Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3899721]Hi. Can someone explain the appeal of meeting other mongers in person? I did it once years ago and wasn't impressed, and no value. Especially since most busts lately seem to come from these off-site meet-ups. Just curious, what's the big draw? I mean, if you guys are lonely, go buy some pussy! lol

Moved to this thread just in case it goes off the rails.[/QUOTE]You could absolutely, without a doubt have meet ups where you discuss your love of hookers and you could even invite the cops to come along if you wish. The Problems you're talking about is when they invite chicks as well. Or, and this is what everybody forgets about the Washington guys, you own a web site where guys are talking about having commercial sex with people who shouldn't be doing that.

Get together and talk about hookers no problem, inviting hookers to come as well, actually not a problem but the nature of the beast is going to create a problem because a couple of the idiots will do commerce and get everybody busted.

[QUOTE=Scup1958;3899920]Couldn't have said it any better LL. Whatever your hobby might be, following a sports team, fishing, golf, biking etc. You could do it in isolation, never getting together with other enthusiasts to share experiences. But it really wouldn't be the same. And I don't see a security issue at all as long as the same precautions are used in inviting individuals as you would use in setting up a session. There's no illegal activity occurring so it's not even going to attract the attention of LE.[/QUOTE]Most of those things (following a team, fishing, etc.), are all activities people do with their friends. So unless guys are looking for other dudes to go visit the same girl with, I'm not sure the appeal at all. I mean, what is there to talk about? Everything that's on here already? If we act in person like on this thread, someone's going to end up getting punched after a few minutes! LOL.

[QUOTE=Admin2;3900157]You could absolutely, without a doubt have meet ups where you discuss your love of hookers and you could even invite the cops to come along if you wish. The Problems you're talking about is when they invite chicks as well. Or, and this is what everybody forgets about the Washington guys, you own a web site where guys are talking about having commercial sex with people who shouldn't be doing that.

[b]Get together and talk about hookers no problem, inviting hookers to come as well, actually not a problem but the nature of the beast is going to create a problem because a couple of the idiots will do commerce and get everybody busted[/b].[/QUOTE]Exactly this (bold emphasis by me). I've been to one of these in MN years ago in a huge hotel suite. Everyone wore their username on their chest and girls were everywhere. Two hours later there's a high, naked chick in the hot-tub, people are drunk and there's transactional fucking going on in the other rooms. Hey, I left with a hooker that night, so not blameless. Hotel management came along and shut that shit down. Lucky the cops didn't show up. I look back on it now and realize just how dumb it was.

[QUOTE=Scup1958;3899930]Seriously? Busted for what? Is it illegal to meet friends for drinks and conversation these days?[/QUOTE]Of course that's not illegal. It's an oversimplification of my point though. Make sure you repeat those [B][u]exact[/u][/B] words while trying to get your name and mug shot off the front page of the local news.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3899721]Hi. Can someone explain the appeal of meeting other mongers in person? I did it once years ago and wasn't impressed, and no value. Especially since most busts lately seem to come from these off-site meet-ups. Just curious, what's the big draw? I mean, if you guys are lonely, go buy some pussy! lol

Moved to this thread just in case it goes off the rails.[/QUOTE]I'm grateful for the intel I've received from this site over the past 7 years. Without it, I'm sure I would have ended up in some bad situations.

With that said, there are already enough providers, current or past, plus boyfriends / pimps lurking nearby when I saw said providers, who know I engage in the hobby. A fair number of them know or knew my username here. Why on earth would I want more people out there who can associate my face with my username? I reveal my username only when it's necessary to get access to women.

It's nothing personal against you guys, but it's for the best that I stick with "knowing" you online.

In a little over 10 years in the hobby I've had meet ups that involved trusted hobbiests, either one on one or in groups of several guys, I would estimate more than once a week. I've also been privileged to attend meet ups that involved providers more often than I can recall. The ones that involved providers ranged in activities from low key lunches in very public places to what might be called uninhibited hot tub orgies. These meet ups have been some of the most extraordinary experiences and the greatest memories of my past decade. None of these meet ups ever involved negative consequences of any sort. My only regret is for the times when I had my head up my ass and didn't attend parties for one reason or another and had to hear about what I missed from the other guys.

[QUOTE=Scup1958;3900682]In a little over 10 years in the hobby I've had meet ups that involved trusted hobbiests, either one on one or in groups of several guys, I would estimate more than once a week. I've also been privileged to attend meet ups that involved providers more often than I can recall. The ones that involved providers ranged in activities from low key lunches in very public places to what might be called uninhibited hot tub orgies. These meet ups have been some of the most extraordinary experiences and the greatest memories of my past decade. None of these meet ups ever involved negative consequences of any sort. My only regret is for the times when I had my head up my ass and didn't attend parties for one reason or another and had to hear about what I missed from the other guys.[/QUOTE]Sounds like nirvana if that's the sort of thing you're into. I wouldn't say those of us that don't view banging hookers as a "team sport" have our heads up our asses though.

Press on pilgrim. Enjoy those hot tub orgies.

[QUOTE=Cal45;3898542]On my way home I saw this gal walking I look at her and she gave me the look but a man was walking with her this is close to Kroger. I tried to took a picture but this is what I got she was a good looking compared to the other ones.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Scarab31;3900863]LOL. Girl is just enjoying a smoothie on a hot summer day. Why she got to be a SW?[/QUOTE]Didn't you see what he wrote? He got "[B][i]the look[/i][/B]" LOL.

[B]Mr. Dangerfield prays for you lurkers to wake up and contribute[/B]

Please, Please, Please, Please, Please, Please, Please.

Please make up a name and register on this website, and sign in each time!

