Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=BobVac21;2434591]After much lurking, signed up last week on SA. Have gotten heavy marketing from Kelsowellso. , who is also on SD4 Me. She wants a high priced restaurant for a first meet. Any more info than what is already posted below?

Got a picture request from DEE DEE, [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ecf1f62a/view?interests-my-favorites[/URL] . Any intel? Thanks.

Bob.[/QUOTE]I have talked to kelsowellso as well. Although I haven't pulled the trigger yet, she was willing to give me a BJ in the car for 100. She gets in touch almost every day wanting to get together. She said 200 a week would work for her. Good luck.

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NikkiDy (31). Knoxville.

Avoid this time-waster. On Saturday, we made arrangements to meet in west Knox for Sunday lunch and then (if we both felt comfortable) some additional activities. We were communicating via the site where she was near wifi since she stated that she had no minutes on her phone. The next day, I sent her a message on SA 2 hrs before our meeting time, but got no response. Since I needed to do some things over in west Knox anyway, I took the chance and headed over anyway. Guess what? No show. So I had a nice meal, ran my errands, and engaged my back-up plan (ALWAYS have a backup plan, gents).

I waited to see how long it would take for her to get in touch with me. It was Monday when she messaged me "Sorry, I still don't have a phone" and "Are you busy today?" Asked her why I would want to after what she did. Got no response. Prompted her the following day and she stated she didn't feel like she blew me off. After some back and forth messages, we agreed to a fresh start.

Set a new meeting for this evening closer to her location. She even confirmed it 15 min before the meet time. Guess what? No show again. So, I engaged my backup plan. Saw she got back on the SA site 3. 5 hrs after our meet time, However, she did not contact me. So, I know she is just malicious (versus something coming up).

So, avoid the worthless time waster.

SouthernJohn.

Southern John,

You are correct to always have a back-up plan and I feel your pain on the no shows, but have some patience with these girls. I will tell you about one of my experiences.

I started texting a girl in Nashville and we agreed to meet for Lunch when I was in town for Business. Well she cancelled. No biggie as I was in town for Business.

A few weeks later we started texting again. We would set up meetings and she cancelled twice (her coming to me). I figured she was fake and running a scam.

She always notified me and kept in touch and since she was coming to me she wasn't wasting much of my time.

Well, after three times we finally hook up and it was the best sex I've ever had.

We start off with some DFK, get naked and turns out she is a freak. She licks my balls, gives me a rimjob and then lets me stick it in her ass and then lets me cum on her face. Felt like a pornstar LOL.

I had pretty much given up on this girl, but I never burned any bridges. With girls of this age you got to have alot of patience and a backup plan. There are some good ones on [URL]SA.com[/URL].

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NikkiDy (31). Knoxville.

Avoid this time-waster. On Saturday, we made arrangements to meet in west Knox for Sunday lunch and then (if we both felt comfortable) some additional activities. We were communicating via the site where she was near wifi since she stated that she had no minutes on her phone. The next day, I sent her a message on SA 2 hrs before our meeting time, but got no response. Since I needed to do some things over in west Knox anyway, I took the chance and headed over anyway. Guess what? No show. So I had a nice meal, ran my errands, and engaged my back-up plan (ALWAYS have a backup plan, gents).

I waited to see how long it would take for her to get in touch with me. It was Monday when she messaged me "Sorry, I still don't have a phone" and "Are you busy today?" Asked her why I would want to after what she did. Got no response. Prompted her the following day and she stated she didn't feel like she blew me off. After some back and forth messages, we agreed to a fresh start.

Set a new meeting for this evening closer to her location. She even confirmed it 15 min before the meet time. Guess what? No show again. So, I engaged my backup plan. Saw she got back on the SA site 3. 5 hrs after our meet time, However, she did not contact me. So, I know she is just malicious (versus something coming up).

So, avoid the worthless time waster.

SouthernJohn.[/QUOTE]

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NikkiDy (31). Knoxville.

