Arrangement Reports

Desperate to meet! Will start high on price and come down and than try to beg and bring price up. I passed because of this and didn't want to take a chance of meeting her and things going bad. I wanted to take the plunge but my 6th sense told me not to.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d6758b70-9fe8-4584-8c2d-89b985ba0266[/URL]

DTF but was pretty firm on price wants 500 and didn't take the plunge!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8c60c5b7-df5e-429a-a060-e481a34a72e6[/URL]

Will ask 500 but will come down if desperate enough. Not a bad time but not worth 500.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a068072a-b74a-46b5-a97a-a5892e741905[/URL]

Too heavy for me and is mobile. DTF 300. I would consider hitting it if it was free.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b2e745c2-5fbe-4021-9849-cbc4d3f08691[/URL]

[QUOTE=PauFord;5590614]Younger guys have usually been a nuisance to SA girls. Thirsty af, zero cash, think that a meal at Chipotle entitled them to unlimited pu**why. And / or have the attitude that the girl should give it up free just because you let her hang out in your River North condo that you can barely afford.

Wonder if this so called new crop of younger guys is any different.[/QUOTE]If younger guys have no money, then they're a nuisance. But then again, older guys with no $$ are probably a nuisance too. Yes, younger guys with $$ are a threat to the older dudes on SA. So just go away and get the freebies you're able to get! Haha jk. SA is not much different than in real life, as a guy, there's always ahem, stiff competition for the best girls. Yes, a couple of girls have told me they prefer older guys, but as always, there's a wide range of objectives on SA, just like IRL.

I think some women use SA as a covert mission to find a real BF, LTR, or even a hubby. Those girls will target men closer to their age. Conversely, some women want to keep a distance, they have independent life plans (education, job etc.) so only want NSA sex, and want a little spending $$, and those are the women who prefer someone a bit older because the huge age difference prevents anything more than NSA. No sane 22 year old hottie is really going to fall for a 55 yo guy, unless he's Bezos or something. I would think $100+ billion and a trip into space every once in awhile for kicks could guarantee plenty of 22 yo hotties would fall for you. By going for a much older guy, she's kinda guaranteeing emotions stay out of the equation, and in a way, maintaining control.

The other thing is some younger girls prefer older guys because they feel that older guys are more likely to commit to something ongoing, vs being just a random vagina-of-the-day being churned through by a good looking young guy with money.

As usual, there are a myriad of objectives and goals on SA, and the flightiness of young girls adds to the unpre-dick-tability of what someone is going to find there. In a way, I'm glad there was no SA around when I was young, because I would now be old and broke. If you really think about the math, the present value today of a large volume of $200+ cash outflows (Also other outflows, LOL) compounded over decades, assuming you would have otherwise put that $ in the stock market, would be a pretty large chunk of change now. Just something to think about.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4708143c-59f7-4942-a6c0-9185976aa462[/URL]

Has to be a pro because she quickly moved to text and had a menu of in / out prices that were way cheap for someone of her profile. Plus she said anything goes including anal. Don't worry about what she quoted because you'd be an idiot to negotiate them down.

I'm trying to make sure this ones not a trap because it seems too easy.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4dcec5c0-f8f3-4ab5-b3f8-88c37e19634b[/URL]

Says she's visiting from SF for a month and quoted me 300 on first message. Assume can't host and said very open. I didn't reply because I don't want to get kicked off LOL.

Here's some that blocked me.

IHaveGoals17.

Married 31 yo probably fake pic needs you to get hotel and can only play between 9-11 am weekdays she's off and everything covered. When I said that's tough she told me she's got plenty of interest and blocked me. Good luck with that one.

AnnaD.

Exchange student from Columbia staying in Highland Park. 21 yo and says she prefers older men. Definitely not a pro so don't ask for sex right away but she knows the deal. Never got to negotiate as she blocked me after we texted. Maybe she's just out temporarily.

Bridget3.

Quoted me 600 on first message and doesn't host. Didn't see any private picks and just to keep myself in the good graces of SA I told her I don't do pay for sex. She immediately blocked me LOL.

[QUOTE=DynoJr;5592321]AnnaD.

Exchange student from Columbia staying in Highland Park. 21 yo and says she prefers older men. Definitely not a pro so don't ask for sex right away but she knows the deal. Never got to negotiate as she blocked me after we texted. Maybe she's just out temporarily.[/QUOTE]I think her account is just off or deleted now. I'd saved her but hadn't messaged yet. She used to be online all the time but I haven't seen her on there lately.

