Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=JustACustomer;4094827]Sooo, Thursday night I try to set something up for Friday evening. My ATF tells me that she had a prearranged booking for her lottery winner, so I called my other ATF, willing to make the drive, and she was a no go also. I call up my one and only UTR and she says we are good for 6 pm Friday. I confirm Friday afternoon and then one hour before, I get "the text", I am not going to be ready at our appointed time. Says she wants to meet 30 minutes later, no reason given. I say I can't do it and that we could reschedule later in the weekend. She then says she can make it work. I am still learning the ropes here guys, so I did not realize that was code for "I double booked". WTF! Are you serious?" You are a UTR, and you are double booking? Anyway, did not realize that until I made the drive, arrived early, and sat in the parking lot waiting for her to get there from wherever she was coming from (my bad assumption). She then texts me that she is running 5 minutes late and that turned into 15 minutes til I get the "I am ready" text. Now wait, I just saw a guy come out of her place, so I ask her if she is home? She admits she is and actually admits to having a previous appointment. So, if it was one of you guys coming out, I saw you walking to your car. I feel bad for you because I am sure she was texting and rushing you in your session. Needless to say, I tell her I am not interested in tardy, sloppy seconds and bid her adoo and blocked her. She knows my rules, and I have no UTR now. LOL.

So, I check the review board and send out several texts and Genesis is the first to respond. Based on recent reviews by senior members, I decide to give Genesis a shot. As I am getting ready to pull out of the parking spot I was in, I get hit by another car pulling out. Long story short, I have to wait for the police and told Genesis what was going on and that we would need to reschedule. An hour or more later, I ask her if she is still available and she says yes. I tell her I can be there in 20 minutes and she says "that is perfect". I get there and she says I need to hit the local pharmacy and get her some wet wipes to clean up after our session. First of all, why don't you get your own supplies, and two, why aren't you shower fresh after each session. Again, I did not realize this was another code for "I double booked" until after I get back to the parking lot with the baby wipes and see another of you coming out, get in your car, and then get the "I am ready" text. WTF! Twice in one night! So, I am thinking, maybe Maci had that appointment, and I deliver the baby wipes. But alas, Genesis was the only one not fully clothed and immediately took out some wet wipes and went to the bathroom. Needless to say, I just couldn't do it. I gave Maci $20 as I was leaving (I am sure you guys will yell at me for that), and then they get the block. Again, I hope whichever of you guys was there did not get a bad or rushed session from her texting and such.

Conclusion: If you have to delay our appointment time FOR ANY REASON, you double booked me. If you are a provider reading this, just be on time and I won't question how recent you saw your last client. If you double book me, you get blocked and you won't get my play money. I am curious though, how do you guys handle this issue? I suspect that them double booking is a consequence of you guys canceling appointments. I have never canceled or ghosted a provider.

As always, YMMV.

JAC.[/QUOTE]I wish more guys were like you, and me!

If a provider is more than a few minutes late, I won't see her and never try again. If a provider goes crickets or is difficult to communicate with, I won't see her and she doesn't get a second chance.

Does this limit the providers I see? Yep, you bet. But the quality of my dates is much higher than what I hear people complaining about.

Regarding BB, I'm sure nearly every single girl will do it, even if not the first, the second time, because in their reasoning, they 'know' you.

For myself, she has to look like someone I'd be okay being seen with, if she weren't a hooker. So let's say the average provider or SW isn't making the cut, so I'll just do BJ, but those few gems get it. I can't do those girls who are my age or younger, but drugged themselves to look 40+.

But DATY, is a no go. I've done that with 2 AMP ladies, only because I thought it would get me FS. Both thought that I simply wanted to do it to them. One still did not give up FS, and the would have regardless. DATY does nothing for me, if I want to please someone I will do it, but I don't care about pleasing a sex worker, and I feel for the most part, they're probably too disconnected from feelings of enjoyment to get anything out of it, anyway. Basically, they've fucked or done things with too many people they're unattractive to for sex to be anymore than an means to and end.

[QUOTE=Lenny6746;4097595]And of course it would be Bengallman. You started this now lets end this here. What the fuck you think your coaching?? A fucking 18 year old? Grow up and keep your advise to yourself. We simply don't need your HORSESHIT. I put out a true report and you and your triple covered dick had to shoot your mouth off. Mongers like you give us a bad rap. I hope every monger on here starts barebacking safely of course. Have fun out there Lenny6746 over and out. Bareback of course.[/QUOTE]Didn't mean to offend. Bareback all day long.

Apologeez.