Avoid this time-waster. On Saturday, we made arrangements to meet in west Knox for Sunday lunch and then (if we both felt comfortable) some additional activities. We were communicating via the site where she was near wifi since she stated that she had no minutes on her phone. The next day, I sent her a message on SA 2 hrs before our meeting time, but got no response. Since I needed to do some things over in west Knox anyway, I took the chance and headed over anyway. Guess what? No show. So I had a nice meal, ran my errands, and engaged my back-up plan (ALWAYS have a backup plan, gents).

I waited to see how long it would take for her to get in touch with me. It was Monday when she messaged me "Sorry, I still don't have a phone" and "Are you busy today?" Asked her why I would want to after what she did. Got no response. Prompted her the following day and she stated she didn't feel like she blew me off. After some back and forth messages, we agreed to a fresh start.

Set a new meeting for this evening closer to her location. She even confirmed it 15 min before the meet time. Guess what? No show again. So, I engaged my backup plan. Saw she got back on the SA site 3. 5 hrs after our meet time, However, she did not contact me. So, I know she is just malicious (versus something coming up).

So, avoid the worthless time waster.

SouthernJohn.[/QUOTE]I just left this girl. I will admit we had a couple of hiccups getting together. It's tough communicating with her because her phone isn't working and she can't get it working until she gets some cash. Honestly, though, I had to cancel out on her kind of at the last minute myself but she was ok about it and gave me another opportunity and as things have ended up I'm glad she did. I had read this review of her last night and knowing that we had a date this morning. Well, I nearly backed out. She sent me a message on sa early this morning to confirm with me though and so I felt like I should give it another try. She looks just like her pictures, maybe even a little better and without a hint of make up on. She has a great personality. Talks all the time. Seems like a very genuine person. She said she used to tend bar and as a former bar owner, I bet she was a great bartender. Very personable and attractive. We had a very nice, very intimate time together. I loved her body and her responsiveness to me. She felt like someone I had known for a long time and we had a really great time together. I didn't ask her about southernjohn's experience and won't because everyone is different and as they say on here, your results may vary from mine. I just think that no matter how thin you make a pancake, there's two sides to it. Just like there is to every story. I'm going to see this lady again so it really won't bother me if nobody else sees her and stretches out the great fit we had but I just thought I'd let you know that she really does get together. Although, obviously, not always.

Been texting with this lady and about to meet her.

Anyone have any info. On her? Great pics and talks a great game.

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[QUOTE=FitDaddy3;2438391]I just left this girl. I will admit we had a couple of hiccups getting together. It's tough communicating with her because her phone isn't working and she can't get it working until she gets some cash. Honestly, though, I had to cancel out on her kind of at the last minute myself but she was ok about it and gave me another opportunity and as things have ended up I'm glad she did. I had read this review of her last night and knowing that we had a date this morning. Well, I nearly backed out. She sent me a message on sa early this morning to confirm with me though and so I felt like I should give it another try. She looks just like her pictures, maybe even a little better and without a hint of make up on. She has a great personality. Talks all the time. Seems like a very genuine person. She said she used to tend bar and as a former bar owner, I bet she was a great bartender. Very personable and attractive. We had a very nice, very intimate time together. I loved her body and her responsiveness to me. She felt like someone I had known for a long time and we had a really great time together. I didn't ask her about southernjohn's experience and won't because everyone is different and as they say on here, your results may vary from mine. I just think that no matter how thin you make a pancake, there's two sides to it. Just like there is to every story. I'm going to see this lady again so it really won't bother me if nobody else sees her and stretches out the great fit we had but I just thought I'd let you know that she really does get together. Although, obviously, not always.[/QUOTE]I'm glad you had a good time with her, even with the communications issues. I hope you enjoy yourself and have no issues scheduling future visits with her.

