Rants and Raves plus Stupid Shit

A couple if things. First I want to thank all of my fellow members of usasexguide for your support of my posting this warning / alert / negative review. For all of you who have seen my comments / posts / reviews over the years, you know that I (and many other senior and long time members, encourage participation / contribution by everyone. I have encouraged comments, posts, reviews, whether positive or negative. I have always tried my best to be honest and tell it like it is.

I posted this no show and shitty attitude about Cher, and I would do it again if this happened with ANY provider. And I hope that all of you would do the same.

NOW my point was made. I just called Cher and told her that on my end it is OVER. She did apologize for the last minute cancellation, but told me that a family matter DID arise about 30 minutes prior to our 11 am date. I accepted her apology and thanked her. I did however tell her that she should have cancelled as soon as she knew and that the conversation we just had should have happened 3 days ago.

And she offered to see me for a makeup visit and promised that my time with her would be special

[QUOTE=Quail; 1849467]A couple if things. First I want to thank all of my fellow members of usasexguide for your support of my posting this warning / alert / negative review. For all of you who have seen my comments / posts / reviews over the years, you know that I (and many other senior and long time members, encourage participation / contribution by everyone. I have encouraged comments, posts, reviews, whether positive or negative. I have always tried my best to be honest and tell it like it is.

I posted this no show and shitty attitude about Cher, and I would do it again if this happened with ANY provider. And I hope that all of you would do the same.

NOW my point was made. I just called Cher and told her that on my end it is OVER. She did apologize for the last minute cancellation, but told me that a family matter DID arise about 30 minutes prior to our 11 am date. I accepted her apology and thanked her. I did however tell her that she should have cancelled as soon as she knew and that the conversation we just had should have happened 3 days ago.

And she offered to see me for a makeup visit and promised that my time with her would be special[/QUOTE]Providers never make up for a Bad or Cancelled Session. It's best for you to never call this Girl again. Move on and find another one.

[QUOTE=Ron M;1849483]Providers never make up for a Bad or Cancelled Session. It's best for you to never call this Girl again. Move on and find another one.[/QUOTE]Have to disagree. Not all providers are like that and I know a few of them besides myself. If we cancel we offer another time.

[QUOTE=Sweet Destiny;1849648]Have to disagree. Not all providers are like that and I know a few of them besides myself. If we cancel we offer another time.[/QUOTE]If I call a Provider I'm interested in seeing for a First Session and set up a Time, then she Cancels on me for whatever reason, I'm done with her. I never call her back to reschedule. Even if she calls me back with the reason why she cancelled on me, I'm done. A First Session Impression is very important to me.

[QUOTE=Ron M;1849718]If I call a Provider I'm interested in seeing for a First Session and set up a Time, then she Cancels on me for whatever reason, I'm done with her. I never call her back to reschedule. Even if she calls me back with the reason why she cancelled on me, I'm done. A First Session Impression is very important to me.[/QUOTE]You could easily be missing out on some super quality providers. Hey! Shit happens. It happens to everybody and can happen at ANY time.

If she calls back to cancel, she has the right attitude. She showed you a courtesy that many others would not. Then, you would NEVER call her again?

Sorry bro, we are all entitled to our opinions and methods. I think you make a mistake in that scenario.

Now, a no-call no-show situation ABSOLUTELY calls for a DNS response. But there are several girls I am a big fan of and would have never seen if I followed your proceedure. I am happy to say, I did call them at another time and it was worth the trouble, to be sure.

Peace.

Pot.

And Microdot!

PK

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[QUOTE=Admin2; 1848792]Alpacas have much softer fur!

[url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpaca[/url][/QUOTE]OH BABY! Here is the pics I took last night with my girl in a soft Alpaca costume! HUMMANA HUMMANA HUMMANA HUMMANA HUMMANA!

;)

Peace.

PK

[QUOTE=Loki Pk; 1850097]

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OH BABY! Here is the pics I took last night with my girl in a soft Alpaca costume! HUMMANA HUMMANA HUMMANA HUMMANA HUMMANA!

Peace.

PK[/QUOTE]I'm throwing the BS flag on that play! That's clearly a real Alpaca. Costume my ass :cool:

[QUOTE=Ron M;1849718]If I call a Provider I'm interested in seeing for a First Session and set up a Time, then she Cancels on me for whatever reason, I'm done with her. I never call her back to reschedule. Even if she calls me back with the reason why she cancelled on me, I'm done. A First Session Impression is very important to me.[/QUOTE]If a provider contacts me to cancel or discusses the nature of a session that doesn't happen for any number of valid reasons, that's not a red flag, that's a good sign.

