What's you guys' message to actually meeting up ratio?
10:1? 20:1? 100:1?
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What's you guys' message to actually meeting up ratio?
10:1? 20:1? 100:1?
[QUOTE=Backslide;7528841]What's you guys' message to actually meeting up ratio?
10:1? 20:1? 100:1?[/QUOTE]So, this is an interesting question to discuss and I'll offer up my experiences so far. First, I'm only on SDM, not any of the other sites. I've subscribed for a month or two, let it expire and then renewed again in a month, so there are gaps and during these gaps without a subscription you can't message anyone. In addition, I've accepted matches with some SB's in San Diego, but let those conversations fade when it just doesn't seem feasible to meet up, since I live near DTLA. Also there are a few SB's who had "Los Angeles' as their area and then I find out they're in Redlands or Stockton and I'm just not interested in driving that far out, no matter how cute she might be.
At this point, I've had in-person meetings with six SB's, some starting with M&G's before moving on to more private activities. Five of the six I've seen on a semi-regular basis, per week or every other week. The remaining SB has been out of town for weeks and she let me know she's back now, so I'll plan to see her week, hopefully. All that being said, I've matched and messaged with at least 40 SB's on SDM and have had meet ups that I consider successful with 6 of them.
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[QUOTE=Backslide;7528841]What's you guys' message to actually meeting up ratio?
10:1? 20:1? 100:1?[/QUOTE]I would say my message to actually meeting them is between about closer to 8:1 or 10:1. It is not that difficult to obtain SBs number but by attrition you will lose contact with many.
As SBs are very flakey, you will change your mind about a girl as well, the negotiations come to a halt (she asks too much $), or you realize she is too far and it dies out.
With that said, if you are patient, can play the numbers game, you can still find a stable of a few / stable regular girls. Happy hunting.
[QUOTE=StudBucket;7536240]I would say my message to actually meeting them is between about closer to 8:1 or 10:1. It is not that difficult to obtain SBs number but by attrition you will lose contact with many.
As SBs are very flakey, you will change your mind about a girl as well, the negotiations come to a halt (she asks too much $), or you realize she is too far and it dies out.
With that said, if you are patient, can play the numbers game, you can still find a stable of a few / stable regular girls. Happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Been out of the SB scene for awhile. What's the going PPM these days?
[QUOTE=Chupacabra;7536458]Been out of the SB scene for awhile. What's the going PPM these days?[/QUOTE]In my experience, 4-5. Sometimes 3-350. Some girls ask for more.
[QUOTE=CoolGuy818;7536465]In my experience, 4-5. Sometimes 3-350. Some girls ask for more.[/QUOTE]Similar, I would have said 5-6. Haven't seen 300 in a long time, unless it's just a HJ.
Last 3 I discussed rates with wanted between $800 and $1500, but of course I didn't go ahead at those crazy prices.
[QUOTE=BringItHome;7536603]Similar, I would have said 5-6. Haven't seen 300 in a long time, unless it's just a HJ.
Last 3 I discussed rates with wanted between $800 and $1500, but of course I didn't go ahead at those crazy prices.[/QUOTE]I've had good fortune with several SB's amenable to 300 and one who simply stated at the outset that that was her ppm (I never questioned her! A few other SB's have quoted 600,700 and 800, after which I counter that it's above what I am usually comfortable with. Sometimes the response from them is a "no thank you" or "I'll pass" and that's fine, while in other instances, they've accepted a lower amount.
Here's some girls I've had recently within the last year. I tried looking for links, but couldn't find them all. There's also a couple I'm not willing to share just yet. I also never use condoms with girls from seeking. Some are into creampies and some not.
1: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cb34ce9c-a2fd-46fe-9159-5cf15934854d[/URL].
We met up for dinner first. I paid for the date and gave her 100 for the meet. She said she doesn't have sex on the first meet but we ended up in my hotel room fucking.
350 total. Bare, no creampie. She said no creampie so I didn't. She's not super tight but the sex was fun and she's really sweet.
2. Her name is Shaye. I don't have her link but PM me if you want her number. She's a straight up *****. 300 and I creampied her twice. She doesn't kiss because it's too intimate but nutting inside her vagina isn't. Ok LOL. Tight pussy.
300.
3. Sexy green eyes and dark hair. I'm not sharing.
Bare sex but no creampie.
4. Scarlett. She's been mentioned here before. Most expensive at 1500 for all bare. She said no creampie then was asking for it later. I hit her up when I want to treat myself. Tight pussy.
5. Sarah. I can't find her link. 1 k. Tiny girl. She's like 4'11" and tight. She likes to be picked up and fucked. I shot a huge load in her then she told me she didn't want that. But she wasn't angry.
6. Redhead bi girl. I had her for 500 but no creampie. I've had 3 somes with her and others. She's dating a girl now and she had me take her gf's dick virginity LOL.
7. Amber. I couldn't find a link but she moved to Colorado. 300 all bare and creampie.
8. Pornstar Riley Reign. I couldn't find her link on seeking but pm me for her number. She loves creampies. 500.
9. Ariel. No link either. Dinner then creampies after. She's in Seattle, but I'm trying to get her back here. 400.
10. Bella. Hit me up for her snap. Bare and creampie. She is probably the tightest on this list. 500.
[QUOTE=Grail47;7537308]I've had good fortune with several SB's amenable to 300 and one who simply stated at the outset that that was her ppm (I never questioned her! A few other SB's have quoted 600,700 and 800, after which I counter that it's above what I am usually comfortable with. Sometimes the response from them is a "no thank you" or "I'll pass" and that's fine, while in other instances, they've accepted a lower amount.[/QUOTE]Great info, thanks also CoolGuy and BringIt. Sounds like they have become more reasonable than when I left the scene awhile back, which is surprising. Maybe hoeflation is cooling.
