Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=KnoxTNman;2306702]It's just luck and timing man. It has nothing to do with looks and money. Good luck in your search.[/QUOTE]Thanks KnoxTN-I'll keep throwing my line out and see if I get any bites. Will report back if I catch something worthwhile.

Sim.

[QUOTE=Orbits;2306709]How do you handle the ones that don't seem to know what they want? When asked about financial support expectations, most will give you a number. But some respond with something like "just a gift every once in a while" or "I just want a little help with some shopping expenses" or "I've never done this before, I have no idea" -- stuff like that. So my question is: is it better to try to agree on exact amount ahead of meeting, or just go with it and assume they'll be happy with whatever?[/QUOTE]Always agree on the amount upfront. Then just get to the fun.

[QUOTE=SimBim;2306625]Not sure what the problem is. I'm a good looking guy, I'm not talking like a douchebag or sending dick picks. Any advice from you guys that are successful with SA?

Thanks.

Sim.[/QUOTE]There is no set formula that works for everyone. Keep in mind that ratio of women to potential Sugar Daddies is roughly 10 to 1. You have to be able to filter the educated courtesans from those sincere females in need that claim "I've never done this before". With such a high ration of women to men, there is no need for you to reach out to any of them. Let them fall into your lap. When you click on their profile, they get a message indicating that you viewed them; soon after, you will get a ping or two. Here's what has worked for me after adapting it a bit and it has boiled down to a three step process:

1) When a Sugar Baby wannabee contacts me, I get the pleasantries out of the way (e. g. , Hello, how are you doing, nice profile, etc.). I let her know that the sheer amount of email that I'm getting is overwhelming. Overwhelming to the point that I have entrusted the help of a close female friend to help filter out some of it. I let her know that her message is one that got through without a problem, so that has to count for something.

2) I let her know that I'm entertaining quite a few opportunities, but she seems like one of the best prospects so far. I also review her profile and provide a favorable comment about one of her characteristics. For example, "Your profile notes that you are feisty and speak your mind. I can appreciate that in a woman and encourage you to never let your voice be silenced by detractors. I have a good feeling about this discussion, so contact me again if you are interested in getting to know each other a little better. ". You can adapt the message based on her perceived background and education level. For example, "Hey baby girl. I bet that you don't take sh1 t off nobody! LOL. A smart shawty like you is where it's at. Don't listen to the haters, because hater's will do what they were born to do. And that's hate on you for trying to get yours. Hit me back if you want to conversate for a few. ".

3) Inform her that if she replies to your message, it will be sent back into the message queue to be evaluated again so a delay should be expected. At this point, you usually get the digits to use at your convenience because she wants to circumvent the long line to which you alluded. Contact her when you feel like it and seal the deal.

Just to note -.

I met up with one this morning for 2 hours and have an engagement set up for tonight with a different Sugar Baby wannabee after her kids go to sleep. Two on your list that seem problematic are set to meet with me after the holidays.

Stay Safe,

Milfman.

I've opened an SA account, but waiting to see how the holidays go with current sweetie, before pulling the trigger. For those that have been successful and are 2-3 decades older than the SBs they have landed, what public interactions have you had with them. Dining, shopping, just coffee. ?? Interested in the local mores of Knoxville and the mores and expectations of the SBs. Thanks.

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Not sure what the problem is. I'm a good looking guy, I'm not talking like a douchebag or sending dick picks. Any advice from you guys that are successful with SA?
[/QUOTE]I agree that luck and timing are a big part of it. Although, looks and money can improve your lu`

I find that what works best for me is approaching it almost like regular dating. These girls love to text so I will have a long conversation w / them by text. Once I get the sense that we are comfortable with one another I will ask about a M&G. I find that it's important to have the M&G as soon as possible so they don't lose interest or find another option. If I couldn't have a M&G within the week I would let them know that up front and try to perhaps slow play it a bit to keep them interested. But one really cute 20 yr old that I hooked, I went from "hi" to a M&G in about three hours and then to the FC right after. Speed is an asset. But basically I treat it much like regular dating* because the truly sweet ones are going to appreciate that. I just go out and charm them and at the end assume there is attraction and a desire to move forward. If there isn't it's usually quite obvious and we can part ways.

