How to Hobby 101: red flags from the ATL sting
[QUOTE=JimJaimes;3877050]I'm a relative newbie to the hobby, 3 years maybe? Started with a referral from a co-worker, moved on to going to "strip" clubs. Bikini bars? Where I have to spend a ton of cash to find out which ladies do side jobs. That's how I met KLY30 as a matter of fact, My Room in Reading, not only was she my first cash and dash but she told me about this site! I've only met 2 ladies from this site and I'll only admit to 1. Looking at the post I have to wonder if it is actually a wonderfully crafted advice column. If there was a class for hobbyists this would be mandatory reading in "How to Hobby 101". So again, ty sir, it's truly an eye opener and should be reposted periodically to teach and remind folks of what the red flags are, this post surely covered a lot of them! JJ.[/QUOTE]I agree that the ATL post should be a mandatory read for new hobbyists. I'm still green myself and it was a serious eye opener. Here are some observations and questions I took away from reading the lengthy-but-worth-it Atlanta sting operation post:
1. Is it safe to ask if a girl is FS ahead of time?
2. Is it a bad idea to bring your own party supplies? (I didn't know condoms were called slabs. LOL And I've been guilty of bringing lube before, too.).
3. Is the "LE check" not really useful? I'm referring to when a girl feels you up and says you can feel her up in advance, too. It sounds like you actually shouldn't feel safe until the provider is actually nekkid.
4. We should always google and TinEye all phone numbers ahead of time, keeping a look out for landlines.
5. TOFTT is something you should be extra careful about doing, and you should probably run the other way if you see any red flags like LE cars and the provider not locking the door or getting you comfortable and running to the bathroom.
Any thoughts or comments are appreciated. I plan on reading that article again multiple times. .
Ramblings of a Jaded Old Man
[B]SECOND VISIT WITH PROVIDER[/B] [I]Has this ever happened to you[/I]?
Today I found out some things previously unknown about the provider!
[B]Her station in life[/B] . Her life revolves around drugs. She has no car, not even a driver's license, has a child that no longer lives with her, the child is the center of her universe, she says. She has been incarcerated at one time or another, nothing to do with prostitution. Her incall, more often than not, is the hotel room she lives in. She smokes cigarettes.
[I]And her phone is always dying, not charging, missing messages, not ringing,[/I] the list goes on [U]ad nauseam[/U]. She's not doing drugs anymore, just weed ([I]she says[/I]).
[B] All of this sounds frighteningly familiar. This could be about most any provider I have seen.[/B]
If she could only catch a break, she says, and offers up excuses for all the happenings in the preceding paragraph.
She seemed so interested in seeing me before, now I feel like an errand boy. She asked me to pick up a couple packs of Marlboro Lights and some Coke.
Finally:
[B]Cost:[/B] Why do I always pay top price?
It seems someone took a red Sharpie to my forehead and wrote.
[RED][b]S-U-C-K-E-R[/b][/RED]
How come I always seem to pay retail?
[B] AGAIN, NO RESPECT FOR THE ROD[/B]
Selectivegent cocknumb nuts
If you're actually cocknumb then based on past posts from you and about you we all should put popcorn and beer in han. Level 10 drama and stupid sh*t cometh. Welcome back. (nomnomnom)
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