It's the providers that say nothing when they run late and end up no-shows to a scheduled meeting that piss me off. In 10 years I've never met a Provider with excellent customer service skills that absolutely suck at their job. One usually, and in my case nearly always, informs towards what can be expected with the other.

Even in Albany, these forums are loaded with review after review that link performance to attitude and customer service. I've never read a review that claimed a provider had a great attitude, or was very engaged and honest in communication for a scheduled session, and the session was completely terrible.

[QUOTE=Loki Pk; 1850093]You could easily be missing out on some super quality providers. Hey! Shit happens. It happens to everybody and can happen at ANY time.

If she calls back to cancel, she has the right attitude. She showed you a courtesy that many others would not. Then, you would NEVER call her again?

Sorry bro, we are all entitled to our opinions and methods. I think you make a mistake in that scenario.

Now, a no-call no-show situation ABSOLUTELY calls for a DNS response. But there are several girls I am a big fan of and would have never seen if I followed your proceedure. I am happy to say, I did call them at another time and it was worth the trouble, to be sure.

Peace.

Pot.

And Microdot!

PK[/QUOTE]You are 100 percent correct. I agree with you. It's a pet peeve of mine about cancelling a First Session. I've had a First Session with a few Providers cancel out on me. Here's one story of what happened; I made an appointment with a Provider and things looked good. Then I call about an hour before the Session to confirm and she doesn't pick up the phone. I just get her voicemail. No call back or even a text. Next day she calls me to try to reschedule another appointment. I don't even answer my phone. I let it go to my voicemail. I never call her back again. I write her number on my "Do Not Call List." Even if she's possibly Great Provider, I'll never know cause I will never call her for a Session.

What is with Veronica's ad?

[url]http://albany.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/indulge-in-exceptional-24/12568946[/url]

Now before I go any further, I have seen Veronica and she is super freakin amazing! However, what's with the positioning of the "blur" in some of her pics? Is her mouth that recognizable?"Hmm geee I don't recognize you by your eyes or your nose *gets a DFK* OMG its you Veronica! I didn't recognize you until I got that kiss!"

Again, she is a super provider, I just can't help myself but poke fun.

[QUOTE=Geneva Guy; 1862527]Board,

After reading the continuing reports on bad or disappointing providers, I'd like to make a radical suggestion. Now I do most of my mongering in Asia. And there, things work this way and they work well. Seeing the fast food workers picket the other day for increased minimum wage made me think that as a group, we might consider the following.

Realizing that providers don't want to discuss things on the phone (ok). When meeting up with one, before payment ensues, having the full discussion about do's and don'ts. Or if she looks nothing like her pictures. Leave and note that you will be posting this information online for all to see (tell her you are a member of the better business bureau). And then. The BIG thing. Tell her she will be paid at the END of the session. And if she puts up a fuss, tell her,"like any other service, you get paid at the end". That is the usual routine for lots of things in our society, you get the service THEN you pay. Now, if many of the users of these providers did that. We might start a trend. Yes, the providers think that the client may run off without paying. But why should any of us put our "trust" that the provider will give the agreed upon service rather than them trusting the client to pay at the end.[/QUOTE]First, this is NOT McDonalds or Subway (which BTW require payment UPFRONT) There IS a HUGE degree of trust that needs to be involved on both sides before, during, and after the session. But the 'Money Trust' part is ENTIRELY different. In a High class meeting, this is a different dynamic than a street walker or BP type set-up. If you call a high class service, you are not concerned with a cash and dash or rip-off artist so that whole scenario plays differently from the start. OR, if you have a good relationship with a provider, the payment part may be held off until after the deeds are done. But two strangers in a room is a completely different story.

[QUOTE=Geneva Guy; 1862527]I understand that sometimes the little head takes over. You made the contact, made the call, made the drive, etc. Now you will settle for disappointing service (or even worse, a smelly provider) that doesn't meet your expectations. But, like a bad restaurant (read El-Kins here) , drive them out of business by making them give the service or you walk.

Just a suggestion. Maybe you guys will flame me about it. But honestly, in other countries, this stuff is discussed up front (the do's and don'ts) and the payment provided at the end of the service.

