Rants and Raves

[QUOTE=Apache12;6664895]Well that's exactly why I threw that out there so you could have a good laugh. But while your laughing I'm having a great time, and that's why I pay good so that I can enjoy my time with no rush, she never asks how much are you paying, never asks for anything up front, does anything and any position that I ask, I could keep her out for hours and never hear any complaints. This also goes for other regulars that I have. I've been in this game for a very long time, there's probably only a less than 5 on this board that's been doing this longer than me. So go ahead keep laughing I'm glad I can give you a good laugh, but in the end I will have the last laugh.[/QUOTE]If you think having a stable of addicted SWs eager to separate you from your $$ as "having the last laugh", let me get you a subscription to Comedy Central and a tank of nitrous oxide to go with that. LMAO!

Like I've said before, this sex trade is transactional. $$ for drugs in exchange for sexual acts to provide sexual relief. The girls never lose sight of why they are doing what they are doing. Mongers do.

Let me ask, do you think any of these women would deal with you outside of their addiction and need for $$ Answer that honestly and with a sincere sense of humility. How many in here think any of these women would actually deal with them and perform the sexual acts that they do minus the addiction? Seriously. Addiction and its affect on humans and their behavior is well documented. Both scientifically and in society's collective observations in how addicts operate and the changes in behavior caused by the addiction, particularly heroin which is a strongly physical addiction. Hence, the getting ill and sick upon withdrawal. A heroin addict is the most desperate of addicts. They turn into opportunists, searching for next chance to get $$ and get high. Often the fear of being ill is as bad as the need to get high. If you have a bunch of addicts eager to get with you, it's not because you are some stud. You are an easy opportunity. The path of least resistance. You think there is honor in that? It is no badge of honor to have junkies eager to get with your gullible ass, to the point where they calling friends over to expose them to the easy opportunity. As a youngster, nobody got the fellas together to run a train on the respectable girl they wanted as a girlfriend. You got your friends for the floozy who was a a loose and easy nut. Same principles apply here. You are just an easy mark because you come off as desperate and you overpay. I've had girls say, "why are you out here". They know their circumstances and how far they have fallen. If you are all caught up in the "monger life" and overpaying and all that, they recognize it as desperation and they take advantage. Please don't fool yourself.

Why do you think these girls disappear when they clean themselves up?? They don't need you any more. And the simps who keep in contact and track them down through social media, they may keep contact with you, but only because you continue to give them money / help when they need it. It has to be something in it for them.

So fellas, go out monger, bust your nuts and have fun. But please stop trying to act like the studly cool crew because you fucking dope fiends at will. Just stop. We have seen the pictures of these girls before addiction and / or after they clean up and leave the life. None of these women would touch any of you outside of a heroin addiction and you know it. Just stop.

Now for those who say I don't report anything, Heaven is alive and well. Saw her on Pulaski. She is still clearly getting high, but nowhere where she was. She had weight on her. I'm just going to say I saw her.

[QUOTE=Mumford1;6662274]Wow! 238 posts and none of you having any information to share on interactions with an actual female. Like I've said before. Let your next post be of an actual encounter with a female. That's what this forum is for. All you do is cry about people making it difficult for you to get pussy. Stop finger wagging and start contributing.[/QUOTE]I'm on my 4th or 5th screen name. You missed a lot of posts. Lmao!!

I'm not concerned with senior status, post count, or fitting in with / being accepted by any of you. Could care less. I'm past redundancy and repeating what been said. I'll report health and safety info as I get it. But I'm not repeatedly chiming in with BS for any of your approval or inclusion. In fact, with some of the fuck shit I read from you guys, I'm likely inclined to shy away from anything that would do that.

All things in life are dynamic. There are general "feels" and context around everything. You may not agree, but my post are related because they typically tie in to perspective and frame of thought as a monger. How we approach what we do. Most of you all have the wrong approach, whether you realize it or not. I just piss people off when they are in an echo chamber having all of their clown shot validated by other clowns, then here I come with the differing opinion putting things back in a more proper perspective. Most of the disdain for me is based in defensive posturing because my commentary often forces the juxtaposition of reality with the BS you all come here and tell yourselves.