[I]Then when somebody here asks about about someone that you saw,
please respond, even if it's only to say that the provider is legit, or a rip-off. [/I]

[U]If you do this when you are able to help, you will become invaluable to us all,
and you can still stay anonymous. No identifying info. Just vouch - good or bad![/U]

[I]After you have told us about five or six different providers, you will have some cred,
and your saying a provider is a rip-off may be all that is needed to
help countless mongers skip time wasters, save money, and avert personal injury! [/I]

Thank you.

[B] A NOTICE TO MANY SEASONED PROVIDERS[/B]

[I]My S.O. took me for granted, at least that's the way it seemed to me. Sex seemed to get old.
Even though she still did the same things that always turned me on, it just wasn't doing it for me.[/I]

[I]It's gotten to be the same with you. You may still have the same moves, and it was good,
but I am constantly barraged with providers who are not only younger and cheaper, but also offering wilder experiences.
Even if it ain't true babe, to me, [b]it seems you have been [u]phoning it in.[/b][/u][/I]

That's why I don't see you so often. Unless you change it up, a lot, and soon, you're going to lose me. Sorry. But I just got to keep it real!

You are losing my respect here!

[QUOTE=RDangerfield;3901145][B]Mr. Dangerfield prays for you lurkers to wake up and contribute[/B]

Please, Please, Please, Please, Please, Please, Please.

Please make up a name and register on this website, and sign in each time!

[I]Then when somebody here asks about about someone that you saw,
please respond, even if it's only to say that the provider is legit, or a rip-off. [/I]

[U]If you do this when you are able to help, you will become invaluable to us all,
and you can still stay anonymous. No identifying info. Just vouch - good or bad![/U]

[I]After you have told us about five or six different providers, you will have some cred,
and your saying a provider is a rip-off may be all that is needed to
help countless mongers skip time wasters, save money, and avert personal injury! [/I]

Thank you.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=RDangerfield;3901203][B] A NOTICE TO MANY SEASONED PROVIDERS[/B]

[I]My S.O. took me for granted, at least that's the way it seemed to me. Sex seemed to get old.
Even though she still did the same things that always turned me on, it just wasn't doing it for me.[/I]

[I]It's gotten to be the same with you. You may still have the same moves, and it was good,
but I am constantly barraged with providers who are not only younger and cheaper, but also offering wilder experiences.
Even if it ain't true babe, to me, [b]it seems you have been [u]phoning it in.[/b][/u][/I]

That's why I don't see you so often. Unless you change it up, a lot, and soon, you're going to lose me. Sorry. But I just got to keep it real!

You are losing my respect here![/QUOTE]It seems strange you are pleading for others to contribute with 5-6 provider posts to gain "cred" on this site. Looking at your 17 posts, you have "reviewed" 2 providers, and then the others are worthless posts just like these two.

Have you considered therapy?

[QUOTE=RDangerfield;3901203][B] A NOTICE TO MANY SEASONED PROVIDERS[/B]

[I]My S.O. took me for granted, at least that's the way it seemed to me. Sex seemed to get old.
Even though she still did the same things that always turned me on, it just wasn't doing it for me.[/I]

[I]It's gotten to be the same with you. You may still have the same moves, and it was good,
but I am constantly barraged with providers who are not only younger and cheaper, but also offering wilder experiences.
Even if it ain't true babe, to me, [b]it seems you have been [u]phoning it in.[/b][/u][/I]

That's why I don't see you so often. Unless you change it up, a lot, and soon, you're going to lose me. Sorry. But I just got to keep it real!

You are losing my respect here![/QUOTE]"for every good looking women there is a man bored with her pussy!" Maybe you need to change YOUR game? The upside of mongering. When shit get's boring, which is why you are here in the first place, you move on the next!

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3900721]Sounds like nirvana if that's the sort of thing you're into. I wouldn't say those of us that don't view banging hookers as a "team sport" have our heads up our asses though.

Press on pilgrim. Enjoy those hot tub orgies.[/QUOTE]You just hit your ONE THOUSAND'th post! Confetti and vagina pink balloons released into the air!

[QUOTE=JimJaimes;3901429]You just hit your ONE THOUSAND'th post! Confetti and vagina pink balloons released into the air![/QUOTE]Congratulations on meeting a new milestone RO! I need to buy you a beer at a local establishment. But um. Oh yeah.

[QUOTE=JimJaimes;3901429]You just hit your ONE THOUSAND'th post! Confetti and vagina pink balloons released into the air![/QUOTE]Congrats, RO! I just got to 100 posts myself. Maybe we can grab some beers and celebrate sometime. XD.

[QUOTE=Scup1958;3900682]In a little over 10 years in the hobby I've had meet ups that involved trusted hobbiests, either one on one or in groups of several guys, I would estimate more than once a week. I've also been privileged to attend meet ups that involved providers more often than I can recall. The ones that involved providers ranged in activities from low key lunches in very public places to what might be called uninhibited hot tub orgies. These meet ups have been some of the most extraordinary experiences and the greatest memories of my past decade. None of these meet ups ever involved negative consequences of any sort. My only regret is for the times when I had my head up my ass and didn't attend parties for one reason or another and had to hear about what I missed from the other guys.[/QUOTE]In California we use to have meet-ups. They were held at some restaurants or hotel conference rooms. They had a DJ and we held discussions about safety and what to look for. Most importantly the women would come and if you had one on your TDL, it gave you a chance to meet them and see if they were worth the time. The biggest problem was some ladies and gentlemen weren't very discreet. Either dressing provocatively or discussing transactions. The last one I went to was a dinner in DTLA, it was fun and enjoyable. Had a good time and met a really cool lady. We went for a "walk" and discussed if she'd like to come over, which she did. Good times, but they haven't had any meet-ups in a couple of years.

Now that I live half my year in NKY and other half in TX its not the same. But I do have a good time with the girls.