[QUOTE=Tendods;7098242]Nice. Thanks for the response. The few times Seeking has worked for me it was pretty much known by all involved what was going on and never ever had to do a M&G. Lately, I've been talking to a few who want to do a dinner or drinks at the bar kind of thing, which is new for me on the site, so just trying to expand my knowledge and see what the protocol is. LOL.[/QUOTE]I've been on and off of seeking for getting close to ten years. At first a meet and greet was part of almost every success I had. As years have gone by girls have talked more and almost everyone knows the deal; typically these days they bring up ppm before I do. If I get real new girl vibe from a prospect I usually suggest a M&G just to make them comfortable or to flush out if they are not quite as new to the deal as they seem. I actually think its a plus when they do want to do a meet because it suggests newer to the game and it gives me a face to face to decide if I really want to do this. I never pay for a meet, if a girl suggests that I move on to the next. I set the meet someplace convenient for me, and for something quick like drinks or coffee. I also find that if you get them that far without agreeing on ppm they are pretty much in the boat and probably for a better amount than if I negotiated by text.
