Stupid Shit In San Diego

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6759035]Guys, sure you can ask about favorite spots, favorite girls, but asking about someone's favorite UTR is not likely going to be answered.

Establishing an UTR girl takes time, money, and a little chemistry. It is more a relationship at that point than just a business transaction.

They have to trust you, and even like you on some level. Just learning the name and place of an UTR won't necessarily get you UTR privileges.

That doesn't mean UTR action is exclusive, but it's usually reserved for a few. Maybe only one, if he's got the magic.

To get your own UTR, spend the time, money, and charm with a non-full service provider and see how much she will allow.

Once you developed your own UTR girl, you'll understand why they are a personal provider.

Like I mentioned before, once you find your UTR favorite, or unicorn, try hard not to fall in love.

Max.[/QUOTE]So true. UTR Girls are golden if you find the right one.

I walked into Castenedas to grab a burrito and two older Asians were at the counter ordering food. My spidey monger senses were at alert. I took a closer look and both girls were wearing unattractive sweats and jeans. They both looked pretty rough, one may have had acne. I walked up and ordered as they were just hanging out at the counter. I sat in the back and yup they both walked into Pine. LOL.

Jeez, I guess that is what they look like in the wild and with lights on. I am crossing Pine spa off the list.

[QUOTE=Manuel128;6763322]I walked into Castenedas to grab a burrito and two older Asians were at the counter ordering food. My spidey monger senses were at alert. I took a closer look and both girls were wearing unattractive sweats and jeans. They both looked pretty rough, one may have had acne. I walked up and ordered as they were just hanging out at the counter. I sat in the back and yup they both walked into Pine. LOL.
Jeez, I guess that is what they look like in the wild and with lights on. I am crossing Pine spa off the list.[/QUOTE]Like seeing a Stripper exit out the back door of the Club in her street clothes at the end of her shift. They dress down on purpose so not to attract attention, but why complain about it, it's your spank-bank imagination that gets you across the finish line anyway.

Couldn't agree more. One way of losing your UTR is to share too much about the special benefits you get (and of course its just just you right. I mean she couldn't possibly be a UTR for some other guy LOL! I've actually found Chinese AMP girls kind of open to the experience of at least communicating outside the AMP environment. Right now I probably have four or five I correspond with via WeChat. They let me know when they will be back in town or where they are going to next. And it seems to pay off with better sessions and occasional encounters beyond the AMP environment. You have to play the long game, but its been fun for me and hopefully for them too.

[QUOTE=AeroStartC;6760108]So true. UTR Girls are golden if you find the right one.[/QUOTE]

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I mean it takes 5 minutes to scroll and find the generic info he's asking for.

Whether a lazy newbie or LE, best to let them do their own work if they can't offer even minimal evidence that they are legit customers.

[QUOTE=ReyKittyHawk;6776624]Saw a post. Wondering if he's LE.

His very first post.

He says he is an active Monger. Says he's become a regular as some places, but doesn't give names of those places.

Says he's gotten FS at one place in and County, but again no name of the place or provider.

Says he gets FS at a place in Oceanside and Temecula, but still no names.

Then at the end he asks for places that offer FS, and says PMs are ok.

I sent a PM requesting a few names from him to see if he is legit and can share something. So far he hasn't responded.

Since I have seen the North County LE crack down close spa after spa, I'm a bit leary of new guys asking for FS locations in their first post.

Maybe I'm too careful, but if the first post gives nothing, but is asking for FS locations I am suspicious. Maybe he's being careful too, but it makes me think of LE right away.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lion1;6776734]I mean it takes 5 minutes to scroll and find the generic info he's asking for.

Whether a lazy newbie or LE, best to let them do their own work if they can't offer even minimal evidence that they are legit customers.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I don't even bother with newbies that claims they've been hobbying for years, been to "lots" of places, but no posts / reviews and their first post is to ask for specific information. That's why I keep my inbox full so I don't continue getting PMs from them asking for intel.

Agreed. For me theres an unspoken rule. If you want specifics, then earn the right to be repected here by providing detailed and relevant information of your experiences. When I read "Long time lurker, first time poster" I basically ignore the rest of the message. Same goes for PMs. Its occurred to me more than once that the vast majority of hobbyists here in SD share NOTHING of their experiences but basically use this and a couple of other sites for information. Think of how many individuals post here weekly. And compare that to the number of guys who frequent the most popular indies, spas and AAMPS. I don't mind sharing experiences here, but I've become more circumspect in recent times.

