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[QUOTE=LBrad52;7506547]Ok, just signed up. How do I contact her? It wants me to upgrade and I don't feel like paying to join. If you have contact info, you can message me. I'll pay what she needs, I'm strictly a BBBJ cim guy. But I don't live to far from Putnam.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Original post was from a "Forum Sponsor".
I would hope they are sharing legit profiles here.
[QUOTE=LBrad52;7506547]Ok, just signed up. How do I contact her? It wants me to upgrade and I don't feel like paying to join. If you have contact info, you can message me. I'll pay what she needs, I'm strictly a BBBJ cim guy. But I don't live to far from Putnam.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]I signed up as well and spent the 30 bucks. Sent a message to her. Nothing but crickets so far. Time will tell whether it's a legit site or not. I'm not holding my breath.
ALL of my experiences on the SLN site have been of the shady variety. ALL of them. As a result I've never met anyone from that site. And I'm speaking from many years of experience on Seeking so I think I have some credibility. Something doesn't smell right. And that last girl that was posted about -- which girl openly advertises in that kind of language? Give me a break!
[QUOTE=IOnDaStreet;7507252]Original post was from a "Forum Sponsor".
I would hope they are sharing legit profiles here.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7507785]ALL of my experiences on the SLN site have been of the shady variety. ALL of them. As a result I've never met anyone from that site. And I'm speaking from many years of experience on Seeking so I think I have some credibility. Something doesn't smell right. And that last girl that was posted about -- which girl openly advertises in that kind of language? Give me a break![/QUOTE]Thanks, DC.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7507785]ALL of my experiences on the SLN site have been of the shady variety. ALL of them. As a result I've never met anyone from that site. And I'm speaking from many years of experience on Seeking so I think I have some credibility. Something doesn't smell right. And that last girl that was posted about -- which girl openly advertises in that kind of language? Give me a break![/QUOTE]She doesn't say all that SLN reports she's into in her profile. All she really says is "I'm open to anything you'd like" and "Someone that can support me financially".
Having said that, I'd have to agree with DC. I probably wasted 30 bucks, but I spend three times that on coffee every week, so it was worth a shot. As I said, I'm not holding my breath waiting for a response. I also sent SLN a PM and haven't gotten a reply from them, either. Color me "Not surprised".
Yes, I realize that language isn't on her profile. But this is a public forum, searchable on the web. The guy who posted about her runs the site. Shady AF.
[QUOTE=DurtyDawg;7508227]She doesn't say all that SLN reports she's into in her profile. All she really says is "I'm open to anything you'd like" and "Someone that can support me financially".
Having said that, I'd have to agree with DC. I probably wasted 30 bucks, but I spend three times that on coffee every week, so it was worth a shot. As I said, I'm not holding my breath waiting for a response. I also sent SLN a PM and haven't gotten a reply from them, either. Color me "Not surprised".[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7508949]Yes, I realize that language isn't on her profile. But this is a public forum, searchable on the web. The guy who posted about her runs the site. Shady AF.[/QUOTE]Shady AF, indeed, and in hindsight I wish I had read of your experience with them before I spend the money. I suppose I was a bit premature pulling the trigger. Oh well. Live and learn. Thanks for sharing your experience.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4d6addfc14b55d81[/URL]
Looks playful and younger for her age anyone have first hand or has reached out to her.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c93ee5b2977131cf[/URL]
[QUOTE=NewEngland;7523775]Looks playful and younger for her age anyone have first hand or has reached out to her.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c93ee5b2977131cf[/URL][/QUOTE]We messaged a while back and were going to make plans to meet. Unfortunately she went silent.
Nice person. Body matches her age. Likes sex. It's been a year or two and I cannot remember it all. She has a nice apartment somewhere in or near NK. We were going to set up an arrangement and then I moved on for some reason.
