from "none" for one of the girlfriends, to pretty excellent for another girlfriend. All free. But I buy them things. Go out to eat. Have picnics. Teach English. Take walks. Every night, Wechat. One I am actually helping her to set up her own spa. (LEGIT! So you guys be respectful). It is really demanding, time wise, emotionally, and logistically, and physically performing nearly every day. Maybe that's why I like the one that is afraid of sex. Although she seems to be turning the corner on that. Not sure that is a specific answer. But I think I am saying that sex isn't the only criteria for happiness. Each one knows I will not leave my wife, but they still want to see me. Just get the ground rules set with your friend up front. That's my only advice. She needs to know you are just friends. Otherwise, it could eventually get tricky. Now, I am getting a chat message. Haha. Got to go. LOL. Bob.

[QUOTE=JoeD999;2450051]So funds were tight and I was tired of paying for it anyways. CL seemed like the answer. After a long long time I found a woman. We met, had sex, and I liked her as a person. She knows I am married and is ok with that. She is really a cool person to talk with and I got to know her a little bit. The sex was ok not the best and not the worst.

So my problem. I feel strange. I can probably meet her as often as I want and have sex with no cost. I think I feel strange because I actually like her. I am used to being with a working girl for 45 min or an hour and leaving satisfied. This could turn into a great thing and I am thinking of dumping her after one meeting. Maybe it was the sex being just ok, maybe I am afraid of having the same person week after week. I just feel weird. I thought I was tougher than this mentally.

Anyone else have this happen?[/QUOTE]

One of my friends just returned back from a week-long trip to Vietnam and Bangkok. I'm yet to get the complete scoop but what little I've heard so far sounds like paradise!

He says picking up girls for sex is as easy as ordering coffee and totally legal. One could have spinner girls (under 20 and early 20's) for 40 for the whole night's stay. Everything goes and GFE.

Experience could be easily had. Most everything is cheap. Per day hotel rates are 20. Flight deals (round trip) from Chicago can be found at 600. Think I should seriously work towards making a trip to here! LOL.

[QUOTE=Eustisflman;2451427]Just got back from my 6 trip to CR. Only go for 4 days each trip and get more then I can have. 60-100 for LTN (all night) for some girls if you work at it or have a nova. Average is 100 for an hr at places like Del Ray. Not sure from Chicago, but jet blue non stop from Orlando can be had for 300 RT.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bob521;2451698]Yeah Joe. You described it pretty well. I am also married. 62. Take Viagra, And I have three Chinese girlfriends. I have strong feelings for all four. (including the wife.) I also visit a couple other AMPs each week. So I obviously have no moral compass. The sex ranges from "none" for one of the girlfriends, to pretty excellent for another girlfriend. All free. But I buy them things. Go out to eat. Have picnics. Teach English. Take walks. Every night, Wechat. One I am actually helping her to set up her own spa. (LEGIT! So you guys be respectful). It is really demanding, time wise, emotionally, and logistically, and physically performing nearly every day. Maybe that's why I like the one that is afraid of sex. Although she seems to be turning the corner on that. Not sure that is a specific answer. But I think I am saying that sex isn't the only criteria for happiness. Each one knows I will not leave my wife, but they still want to see me. Just get the ground rules set with your friend up front. That's my only advice. She needs to know you are just friends. Otherwise, it could eventually get tricky. Now, I am getting a chat message. Haha. Got to go. LOL. Bob.[/QUOTE]One is enough for me. You have four? LOL!

Sometimes the lines between a girlfriend and a provider gets a bit blurry. I like my ATF alot. Not sure where this is going. But after over two years it's still going great.

[QUOTE=Bob521;2451698]Yeah Joe. You described it pretty well. I am also married. 62. Take Viagra, And I have three Chinese girlfriends. I have strong feelings for all four. (including the wife.) I also visit a couple other AMPs each week. So I obviously have no moral compass. The sex ranges from "none" for one of the girlfriends, to pretty excellent for another girlfriend. All free. But I buy them things. Go out to eat. Have picnics. Teach English. Take walks. Every night, Wechat. One I am actually helping her to set up her own spa. (LEGIT! So you guys be respectful). It is really demanding, time wise, emotionally, and logistically, and physically performing nearly every day. Maybe that's why I like the one that is afraid of sex. Although she seems to be turning the corner on that. Not sure that is a specific answer. But I think I am saying that sex isn't the only criteria for happiness. Each one knows I will not leave my wife, but they still want to see me. Just get the ground rules set with your friend up front. That's my only advice. She needs to know you are just friends. Otherwise, it could eventually get tricky. Now, I am getting a chat message. Haha. Got to go. LOL. Bob.[/QUOTE]Bob, you are my immoral idol. I tip my hat to you, sir!

[QUOTE=Bob521;2451698]Yeah Joe. You described it pretty well. I am also married. 62. Take Viagra, And I have three Chinese girlfriends. I have strong feelings for all four. (including the wife.) I also visit a couple other AMPs each week. So I obviously have no moral compass. The sex ranges from "none" for one of the girlfriends, to pretty excellent for another girlfriend. All free. But I buy them things. Go out to eat. Have picnics. Teach English. Take walks. Every night, Wechat. One I am actually helping her to set up her own spa. (LEGIT! So you guys be respectful). It is really demanding, time wise, emotionally, and logistically, and physically performing nearly every day. Maybe that's why I like the one that is afraid of sex. Although she seems to be turning the corner on that. Not sure that is a specific answer. But I think I am saying that sex isn't the only criteria for happiness. Each one knows I will not leave my wife, but they still want to see me. Just get the ground rules set with your friend up front. That's my only advice. She needs to know you are just friends. Otherwise, it could eventually get tricky. Now, I am getting a chat message. Haha. Got to go. LOL. Bob.[/QUOTE]Bob treats his "friends" with respect. I have 4 CL friends who I have a great time with. I treat them with respect and care for them. Being a good guy and treating women with respect goes a long way. Rocket Dork.