[QUOTE=BusterHymen55;6662376]Well as someone who does actually contribute and report, I have no problem with HeadLuvr. Yes, he's arrogant, cocky, abrasive, confrontational, but at least he speaks his mind and is a straight shooter. Most of the stuff he says you can't refute or deny. He is simply speaking the truth. Now can he go about it in a more subtle way and be less condescending, absolutely!

But the fact of the matter is there is way too much grabass and tomfoolery going on in this forum with these posts. (Baltimore Section). I mean take a good look at the last 700 pages and 35,000+ posts for reference. Whether it be endless and ridiculous Kiara threads and posts, or 500+ reviews on the same provider that we already know about who is credible and legit (bolton hill redhead casey is a good example)

members constantly asking if someone is legit or not without contributing anything themselves, or someone asking for digits without putting any work in the field themselves, or has anyone seen (insert whomever) lately, or overpaying ridiculous GPS prices and but yet these very same people are the ones that bit*ch and complain about these providers overcharging (the irony is rich!) and one of my biggest pet peeves is seeing so-called senior members coming out of the woodwork every time someone reports on a new chick and asking for digits! Ditto for newbies with just two or three posts to their names, the list goes on and on!

Having said that, I do agree with your basic premise that this forum is about posting useful information on our dates and encounters with providers and looking to help out our fellow brethren in this game. But the sad truth of the matter is that 90% of these posts are the same redundant, tedious, tiresome, BS that gets constantly regurgitated and spewed on these message boards ad nauseum! Just my $0. 02! And for the record, you are good peeps in my book Mumford![/QUOTE]Thank you, Buster. Best back-handed compliment I ever received. LOL! At least you get it. You probably came up like me. Strong male figures (family and coaches) who got in my shit and pulled no punches. You understand everything ain't warm and fuzzy and some folks will call you in your bullshit. From childhood, people have been calling me out for my bullshit and pulling no punches. That's how I operate. Being abrasivly called out on my bullshit motivates me. My father was in my ass. My coaches, in my ass (yelling, yanked by the face mask, berated in front of the team). Even my mother would pull my card and tell me about my shit. It requires emotional intelligence, self reflection and most importantly. HUMILITY. Takes a real one to not get defensive and honestly consider a critical assessment. Am I harsh and abrasive as described. Yeah. LMAO! Do I give a fuck? No. LOL!! But in no way can anyone say I am not articulate and spewing nonsense. I'm opinionated as fuck, but I think hard and develop my opinions from a place of insight and knowledge and deep perspective.

Buster, you nailed it. A lot of "contributions" tjat don't actually contribute shit. I've said it before. Many here are ugly, old or longtime socially awkward. This forum is their entry to the cool club. They get waaaaaay to into this and create this false sense of confidence and superiority. This isn't some exclusive fraternity. Any jerk off with $20 and a hard dick can do this. The attempts to make this some exclusive group of "in the know" studs and players is beyond laughable and ridiculous is an understatement. Repetitive reports on the same person just to seem cool. Folks telling me to "put in work", but they all over the board asking for "digits". Dudes who won't pick up a chick without coming here to ask first. Eulogizing women you helped kill. The clown shit is in abundance. But everyone hates me for calling it out. I do or have done all the shit you guys do (minus fucking dirty SWs, ewwww) without any of your board dramatics. 20+ yrs getting my dick sucked in the streets. Difference is, I'm not proud of it. This isn't my entryway to the cool club.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6665804]Thank you, Buster. Best back-handed compliment I ever received. LOL! At least you get it. You probably came up like me. Strong male figures (family and coaches) who got in my shit and pulled no punches. You understand everything ain't warm and fuzzy and some folks will call you in your bullshit. From childhood, people have been calling me out for my bullshit and pulling no punches. That's how I operate. Being abrasivly called out on my bullshit motivates me. My father was in my ass. My coaches, in my ass (yelling, yanked by the face mask, berated in front of the team). Even my mother would pull my card and tell me about my shit. It requires emotional intelligence, self reflection and most importantly. HUMILITY. Takes a real one to not get defensive and honestly consider a critical assessment. Am I harsh and abrasive as described. Yeah. LMAO! Do I give a fuck? No. LOL!! But in no way can anyone say I am not articulate and spewing nonsense. I'm opinionated as fuck, but I think hard and develop my opinions from a place of insight and knowledge and deep perspective.