Along those same lines I NEVER am the first one to bring up sugar. And when they bring it up I try not to be the first one to name a number. Again, YMMV but it seems to work for me.

*-With some exceptions of course, like the fact that I am not going to listen to any whining or dramatic behavior, and that I know we're going to f# each other silly for hours on end every single time we see each other. And that she's like 20 years to young to be dating me in real life.

[QUOTE=Jem411;2297694]Pictures are not accurate. Was once a pretty girl. Meth teeth. Showed up, she open door, smiled. I split. Sounded great on the phone too. Stay safe.[/QUOTE]True, the pics are not accurate as in not current. The pics had to have been taken during a time when she was in better health. She operates out of a hotel in the Lenoir City area. I was spooked by heavy foot traffic, so I had her meet me at a restaurant. She got into my car, smiled, and it looked like she had a mouth full of gravel. When I jumped back, she said something about having some condition that causes her teeth to become brittle and break off. Like Jem4111 mentioned, that seems indicative of meth use based of what web them dee has to say. She must have been referring to one of you mongers when she said that people would show up and leave. She's not looking for a SugarDaddy, she's looking for someone to cover the 55 bucks a night that it costs for her room. I dreamed that her room was not cluttered but was full of smoke (a solid haze even), she makes her own cigarettes with some contraption, she chain smokes, her body has some scarring (some major surgery had to have happened because her coccyx was cut up severely), she has flab in some odd places which makes one think that she lost weight really fast (more like a skinny phat girl), her teeth are probably the worst that you will ever see latching on to a set of gums (it reminded me of the toy Hillbilly teeth), BUT her BJ skills would be considered decent for a car date.

Stay Safe,

Milfman.

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[QUOTE=BackWoods;2306993]I'm still on the fence and haven't actually pulled the trigger to join SA. I've actually been pretty busy with one of my UTRs and Jenny heart over the last week or so. Anyway I get an email that I've been favorite so I decided to check it out.

For anyone that wants a good laugh check this out! [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e44f926b/view/?utm_source=sa&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=favorited[/URL].[/QUOTE]Unless your flying them in to you or planning an out of the country trip, I wouldn't waste the time to message back. I get favorite from someone nearly everyday. Like seven countries and over twenty different states so far. If I can't drive there in a reasonable amount of time or their not in a place I frequent or pass by when traveling for work, I just ignore. I've noticed most from far distances are seeking funds for sexting and pictures. Hell I can get my wife to do that and I'm just as likely to get some from it as I am from someone in Ireland. LOL.

[QUOTE=SimBim;2306625]Been on SA for about a month now and its frustrating as hell. Here's a rundown:

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e170615a/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Set up a meeting then she no-showed. No further communication.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e39289aa/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Set up two meetings-she cancelled both. Gave up after that.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9520529/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Messaged her and she said she now lives in Johnson City. Told her I go to JC at least once a month. Told me she wasn't interested.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ed9c5dca/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Had a lot of fun messaging with each other then she just dropped off the radar.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea27a1e6/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

This one is hot as balls but is a straight up hooker. Profile says she is in Nashville but she is in Knoxville Says she want a SD with an allowance then says she can come over in an hour. Wants $$hr no kissing everything covered, miss only, one pop.

Not sure what the problem is. I'm a good looking guy, I'm not talking like a douchebag or sending dick picks. Any advice from you guys that are successful with SA?

Thanks.

Sim.[/QUOTE]Sim.

I have messaged most of those ladies you did. I did not send anything to Jetsetter because I knew she is a hooker. I haven't gotten any replies yet. The Nashville ladies work best for me.

[QUOTE=KnoxTNman;2306698]Kane. Super flaky. Haven't met her in person. Only communication through texts.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e59a6a1b/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Melissa. Plan to meet her this week. Genuine and real person, not demanding.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0a09118/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Holli. Passed up her offer of $250/ date.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e32dd3bb/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Jessie. Super high demands. Asking $350-$400/ date of couple of hours.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ed6eae0a/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Amber. Yet to meet her in person. Have been communicating, seems reasonable.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e8e3652a/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Jade. Looks older than advertised. Reasonable price. Gave her $125. Everything covered. Nice lady.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ec05975a/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Audrey. Is atleast 15-20 lbs heavier now. Everything covered. LFK only.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e59c1ed4/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Kristen. Total GFE. Very pretty gal. EXTREMELY HARD TO REACH.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bf808b/view?search-recently-active[/URL][/QUOTE]Knox. I emailed Kane but haven't heard from her. I texted Holli, but she is in Knoxville now (her profile says 10 miles).

