Seeking Arrangements

I haven't seen very many off of SA but those I have, I had similar results of 3 out 4 offered BBFS, or more accurately, it was never really discussed and I don't believe any of them even had condoms. So best bring your own if you may prefer some protection.

[QUOTE=LeFreak;4055327]I haven't seen that many girls off SA but it's been 3 out of 4 bb for me, 2 on the first date and one starting on the second date. The fourth I've only seen once so we will see if she requires the cover next time.[/QUOTE]

I could not log on so I sent an email they said I violated rules and was soliciting sex, I am very aware of their rules and if a women ask me how much or alludes to money to meet I ask them for their phone number to take the discussion off the site. Pissed. I sent them an email to revisit my account Be careful.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4057032]I could not log on so I sent an email they said I violated rules and was soliciting sex, I am very aware of their rules and if a women ask me how much or alludes to money to meet I ask them for their phone number to take the discussion off the site. Pissed. I sent them an email to revisit my account Be careful.[/QUOTE]Same thing today with me but I never ever violated anything. I had 1 lady say no incall, I replied outcall? LOL Oh well, saving 90 bucks a month now.

[QUOTE=MajorJohnson;4057255]Same thing today with me but I never ever violated anything. I had 1 lady say no incall, I replied outcall? LOL Oh well, saving 90 bucks a month now.[/QUOTE]They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.

First off regarding the bans- that sucks. I was thinking there might be something the software algorithm on the site that automatically filters certain words. Or if one of the women is dropping a dime on you. Like in the real world, some girls know the right thing to say to get you in trouble. Could be either but they both stink, GD new law probably at the root of them pulling the trigger. A good lesson to us all to get the digits and info ASAP if we have an interest, and also to share intel. Stick to "host" and avoid "incall", I think and keep the language in code otherwise as best you can.

On another front-.

Had things all set uo with the masseuse with SexyVixen (she had a couple of numbers on her profile name, I forget) in Taunton for this week, then today her profile and all our chats from our inbox have disappeared. I don't know if I'm being blocked, if she got banned, or what. Anyone who can offer general insight? Anyone that thinks they can help me connect with her, please send me a PM. I was going to exchange email / phone info this weekend- a lesson to do that ASAP! Be safe, everyone!

[QUOTE=JDogInMA;4056081]Taking the dive this week with sexyvixen and will report. I have to start contributing to the cause here, thanks to all who report. Smaller bbw doesn't bother me, her private pics were cute face & cleavage shots that.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0b49b498-6af3-4272-b7e8-b0ec063e7a97[/URL]

After a little chat on SA could tell that she had pro-experience, but I know the "massage" tag can have a limited range of extras on the menu. I was going to ask for particulars. But she quoted $$$ for hr which is a little on the high end, but not too much and I figured I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and see if she delivers. Only after that did I started doing a little HW here and found your quote. Is there any specific intel on her that you are willing to share? BB on the BJ? Where she allows you to finish?

On a separate note, I would recommend AVOIDING the following:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/36ff634c-df9f-48ea-bb42-f77196c14925[/URL]

In the PPS department, second message from AQ2 "I'm looking for 4. 5 (my edit) per meet you must wear a condom and I don't give BJ. And other than that I can make you happy You interested?" WTF? At least she was direct and we didn't waste too much of each others time. She was slightly pushy too, but I took the high road and said I had found an option closer to home and didn't reply after that.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4057466]They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]CM, sucks that you and others have recently gotten banned for apparently no reason. I am a little surprised that your first response is to find a way to sign up again and give them more of our hard earned money.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4057466]They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]JHC I want to understand what gets you banned! That's nuts. Because if you go and do a search on all women within 50 miles of Boston you get 10,000 plus results. I created a female profile and did a search of the same and you get something like 3,000 guys. So there are triple to quadruple the number of girls to guys which is low considering I imagine a percentage of the 3 K aren't premium and just signed up to view profiles. And we have to pay to do anything worthwhile on the site. So we are the proverbial cash cow for SA and WYP.

Lately I've stuck with using the term weekly allowance (for one visit per week LOL) instead of PPM. I don't mention sex ever anymore but I say romance and intimacy instead. As many have pointed out you need to move to texting quickly.

Sorry this happened to you man!

AA.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4057466]They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]If you succeed and get a new membership on S A If you use same pictures are they going to know??

Thanks CM.

I am not 100% certain, but when I got banned from SA sometime ago, they indicated that I had used certain language that suggested escorts / prostitution, so I think SA definitely bans you for words such as "donation", "GFE" and "incall".

SA eventually re-admitted me.

So use instead allowance and friend with benefit or spell out "girl friend intimacy" rather than the other words that suggest escort, etc. IMHO.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4057466]They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]

Once a profile is banned SA tracks the associated IP address. Your Internet service provider issues you the same IP every time you access the Internet. Meaning that even creating a new SA profile with a different email address will get banned as well. You will have to run Tor or some other VPN software to hide your IP then create a new SA profile.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4057716]If you succeed and get a new membership on S A If you use same pictures are they going to know??

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JDogInMA;4057539]First off regarding the bans- that sucks. I was thinking there might be something the software algorithm on the site that automatically filters certain words. Or if one of the women is dropping a dime on you. Like in the real world, some girls know the right thing to say to get you in trouble. Could be either but they both stink, GD new law probably at the root of them pulling the trigger. A good lesson to us all to get the digits and info ASAP if we have an interest, and also to share intel. Stick to "host" and avoid "incall", I think and keep the language in code otherwise as best you can.

On another front-.

Had things all set uo with the masseuse with SexyVixen (she had a couple of numbers on her profile name, I forget) in Taunton for this week, then today her profile and all our chats from our inbox have disappeared. I don't know if I'm being blocked, if she got banned, or what. Anyone who can offer general insight? Anyone that thinks they can help me connect with her, please send me a PM. I was going to exchange email / phone info this weekend- a lesson to do that ASAP! Be safe, everyone![/QUOTE]I can't see her profile either and doubt she blocked me. Can anyone confirm her profile is up?

[QUOTE=TwoMins;4058064]I can't see her profile either and doubt she blocked me. Can anyone confirm her profile is up?[/QUOTE]I'm sure she got banned as well. I was inquiring about a massage, she said she was a massage therapist, I asked if it was incall or outcall, she said no incall, then I got banned. For using those words. She used them as well.

[QUOTE=HuksAlot;4057889]Once a profile is banned SA tracks the associated IP address. Your Internet service provider issues you the same IP every time you access the Internet. Meaning that even creating a new SA profile with a different email address will get banned as well. You will have to run Tor or some other VPN software to hide your IP then create a new SA profile.[/QUOTE]If I set up a new account (I am banned) with my friends credit card when I log on can they tell it is me (who has been banned) ?

Thanks This is painful Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=TwoMins;4058064]I can't see her profile either and doubt she blocked me. Can anyone confirm her profile is up?[/QUOTE]Thanks for checking, I got PM'ed a lead and we'll see how it goes. If I successfully reconnect and have something worth sharing, I will do so.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4058148]If I set up a new account (I am banned) with my friends credit card when I log on can they tell it is me (who has been banned) ?

Thanks This is painful Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]Not true. I was banned on my IP but my friend who made an account with my computer has been able to access the site perfectly fine.