[QUOTE=NewEngland;7523775]Looks playful and younger for her age anyone have first hand or has reached out to her.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c93ee5b2977131cf[/URL][/QUOTE]
Made a Secret Benefits account since curiosity got the best of me and not impressed. Especially for those of you who ***** about how much a girl wants this credit system to message and see their photos which LOL I didn't know was costing me when they "granted me access" to their photos is not worth the ROI IMO. Payed for the higher higher tier in credits but my recommendation is to stick with SA.
[QUOTE=EmvLa;7545166]Made a Secret Benefits account since curiosity got the best of me and not impressed. Especially for those of you who ***** about how much a girl wants this credit system to message and see their photos which LOL I didn't know was costing me when they "granted me access" to their photos is not worth the ROI IMO. Payed for the higher higher tier in credits but my recommendation is to stick with SA.[/QUOTE]It adds up fast and that's not even taking into consideration in their terms of service they have language that implies they have the right to automatically message guys on girls accounts (to consume your credits from accounts that aren't actually interested / active). They also have language alluding to the fact that they can utilize bot accounts to test the functionality of the site, which I would assume means they are moving fake accounts around location to location as a tool to wipe out credits faster.
They also play games with the algorithm showing brand new guy accounts that have not bought credits yet to a lot of women so they get a lot of messages and interaction on profile, but once they buy credits to view all of those messages / interact with visitors etc. Most if not all is artificial and doesn't result in any leads.
Their entire business model is the less up front cost compared to Seeking (which you pay for in the monthly membership up front) but SB you end up spending the same if not more if you are serious on there about working potential leads.
Honestly, guys, if I had to count the number of women I have successfully fucked off SB versus SA I would say SB is the winner. Yes, there are fake accounts, but frankly fewer than SA. Especially with the "let me be your secret" video feature which helps you in two ways. It is not something anyone can easily fake and it weeds out the women who have put in their pictures either filtered pics or pics from a younger day. They do not tell the women that the video is going into their public profile so often they do the video without make up. It is also possible that SB is better for my particular demographic which is MILF's 30-60. I have my settings set to filter out younger women on both sites. Anyway, you can score off either. I do hate the credits feature of SB, but I have learned to control temptation and only contact those I am truly interested in. I buy 1,000 credits for $169 and it lasts me 2 months as opposed to $150/ month on SA. To each his own though. And happy hunting!
[QUOTE=SwimSays;7545282]It adds up fast and that's not even taking into consideration in their terms of service they have language that implies they have the right to automatically message guys on girls accounts (to consume your credits from accounts that aren't actually interested / active). They also have language alluding to the fact that they can utilize bot accounts to test the functionality of the site, which I would assume means they are moving fake accounts around location to location as a tool to wipe out credits faster.
They also play games with the algorithm showing brand new guy accounts that have not bought credits yet to a lot of women so they get a lot of messages and interaction on profile, but once they buy credits to view all of those messages / interact with visitors etc. Most if not all is artificial and doesn't result in any leads.
Their entire business model is the less up front cost compared to Seeking (which you pay for in the monthly membership up front) but SB you end up spending the same if not more if you are serious on there about working potential leads.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Banjomania;7545472]Honestly, guys, if I had to count the number of women I have successfully fucked off SB versus SA I would say SB is the winner. Yes, there are fake accounts, but frankly fewer than SA. Especially with the "let me be your secret" video feature which helps you in two ways. It is not something anyone can easily fake and it weeds out the women who have put in their pictures either filtered pics or pics from a younger day. They do not tell the women that the video is going into their public profile so often they do the video without make up. It is also possible that SB is better for my particular demographic which is MILF's 30-60. I have my settings set to filter out younger women on both sites. Anyway, you can score off either. I do hate the credits feature of SB, but I have learned to control temptation and only contact those I am truly interested in. I buy 1,000 credits for $169 and it lasts me 2 months as opposed to $150/ month on SA. To each his own though. And happy hunting![/QUOTE]All valid points worth consideration. With keeping your filters focused while searching, what's your ratio of convos that make it out of first handful of messages? For me personally I get a lot higher ratio of dead convos on SB vs. SA (after spending those initial credits of course).
That being said, as SA gets more expensive, its going to push more and more to SB and other avenues.