Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

[QUOTE=XxxMail77;3971616]So I recently joined SA and so far here's my experience:

1st Girl. Messaged me back and was eager to meet. Meet for lunch sameday and she looks NOTHING like her photos. I mean you can tell they are "based" on her somehow (at least a few) but overall just total turn off. Expecting a 7 and got a 4. 5.

2nd Girl. A few back and forth messages then gave me her number. We started texting and sending a few selfies etc. Scheduled to meet for drinks texted that night and she was still with a friend (I told her 10 and was out of work early) She said "thought we were doing 10" No worry yeah just hit me up when your ready. Never heard back. Got a few texts since but they are few now. (we were on a daily text to each other previously.

3rd Girl. Meet for lunch, she's cute definitely girl in the photos. Then messages me "seems you weren't into me" and shit?? I'm like yeah your cute, we seemed to be on the same page for most everything so yeah I like you. She's disabled / enabled her profile like 4-5 times since we started talking. Still not sure on this one.

4th Girl. Super cute, interets align. Text back and forth for a week or so. Meet for lunch she's a little skinnier than photos, but definitly still a solid hottie. Had a good lunch and I'm feeling it. Then comms are a bit spotty. "Busy at work" Then her Ex pushes her down a stairs and she apparently lived with him. Now she needs to move. Then her car A / C is broke. I feel like I'm being setup for a large $$$ Ask soon.

Then some misc girls who don't meet ever and just want to text / send pics for an allowance. Some that think $100 just to meet is acceptable. Some asking for $$ for just BJ? I don't know maybe I'm not playing the game right but so far it's been an adventure for sure, but I'm not sure I see anything coming out of it for me. Given I have about 6-8 hours a week I can be available and I can't host so maybe my situation is just so fucked that I'm not going to make it work outside of the Escort game.[/QUOTE]I'd say your results are typical of what I have seen from there too. Only really had one gal that wasn't like you have described but she too eventually started having things come up needing money for this and for that and I just finally stopped seeing her and responding.

Others seemed to have better luck or just better at keeping on point than me.

Definitely need to stick to your guns and use your big brain instead of the little one in the sugar bowl.

[QUOTE=ShelbyJS;3971812]I'd say your results are typical of what I have seen from there too. Only really had one gal that wasn't like you have described but she too eventually started having things come up needing money for this and for that and I just finally stopped seeing her and responding.

Others seemed to have better luck or just better at keeping on point than me.

Definitely need to stick to your guns and use your big brain instead of the little one in the sugar bowl.[/QUOTE]No offense but you guys are giving each other horrible advice. Send a few charming messages and then start closing. If you don't fuck her within 3 days of making contact, you probably won't. If you like going to lunch and texting a bunch that's fine, but quit pretending you're Tryna fuck. Close it or move on. There is a virtually limitless pool of prospects.

If you're looking for sex, rather than a penpal or a friend to hang out with, I suggest the following. Include "short term" in one of your first few messages. That puts it out there right away that you're not looking for anything closely resembling a real relationship. Since I've started doing that, it's really helped to save some time for me (and them I suppose) and to give some pretty good insight into which ones are open to P4 P. If I'm going to meet someone for coffee or a drink, I want to know that unless one of us is an ax murderer, an actual physical encounter is the next thing that's going to happen. I don't mind being sized up, and I certainly don't want anyone to feel like they HAVE to spread their legs for me, but on the other hand, I'm not on SA to try to convince someone to enter into the realm of P4P. They need to already be there, and "short term" seems to be a great help in that regard.

[QUOTE=EarlyCuyler;3973856]If you're looking for sex, rather than a penpal or a friend to hang out with, I suggest the following. Include "short term" in one of your first few messages. That puts it out there right away that you're not looking for anything closely resembling a real relationship. Since I've started doing that, it's really helped to save some time for me (and them I suppose) and to give some pretty good insight into which ones are open to P4 P. If I'm going to meet someone for coffee or a drink, I want to know that unless one of us is an ax murderer, an actual physical encounter is the next thing that's going to happen. I don't mind being sized up, and I certainly don't want anyone to feel like they HAVE to spread their legs for me, but on the other hand, I'm not on SA to try to convince someone to enter into the realm of P4P. They need to already be there, and "short term" seems to be a great help in that regard.[/QUOTE]I like this. Thanks!

In my SA profile I said that I am looking for Fun. When I contact girls they ask me to define 'fun'. What should I be telling them? I am basically looking for sex, may not be the very first meet. I also tell them I am interested in FWB arrangement. So far I didn't have any luck after two months of effort.