[QUOTE=Jinurso;5590775]I'm considered a younger guy by SA standards and it was definitely part of my pitch when I was on SA. It was basically "you could have a handsome young boyfriend for love and a sugar daddy on the side for money that you have to try to balance or you could have it all in one person. " It definitely helped to rope in the more exclusive girls (obviously no effect on pros and semi-pros who are transactional).

Of course the pitch only works if you're a young guy WITH money. I have some friends who work in tech who are single and in their 30's and live in new condos in the west loop who do this and clean up. So yeah you probably are competing with an influx of young money using a similar pitch.[/QUOTE]Wait but in my 30's I was pulling hotties off sites like plenty of fish and [URL]match.com[/URL], girls in their young 20's. I didn't need to use my money. I remember days of banging 3 different girls in 1 day no ppm needed. Not bragging because my guys friends at the time were all doing the same and some of the guys were not handsome. Just nice guys with steady jobs not even high salary.

[QUOTE=DynoJr;5592321][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4dcec5c0-f8f3-4ab5-b3f8-88c37e19634b[/URL]

Says she's visiting from SF for a month and quoted me 300 on first message. Assume can't host and said very open. I didn't reply because I don't want to get kicked off LOL.[/QUOTE]Likely a scammer.

I got same message. 300 first meet includes intimacy. Person also included a 415 phone number and an instagram username.

I replied by text. Person agreed to 200 but also asked for $100 deposit. I said no to deposit.

Person then asked for gas money. I again refused and let person know SA warns us to not give deposits.

Person replies "SA try to act like its not an escort site when it basically really is" and how SA only says that to pretend it cares about our safety.

I didn't reply. Does anybody know if it is ok to post screenshots of text exchanges? I would post but I'm not sure if it violates any of the rules.

[QUOTE=OnlyBbbj1;5590216]I think that's some interesting insight. Did you get the impression these were the guys in their 20's? 30's?[/QUOTE]Yes she told me they were and alot were decent looking guys. This leads me to believe that modern dating has gotten so bad that even guys with looks are having trouble due to the gender ratios on most popular online dating sites. ive heard that tinder/bumble/etc is like 70% men 30% women where as with SA its 80% women 20% men. the $100 a month fee keeps out the riff-raff

[QUOTE=PauFord;5590614]Younger guys have usually been a nuisance to SA girls. Thirsty af, zero cash, think that a meal at Chipotle entitled them to unlimited pu**why. And / or have the attitude that the girl should give it up free just because you let her hang out in your River North condo that you can barely afford.

Wonder if this so called new crop of younger guys is any different.[/QUOTE]Yep, I hear that alot. A real chad/tyrone can pull that off.

[QUOTE=Jinurso;5590775]I'm considered a younger guy by SA standards and it was definitely part of my pitch when I was on SA. It was basically "you could have a handsome young boyfriend for love and a sugar daddy on the side for money that you have to try to balance or you could have it all in one person. " It definitely helped to rope in the more exclusive girls (obviously no effect on pros and semi-pros who are transactional).

Of course the pitch only works if you're a young guy WITH money. I have some friends who work in tech who are single and in their 30's and live in new condos in the west loop who do this and clean up. So yeah you probably are competing with an influx of young money using a similar pitch.[/QUOTE]I started using SA when I was 25 and got my first job at a F500 company. I'm in my early 30's now and work at a big bank as a software developer and make decent money. I also live in my parents basement so I've always had cash to burn so to speak. So your pitch has been mine as well. It doesn't work as good though anymore, tbh. The amount of creeps and losers on SA ruins it for everyone else and these girls usually dip out after a day or two of getting bombarded with messages from old guys in their 50's and 60's asking them to piss and shit on them for money. Im not a bad looking guy by any means and ive gotten freebys but the quality of girls on there has gone down hill big time and its getting alot harder to get girls. alot more pros and former backpage girls along with women who are down on their luck. it used to be nice middle class college girls who needed some cash, sometimes upper class ones too.

5 or 6 years ago there were TONS of young girls (18-22) and now the average girl on there is about 25 or so. Lots of single moms in their 30's. I've used sa in a few diff cities the past 2 years and this still rings true.

