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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7623923]I read about this app today in the LA Times. It is for those 'exploring' their sexuality. Seems sorta like fetlife. It is only a phone app, not a website, so far as I can tell. I could imagine 'age gap' relationships would fit into an 'adventure'.

Anyone have knowledge / experience?[/QUOTE]I used Feeld, it's pretty much like any other dating app. To get the most of it, you got to pay. Like most apps you're going to be a million fish in a big pond. Lots of the same providers that post online already you can catch there. Most success I've had with it is in Vegas with other women, couples that are traveling and looking for fun. That's my 2 cents.

[QUOTE=Grail47;7616214]Yeah, it's ambiguous, but I wonder if it's meant to mean focused solely on them, like the SD will intentionally focused on only their needs, in an exclusive manner. I sometimes see this term on the profiles where the SB is asking for all her needs to be met, to get everything she wants.

Side note. Is anyone else recently experiencing more ghosting in the SB arena? Connections will be made and messaging started on the site, perhaps even entering some arrangement discussion and then the replies just stop. I think I have six SB's in my chat list who either matched with me or responded to my initial message and they all just stopped replying after a day or two. Such a bummer![/QUOTE]The use of the word intentional, I believe, started on civvie dating apps. It started as a way for women to communicate they are serious about a relationship, and they usually have a list of non-negotiables. It was a way to attempt to filter out men just looking for hookups, and to preempt wasting time and ghosting. You don't fit their requirements, move on. (Of course this assumes that the men will actually read their profile, when swiping decisions are made on photos alone). So the SBs may be using a template for dating apps, or it may be copied from their own civvie profile. But it's so common now, many SBs may not even know what it means and just use it bc every chick is using it.

[QUOTE=ChefSolo;7624077]I used Feeld, it's pretty much like any other dating app. To get the most of it, you got to pay. Like most apps you're going to be a million fish in a big pond. Lots of the same providers that post online already you can catch there. Most success I've had with it is in Vegas with other women, couples that are traveling and looking for fun. That's my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]I've been on Feeld for over three years and joined because I am ENM / poly and in an open relationship. I spend time within the the ENM / poly community here in SoCal and Feeld is a great place to meet other people who are already ENM. Feeld isn't quite like Fetlife since there aren't events posted, but if you're looking for non-traditional relationships, kink or BDSM partners, meeting up with couples, then it's a decent app for this.

TLDR: Would repeat if she shows up.

Visiting and decided to message a couple people, ended up committing to Aria. 7. 5 for an overnight. Was late about 5 hours however within that time couldn't secure someone else due to the crap LA traffic. She ended up coming through late. Very petite and youthful. Without makeup made her look even more young. Extremely talkative.

Covered FS, no L1 or L2. Dead fish. However body and attraction made up for it. Despite saying she's picky about who she meets she had tons of stories to tell LOL. For LA the price was perfect as some others were asking that just to have appetizers.

[QUOTE=Ogshyguy;7625258]TLDR: Would repeat if she shows up.

Visiting and decided to message a couple people, ended up committing to Aria. 7. 5 for an overnight. Was late about 5 hours however within that time couldn't secure someone else due to the crap LA traffic. She ended up coming through late. Very petite and youthful. Without makeup made her look even more young. Extremely talkative.

Covered FS, no L1 or L2. Dead fish. However body and attraction made up for it. Despite saying she's picky about who she meets she had tons of stories to tell LOL. For LA the price was perfect as some others were asking that just to have appetizers.[/QUOTE]WTF are L1 and L2? Do you think you are avoiding LE by using codes like that?

If you didn't get GFE from her, no matter who / what she is, you got played. The sugar world ought not to work like that.

I have seen that girl on the site before, I don't think she is actually in LA, I think she used to give her location in OC. So that may be why she was so late. You should always consider this. Girls list locations that are where they think guys are, or where they want to go, not where they are. Long ago, I messaged someone who listed Newport Beach, but she actually lived in Temecula.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7625981]WTF are L1 and L2? Do you think you are avoiding LE by using codes like that?

If you didn't get GFE from her, no matter who / what she is, you got played. The sugar world ought not to work like that.

I have seen that girl on the site before, I don't think she is actually in LA, I think she used to give her location in OC. So that may be why she was so late. You should always consider this. Girls list locations that are where they think guys are, or where they want to go, not where they are. Long ago, I messaged someone who listed Newport Beach, but she actually lived in Temecula.[/QUOTE]Yeah, L1 and L2 are terms associated with AMP visits, not for SB's or independent escorts. I mean, L1 is a HJ and if that's what you wanted, you can visit most any AMP in town! But also, 7. 5 for an overnight and not even GFE level is kind of surprising.