[QUOTE=EarlyCuyler;3973856]If you're looking for sex, rather than a penpal or a friend to hang out with, I suggest the following. Include "short term" in one of your first few messages. That puts it out there right away that you're not looking for anything closely resembling a real relationship. Since I've started doing that, it's really helped to save some time for me (and them I suppose) and to give some pretty good insight into which ones are open to P4 P. If I'm going to meet someone for coffee or a drink, I want to know that unless one of us is an ax murderer, an actual physical encounter is the next thing that's going to happen. I don't mind being sized up, and I certainly don't want anyone to feel like they HAVE to spread their legs for me, but on the other hand, I'm not on SA to try to convince someone to enter into the realm of P4P. They need to already be there, and "short term" seems to be a great help in that regard.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JMaaathew;3975987]In my SA profile I said that I am looking for Fun. When I contact girls they ask me to define 'fun'. What should I be telling them? I am basically looking for sex, may not be the very first meet. I also tell them I am interested in FWB arrangement. So far I didn't have any luck after two months of effort.[/QUOTE]If you are not having luck after 2 months, try something else. What you are doing is not working lmao.

Here's a response "By fun I mean I want to meet someone cool who I can get together with every couple weeks and just relax and chill and enjoy all the fun parts of a relationship without any drama or bs" or something to that effect. Make your answer sound like what you know they want.

But I would never say I am looking for "fun" it sounds gay lmfaooo.

[QUOTE=SoCurious;3965692][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8734a20d-d409-4c3e-aeb6-4c3ed20c4a60[/URL]

Fellas I met this one while visiting your great state. I've visited a few times and have been able to meet a few off of SA pretty easy. It helps that I can host at my hotel. This one is great. Ask for 500 but later took my offer of 2.[/QUOTE]100 for car head. And I hear it was outstanding!

[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;3976439]100 for car head. And I hear it was outstanding![/QUOTE]She really is a pretty cool girl, and is down for anything as far as I could tell. Set up is super easy for those who are struggling. Hard to fuck this one up and she's hot (but not really my type. Seems too much like a pro for me).

[QUOTE=ZakkWylde;3976711]She really is a pretty cool girl, and is down for anything as far as I could tell. Set up is super easy for those who are struggling. Hard to fuck this one up and she's hot (but not really my type. Seems too much like a pro for me).[/QUOTE]I dabbled back in the SA pool and signed up for a month after a long hiatus. She is basically all these things. Very easy to talk to, easy set up, and she is one of the hotter girls (that are real) on SA. I would say she did seem like a pro and seemed almost too easy / experienced with everything. But still enjoyed it and will probably repeat for overall efficiency.

Also on another note amazingashley007 or whatever her name is now did dash on me so be careful.

[QUOTE=Ertonfc;3979197]I dabbled back in the SA pool and signed up for a month after a long hiatus. She is basically all these things. Very easy to talk to, easy set up, and she is one of the hotter girls (that are real) on SA. I would say she did seem like a pro and seemed almost too easy / experienced with everything. But still enjoyed it and will probably repeat for overall efficiency.

Also on another note amazingashley007 or whatever her name is now did dash on me so be careful.[/QUOTE]I agree with the other comments. I dabbled with her and she is definitely a professional. Very open minded and very beautiful. She has good story but not sure I believe it. She always asks for high amount but I offered $. 2 and she was all over it. I did have to get a room but it was worth it. Definitely worth repeating.

[QUOTE=SoCurious;3965692][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8734a20d-d409-4c3e-aeb6-4c3ed20c4a60[/URL]

Fellas I met this one while visiting your great state. I've visited a few times and have been able to meet a few off of SA pretty easy. It helps that I can host at my hotel. This one is great. Ask for 500 but later took my offer of 2.[/QUOTE]She's got huge pharma issues. But yeah. Still a freak.

[QUOTE=Ertonfc;3979197]I dabbled back in the SA pool and signed up for a month after a long hiatus. She is basically all these things. Very easy to talk to, easy set up, and she is one of the hotter girls (that are real) on SA. I would say she did seem like a pro and seemed almost too easy / experienced with everything. But still enjoyed it and will probably repeat for overall efficiency.

Also on another note amazingashley007 or whatever her name is now did dash on me so be careful.[/QUOTE]Was she ever not cash and dash?

[QUOTE=MljThick7;3981567]I agree with the other comments. I dabbled with her and she is definitely a professional. Very open minded and very beautiful. She has good story but not sure I believe it. She always asks for high amount but I offered $. 2 and she was all over it. I did have to get a room but it was worth it. Definitely worth repeating.[/QUOTE]She's beautiful and appears classy (when she's not high), VERY open minded and talented, very inconsistent and unreliable, she's pro-am with a big appetite for adult fun (to match her big pharma appetite). She seems to be THE village bicycle and I will not partake in her pool of risks.

The pictures look good, but they must have be taken over a long period of time, because she is currently still pretty, but also worn looking. She is definitely a pro with some drama and has a ghetto handler. I suspect pharma issues, but can't confirm. I'm not going back for seconds.

Very sweet, shy, country girl, struggling to get by. Typical single mom with some baby daddy drama. I saw her a few months, and would recommend, she just wasn't my type.