Buster, you nailed it. A lot of "contributions" tjat don't actually contribute shit. I've said it before. Many here are ugly, old or longtime socially awkward. This forum is their entry to the cool club. They get waaaaaay to into this and create this false sense of confidence and superiority. This isn't some exclusive fraternity. Any jerk off with $20 and a hard dick can do this. The attempts to make this some exclusive group of "in the know" studs and players is beyond laughable and ridiculous is an understatement. Repetitive reports on the same person just to seem cool. Folks telling me to "put in work", but they all over the board asking for "digits". Dudes who won't pick up a chick without coming here to ask first. Eulogizing women you helped kill. The clown shit is in abundance. But everyone hates me for calling it out. I do or have done all the shit you guys do (minus fucking dirty SWs, ewwww) without any of your board dramatics. 20+ yrs getting my dick sucked in the streets. Difference is, I'm not proud of it. This isn't my entryway to the cool club.[/QUOTE]Amen brother. and you are very welcome! No thanks necessary! Keep preachin' my man! Yes, I grew up in a strong family household with strict parents! Dad was very hard working (had 3 jobs and retired from the Navy). Made sure bills were paid and we had food on the table. Taught me the values of working hard, getting an education, and basically to be self-supporting and independent. I graduated from the University of Maryland at College Park (class of '94) with a BS degree in Business Management and Logistics. Was self-employed as an independent contractor, moderately successful, and very happy with my bachelorhood and freedom! Unfortunately, I had to move to Cyprus to take care of my ailing mom. Like yourself, I'm also a straight shooter and not a bullshitter. Tell it the way it is. I know a lot of people seem to have a problem with that but tough shit. And spot on with the second paragraph! My sentiments exactly! Agree 100% and basically everything I've mentioned! It's a big part of the reason why these Baltimore boards have gone to shit. Hell, If I wanted a clown show I'd go to a goddamn circus! LMAO!

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6665804]Thank you, Buster. Best back-handed compliment I ever received. LOL! At least you get it. You probably came up like me. Strong male figures (family and coaches) who got in my shit and pulled no punches. You understand everything ain't warm and fuzzy and some folks will call you in your bullshit. From childhood, people have been calling me out for my bullshit and pulling no punches. That's how I operate. Being abrasivly called out on my bullshit motivates me. My father was in my ass. My coaches, in my ass (yelling, yanked by the face mask, berated in front of the team). Even my mother would pull my card and tell me about my shit. It requires emotional intelligence, self reflection and most importantly. HUMILITY. Takes a real one to not get defensive and honestly consider a critical assessment. Am I harsh and abrasive as described. Yeah. LMAO! Do I give a fuck? No. LOL!! But in no way can anyone say I am not articulate and spewing nonsense. I'm opinionated as fuck, but I think hard and develop my opinions from a place of insight and knowledge and deep perspective.

Buster, you nailed it. A lot of "contributions" tjat don't actually contribute shit. I've said it before. Many here are ugly, old or longtime socially awkward. This forum is their entry to the cool club. They get waaaaaay to into this and create this false sense of confidence and superiority. This isn't some exclusive fraternity. Any jerk off with $20 and a hard dick can do this. The attempts to make this some exclusive group of "in the know" studs and players is beyond laughable and ridiculous is an understatement. Repetitive reports on the same person just to seem cool. Folks telling me to "put in work", but they all over the board asking for "digits". Dudes who won't pick up a chick without coming here to ask first. Eulogizing women you helped kill. The clown shit is in abundance. But everyone hates me for calling it out. I do or have done all the shit you guys do (minus fucking dirty SWs, ewwww) without any of your board dramatics. 20+ yrs getting my dick sucked in the streets. Difference is, I'm not proud of it. This isn't my entryway to the cool club.[/QUOTE]One muthafuckin hundred man. I think you covered it all on this one here. But they'll still try to punch holes in this with witty dumb ass comments.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6665782]I'm on my 4th or 5th screen name. You missed a lot of posts. Lmao!!

I'm not concerned with senior status, post count, or fitting in with / being accepted by any of you. Could care less. I'm past redundancy and repeating what been said. I'll report health and safety info as I get it. But I'm not repeatedly chiming in with BS for any of your approval or inclusion. In fact, with some of the fuck shit I read from you guys, I'm likely inclined to shy away from anything that would do that.

