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[QUOTE=Calorie;7575523]That is called answering a question that no one asked. Kind of like a false exculpatory statement.[/QUOTE]To actually answer your question:

No. She is way out of the typical range for potential sugar baby arrangements. Too old, too expensive, too dominant (yes, she can act submissive for pay, but she's not at all naturally submissive), and too public. She is not a good fit for what I (and probably most here) find works best in sugar arrangements. Younger (18-28), less life experience (especially upscale experiences), less secure financially, and more comfortable letting her SD lead, plan and control dates and other activities, including under the sheets are the "sweet spot" of sugaring.

For most (or at least for me), strong masculine mindset women, especially dominant and independent women make for poor sugar arrangements. These women attract simps, not Daddies.

Hi everyone! As before, these are profiles on SDM. Has anyone had any encounters with these SB's?

Scarlet. She liked my profile, I liked her back, we messaged and were aligned, she shared her number, I texted. Then nothing:

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=74500374[/URL]

Mina. As above, she liked my profile, I liked her back, we messaged and were aligned, however she lives in Whittier and doesn't have a car so suggested meeting halfway. Her profile might be TGTBT, but she's my type (short & thick):

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72794173[/URL]

No name yet, but 5 Staarrpacc username. Liked my profile and seems direct enough that we'll be aligned:

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=74121482[/URL]

Well, I seem to have been scammed AFTER having already met up with this SB previously. This is with an SB I met on SDM last month. After messaging, we had a phone call to chat, then a Facetime a few days later, before planning an in-person meet. Everything was settled as far as boundaries and ppm. On that day she was supposed to drive to me but her work ran long (nail tech) and she asked if I could drive to her place. I did so and we had a relatively okay time there, even if her menu was limited for our first time.

Well, tonight was supposed to be her visiting my place. Time was agreed upon and then she wanted to get outfits to try for me (I could care less about outfits). She kept me updated on her ETA, then texted me later to say she stopped for gas. She asked if I could "help a girl out with this". I said that I don't send money in advance since I've been scammed like that once before. She replied back "How can I possibly scam you babe we've met already? So yep, you guessed it, I sent her funds for gas.

She sent me a picture of her POV on the freeway, to indicate she was back on the road, but a 45 minute ETA turned into 2 hours. And then this:

"I got pulled over and they towed the car because my license isn't good anymore OMG 😭128549; can you come get me my mom can't come I called my sister she said she might be able to please ill send you the address".

I mean. WTF?!

[QUOTE=Grail47;7585799]Well, I seem to have been scammed AFTER having already met up with this SB previously. This is with an SB I met on SDM last month. After messaging, we had a phone call to chat, then a Facetime a few days later, before planning an in-person meet. Everything was settled as far as boundaries and ppm. On that day she was supposed to drive to me but her work ran long (nail tech) and she asked if I could drive to her place. I did so and we had a relatively okay time there, even if her menu was limited for our first time.

Well, tonight was supposed to be her visiting my place. Time was agreed upon and then she wanted to get outfits to try for me (I could care less about outfits). She kept me updated on her ETA, then texted me later to say she stopped for gas. She asked if I could "help a girl out with this". I said that I don't send money in advance since I've been scammed like that once before. She replied back "How can I possibly scam you babe we've met already? So yep, you guessed it, I sent her funds for gas.

She sent me a picture of her POV on the freeway, to indicate she was back on the road, but a 45 minute ETA turned into 2 hours. And then this:

"I got pulled over and they towed the car because my license isn't good anymore OMG 😭128549; can you come get me my mom can't come I called my sister she said she might be able to please ill send you the address".

I mean. WTF?![/QUOTE]I mean, was it a scam? Did you try to go pick her up LOL. I laugh at this because one time I was meeting an SB who a friend introduced me to. She no showed. As I was leaving the location, I saw a car pulled over by cops and didn't think anything of it.

I hit my friend up, and she said she couldn't get ahold of her. A week went by, and finally my friend reached out and said the girl was in jail. Turns out the car I passed being pulled over was her. She was stopped for a taillight and arrested on outstanding warrants, confirmed by a jail search.

LOL, stuff does happen. The big question is, did you offer to go get her?

[QUOTE=David032;7586016]I mean, was it a scam? Did you try to go pick her up LOL. I laugh at this because one time I was meeting an SB who a friend introduced me to. She no showed. As I was leaving the location, I saw a car pulled over by cops and didn't think anything of it.

I hit my friend up, and she said she couldn't get ahold of her. A week went by, and finally my friend reached out and said the girl was in jail. Turns out the car I passed being pulled over was her. She was stopped for a taillight and arrested on outstanding warrants, confirmed by a jail search.

LOL, stuff does happen. The big question is, did you offer to go get her?[/QUOTE]Yes, anything is possible, all that could have happened, but it seemed fishy to me. That mention of her mom and sister? I thought she told me they all lived in NE area. And she's driving around without a valid license every day, even to work?

But no, I didn't offer to go get her, that was her request of me, and it seemed dangerous to me to simply go to any address she provided.

[QUOTE=Grail47;7586174]Yes, anything is possible, all that could have happened, but it seemed fishy to me. That mention of her mom and sister? I thought she told me they all lived in NE area. And she's driving around without a valid license every day, even to work?

But no, I didn't offer to go get her, that was her request of me, and it seemed dangerous to me to simply go to any address she provided.[/QUOTE]YES, they drive around for months / years without license plates, expired tags, no insurance, busted lights - just begging to get pulled over. I think you missed an opportunity to be the hero.

I think you should reach out and offer to Uber her to you.

Or send me her profile and I'll let you know how it goes!

