Married & mongering

[QUOTE=DogRice;6832925]Interesting. Sorry for my ignorance w. Are. T the treatment. Is the treatment involving antibiotics? So, taking antibiotics after BBBJ? How does the pre-treatment work?[/QUOTE]Antibiotic treatment for the common STDs. 20 years ago I had asymptomatic chlamydia, only found out years later by passing it to next gfs. So I now make it a habit to get tested and treated anyways after switching partners (or in this case quitting P4 P for years). It will only cover things that can be treated by antibiotics, which are the most common except for herpes.

There is Prep you can take if you plan to BB, to protect you from HIV. I believe it is basically antivirals for HIV that will prevent the infection in the first place when used right.

The only other viral worth mentioning is all the versions of HPV. Get the Gardasil vaccine if you can. It prevents genital warts and more importantly cancer causing strains of HPV .

Thanks for the info.

I got 2 out of 3 shots of HPV vaccine before COVID. The last shot. I tried to finish it but CVS said I am past 48 yrs old and not eligible to take it despite I am paying out of my pocket. Not sure how I would finish the last shot.

I am not into BB except I really want to open up to BBBJ from CBJ. CBJ has been okay for me but with aging, CBJ is not cutting it. But everything I was ready to open up to BBBJ, just got chicken out from STDs. Argh!

[QUOTE=FreeWally;6839568]Antibiotic treatment for the common STDs. 20 years ago I had asymptomatic chlamydia, only found out years later by passing it to next gfs. So I now make it a habit to get tested and treated anyways after switching partners (or in this case quitting P4 P for years). It will only cover things that can be treated by antibiotics, which are the most common except for herpes.

There is Prep you can take if you plan to BB, to protect you from HIV. I believe it is basically antivirals for HIV that will prevent the infection in the first place when used right.

The only other viral worth mentioning is all the versions of HPV. Get the Gardasil vaccine if you can. It prevents genital warts and more importantly cancer causing strains of HPV .[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DogRice;6839605]Thanks for the info.

I got 2 out of 3 shots of HPV vaccine before COVID. The last shot. I tried to finish it but CVS said I am past 48 yrs old and not eligible to take it despite I am paying out of my pocket. Not sure how I would finish the last shot.

I am not into BB except I really want to open up to BBBJ from CBJ. CBJ has been okay for me but with aging, CBJ is not cutting it. But everything I was ready to open up to BBBJ, just got chicken out from STDs. Argh![/QUOTE]Think, you would go to somewhere other than CVS, and redo the paperwork, saying your within age guidelines.

[QUOTE=DogRice;6839605]Thanks for the info.

I got 2 out of 3 shots of HPV vaccine before COVID. The last shot. I tried to finish it but CVS said I am past 48 yrs old and not eligible to take it despite I am paying out of my pocket. Not sure how I would finish the last shot.

I am not into BB except I really want to open up to BBBJ from CBJ. CBJ has been okay for me but with aging, CBJ is not cutting it. But everything I was ready to open up to BBBJ, just got chicken out from STDs. Argh![/QUOTE]Thats absurd. Current guidelines can recommend the shot if you are above age limits if its personal preference or even recommended by your doctor. I am sure they would have done it had you pushed for it. They do not need to know your high sexual activity but that is plenty reason to qualify someone for the shot.

[QUOTE=DogRice;6839605]Thanks for the info.

I got 2 out of 3 shots of HPV vaccine before COVID. The last shot. I tried to finish it but CVS said I am past 48 yrs old and not eligible to take it despite I am paying out of my pocket. Not sure how I would finish the last shot.

I am not into BB except I really want to open up to BBBJ from CBJ. CBJ has been okay for me but with aging, CBJ is not cutting it. But everything I was ready to open up to BBBJ, just got chicken out from STDs. Argh![/QUOTE]Maybe you can try out these covers (link below). I'm in the BBBF bandwagon but every once in a while have to bite the bullet, cause of the hotness of one gal or another, then I have to cover up. A friend who mongers on the side (he's married) tried it and told me he thought he's doing it bare.

What is special in Durex Invisible?

Durex Invisible is India's Thinnest Condom based upon thickness testing conducted. Data on file. The condoms also smell better which helps avoid unpleasant distractions and you can relax and enjoy to the fullest. Each Durex condom is dermatologically tested to ensure strength and a high level of protection.

The previous paragraph is from the manufacturers website.

Mondo.

[QUOTE=FreeWally;6839568]Antibiotic treatment for the common STDs. 20 years ago I had asymptomatic chlamydia, only found out years later by passing it to next gfs. So I now make it a habit to get tested and treated anyways after switching partners (or in this case quitting P4 P for years). It will only cover things that can be treated by antibiotics, which are the most common except for herpes.

There is Prep you can take if you plan to BB, to protect you from HIV. I believe it is basically antivirals for HIV that will prevent the infection in the first place when used right.

The only other viral worth mentioning is all the versions of HPV. Get the Gardasil vaccine if you can. It prevents genital warts and more importantly cancer causing strains of HPV .[/QUOTE]Whats the easiest way to get Gardasil on the DL without having to create a paper trail? I feel like anything with a vaccine is a smart choice but not sure how to go about getting it.

[QUOTE=Rook6642;6839531]Thanks for the thread. Just saw it. I travel to Cali enough to check the boards.

Been married for 9 years and together for 11. Sex started off as the best I've ever had at that point. It was PSE with the now wife. I remember she was the first to be able DT me and FF herself.