All things in life are dynamic. There are general "feels" and context around everything. You may not agree, but my post are related because they typically tie in to perspective and frame of thought as a monger. How we approach what we do. Most of you all have the wrong approach, whether you realize it or not. I just piss people off when they are in an echo chamber having all of their clown shot validated by other clowns, then here I come with the differing opinion putting things back in a more proper perspective. Most of the disdain for me is based in defensive posturing because my commentary often forces the juxtaposition of reality with the BS you all come here and tell yourselves.[/QUOTE]I've been in this game since 1986 and brother you are spot on. I've been with hundreds of girls in multiple states (I traveled quite a bit). I stay away this not to brag, I just have been at it a long time and in every case the act has been 100% transactional. This isn't the loveboat. I've managed to not get rolled, busted by the cops or taken to the cleaners because I've played by the rules and I always and I mean always treated the act as nothing more than a transaction. I remember a girl in Detroit laughing about the idiots that think she was actually attracted to them. It don't matter what you look like or how big your dick is, they don't care. Treat them with respect, keep it honest and most of the time you'll get the same in kind. Don't think though that these girls think about marching down the aisle. They are addicts. Period. I say that not to disrespect anyone just echoing the truth.

Just curious how many of my fellow mongers regularly get replies two or more hours after trying to contact a provider, and of those how many are actually still game by that point?

I msged someone tonight, got my first reply 20 minutes later. Tried to confirm with the second msg and get on my way. And thank fuck she hadn't given me the address by then because she went silent for a full two hours, then after that suddenly texted "still interested?

No, I am very fucking much not still interested. I have long since found someone who isn't nodding off to give my money to, and left the area without thinking about your inattentive ass.

[QUOTE=SymptomAddict;6673838]Just curious how many of my fellow mongers regularly get replies two or more hours after trying to contact a provider, and of those how many are actually still game by that point?

I msged someone tonight, got my first reply 20 minutes later. Tried to confirm with the second msg and get on my way. And thank fuck she hadn't given me the address by then because she went silent for a full two hours, then after that suddenly texted "still interested?

No, I am very fucking much not still interested. I have long since found someone who isn't nodding off to give my money to, and left the area without thinking about your inattentive ass.[/QUOTE]It's happens too often. And it's aggravating as hell when it happens. What I do is play with them and get their address and pretend like I am there and even have them give me their room number. Then when she gets asks if I'm coming up, that's when I go off on her. They'll give some dumbass excusea about falling asleep or their phone dying or some other personal calamity, but I still proceed to make them feel stupid. And then tell them why their ain't making any money.

[QUOTE=SymptomAddict;6673838]Just curious how many of my fellow mongers regularly get replies two or more hours after trying to contact a provider, and of those how many are actually still game by that point?

I msged someone tonight, got my first reply 20 minutes later. Tried to confirm with the second msg and get on my way. And thank fuck she hadn't given me the address by then because she went silent for a full two hours, then after that suddenly texted "still interested?

No, I am very fucking much not still interested. I have long since found someone who isn't nodding off to give my money to, and left the area without thinking about your inattentive ass.[/QUOTE]This happens a lot. Sometimes it might be a few hours and sometimes it might be a day or two. Girls tell me all the time guys book and don't show up all the time. With that bit of knowledge. If rents due. She will most likely be over booking. Might lead to rushed sessions. You've got to use this bit of knowledge for your personal gain. Mongers fall into two basic categories. Fresh meat or Reliable client. If you're fresh meat, it's your job to build trust with the provider. This will limit some of the headache. Reliable clients tend to get priority because they have built some trust and respect. I'm referring to booking appointments. Remember never give a deposit or let your guard down.

When I come to Baltimore, I give girls a few hours advance notice. Text message (s) go out. I see who responds and then book an approximate time. One thing I've learned is, I'm always trying to be respectful of the providers time. Sometimes I get text messages back that say I'm short on rent really need your help today. I will prioritize her request. The provider asking for help has to come in a timely response. I'm not going to waste another girls time when I have already booked a visit. A little bit of respect goes a long ways and will get you in the door for future visits. At the location. I'm not going to wait very long maybe 10 to 15 minutes. Several mongers have passed on this bit of information including DMV below. Moving on relieves a lot of frustration... this might be the perfect time to start looking for Plan B. Sometimes I get text messages in this situation 1 to 2 hours later. I don't know what's happened on her end and I just move on. Politely respond with I've left the area maybe sometime in the future we can get together.