[QUOTE=Dillsborodave;4097257]Reading the posts of Kenal1 and BTbear made me think of the good old days. Had to find the ladies thru the yellow pages. You had to pick your lady by the description of their measurements and hair color. I always said just send me the one I would have the most fun with. Seems like there was less ripoffs and disappointments back then.[/QUOTE]Talk about the good old day BUDDA. Sasha an Cupcake. Those were the days.

We are all old enough here to know what we are doing and know the risks. Each monger has a comfort level when it comes to risk and that won't change. No need to judge or try to "save" those mongers that choose riskier behavior. Most important we need to exchange information to keep each other safe from scams, robbers, and pissed off uncles. The truth of the matter is that all the girls, even those that say no BB in their ads will BB the regulars that they choose but put no BB in their ads because they want to pick who gets that treat and don't want to BB everybody that comes along. It's long been a hot topic of discussion but it shouldn't be, I don't judge anyone on their choices or weird fetishes, if you want a chick with a dick, that's cool by me, not my style but I wouldn't mind hearing about it and wouldn't give you a hard time. Anyway not trying to preach, we need to focus on the stuff that really matters in my opinion.

[QUOTE=DaytonSteve;4099278]We are all old enough here to know what we are doing and know the risks. Each monger has a comfort level when it comes to risk and that won't change. No need to judge or try to "save" those mongers that choose riskier behavior. Most important we need to exchange information to keep each other safe from scams, robbers, and pissed off uncles. The truth of the matter is that all the girls, even those that say no BB in their ads will BB the regulars that they choose but put no BB in their ads because they want to pick who gets that treat and don't want to BB everybody that comes along. It's long been a hot topic of discussion but it shouldn't be, I don't judge anyone on their choices or weird fetishes, if you want a chick with a dick, that's cool by me, not my style but I wouldn't mind hearing about it and wouldn't give you a hard time. Anyway not trying to preach, we need to focus on the stuff that really matters in my opinion.[/QUOTE]We all have preferences. And so do the ladies. Do's and don'ts are hinged on a number of things.

Kissing.

Rimming.

Daty.

Greek.

And the list goes on. I have had ladies say if you review me don't go into details.

What we did I don't do with every guy I see. So I don't. I have heard gents say they don't like condoms and would rather finish.

With a BJ. Guys married or having a GF aren't going to BB and run the risk of bringing something home.

Everyone BB with someone so the risk large or small is always there.

Oral play is somewhat safer because of the amount of bacteria you have in your mouth.

Play on dudes. Remember its always a woman's choice. Not ours to assume she will.

I always carry. A condom.

I had a young lady I reached out to on listcrawler a couple days ago, I texted her around 11 am my other half gets off work around 3 so when I texted her I put in my text not to respond after 3 the wifey would be home. So what does this clown 🤡 do? She texts me at 9 pm with Hey Babe. I just happened to go to my car to retrieve something and didn't know she had text when I come in the wifey has this look on her face and not talking, she had saw and read the text. What makes it so bad is she got the phone number and started texting with this idiot the girl gave her prices and everything and her general location. Total mess that evening. Now the wifey is kind of cool now I played it like a wrong number the wife told me to ask her for a screenshot of the text. Thankfully she didn't send it. So I get up this morning there's another text from another chick who I haven't seen in about 8 months she identifies herself gives her new number but thinks by her saying if this is the wrong number I apologize. The SO didn't see that but I texted her and ripped her a brand new one. She apologized but if my girl had saw that it would not have been good. These women are selfish thirsty and grimy. I would get a monger phone but if my SO found that she would have a fit. Just wanted to get that rant off maybe I should start carrying my phone with me in my pocket LOL. HL29.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;4103651]I had a young lady I reached out to on listcrawler a couple days ago, I texted her around 11 am my other half gets off work around 3 so when I texted her I put in my text not to respond after 3 the wifey would be home. So what does this clown 🤡 do? She texts me at 9 pm with Hey Babe. I just happened to go to my car to retrieve something and didn't know she had text when I come in the wifey has this look on her face and not talking, she had saw and read the text. What makes it so bad is she got the phone number and started texting with this idiot the girl gave her prices and everything and her general location. Total mess that evening. Now the wifey is kind of cool now I played it like a wrong number the wife told me to ask her for a screenshot of the text. Thankfully she didn't send it. So I get up this morning there's another text from another chick who I haven't seen in about 8 months she identifies herself gives her new number but thinks by her saying if this is the wrong number I apologize. The SO didn't see that but I texted her and ripped her a brand new one. She apologized but if my girl had saw that it would not have been good. These women are selfish thirsty and grimy. I would get a monger phone but if my SO found that she would have a fit. Just wanted to get that rant off maybe I should start carrying my phone with me in my pocket LOL. HL29.[/QUOTE]I know the feeling. About 10 years ago my ex actually found my hobby phone. Luckily I got into the habit of removing the battery and kept it in another location, but still had to come up with a story on the spot explaining why I had this phone in my trunk. Told her I found it in a parking lot. Thank god she didn't see the condoms in the spare tire compartment! My advice to you would be to get a hobby phone. If you really can't like you say, at least download a texting app like textnow or something similar. When you are hobbying just download the app and sign in. Be sure to clear your playstore history though. When finished, simply uninstall the app from the phone. Hope things work out for ya! Stay safe.