We did it a lot. Rimming, marathon sessions, video recording, sex in public places, work, bathrooms, changing rooms. Daily sex. It all went downhill about 6 months into the marriage. Seriously!

Now its once a month. Maybe. HJs count towards the once a month. But I realized that if I hold off she will blow me. Still has the same technique. Probably doing it just to get it over quickly. Just like a working girl LOL. When we do, its two positions, mish and doggy.

I still love her, but our sex life is non-existent. I usually just hobby when traveling. I do travel to Vegas for work. Last year was once a quarter mixed in with personal trips. I was in Vegas 5 or 6 times last year. I think. This year I already have 4 trips planned. 2 for work and 2 for pleasure. Before June. 1 of the trips will be Cali. Already planning to be driving to sawtelle.

But it is getting harder to hold off at home. She still works remotely. But along with my trips she has to go out of town real soon. So it will time to play.

I usually look for service queens as they say. Trying to recreate the beginning relationship sex. I've done BBFS one time a k-girl. Got caught in the heat of passions and just went for it. Got tested and nothing.

I also found out a friend of mine who was in the similar situation but worst off, was having sex once a year. He started to use AMPs. Heck he even did it when they were in Vegas and she was asleep. They are no longer together.

Thanks that was therapeutic.[/QUOTE]Maybe group for wife who have sex hunger husband Thanks for story side.

[QUOTE=Mondo72;6840394]Maybe you can try out these covers (link below). I'm in the BBBF bandwagon but every once in a while have to bite the bullet, cause of the hotness of one gal or another, then I have to cover up. A friend who mongers on the side (he's married) tried it and told me he thought he's doing it bare.

What is special in Durex Invisible?

Durex Invisible is India's Thinnest Condom based upon thickness testing conducted. Data on file. The condoms also smell better which helps avoid unpleasant distractions and you can relax and enjoy to the fullest. Each Durex condom is dermatologically tested to ensure strength and a high level of protection.

The previous paragraph is from the manufacturers website.

Mondo.[/QUOTE]Durex is too thick for me. I use the sagami 001 which is still the thinnest in the world. Not as good as no condom and it's pretty pricey but it's worth.

Bareback is +$100 plus copay to get a script of doxycycline plus actual doxy cost is way more than the condom cost LOL.

I just told my primary that we want to try for a kid and need a little help in that area. He put me on the V with refills, no question asked.

[QUOTE=JohnxHide;6839184]Who would you guys recommend?[/QUOTE]

Any side effects from gardasil? What's the regiment.

[QUOTE=DogRice;6839605]Thanks for the info.

I got 2 out of 3 shots of HPV vaccine before COVID. The last shot. I tried to finish it but CVS said I am past 48 yrs old and not eligible to take it despite I am paying out of my pocket. Not sure how I would finish the last shot.

I am not into BB except I really want to open up to BBBJ from CBJ. CBJ has been okay for me but with aging, CBJ is not cutting it. But everything I was ready to open up to BBBJ, just got chicken out from STDs. Argh![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=IslaVista;6841057]Any side effects from gardasil? What's the regiment.[/QUOTE]I had no side effects other than the injection spot, and it is 3 shots for ages 15-45. Every 10th kgirl I've seen, she has a genital wart that would have been covered by this (but this was mostly before Gardasil existed, hope that changes now).

From my understanding, Gardasil covers every possible strain tied to warts. More importantly, it covers strains related to cervical, vaginal, neck, and penile cancer. Cervical cancer is the most common problem, and 99% of those cases are from HPV.

I tried again w / CVS insisting that I want my last shot of HPV. They are willing to give it to me, but the system (CDC) does not allow them to register because I am outside of the age limit (provided by CDC).

Does not matter I am paying out of my pocket or not. Anyone has suggestion on Pharmacy with less restriction like CVS?

[QUOTE=LabiaFedora;6840329]Thats absurd. Current guidelines can recommend the shot if you are above age limits if its personal preference or even recommended by your doctor. I am sure they would have done it had you pushed for it. They do not need to know your high sexual activity but that is plenty reason to qualify someone for the shot.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DogRice;6869898]I tried again w / CVS insisting that I want my last shot of HPV. They are willing to give it to me, but the system (CDC) does not allow them to register because I am outside of the age limit (provided by CDC).

Does not matter I am paying out of my pocket or not.[/QUOTE]If you want to pay out of pocket anyways, why not just go to a different location and give them fake info so you appear 45 yo or less. If you aren't using insurance then shouldn't matter that your info is wrong.

Have you tried switching to. 001 mm rubbers? I bought a bunch of Sagami and Okamoto. 001 condoms and they changed the game for me.

[QUOTE=DogRice;6839605]Thanks for the info.

I got 2 out of 3 shots of HPV vaccine before COVID. The last shot. I tried to finish it but CVS said I am past 48 yrs old and not eligible to take it despite I am paying out of my pocket. Not sure how I would finish the last shot.

I am not into BB except I really want to open up to BBBJ from CBJ. CBJ has been okay for me but with aging, CBJ is not cutting it. But everything I was ready to open up to BBBJ, just got chicken out from STDs. Argh![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MacNCheese;6870652]If you want to pay out of pocket anyways, why not just go to a different location and give them fake info so you appear 45 yo or less. If you aren't using insurance then shouldn't matter that your info is wrong.[/QUOTE]If anyone has info on how to get the vaccination for folks over 45 please share. I'm willing to pay out of pocket.