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[QUOTE=SureYourRight;2530104]I was talking to a friend of mine, asking if he'd ever pay for service. He said no, etc etc, until eventually price came out and I told him it would be about $$ or $$$ depending on the girl. At this point, he said that.

If he was paying that much, he wanted to be able to do whatever. He wanted to pound as hard as he could, as deep as he could, for as long as he wanted in whatever spot he desired. All this he wanted because.
He was paying $$. I hit him back with the question if he was homosexual would he let a stranger ram on his ass balls deep for $$. Obviously he declined but you see my point. This kind of "I'm paying so I do whatever.
I want cause I'm going to get my money's worth" mentality is exactly why the whole "No Black Guys" thing exist. Most girls will quickly turn that rule aside as soon as you say you don't intend to do some type of painful
pounding shit for the entire hour. Not trying to say anything about rough sex but not every girl wants some sweaty stranger jack-hammering every minute.[/QUOTE]A perspective on this very same subject from a provider. It's in the BackPage Advertiser Reviews thread, posting #6267. From Oct 2013.

[QUOTE=SureYourRight;2530104]I was talking to a friend of mine, asking if he'd ever pay for service. He said no, etc etc, until eventually price came out and I told him it would be about $$ or $$$ depending on the girl. At this point, he said that.

If he was paying that much, he wanted to be able to do whatever. He wanted to pound as hard as he could, as deep as he could, for as long as he wanted in whatever spot he desired. All this he wanted because.
He was paying $$. I hit him back with the question if he was homosexual would he let a stranger ram on his ass balls deep for $$. Obviously he declined but you see my point. This kind of "I'm paying so I do whatever.
I want cause I'm going to get my money's worth" mentality is exactly why the whole "No Black Guys" thing exist. Most girls will quickly turn that rule aside as soon as you say you don't intend to do some type of painful
pounding shit for the entire hour. Not trying to say anything about rough sex but not every girl wants some sweaty stranger jack-hammering every minute.[/QUOTE]I don't see how your point is relevant to my response. I wouldn't want to pay for someone who's rule is no black guys because I feel the session would be lacking because the provider isn't really wanting to do it. More of the money talks thing.

Every person should get their money's worth because you are paying for a service. If I have a feeling she is not going to provide a service that is up to par, then I avoid and look for someone who I think can do the job in a proficient manner. I fail to understand the point that you are trying to convey.

[QUOTE=MidgetMac87;2530149]I don't see how your point is relevant to my response. I wouldn't want to pay for someone who's rule is no black guys because I feel the session would be lacking because the provider isn't really wanting to do it. More of the money talks thing.

Every person should get their money's worth because you are paying for a service. If I have a feeling she is not going to provide a service that is up to par, then I avoid and look for someone who I think can do the job in a proficient manner. I fail to understand the point that you are trying to convey.[/QUOTE]My point is just because someone is paying money does not mean the girl gets to be a rag doll for 60 minutes, but that was my friend's expectation you see? Also he said $$ was steep for an hour. That same expectation of "I'm paying money so everything is on the table" happens with a lot of guys and that's why providers put up "no black guys". These are usually younger guys who refuse to stop pounding hard when asked, refuse to shower (even if they need it, "she can just deal with the smell, I'm paying money anyway for this") and just general disrespect.

[QUOTE=SureYourRight;2530172]My point is just because someone is paying money does not mean the girl gets to be a rag doll for 60 minutes, but that was my friend's expectation you see? Also he said $$ was steep for an hour. That same expectation of "I'm paying money so everything is on the table" happens with a lot of guys and that's why providers put up "no black guys". These are usually younger guys who refuse to stop pounding hard when asked, refuse to shower (even if they need it, "she can just deal with the smell, I'm paying money anyway for this") and just general disrespect.[/QUOTE]I still don't see your point. Maybe I'm slow on the uptake. I'm talking about not wanting to have to persuade someone to take my money for service because I think the service will be crappy. You are talking about someone "abusing" a provider because they paid for something. There is no relevancy in your argument from what I am reading. And using your friend as an example doesn't make sense because he isn't familiar with being a monger. People who do partake in this hobby understand that the girls have their rules for a reason.

[QUOTE=MidgetMac87;2530182]I still don't see your point. Maybe I'm slow on the uptake. I'm talking about not wanting to have to persuade someone to take my money for service because I think the service will be crappy. You are talking about someone "abusing" a provider because they paid for something. There is no relevancy in your argument from what I am reading. And using your friend as an example doesn't make sense because he isn't familiar with being a monger. People who do partake in this hobby understand that the girls have their rules for a reason.[/QUOTE]My point was the only persuasion that would be required with that provider is you saying you will be "gentle" as she put it and not abuse her. I used my friend as an example to state the average opinion of what's allowed not allowed in these types of situations. I've never been turned down by a provider because of race, but I can completely understand her putting that flag up to try to prevent attracting customers who won't follow rules. Also my friend has mongered before he just doesn't remember telling me about it.

[QUOTE=SureYourRight;2530104]I was talking to a friend of mine, asking if he'd ever pay for service. He said no, etc etc, until eventually price came out and I told him it would be about $$ or $$$ depending on the girl. At this point, he said that.

