Does Monger's weight matter to a provider.
[QUOTE=Alorian; 1883218]I am still a newbie at this but have seen two providers from this board and am interested in others. Both of the ones I have seen are not in the area any longer. (Little Izzy and Lady Heather) My question is how receptive are the providers to heavy men? When my wife and I split I became pretty depressed and let myself go a bit. I am around 300 right now and am starting to work on my weight loss. I would like to see some of the providers here but I feel self conscious since part of why my wife left is because my weight bothered her and a girl that admits she loves me won't date me because of my weight.
I am otherwise a clean person who tries to dress nice and smell good.
Maybe this will be helpful to others who are on the fence about making the plunge.
Thanks in advance for any replies.[/QUOTE]Hey Alorian,
You know many of the known providers in this board and elsewhere are decent. Some advertiser in BP note that they are BBW and they are upfront about their body type. I think if you are upfront that you are Big Handsome Guy (BHG) who is DD free and clean and have donation in hand it should be ok.
We have providers reading this thread that might chime in. Happy safe dreaming BHG.
M410
Speaking in third person?
[QUOTE=Potsy;1883917]If someone can tell me how to do it I will be happy to post the text messages she send him trying to get him to go back to the hotel[/QUOTE]Almost sounds to me like you're the subject monger. Ain't no shame if that's the case. Either way, it's good you got the details out in the open regarding this chic.
Your size is not important
No girl will really care about it as long as you treat her right and have your donation. It's not like when you call or text them you describe your self like your bidding on a date with them. Most of them speak green (money) and some of the ones mentioned on this board have great reviews, do your research on girls if you are so subconscious about yourself. Remember they aren't there to date you long term.
[QUOTE=Alorian; 1883218]I am still a newbie at this but have seen two providers from this board and am interested in others. Both of the ones I have seen are not in the area any longer. (Little Izzy and Lady Heather) My question is how receptive are the providers to heavy men? When my wife and I split I became pretty depressed and let myself go a bit. I am around 300 right now and am starting to work on my weight loss. I would like to see some of the providers here but I feel self conscious since part of why my wife left is because my weight bothered her and a girl that admits she loves me won't date me because of my weight.
I am otherwise a clean person who tries to dress nice and smell good.
Maybe this will be helpful to others who are on the fence about making the plunge.
Thanks in advance for any replies.[/QUOTE]
Re: Question for providers
I'm in the same boat. I tend to stick to providers I've been with because it's very difficult to get started with someone new because of the anxiety of how the provider will react to my size. In fact I haven't seen anyone in a while because the last provider I had an established relationship with moved. I'd be curious to know if there were any providers that were Ok with that or, ones that actually liked that body type. Replies to the thread are helpful to others but I'm Ok with PMs.
[QUOTE=Alorian; 1883218]I am still a newbie at this but have seen two providers from this board and am interested in others. Both of the ones I have seen are not in the area any longer. (Little Izzy and Lady Heather) My question is how receptive are the providers to heavy men? When my wife and I split I became pretty depressed and let myself go a bit. I am around 300 right now and am starting to work on my weight loss. I would like to see some of the providers here but I feel self conscious since part of why my wife left is because my weight bothered her and a girl that admits she loves me won't date me because of my weight.
I am otherwise a clean person who tries to dress nice and smell good.
Maybe this will be helpful to others who are on the fence about making the plunge.
Thanks in advance for any replies.[/QUOTE]
Providers who like big guys
Just got done with my second visit with Gater. I am a fairly large guy myself so I can say with confidence, try her, you'll like each other!
There is some very good ladies out there
I'm also in the same boat, being a big size man and just an average size boy to entertain with. I don't get out in the game too often but there is a few good ladies out there that I have tried and have no issue with size (body or other size issues) , they are just there to make sure you are comfortable and have a great time. I've been lucky enough to enjoy time with a few on the board and there is a few I would like to try but also worry about the concerns and experience with them. I usually stick to the well reviewed ones. PM me if you have specific details.
Thank you for your responses
I posted the question about how providers feel about heavier guys earlier. I wanted to thank those who responded by pm and on this board in public. I have received many encouraging messages from both providers and other members. Part of what I was hoping to accomplish was put my mind and hopefully others minds at ease about seeing a provider and not feeling ashamed or embarrassed or uncomfortable. I am pretty pleased with the replies I have received and will be enjoying the services of some if our wonderful ladies soon.
We should start a do not take my call list
[QUOTE=Worldsoffun; 1890623]Call me crazy. I always prefer to see a lady without management. I treat every lady with respect. But if any friend wants to "get into it" with me for any "perceived" issue, that friend is going to carry around reminders of that "get into it" encounter for a long time. That has happened twice during my years. So if there are any ladies with "management" out there, please don't ever accept an offer for me to come visit. I have plenty of good references out there and I don't think there is a lady that can say that I haven't treated them with respect. Guys. If you know a lady has management, you are increasing your odds of having a problem if you visit. You become dependent upon their attitude or dependency on drugs.
Mongers be safe. Management beware. Ladies we love you!
WOF[/QUOTE]Well, WOF, I have the same philosophy as you. Love the ladies. No use for managers. I don't think I have ever knowingly dated a lady with a manager. I just have this image. And not a pleasant one. I guess the question is, how can we tell? What are the signs? Well, first sign for me is if I Google? The phone number and more than one girl's ad shows up. What's with that, anyway?"Press one for Annie the Angel, press two for Beulla the *****, press three for Darla the Digbat, press four for Mondo the Manager." Another? If the pics are too good to be true they probably are. On the other hand, I have seen some that were so obviously bad that they had to be taken by someone doing "bad" on purpose. Just sayin'.
So, put me on your list. If you have a manager please don't take my call, either.
Any one has any 411 on this one
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That's Shelly or Lindsay.
[QUOTE=Jimhatz;1891313][url]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/precious-to-the-eye-luscious-to-the-touch-23/8071388[/url][/QUOTE]She comes around here every few months or so. Those are not really her pics though. She has other ads that she runs as well.
I've never dreamed of her, but she has been reported as being attractive with good, but certainly not spectacular, reviews.
These are the other two ads that she usually runs. You can check the oThER board for her reviews. According to the other board, she has been slipping a bit in her service. Also, I believe that she has management but that there have not been any issues.
I have read that the pics of Shelly are the closest pics for accuracy.
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