I have no desire to see a lady that wastes my time and acts as if it's not an issue. Many of us are successful because we don't put up with trifling irresponsibility, including in the sugar bowl. I'm a forgiving person and I know things come up. However, in neither case did she take responsibility for her no shows. Even if the personal time is "off the charts", I know I could never count on someone like that. I don't need, nor want that in my life. I'm too busy to chase ghosts. There are plenty of responsible ladies on SA (along with game players, thieves, druggies, etc.) and I seek these gems out. When I find ladies that have major issues (that might be of interest to others) while I'm searching for "keepers", I report them here.

So, with the info in this forum, we get to make our choices. Thanks to all of you that contribute. We are all better for it.

[QUOTE=Gibson1970;2438255]Southern John,

You are correct to always have a back-up plan and I feel your pain on the no shows, but have some patience with these girls. I will tell you about one of my experiences.

I started texting a girl in Nashville and we agreed to meet for Lunch when I was in town for Business. Well she cancelled. No biggie as I was in town for Business.

A few weeks later we started texting again. We would set up meetings and she cancelled twice (her coming to me). I figured she was fake and running a scam.

She always notified me and kept in touch and since she was coming to me she wasn't wasting much of my time.

Well, after three times we finally hook up and it was the best sex I've ever had.

We start off with some DFK, get naked and turns out she is a freak. She licks my balls, gives me a rimjob and then lets me stick it in her ass and then lets me cum on her face. Felt like a pornstar LOL.

I had pretty much given up on this girl, but I never burned any bridges. With girls of this age you got to have alot of patience and a backup plan. There are some good ones on [URL]SA.com[/URL].[/QUOTE]With years of SD experience, I have come to understand that, in general, the younger girls need to be handled with more patience. They tend to be more irresponsible and scattered. If you are looking for a hot young girl and are willing to engage in dealing with the baggage that comes with it, then rock on. My time is more valuable to me than hooking up with a hot young girl. For that reason, I typically gravitate to women that have their stuff together (jobs, cell phones that work, no drugs, life responsibilities). I've had great success with women that are 30's /40's, look awesome (face & body), and know how to please a man. Occasionally, I'll interact with younger ladies, but I'm quick to cut it off if I see irresponsibility, dependency issues, or immaturity. Stereotypically, established ladies aren't looking for the same things in an arrangement that the younger ones are. I like the "no drama" scenarios that come with established women. But, we each "hunt" different "prey" in the sugar bowl because that's what makes us happy. So, for all of you out there trying, hope you bag your limit!

[QUOTE=RobertCo;2438661]Been texting with this lady and about to meet her.

Anyone have any info. On her? Great pics and talks a great game.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ec80bf1c/view?conversation-sent[/URL][/QUOTE]Beware. She has some documented mental issues that you need to be aware of. Since you only have two posts at the time of this reply, I will spare the details. Just ask her to show you her wrists and inspect them carefully.

Be careful,

Milfman.

After receiving 15 emails that I could not access, I decided to bite the bullet and upgrade my membership. So far I am having mixed results. I had a girl from Mississippi put a hard sob story on me about her water bill and needing formula for the baby, my response. I don't wire money. Haven't heard back from her. I have put my number out to a few girls, no contact yet. I will remain vigilant, and patient. Stand by for updates.

A big waste of time and money.

[QUOTE=HardKnox;2443306]A big waste of time and money.[/QUOTE]I hooked up with her. She is borderline homeless right now and her phone is busted saw it with my own eyes. She is hot a little bustier than her pics. She needs a little sun on her legs and the fake eyelashes are a little much. Her initials are DC. She does seem to be trying to get paid w / o playing but she is pretty broke right now. I used your review against her when she contacted me. I didn't tell her about this board but said I had a buddy that she squeezed and I had no time for that. I told her I play then pay. She was fine with that.