[QUOTE=CoolGuy818;7537844]Here's some girls I've had recently within the last year.[/QUOTE]Great stuff, thanks player.
[QUOTE=Chupacabra;7536458]Been out of the SB scene for awhile. What's the going PPM these days?[/QUOTE]The average for 8's and above is 500-800. You may get a few at 400 or slightly less but they will be 6's lower. This is just the sad state of theLA market. It has gone crazy in the last 2-3 years.
I have you to seen any girl who is 7 or higher go for less than 500 here.
Good Luck.
[QUOTE=StudBucket;7538021]The average for 8's and above is 500-800. You may get a few at 400 or slightly less but they will be 6's lower. This is just the sad state of theLA market. It has gone crazy in the last 2-3 years.
I have you to seen any girl who is 7 or higher go for less than 500 here.
Good Luck.[/QUOTE]Has anyone been using [URL]whatsyourprice.com[/URL]? It could be one solution since you or the girl can make an offer on a ppm, but the maximum amount is $500, and I've been getting offers for less than that. I only met a couple of women before the pandemic, but I'm still getting offers. I'm low on credits, and time, so I haven't been accepting offers, but there's some very tempting ass on that site. If you get an offer that you think is too high, you can send a counteroffer without using credits. You can also tap on a button to ask the girl to suggest an amount, which is cool in a couple ways because if you send a dollar amount and she accepts, it can feel like you're now committed to that amount, but if she suggests the amount, you don't have to accept. Also, I discovered if I tap the button to ask the girl to suggest an amount, when she sends me her offer, it reveals her private photos. I've come across some girls who understand the site better, and will game the system by sending you an ask for $5 for a meet, though when you match, they tell you they won't accept less than $. 5 or $$ to meet, but they'll do this because apparently the lower the bid (and $5 is the lowest), the fewer credits you get dinged for accepting / matching.
[QUOTE=AppleBottomFdr;7538270]Has anyone been using [URL]whatsyourprice.com[/URL]? It could be one solution since you or the girl can make an offer on a ppm, but the maximum amount is $500, and I've been getting offers for less than that. I only met a couple of women before the pandemic, but I'm still getting offers. I'm low on credits, and time, so I haven't been accepting offers, but there's some very tempting ass on that site. If you get an offer that you think is too high, you can send a counteroffer without using credits. You can also tap on a button to ask the girl to suggest an amount, which is cool in a couple ways because if you send a dollar amount and she accepts, it can feel like you're now committed to that amount, but if she suggests the amount, you don't have to accept. Also, I discovered if I tap the button to ask the girl to suggest an amount, when she sends me her offer, it reveals her private photos. I've come across some girls who understand the site better, and will game the system by sending you an ask for $5 for a meet, though when you match, they tell you they won't accept less than $. 5 or $$ to meet, but they'll do this because apparently the lower the bid (and $5 is the lowest), the fewer credits you get dinged for accepting / matching.[/QUOTE]I've used it a fair amount. Have you actually met someone there who you FCed with? I am not sure you understand. The amount you offer, that is ONLY for the initial date. You can't assume that includes private time.
Yeah, I like to use it for finding road babies. I can make contact in advance before traveling to a city. When I don't have an active seeking profile. It is a pain you burn credits based on the offer. This makes no sense to me, but those girls who don't understand, their vanity won't let them.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7538807]I've used it a fair amount. Have you actually met someone there who you FCed with? I am not sure you understand. The amount you offer, that is ONLY for the initial date. You can't assume that includes private time.
Yeah, I like to use it for finding road babies. I can make contact in advance before traveling to a city. When I don't have an active seeking profile. It is a pain you burn credits based on the offer. This makes no sense to me, but those girls who don't understand, their vanity won't let them.[/QUOTE]Not sure what FCed means.
I have met a few in person, and yes, I totally understand it's only for the first meet, not necessarily private time. I met one cute latina who wanted $100 to meet, and told me nothing would happen on the first meet. It was a short meet, then she told me we could "be I tomate next time. " I asked if it would be the same donation and she said yep. She was well dressed but seemed amped up and reeked of cigs, which I didn't like bc she said she was a non smoker. I shoulda jumped on the second meet but didn't. I met another who offered $5, and lived kinda far. She told me she only met close to where she lived bc she had young kids and couldn't host. But she wanted to meet for coffee for the first meet. She was so hot and we really vibed. Then she told me to schedule in advance and book a room not far from her, showed me the day use app, then told me her meets were $700. Shiiiiiit. I got to drive out there, spend hundreds for a room and spend on her, so I'm probably looking at over 1 k, but I liked her so much I plan to save my nickels and do it. But then I thought, damn $700, I don't know the last time we spent that much on anything. But then I thought to ask her, how long would I have her for, and she said she could prolly stay a few hours, but it wouldn't be like nonstop boning the whole time. I told her she could have a couple 10 min breaks, LOL, but it's not like I'm a shagOlympian. A couple others I met were reasonably priced for first meets, were as hot as their photos, but I didn't feel a vibe. One gave me a one-armed hug. I asked, I only get one arm? She said I'd have to work my way up to a 2-arm hug. I told her "nice try, but you're the one who needs to earn here. ".