[QUOTE=RanManCan;7586200]YES, they drive around for months / years without license plates, expired tags, no insurance, busted lights - just begging to get pulled over. I think you missed an opportunity to be the hero.

I think you should reach out and offer to Uber her to you.

Or send me her profile and I'll let you know how it goes![/QUOTE]Yeah, I get the appeal to be the hero, but nah! This seemed like way too much drama to get into that late into the evening, way past when we were initially planning to meet up anyway. I have several other SB's that I'm seeing so I'm also not approaching this specific person from a scarcity mindset.

[QUOTE=Grail47;7586360]Yeah, I get the appeal to be the hero, but nah! This seemed like way too much drama to get into that late into the evening, way past when we were initially planning to meet up anyway. I have several other SB's that I'm seeing so I'm also not approaching this specific person from a scarcity mindset.[/QUOTE]Let's assume her story was legit and the address she gave you really was a jail intake location. You might have been on the hook for hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars for bail money which you will never get back. And even if you can get her released, she's not going horizontal with you that night. Next, you are now her "go to" for every little emergency in her life, real or imagined. That means desperate asks for cash at 2:30 am and promises she will "make it up to you" later (hint: she will not). All that for the low potential to get more mediocre sex in the future? Hard pass.

And if your Spidey Senses were correct (I think they are) you would have ended up at some ambush location where her pimp, or BF, or GF, etc. , would be waiting with weapons.

There are just too many SB's around who have a (shitty) job, and a (shitty) car, no warrants, and understand the sugar bowl well enough to look for long-term results with a decent SD.

And those SB's will rock your world in bed.

[QUOTE=SecondLove;7591068]Let's assume her story was legit and the address she gave you really was a jail intake location. You might have been on the hook for hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars for bail money which you will never get back. And even if you can get her released, she's not going horizontal with you that night. Next, you are now her "go to" for every little emergency in her life, real or imagined. That means desperate asks for cash at 2:30 am and promises she will "make it up to you" later (hint: she will not). All that for the low potential to get more mediocre sex in the future? Hard pass.

And if your Spidey Senses were correct (I think they are) you would have ended up at some ambush location where her pimp, or BF, or GF, etc. , would be waiting with weapons.

There are just too many SB's around who have a (shitty) job, and a (shitty) car, no warrants, and understand the sugar bowl well enough to look for long-term results with a decent SD.

And those SB's will rock your world in bed.[/QUOTE]I appreciate the perspective! While I am typically a trusting person who likes to help, this just seemed really suspicious to me. Perhaps after reading of other scams here on this board!

That being said, I decided to pause my SDM account for a little while. I was finding it too tempting and time consuming to keep finding and making new connections with SB's and I've currently got 4-5 SB's on my roster that I'm really happy with, seeing each of them every other week or so.

Have you seen these videos keep popping up all over my social media and now I saw peace on the news about it. They supposedly scour all the dating sites to find you. I'm wondering, do you think they're finding the pictures that we have in our non public profile pics.

[QUOTE=DogTown997;7593774]Have you seen these videos keep popping up all over my social media and now I saw peace on the news about it. They supposedly scour all the dating sites to find you. I'm wondering, do you think they're finding the pictures that we have in our non public profile pics.[/QUOTE]It's not supposed to find profile pics on a private profile on a dating or sugar site. Unless that particular site advises in the terms you agree to that your profile is publicly viewable. For it to find private profile info that the site terms say will only be viewable as a member. Then technically that search site would need to have member access as well. But if they did and disclosed that info on search results. Then they would most likely be violating the terms of disclosing info from the site and they can be sued.

I'd do searches on whatever pics you have on your profile using Pimeyes, Facecheck. I'd and Yandex. You don't have to pay the first two as you'll see previews if the exact pic is found or similar faces. If you're using fake pics that "resemble" you. I wouldn't worry about it since the pics aren't actually you. If they are you then look into what sites they are appearing on and remove them. I don't worry since I'm a single dude, no kids and never been married.

[QUOTE=Grail47;7586360]Yeah, I get the appeal to be the hero, but nah! This seemed like way too much drama to get into that late into the evening, way past when we were initially planning to meet up anyway. I have several other SB's that I'm seeing so I'm also not approaching this specific person from a scarcity mindset.[/QUOTE]I'm with you. I'm never going to be a hero (aka simp) or Captain save-a-hoe, ever. The whole point of adding sugar to the equation is so that you don; t have to deal with this very type of drama. If I want an idiot girlfriend or wife that I have to constantly clean up after like a retarded toddler (which they all are, when you get right down to it) then I'll get them. That is 100% NOT what I am sugaring for. Modern women are delusional idiots and need to be checked. After all, they are stronk and independent and don't need no man, they can do everything a man can do and then some. LOL.

It's interesting to note the transient nature of the SB / SD dynamic, as SB's might come and go, depending on various things happening in each other's respective life. I think at one time I was seeing six SB's on a regular basis, maybe every other week for each of them, then communication with some might diminish or their schedules got busier and so things just stopped organically, all while I was still on SDM and connecting with new SB's. Usually it seems that a busier work schedule becomes the obstacle, while also too far a distance or lack of a car was the cause for ending. At least two SB's started dating someone exclusively and let me know, while another SB started trying to scam me for money outside of in-person meets. I paused my SDM account to just focus on the 3-4 SB's on my current roster and see if I can maintain this dynamic for a little while. I myself might also jump back into the civvie dating scene. Or I'll just subscribe jump back in again to the site to who's new!

SO, on social media, I see these hot young girls posting that they are BOPs. This sounds to me like a sugar baby who is also a social media 'influencer'. It seems like we have ample of each of these in southern California. How do we track down BOPs who are maybe not on the sugar dating sites?

Anyone seen her? [URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=69368304[/URL].