[QUOTE=AsianBuffet;2442650]After receiving 15 emails that I could not access, I decided to bite the bullet and upgrade my membership. So far I am having mixed results. I had a girl from Mississippi put a hard sob story on me about her water bill and needing formula for the baby, my response. I don't wire money. Haven't heard back from her. I have put my number out to a few girls, no contact yet. I will remain vigilant, and patient. Stand by for updates.[/QUOTE]I can pass on several that you might have some luck with. I have some numbers I haven't even been able to hook up with because of logistics.

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2444019]I hooked up with her. She is borderline homeless right now and her phone is busted saw it with my own eyes. She is hot a little bustier than her pics. She needs a little sun on her legs and the fake eyelashes are a little much. Her initials are DC. She does seem to be trying to get paid w / o playing but she is pretty broke right now. I used your review against her when she contacted me. I didn't tell her about this board but said I had a buddy that she squeezed and I had no time for that. I told her I play then pay. She was fine with that.[/QUOTE]Just out of curiosity, can I ask how much you ended up agreeing on? Reason I ask is that about 7-8 month back, she seemed like total GPS and I passed. She was asking like 7 k / month or something like that. And this wasn't based on some crazy request, I just asked her what her financial expectations were for meeting once a week to have some fun. Hers was pretty much the highest request I ever heard.

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Too much baggage.

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;2445575][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ec56d00e/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

Too much baggage.[/QUOTE]I second that one. She called me in the middle of the night last night. When she got no answer, she started texting. Sounds like enough baggage to fill up a 747.

Appearance wise they are exact opposites. This one is horribly skinny. After I saw her this morning I just asked if she'd give me a BJ in the car. No problem she said. Pretty good head really.

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This one. Well, she's not skinny. Nice big tits but looks maybe 40 pounds over what I expected from seeing her in her profile pic. Met with her this afternoon and again I just opted for a BJ in the car. She gave very good head.

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All in all it wasn't a bad day. Two different BBBJ's and back home by 4. 150 for the pair. I wouldn't recommend them for more than that but what they did for me was good.

[QUOTE=FitDaddy3;2445642]Appearance wise they are exact opposites. This one is horribly skinny. After I saw her this morning I just asked if she'd give me a BJ in the car. No problem she said. Pretty good head really.

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This one. Well, she's not skinny. Nice big tits but looks maybe 40 pounds over what I expected from seeing her in her profile pic. Met with her this afternoon and again I just opted for a BJ in the car. She gave very good head.

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All in all it wasn't a bad day. Two different BBBJ's and back home by 4. 150 for the pair. I wouldn't recommend them for more than that but what they did for me was good.[/QUOTE]Been talking with Elizabeth too. She says she's been a personal trainer? I'm guessing that was a few years ago. LOL.

[QUOTE=KnoxFourMe;2434316][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bd4abd/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Could just be she is busy but think this one is a scammer.[/QUOTE]Spoke with her today. She has rules. LOL. She will meet to talk for 170.

Hahahahahahaha!!

I had the same impression. Total BS.

[QUOTE=Orbits;2445515]Just out of curiosity, can I ask how much you ended up agreeing on? Reason I ask is that about 7-8 month back, she seemed like total GPS and I passed. She was asking like 7 k / month or something like that. And this wasn't based on some crazy request, I just asked her what her financial expectations were for meeting once a week to have some fun. Hers was pretty much the highest request I ever heard.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AsianBuffet;2445828]Spoke with her today. She has rules. LOL. She will meet to talk for 170.

Hahahahahahaha!![/QUOTE]One week ago she quoted me 350 up front for a meet to talk. I declined.

I approach 23 year olds who reasonably appear to be recent college graduates, especially those who don't yet have a job in their intended career. They usually have a casual attitude about sex, which is completely different than slutty. UT and Vandy grads. I swear. It is literally more than I have time for.

My process: I buy a membership for a month, fill the pipeline-and wait about 2 or 3 months to renew and start over.