GG[/QUOTE]As Far as other countries and discussing it before payment? Again, I must disagree. This is NOT another country. In the USA, for the most part, play for pay is NOT legal. And discussing it can get you arrested. All one has to do is agree to a sex act for money and you can be arrested. No money need change hands, only agreeing to take money or pay money for sex is enough. So talking about it before both parties are sure of the other is VERY risky.

We live in a retardedly puritan society where many laws are based upon ancient religous beliefs. Other countries without our pilgrim / puritan backgrounds are far more progressive when it comes to sexworkers. Unfortunately, we don't live there, we live here and its not legal. So we do what we must.

As far as poor service or Bait and switch goes? YES we have to learn to think with the big head and walk when it is necessary! Too many guys will settle for the wrong provider which just encourages bad service and behavior. Like any other business, we must come together and vote with our wallets. That is the only way we can improve the service we recieve or expect.

Peace.

PK

I just finished reading Loki's responses and took particular notice to his response and I quote "In the USA, for the most part, play for pay is NOT legal. And discussing it can get you arrested. All one has to do is agree to a sex act for money and you can be arrested. No money need change hands, only agreeing to take money or pay money for sex is enough. So talking about it before both parties are sure of the other is VERY risky."

This set off a red flag in my head regarding texting providers, an act which many (not all) utilize in this modern day BUT how vulnerable are we in doing this? I understand the risks involved in the hobby but is texting really a smart thing to be doing? Are we essentially tapping our own phones by laying out our words in an attempt to participate in an illegal act?

Taking the easy or 'convenient' route all too often can come back to bite you in the ass and I personally text because it's less invasive, or so I thought. I've read reviews from rookies and senior members alike who mention texting providers. Are we putting ourselves at greater risk in an already risky enough biz?

Fox.

If this girl makes things right with Quail I'll be the first to engage with her a friendly game of hide the salami. I told her this upfront. Make it right with him and I'll give her business. It sounds like she's on the right track. Perhaps a call is in order to her?

L10.

[QUOTE=Quail; 1849467]A couple if things. First I want to thank all of my fellow members of usasexguide for your support of my posting this warning / alert / negative review. For all of you who have seen my comments / posts / reviews over the years, you know that I (and many other senior and long time members, encourage participation / contribution by everyone. I have encouraged comments, posts, reviews, whether positive or negative. I have always tried my best to be honest and tell it like it is.

I posted this no show and shitty attitude about Cher, and I would do it again if this happened with ANY provider. And I hope that all of you would do the same.

NOW my point was made. I just called Cher and told her that on my end it is OVER. She did apologize for the last minute cancellation, but told me that a family matter DID arise about 30 minutes prior to our 11 am date. I accepted her apology and thanked her. I did however tell her that she should have cancelled as soon as she knew and that the conversation we just had should have happened 3 days ago.

And she offered to see me for a makeup visit and promised that my time with her would be special[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Levi10; 1866628]If this girl makes things right with Quail I'll be the first to engage with her a friendly game of hide the salami. I told her this upfront. Make it right with him and I'll give her business. It sounds like she's on the right track. Perhaps a call is in order to her?

L10.[/QUOTE]Thanks Levi 10. I DID have a visit with Cher last week and reviewed her in the general reports section. She has pictures and reviews on Naughty Reviews. And she can send you more pictures if requested. Cher is very competent and dies all she can to please her client. She is a mature woman, early 49s, nice tits and ass, very good BBBJ and knows how to use her body.

I don't know how many times I go through this. Maybe 10-15 times per week. Between here and another site, I get at least that many requests from unknown members for any number of things.

Phone numbers for my ATF or soon to be ATF's;). Where can I find her? What is her address? Can I use you as a reference? I tried to call her but she won't pick up, do YOU know how I can get in touch with her. Can YOU call her for me and help me set up a date?

HOLY FUCKIN' SHIT!

How do half of these nit-wits get their shoes on in the morning? Do they still live at home and let Mommy pick-out their clothes and schedule dentist appointments? It is BEYOND reasonable to think ANYONE would do this shit for them ESPECIALLY when many don't even have a single post or valid report.

For the record: 'WE WERE ALL NEW HERE ONCE!". And we figured it out! We are not here to hold your fucking hand, pick out an ad for you, drive you over, make the deal, and / or wipe your ass when it's done! Grow some fucking sack and 'get 'er done' dude'!

New tagline- 'Getting laid- so easy a caveman could do it! '

Sorry, but lately it has gotten almost bizarre!

Peace.

PK