If he was paying that much, he wanted to be able to do whatever. He wanted to pound as hard as he could, as deep as he could, for as long as he wanted in whatever spot he desired. All this he wanted because.
He was paying $$. I hit him back with the question if he was homosexual would he let a stranger ram on his ass balls deep for $$. Obviously he declined but you see my point. This kind of "I'm paying so I do whatever.
I want cause I'm going to get my money's worth" mentality is exactly why the whole "No Black Guys" thing exist. Most girls will quickly turn that rule aside as soon as you say you don't intend to do some type of painful
pounding shit for the entire hour. Not trying to say anything about rough sex but not every girl wants some sweaty stranger jack-hammering every minute.[/QUOTE]Your argument here is invalid and unsound, I think. It seems that you think only black guys want to get their money's worth when seeing a provider. Regardless of race, ethnicity, etc. , we ALL have expectations when meeting with these women. Granted, there are some guys who expect more than others (some guys want to fuck, piss, and pee on providers), but that isn't dependent upon a person's race. Let's put what you're saying into perspective because the analogy you used is shitty. First of all, some of us are successful men who have worked really hard to get where we are and most of us still don't make 300 per hour. That being said, anyone spending that kind of money for an hour with a provider would want to "get their money's worth"/ get what they want opposed to spending money to get a lousy lay from a woman who wants you to "play by her rules". I won't begin to get into the race issue with you as that would take forever, but I will say that I strongly disagree with everything you're saying.

[QUOTE=Cronus1;2530284]Your argument here is invalid and unsound, I think. It seems that you think only black guys want to get their money's worth when seeing a provider. Regardless of race, ethnicity, etc. , we ALL have expectations when meeting with these women. Granted, there are some guys who expect more than others (some guys want to fuck, piss, and pee on providers), but that isn't dependent upon a person's race. Let's put what you're saying into perspective because the analogy you used is shitty. First of all, some of us are successful men who have worked really hard to get where we are and most of us still don't make 300 per hour. That being said, anyone spending that kind of money for an hour with a provider would want to "get their money's worth"/ get what they want opposed to spending money to get a lousy lay from a woman who wants you to "play by her rules". I won't begin to get into the race issue with you as that would take forever, but I will say that I strongly disagree with everything you're saying.[/QUOTE]Is it time to move this discussion to the "Like Beef Lolo?" Thread?

[QUOTE=Kalani69;2530473]Is it time to move this discussion to the "Like Beef Lolo?" Thread?[/QUOTE]Not going to argue anything here.

I tried to explain something and he disagreed.

That's fair enough for me.

[QUOTE=Kalani69;2530473]Is it time to move this discussion to the "Like Beef Lolo?" Thread?[/QUOTE]Oh, there's no beef. Just a simple disagreement.

SureYourRight,

I apologize if it seemed as if I was trying to attack you or start beef as those weren't my intentions. I was simply disagreeing. I curse like a Sailor because I am a Sailor so I apologize if the profanity made me seem aggressive or angry. I meant no disrespect, though.

[QUOTE=HeineHeine;2529849]Gratefu, much respect. Care to share the reason for retirement? Boredom, guilt, depression, feel like its a waste of kala, etc. Just trying to read between the lines. If no answer, bless you brother in your future walk. Hh.[/QUOTE]Just got into it to try something different. It was fun, but way too expensive. Now I've done it and used up a lot of money I could have used for other things. Just moving on.

[QUOTE=Cronus1;2531008]Oh, there's no beef. Just a simple disagreement.

SureYourRight,

I apologize if it seemed as if I was trying to attack you or start beef as those weren't my intentions. I was simply disagreeing. I curse like a Sailor because I am a Sailor so I apologize if the profanity made me seem aggressive or angry. I meant no disrespect, though.[/QUOTE]No need to apologize or anything, I didn't think you were trying to attack me. It's perfectly fine to disagree with my statement.

Did some google image search on some of these photos, not completely sure if it's legit. Has anyone sampled?

[URL]http://honolulu.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/2-girl-special-hot-sexy-and-wild/5400886[/URL]

[QUOTE=GrateFu;2528975]I'm done after tonight, so I might as well make a top 10 list of best experiences + reasons why.

Never felt rushed from any of the following.

10. Bebe from Mayflower (First great BBBJCIM and picked up missionary).

9. Donna (best tits and first repeat).

8. Sophie and Hebe (first 3-some with Hebe giving great DFK).

7. Dream (best deep throat and easily the most orgasmic, wow she can get wet!

6. Nara (amazing PSE and back walk. Also, first to give me their personal number.).

5. Apple and Cherry 2-4-1 special (best deal PERIOD.).

4. Shiny (best table shower BBBJCIM + MSOG).

3. Paula (Huge mouth that was great for everything she did with it and so gorgeous, powerful, sexual, nice view from every direction and a good massage).

2. Leila (best deal for time / service vs. Money, also first greek experience).

1. Akira (amazing everything, DKF, best nuru, compass, perfect size, and beautiful as well).

Disappointments.

Lexi from Moonite (very beautiful, but waited a long time and service was maybe a 3 with forced finish.).

Empire always let me down. One time I never even got off until forced jackhammer HJ after time was called (that experience was actually pretty good up to that point, but that ruined it for me).[/QUOTE]Wise decision my friend. I'm think about the same thing. It's been a blast.

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[QUOTE=GrateFu;2531050]Just got into it to try something different. It was fun, but way too expensive. Now I've done it and used up a lot of money I could have used for other things. Just moving on.[/QUOTE]Good for you dude. It can become a costly hobby but its still better than gambling or coke. And at least a brother knows where he can always get nani and that's a good card to have in your pocket. Sometimes I find ladies who over value their puss, and knowing I can get better for less makes the conversations easier. Most don't suck it as good as Paula anyways. And I much prefer cash and carry versus long term financing. Best to you on your travels Gratefu. An old monger.