Well you didn't get stiffed
[QUOTE=Ghost323;7656756]Ok, a few of yall have been talking to Cat but nobody had seen her so decided against my better judgement and was going to take one for the team in hopes of either finding a gem or a dud. Sorry fellas. More of a dud. Going to paste what I sent my boy after I saw her.
Ok. So I met her. She's actually cute af. Cuter than her pics imo. She's a smoker so the weed smell was ooofff. And she had small arm pit funk but she was cute af so went with it. She got here late almost 1 hour. That was a red flag. Asks for the money and I said I don't do that. She said trusts me I'm not like that. And fuck I gave in. Gave her the money. Flag 2. Anyway got right into in came with a butt plug inside. Nice! We start feeling each other. I specifically told her a wanted a few rounds and she never acknowledged on text so flag number 3. We start fucking cause she wanted to ease into anal. Nice pussy felt good, she's talking dirty, nice positions, I start fingering her asshole and could feel my cock slide in and out of her pussy while fingering her ass. Got my nut off after about 20 min I figure imma ass fuck her round two. We chill and she's putting her pants on cause "she's cold". She's getting dressed little by little and in my head I'm like fuck she's going to take off. She starts saying she's not feeling well and going to take off. I'm like what?! I told you I wanted at least 2 round and she says yeah I just don't feel well sorry. I do want to see you again. Man. Bro. I was pissed tf off. Not to sound like a dick bro but dang you just don't do that these bitches bound to get in trouble with the wrong dude they fuck over. Obviously not going to force her to stay so I relent and she says sorry and takes off. She planned this shit. Fuck man I should've gone with my gut. And I never got to fuck her anal. Paid 300 for a qv. She was in and out in 30-40 min Fuck man. Well if you planned on seeing you've been warned. Others said she wants 5-600. Don't do it. I put up 300. Still hurt but glad it wasn't a few hundred more.[/QUOTE]Bro not sure many will give the axe for $$$ but you got somethin'!
The pre-pay scam is as old as sugaring. Here's how to protect yourself.
[QUOTE=Lexx1;7659241]Word. I've been scammed once by a sugarbaby I had been seeing for almost a year. It wasn't a large amount but she initiated herself as urgent and prepay for a couple future visits. I had some trust but also was prepared she wouldn't come through. And she proved me right and ghosted. So I don't send money at all anymore. Can't trust these girls. Always have to remember sugaring is still a business agreement, arrangement. These girls aren't fucking us because they like us and think we're hot. Especially us older dudes. It's because we're paying them. And can leave at anytime. We always have to remember that. No strings attached and don't be a sucker.[/QUOTE]I have also lost some serious cash to a current SB. The last time it was someone I'd been seeing almost weekly for over 4 months. Two days after our last smash date, she texted me that her car had broken down, had it towed, and the mechanic needed $700 to fix. I sent her the money, and she insta-ghosted me, blocked my phone, and blocked me on her social media accounts (or the SM acts I knew about).
Now I handle these emergency loan requests like this: I tell her she's welcome to come to my place now with the expectation that I drop the cash after she drops her panties, and I drop a load in a selected hole. If she shows up, I'll risk a 2 x or even 3 x her normal allowance "loan. " Not surprisingly, none have ever shown up, though the last one did meet me for our next scheduled date, without mentioning her "emergency" again.
Dick discipline is important, Gents. Never let your small head override your big head.