[QUOTE=Orbits;2445515]Just out of curiosity, can I ask how much you ended up agreeing on? Reason I ask is that about 7-8 month back, she seemed like total GPS and I passed. She was asking like 7 k / month or something like that. And this wasn't based on some crazy request, I just asked her what her financial expectations were for meeting once a week to have some fun. Hers was pretty much the highest request I ever heard.[/QUOTE]Hard Knox is right she will try to play you. Her game is to try go get as much for as little as possible. Total blind luck I happen to stumble on her when she was in desperate straits. I viewed her profile because of Hard Knox's post so SA sent heran alert. I triEd to blow her off with telling her I thought she was a scammer. I pmed you with info you requested if you want any more pm me.

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Anyone have information on this one? I've searched and found nothing.

When signing up for SA, what do you guys use for a photo? They require one, and I'm sure that most of you don't want your real photo out there on SA. Just curious.

[QUOTE=RJHunter;2449546]When signing up for SA, what do you guys use for a photo? They require one, and I'm sure that most of you don't want your real photo out there on SA. Just curious.[/QUOTE]I've got a real photo. I just don't show my face.

[QUOTE=RJHunter;2449546]When signing up for SA, what do you guys use for a photo? They require one, and I'm sure that most of you don't want your real photo out there on SA. Just curious.[/QUOTE]I don't recall that they require one but I have a couple that are private.

[QUOTE=FitDaddy3;2449620]I don't recall that they require one but I have a couple that are private.[/QUOTE]Mine is set to Private.

I found a picture of some poor sap who looks like me and use it. Only once has a girl ever said anything about it after meeting me. And she didn't care.

Not my type, but she's legit and sweet. Be gentle, men:

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[QUOTE=RJHunter;2449546]When signing up for SA, what do you guys use for a photo? They require one, and I'm sure that most of you don't want your real photo out there on SA. Just curious.[/QUOTE]I use Photoshop and use a Gaussian Blur over my face. If they want full face pics, I'll consider exchanging one via email, but I don't post a face pic on that public forum. Most don't care if they ever receive a full-face pic. I have run across some who require a background check, but most don't care about that either. If your cash is green, most will be eager.

-milfman.

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What a goober she is. We texted for a couple of days. Set up a meet and had everything covered except one last detail. Location. I suggest a place and she never responds. Two days later I get back with her to ask WTF and she says she doesn't have gas or babysitter money and wants me to western union 150 to her. Here's what I think is funny. The ***** lives 5 miles from me. She'd have to pass my house to pick up the cash from western union if I were to send it. Which I never would to begin with. I tell her that and she says, well then the answer is no. One hour later, she's back on the site. Looking again. Unless you have lots of time to waste or just enjoy fucking with the time wasters, I'd recommend you pass this one by.

She obviously has some bills to pay. I had a fantastic morning. I may have taken some of the pressure off, but I suggest politely offering to have a meet and greet at the downtown Marriott restauraunt. Suggest $200 for the meet and greet, after which she can leave if she'd like. Or, if there is any chemistry, you get a room and go upstairs.

Remind her that she can make the easy $200 or begin a relationship in which she can make a bunch of $200 from you. By the way, I always give a girl money for a meet and greet, and tell her to feel free to take the cash and walk away, owing me nothing. They ALWAYS trade the cash for what's behind Door Number 1. (Young people won't get that. Doc will laugh.)

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[QUOTE=GaltGuy;2450828]By the way, I always give a girl money for a meet and greet, and tell her to feel free to take the cash and walk away, owing me nothing. They ALWAYS trade the cash for what's behind Door Number 1.[/QUOTE]Kind of risky don't you think? Most girls would jump at that. But I still don't see the point.

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;2450828]She obviously has some bills to pay. I had a fantastic morning. I may have taken some of the pressure off, but I suggest politely offering to have a meet and greet at the downtown Marriott restauraunt. Suggest $200 for the meet and greet, after which she can leave if she'd like. Or, if there is any chemistry, you get a room and go upstairs.