[QUOTE=Ogshyguy;7625258]TLDR: Would repeat if she shows up. 7. 5 for an overnight. Was late about 5 hours .Covered FS, no L1 or L2. Dead fish.[/QUOTE]All that to me is a no win, a loss and a definite no repeat. Man for that amount it should have been bare everything and as pure a GFE experience as possible. She was probably late because she was fucking another scheduled daddy before you. Your little head definitely did the major thinking here. 250 to 450 ppms have got me as cute or better girls and alot more fun in bed with video too.

Does anyone know if when it shows a girl is online, is that live? I feel as like it's delayed or some of these girls just don't know how to reply in a timely manner.

[QUOTE=KayBez;7626567]Does anyone know if when it shows a girl is online, is that live? I feel as like it's delayed or some of these girls just don't know how to reply in a timely manner.[/QUOTE]It's live. These girls receive alot of messages especially if they're young and hot. So they're going through alot of messages daily. Also if they don't like your looks and/or message they'll just skip over and not even bother to look at your profile or reply back. They're also checking out daddies too and seeing who they like. Response times vary. I've had girls respond right away and some a month or two later. It's all over the place. Just the nature of the game. Solid green dot means they're live on the site. Green circle means they were live recently in the past three days.

[QUOTE=Lexx1;7626576]It's live. These girls receive alot of messages especially if they're young and hot. So they're going through alot of messages daily. Also if they don't like your looks and/or message they'll just skip over and not even bother to look at your profile or reply back. They're also checking out daddies too and seeing who they like. Response times vary. I've had girls respond right away and some a month or two later. It's all over the place. Just the nature of the game. Solid green dot means they're live on the site. Green circle means they were live recently in the past three days.[/QUOTE]I concur with Lexx, he's correct with all of what he described, but also keep in mind that when you see the green dot next to her name this she's logged into the site but it does not mean that she is sitting in front of her computer reading / responding to messages. So many people log into their preferred sites and keep that tab open in their browser, among dozens of other open tabs, yet they won't click over to check the SDM site for hours or even a day. This is the same thing on their phone, that they can be logged in, but SDM could be one of 30 apps open at the same time and they won't swipe over to check it frequently.

[QUOTE=Lexx1;7626576]It's live. These girls receive alot of messages especially if they're young and hot. So they're going through alot of messages daily. Also if they don't like your looks and/or message they'll just skip over and not even bother to look at your profile or reply back. They're also checking out daddies too and seeing who they like. Response times vary. I've had girls respond right away and some a month or two later. It's all over the place. Just the nature of the game. Solid green dot means they're live on the site. Green circle means they were live recently in the past three days.[/QUOTE]Makes sense, this is so much more work than traditional escorts. I guess it can be worth it if you find the right girl but man it's annoying to sift through all the BS.

[QUOTE=KayBez;7626591]Makes sense, this is so much more work than traditional escorts. I guess it can be worth it if you find the right girl but man it's annoying to sift through all the BS.[/QUOTE]Yes, that's all valid! However, if you can connect with and maintain relationships with a few SB's then you can alternate who you see each week, or even see two SB's in a week and build up that familiarity and comfort with them which lends it a more GFE level than with most escorts.

[QUOTE=KayBez;7626591]Makes sense, this is so much more work than traditional escorts. I guess it can be worth it if you find the right girl but man it's annoying to sift through all the BS.[/QUOTE]What Grail added is also part of it. Sugar world is a whole different ball game than escorts. I used to be in the escort world, street hos, AMPs, incalls, casitas, etc. Those p4 p's can provide instant pleasure but to me not lasting quality pleasure anymore. Once you find a great sugarbaby, that provides you a real GFE in bed and especially at a good ppm. It's the best bang for the buck and provides alot better satisfying pleasure in bed.

[QUOTE=Lexx1;7626608]What Grail added is also part of it. Sugar world is a whole different ball game than escorts. I used to be in the escort world, street hos, AMPs, incalls, casitas, etc. Those p4 p's can provide instant pleasure but to me not lasting quality pleasure anymore. Once you find a great sugarbaby, that provides you a real GFE in bed and especially at a good ppm. It's the best bang for the buck and provides alot better satisfying pleasure in bed.[/QUOTE]Yea I definitely agree, I have had one SB so far that I've seen twice now. Both times she ended up staying the night, super GFE but the only problem is her skills aren't close to the regular escorts I'm used to seeing LOL. I guess I'll have to keep looking but man its a grind.

[QUOTE=KayBez;7627008]Yea I definitely agree, I have had one SB so far that I've seen twice now. Both times she ended up staying the night, super GFE but the only problem is her skills aren't close to the regular escorts I'm used to seeing LOL. I guess I'll have to keep looking but man its a grind.[/QUOTE]Teach her. A lot of the girls are on the site for that specific reason. They want a guy who knows what he is doing and can take them places vanilla dating can't.