Fresh Meat: There's nothing like kitty with a new provider for the first time. With that said, it's a crapshoot, sometimes because the provider has regulars, and in a lot of cases has overbooked. Always have Plan B ready to go.

If girls are not going to be respectful of your time, just move on. Never show your mad.

Hope to read more comments on this topic.

Exchanged messages, showed up, laid the donation on the table and then BANG BANG BANG some guy pounding on the door acting like her husband. He didn't know I carry so I picked up the money, moved across the room opposite from the door told him to open it while he was looking into the business end moved them both into the bathroom, maybe helped myself to a few things and went home.

Stay away

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[QUOTE=Gosling982;6690475]Exchanged messages, showed up, laid the donation on the table and then BANG BANG BANG some guy pounding on the door acting like her husband. He didn't know I carry so I picked up the money, moved across the room opposite from the door told him to open it while he was looking into the business end moved them both into the bathroom, maybe helped myself to a few things and went home.

Stay away

[URL]https://comeescort.weebly.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]M.

Nice info for your first post! Tell us more about the setup? When was this? Where was the spot located in Baltimore? What was the donation agreed to? What service was expected? Were the pics accurate? What time of day was this?

Good thing you carry.

MJ1.

[QUOTE=MrJusnupin1;6691019]M.

Nice info for your first post! Tell us more about the setup? When was this? Where was the spot located in Baltimore? What was the donation agreed to? What service was expected? Were the pics accurate? What time of day was this?

Good thing you carry.

MJ1.[/QUOTE]Are you serious? This man saved his own ass but you do realize he proceeded with an armed robbery? Why in the fuck would he sit here and give you identifying details on his felony? Heed the fucking warning, avoid the provider and chill with the nosy clown shit. I can't believe you really asked this dude to publicly provide further self incriminating details. It's bad enough he did it himself. A safety warning would have been sufficient for this board. The rest was some clown bragging shit that didn't need to be mentioned. But you asking 21 questions after the fact is even worse. Smh.

[QUOTE=HeadChaser;6691959]Are you serious? This man saved his own ass but you do realize he proceeded with an armed robbery? Why in the fuck would he sit here and give you identifying details on his felony? Heed the fucking warning, avoid the provider and chill with the nosy clown shit. I can't believe you really asked this dude to publicly provide further self incriminating details. It's bad enough he did it himself. A safety warning would have been sufficient for this board. The rest was some clown bragging shit that didn't need to be mentioned. But you asking 21 questions after the fact is even worse. Smh.[/QUOTE]And yes. I am highly likely to let you be the arbiter of what I post here. ROTFLMAO. Assuming you believe everything that you read also.

I will not respond further on this topic. Way too mature deliberate in my thought process for that one.

Let's just say you move on... He/she can feel free to respond via PM if they choose to...

MJ1.

[QUOTE=Gosling982;6690475]Exchanged messages, showed up, laid the donation on the table and then BANG BANG BANG some guy pounding on the door acting like her husband. He didn't know I carry so I picked up the money, moved across the room opposite from the door told him to open it while he was looking into the business end moved them both into the bathroom, maybe helped myself to a few things and went home.

Stay away

[URL]https://comeescort.weebly.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]She did it to me as well.

[QUOTE=WillieSimpson;6693190]I connected with Victoria again recently. Very nice lady to spend time with. Very laid back, great conversation, good sense of humor and amazing oral skills. With lots of attention to the boys and no gag reflex. She really took her time again making the final explosion intense. She really enjoys what she does. YMMV but I will be back for more.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SteveThompson4;6693183]I saw her once. Pretty girl, nice body, very nice, maybe a little shy. I would recommend.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JackNicholson3;6693177]My first visit with my fav started at 30 ish minutes. My last visit before she left was close to 2 hours. Covered only. Pretty safe location.[/QUOTE]Damn Victoria! You managed to create three separate accounts! I'm impressed!