[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;6776845]Yeah, I don't even bother with newbies that claims they've been hobbying for years, been to "lots" of places, but no posts / reviews and their first post is to ask for specific information. That's why I keep my inbox full so I don't continue getting PMs from them asking for intel.[/QUOTE]

Send me one of your UTR's! LOL.

[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;6776845]Yeah, I don't even bother with newbies that claims they've been hobbying for years, been to "lots" of places, but no posts / reviews and their first post is to ask for specific information. That's why I keep my inbox full so I don't continue getting PMs from them asking for intel.[/QUOTE]

More like send me a 'list" of all your favorite places, ATFs, and your UTR women.

[QUOTE=DMichaels69;6777642]Send me one of your UTR's! LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;6776845]Yeah, I don't even bother with newbies that claims they've been hobbying for years, been to "lots" of places, but no posts / reviews and their first post is to ask for specific information. That's why I keep my inbox full so I don't continue getting PMs from them asking for intel.[/QUOTE]We can probably count on a very small number of mongers on this board that truly do contribute whether it's a review or information from personal experience. New Kids on the Block need to contribute several times with both reviews and verifiable information. Lurkers are ignored. Mongers with personal agendas are ignored. I think there are fewer than a dozen mongers on this board that I trust their contributions. Earn your stripes then you'll get attention.

[QUOTE=Manuel128;6763322]I walked into Castenedas to grab a burrito and two older Asians were at the counter ordering food. My spidey monger senses were at alert. I took a closer look and both girls were wearing unattractive sweats and jeans. They both looked pretty rough, one may have had acne. I walked up and ordered as they were just hanging out at the counter. I sat in the back and yup they both walked into Pine. LOL.

Jeez, I guess that is what they look like in the wild and with lights on. I am crossing Pine spa off the list.[/QUOTE]Pine was one of the first places I frequented regularly back in the day when it was Hana- they had some pretty impressive talent back then. Guess not so much anymore. 5.

[QUOTE=Five;6777936]Pine was one of the first places I frequented regularly back in the day when it was Hana- they had some pretty impressive talent back then. Guess not so much anymore. 5.[/QUOTE]It doesn't take much to get my imagination going and understand when providers wear civilian clothing out. The two I saw were not attractive and this is coming from someone who doesn't mind seeing grannies from time to time. LOL.

I have nothing against Pine, I have never been as the place always seemed to charge higher than places nearby. Who knows maybe the two were dropping off food to their friends and didn't work there. Manny.

[QUOTE=SirBishop;6777869]We can probably count on a very small number of mongers on this board that truly do contribute whether it's a review or information from personal experience. New Kids on the Block need to contribute several times with both reviews and verifiable information. Lurkers are ignored. Mongers with personal agendas are ignored. I think there are fewer than a dozen mongers on this board that I trust their contributions. Earn your stripes then you'll get attention.[/QUOTE]I'm relatively new at this hobby and very new to this board. I am trying to contribute where I can but my experience is lacking and thus I don't have as much to contribute as more experienced posters like yourself.

Maybe we need a mentorship program? I could definitely use some tips from someone who has been in this hobby a long time. So far I have been lucky and haven't had any terrible experiences but I still have lots to learn and tons of questions.

[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;6776845]Yeah, I don't even bother with newbies that claims they've been hobbying for years, been to "lots" of places, but no posts / reviews and their first post is to ask for specific information. That's why I keep my inbox full so I don't continue getting PMs from them asking for intel.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ToddRichards12;6778027]I'm relatively new at this hobby and very new to this board. I am trying to contribute where I can but my experience is lacking and thus I don't have as much to contribute as more experienced posters like yourself.

Maybe we need a mentorship program? I could definitely use some tips from someone who has been in this hobby a long time. So far I have been lucky and haven't had any terrible experiences but I still have lots to learn and tons of questions.[/QUOTE]Here's a quick tip to get you started. Join Humaniplex (HX), see a few ladies there and rate each other. Tell us about those experiences. HX on its own is well situated to help you avoid the terrible experience with its rating system. HX may seem daunting at first but take time to look at each of its features. Rating is how the boys and girls there know each other is safe and not a rip off.