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0722f3a/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

Been talking with this girl from Oak Ridge. She wanted $350. I countered with $175. Seems kinda flighty.

[QUOTE=Gibson1970;2307458][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0722f3a/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

Been talking with this girl from Oak Ridge. She wanted $350. I countered with $175. Seems kinda flighty.[/QUOTE]This one started messaging me today. Traded pictures so far. Waiting on the price. Spent day in Nashville with Dawn. Very nice. I cut / paste short cuts with phone.

I like SA, and it seems like I get messages in waves. I'm going to pay the fee to get verified to see if it makes a difference.

Jen: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e74689f4/view?search-recently-active[/URL].

Messaged with her yesterday. She claimed to me that she's never met anyone from SA before because there are too many "creepy men with money" on the site. She told me that she has a boyfriend who is aware. She told me that she is not on birth control. She said that she does not do Island Travel, and that everything else must be covered. Never quoted a donation.

Buffy: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9520529/view?search-recently-active[/URL].

She claimed to be in Johnson City. She messaged back and forth with me regularly until I offered to travel to her in Johnson City. She responded with "That's nice of you" and never scheduled anything.

Serenity The Siren: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e95865cb/view?search-recently-active[/URL].

She has an amazing body based on private pics. She respond quickly, but isn't very talkative. She stressed that she has a boyfriend and will not consider "anything other than platonic time" but she still wants to be paid. I stopped responding.

Natalie: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e48cf51b/view?search-recently-active[/URL].

Also claimed to me that she is a virgin. Although, I can confirm that a lot of girls her age are into Island Travel to preserve their "virginity. " She was very honest with me about her appearance in real life vs. Her photos. Her exact words were "My photos might not accurately show my thicker body. " She sent me several long messages about how much she needs privacy, and she also stressed how extremely expensive she is. I thanked her for her time and decided not to meet her.

Kglp: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e41dbb0b/view?search-recently-active[/URL].

She told me that she's been in arrangements before and prefers a long-term one. We had a meeting set up, but I got a migraine and had to postpone.

Pupa: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/eda9f4eb/view?search-recently-active[/URL].

I usually respond to a lady's message and then wait and see what happens. She was nice, but too aggressive about meeting. She sent me several messages "Hi. Here's my number. " She got a little pushy or desperate. I stopped responding.

Sweet Chianti: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e5317d8a/view?search-recently-active[/URL].

Seemed nice on SA messages. After swapping texts with her, I decided not to meet. Just didn't have a good feeling about it.

Shannon5493.

I responded to her message during a break at work. I went back to work. She wrote me back and I didn't respond because I was at work. Within 15 minutes, I got another message "I guess you didn't like me. " Drama. Never responded.

[QUOTE=Jem411;2308180]This one started messaging me today. Traded pictures so far. Waiting on the price. Spent day in Nashville with Dawn. Very nice. I cut / paste short cuts with phone.[/QUOTE]Tried to say I can't cut paste easily with phone. Going to try on computer when back in office.

I had a different experience with SA when I tested it about 6 months or so back. I set up an account as usual, using a burner email address for the purpose. They offer you 5 free messages to try it before sending them money. But you have to upload a photo to activate that. Because of my job, I can't have photos on sites like that floating around the net, so I uploaded a representative photo instead, which they approved. I sent a few of those free messages and as some of you mentioned, sure enough I got tons of replies and unsolicited messages. I answered 2 or 3 only, and with at least one of them, since it seemed that the lady was serious, I told her that my photo was only representative and that I would be happy to send her a true photo privately before meeting. Within a day or two I received message from SA that my account was being deleted for using a fake photo. It was obvious that the "lady" was a fake as well and was just a bot of SA's being used to get us to send them money. My guess is that many of those messages members received are fakes sent by SA as promos, and that many of the TGTBT ladies on the site are just as fake for the same reason. I think its a big con job.