Wifeys don't forget she won't either. You may think you got away with it. You didn't. That will linger a long time. Stay cool Give me the chics number I'm single and don't care. Pm me Good luck lenny6746.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;4103651]I had a young lady I reached out to on listcrawler a couple days ago, I texted her around 11 am my other half gets off work around 3 so when I texted her I put in my text not to respond after 3 the wifey would be home. So what does this clown 🤡 do? She texts me at 9 pm with Hey Babe. I just happened to go to my car to retrieve something and didn't know she had text when I come in the wifey has this look on her face and not talking, she had saw and read the text. What makes it so bad is she got the phone number and started texting with this idiot the girl gave her prices and everything and her general location. Total mess that evening. Now the wifey is kind of cool now I played it like a wrong number the wife told me to ask her for a screenshot of the text. Thankfully she didn't send it. So I get up this morning there's another text from another chick who I haven't seen in about 8 months she identifies herself gives her new number but thinks by her saying if this is the wrong number I apologize. The SO didn't see that but I texted her and ripped her a brand new one. She apologized but if my girl had saw that it would not have been good. These women are selfish thirsty and grimy. I would get a monger phone but if my SO found that she would have a fit. Just wanted to get that rant off maybe I should start carrying my phone with me in my pocket LOL. HL29.[/QUOTE]I use a text app and always have the notifications turned off when I'm at home. I keep the app hidden from my screen. You never know when you will get a response.

[QUOTE=JustTry;4103786]I use a text app and always have the notifications turned off when I'm at home. I keep the app hidden from my screen. You never know when you will get a response.[/QUOTE]Yes, use a text app, and delete the ap when done mongering and reinstall. That's what I do.

As an FYI. These apps use the name of your phone to others using the same ap. So for iPhone if you have a revealing phone name, it broadcasts that.

MM.

[QUOTE=MikeMichigan;4103902]Yes, use a text app, and delete the ap when done mongering and reinstall. That's what I do.

As an FYI. These apps use the name of your phone to others using the same ap. So for iPhone if you have a revealing phone name, it broadcasts that.

MM.[/QUOTE]I've used several and never had that happen.

[QUOTE=Lenny6746;4103767]Wifeys don't forget she won't either. You may think you got away with it. You didn't. That will linger a long time. Stay cool Give me the chics number I'm single and don't care. Pm me Good luck lenny6746.[/QUOTE]She's not in breaking up status but she's been at me for the past few days. We were watching family feud and a cheaters question came up I got the number 1 answer she looked at me and said You Should Know. HL29.

I’ll find her number when I get time alone and shoot you a pm fuck it I’ll put it on the forum.HL29

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;4103651]I had a young lady I reached out to on listcrawler a couple days ago, I texted her around 11 am my other half gets off work around 3 so when I texted her I put in my text not to respond after 3 the wifey would be home. So what does this clown 🤡 do? She texts me at 9 pm with Hey Babe. I just happened to go to my car to retrieve something and didn't know she had text when I come in the wifey has this look on her face and not talking, she had saw and read the text. What makes it so bad is she got the phone number and started texting with this idiot the girl gave her prices and everything and her general location. Total mess that evening. Now the wifey is kind of cool now I played it like a wrong number the wife told me to ask her for a screenshot of the text. Thankfully she didn't send it. So I get up this morning there's another text from another chick who I haven't seen in about 8 months she identifies herself gives her new number but thinks by her saying if this is the wrong number I apologize. The SO didn't see that but I texted her and ripped her a brand new one. She apologized but if my girl had saw that it would not have been good. These women are selfish thirsty and grimy. I would get a monger phone but if my SO found that she would have a fit. Just wanted to get that rant off maybe I should start carrying my phone with me in my pocket LOL. HL29.[/QUOTE]Same thing happened to me a couple years ago. The gal I had texted the day before said" I'll leave the door open, come on in and crawl in bed I'll be naked!" WTF.

[QUOTE=Tonk49;4097626]I wonder what old Amon is doing these days, his posts were always interesting to read. Come back Amon. Play safe.[/QUOTE]I think he died form his own disease, LOL.

He played to be a sick puppy, whether or not it was all true, who knows.