Remind her that she can make the easy $200 or begin a relationship in which she can make a bunch of $200 from you. By the way, I always give a girl money for a meet and greet, and tell her to feel free to take the cash and walk away, owing me nothing. They ALWAYS trade the cash for what's behind Door Number 1. (Young people won't get that. Doc will laugh.)

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bd4abd/view?conversation-inbox[/QUOTE]Hells bells man. I'll have lunch with you for $200. At least then you won't be able to say anymore that they ALWAYS trade the cash for what's behind door number 1. Hahaha.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;2450121]I use Photoshop and use a Gaussian Blur over my face. If they want full face pics, I'll consider exchanging one via email, but I don't post a face pic on that public forum. Most don't care if they ever receive a full-face pic. I have run across some who require a background check, but most don't care about that either. If your cash is green, most will be eager.

-milfman.[/QUOTE]Thanks. For some reason, I hadn't thought of that as a solution, and I use Photo Shop at work.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2450942]Kind of risky don't you think? Most girls would jump at that. But I still don't see the point.[/QUOTE]Most of the girls I meet and greet are young and foolish so they would jump at the easy $200. That's why I never offer money for a meet and greet.

I've even had some try to get money before a meet and greet. Uh. No.

Know anything about this one? [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e11a6cbd/view?search-recently-active[/URL].

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2451324]Know anything about this one? [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e11a6cbd/view?search-recently-active[/URL].[/QUOTE]I talked to her for longer than I normally spend on one. Maybe 3 weeks. She is very hard headed. Wants what she wants and doesn't want to give on anything. She says she wants a man who will take what he wants but when you show that to her, it's not to her liking. She cut me loose saying I was not her type. She may have been right. She was my type though. Big tits, legs with a foot on one end and an ass on the other. Yep. Just like I like them. Good luck.

Well a week into my SA experiment I must say its a worthwhile venture, but patience is a must. I have met a couple of girls from the site, and talked to 20 or more. The common theme seems to be that they want a lot, on their terms, with very little negotiation.

Highlights include a hot little 20 year old who will do anything, anywhere, and really gets into it.

Also, you might remember the guy who got jumped a week or two ago, there was a news story about a guy who picked up a girl then she took him out and 4 guys robbed him. His ex is on this site. I sent her an email, graduated to text, her first question was if I am affiliated with the law, her second was that she requires 150 for 30 minutes. This led me to believe she is a pro, which she is, so I researched her and found out that she is his ex, and I'd trying to call him out to media outlets for being abusive and a drug dealer. LOL.

So. Be careful with these crazies. Innocence is dead.

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2451324]Know anything about this one? [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e11a6cbd/view?search-recently-active[/URL].[/QUOTE]Some of these Sugar Babies are not worth the two cents. They think their " couchies " are Gold Plated and worth more than some other couchies. They're not. They think just because they are a sugar baby on SA that they are Professional Escorts. Na Ah. There is something about greed arrogance and gold digging qualities in a woman that make me glad that I was raised the way I was. I was raised to be fair and those that are not fair back. I ignore, avoid or punish. Work hard and you may be rewarded. Do nothing and your situation in life may reflect your efforts. This girl wants everything and to do little to nothing for it. She thinks she can forcefully get what she wants just because she asks for it. F that. My father a drill instructor would have let a girl like that scream and ***** and moan and give her nothing. Find them f them and feed them fish heads he used to say. At least the bad ones. Take care of the good ones and you will be rewarded. When she plays fair that is when you give her rewards otherwise she is just another spoiled brat some divorced mother raised her baby girl to take whatever she can from a man. Because that is all they know to do. Teach them a lesson I say. Give them nothing but take from them everything. If they don't learn to be fair? Bury them from your thoughts or in the ground. Either way don't waste any of your time on them. She needs to learn and we need to accept.

You can't always get what you want but if you try some time you just might find you get what you need.

That is the unfortunate thing about sugar babies. They think their poo don't stink and it does just like everyone elses.