The demographics of this country are changing big time and there are alot less middle class white girls being born and the ones that exist today are on cam sites.

im from the nyc metro area and the pickings are getting slim there unless you're in NYC where as it used to be pretty ample in Connecticut and nj. you will have to expand your search radius

She emailed me first and we were texting within minutes. Said $400 at her place for in Oak Brook for as long as I want and as many shot as I can muster. May dive in.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5394b8d8-8cfe-4039-969b-430a242eb082[/URL]

Texting her now and she's DTF for sure. Waiting on prices.

[QUOTE=DynoJr;5592308][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4708143c-59f7-4942-a6c0-9185976aa462[/URL]

Has to be a pro because she quickly moved to text and had a menu of in / out prices that were way cheap for someone of her profile. Plus she said anything goes including anal. Don't worry about what she quoted because you'd be an idiot to negotiate them down.

I'm trying to make sure this ones not a trap because it seems too easy.[/QUOTE]

Going in Feb to Cabo with a friend and there are almost 400 hotties on SA there. Anyone have any luck in Mexico? Haven't had any luck here in Chicago although also haven't had much time.

[QUOTE=DynoJr;5592308][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4708143c-59f7-4942-a6c0-9185976aa462[/URL]

Has to be a pro because she quickly moved to text and had a menu of in / out prices that were way cheap for someone of her profile. Plus she said anything goes including anal. Don't worry about what she quoted because you'd be an idiot to negotiate them down.

I'm trying to make sure this ones not a trap because it seems too easy.[/QUOTE]Got to rates very quick with this one. $200 for 1 hour, $300 for 2 and $400 for "Full Satisfaction". What does that mean, bareback?

[QUOTE=LolBoat;5592483]Yes she told me they were and alot were decent looking guys. This leads me to believe that modern dating has gotten so bad that even guys with looks are having trouble due to the gender ratios on most popular online dating sites. ive heard that tinder/bumble/etc is like 70% men 30% women where as with SA its 80% women 20% men. the $100 a month fee keeps out the riff-raff

Yep, I hear that alot. A real chad/tyrone can pull that off.

I started using SA when I was 25 and got my first job at a F500 company. I'm in my early 30's now and work at a big bank as a software developer and make decent money. I also live in my parents basement so I've always had cash to burn so to speak. So your pitch has been mine as well. It doesn't work as good though anymore, tbh. The amount of creeps and losers on SA ruins it for everyone else and these girls usually dip out after a day or two of getting bombarded with messages from old guys in their 50's and 60's asking them to piss and shit on them for money. Im not a bad looking guy by any means and ive gotten freebys but the quality of girls on there has gone down hill big time and its getting alot harder to get girls. alot more pros and former backpage girls along with women who are down on their luck. it used to be nice middle class college girls who needed some cash, sometimes upper class ones too.

5 or 6 years ago there were TONS of young girls (18-22) and now the average girl on there is about 25 or so. Lots of single moms in their 30's. I've used sa in a few diff cities the past 2 years and this still rings true.

The demographics of this country are changing big time and there are alot less middle class white girls being born and the ones that exist today are on cam sites.[/QUOTE]Your post is 100% spot on. I agree with everything you said with normal younger guys coming on being it is becoming mainstream and they are having trouble and modern day woman are not much better than the ones you meet on SA anyway.

Many of the younger guys on SA are the ones who live in their parents house mid 20's to early 30's with good jobs. I would be willing to bet a huge percentage of guys on SA are Indian, Arab, Asians being they live at home and have plenty disposable income. The young white professional doesn't have that luxury to live at home and has student debt and rent to pay. Even if you make 100 k a year in that situation you don't have the money to plow 1- 2 girls a week on SA.

[QUOTE=MwmChicago;5592542]Got to rates very quick with this one. $200 for 1 hour, $300 for 2 and $400 for "Full Satisfaction". What does that mean, bareback?[/QUOTE]LOL. She said we could meet to verify but when I suggested public she said her house. My gut tells me this isn't real.

[QUOTE=MwmChicago;5592530]She emailed me first and we were texting within minutes. Said $400 at her place for in Oak Brook for as long as I want and as many shot as I can muster. May dive in.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5394b8d8-8cfe-4039-969b-430a242eb082[/URL][/QUOTE]She sent me one word message- number?

Idk I'd have to see better pic to bite. Her place is kinda far but if it's unlimited shots may be worth it.