Mongering vs real relationship
[QUOTE=FourNick8;6423505]Sounds like you might need some counseling or group therapy.
Paid Pussy can never replace the relationships we have with family and friends. It's meant to be an expensive hobby just like golf. I have been mongering for 40 years and learned this lesson from the very start while stationed at Clark AB Philippines surrounded by 300 bars and 3000 bar girls who all sold their pussies for 5 or 10 USD. They were a great distraction from the heat, hard work, and separation from family BUT they could never replace the social interactions we make with the people we really care about.
This was also a great social experiment as I witnessed many young single dudes fall in love and marry these cute little province girls who worked in the bars to "feed their families back home". Most of these guys were taken to the cleaners and the two that I have kept in touch with? One married a cherry shop girl and she ended up fucking everybody before he divorced her and my other friend married the sluttiest bar girl I knew but is still happily married.[/QUOTE]I would have to agree it is impossible for mongering to replace family and friends, mainly because of the mindset when starting a relationship based on sex first.
I recently got out of the wash cycle after 30 years of mongering. During this period, I was in two long term relationships, the first a marriage. Both started off with chemistry and were affectionate but sex died off because neither of us put effort into it and so I looked for sex outside the relationships, mostly through mongering but also had a few FWB situations. Managed to keep sex and affection separate all these years and never fell for any chicks I mongered or had FWB with mainly because the chemistry was never there. Recently met someone with whom chemistry was there from day 1 and with whom I can combine sex and affection and hence being able to leave the wash cycle.
I think it is very hard to find someone you have chemistry and can combine sex and affection with if you start the relationship on the basis of sex, not saying it is not possible (as some have giving examples here of that happening and I'm sure each of us know of it happening with friends) but it is very low probability. That is because both you and the girl have to have chemistry and then to decide that affection is possible with each other. Chemistry is either there right at the beginning or it is not and good sex comes from good chemistry. So instead of finding someone through sex first, through luck and some design have found someone with whom chemistry and affection is there but sex also happens to be very good. For me, the physical aspects of sex are very important. She has to be good looking, skinny with decent natural tits, loves sex, loves giving BJs and just plain loves getting DATY and getting fucked.
Not saying there are no issues but we're working towards anal sex, LOL! And not to say I do not think about sex only relationships again and the variety of sex with multiple women. But I think the intellectual compatibility is really important and if that is there, then the idea of screwing over someone with whom you respect is not right. There is nothing hotter than a smart chick who digs you for who you are and digs sex with you. It is also really fun to find guys looking at us when we go out and then doing a double-take at me wondering WTF is such a hot thing doing with me. Wish you guys luck in getting out of the wash cycled if you do wish that, you can't keep doing things the same way and expect a different result, got to change the way you do things.
Forget it Jake, it's Chinatown
[QUOTE=FourNick8;6424133]
Hong Kong apartment girl FS. $40.
2010's.
NOVA AMP HJ. $60+40 tip.
NOVA AMP FS. $60+100 tip.
2020's.
NOVA AMP HJ. $80+60 tip.
NOVA AMP FS. $80+160 tip.[/QUOTE]One place that seems relatively immune to inflation is the rampant Chinese MP located on practically every street corner in Chinatown.
Took a small vacation up to NYC for the weekend and decided to hit up the for some authentic dim sum and then some.
Took the subway to Grand st and shuffled my way over in the rainy terrain to Elizabeth st. Named after a queen but for the afternoon I was treated like Royalty as I stopped by sunshine day spa for my first desert. I found it funny that as I proceeded to enter the door with its giant flashing lights and big ol open sign was locked. I noticed a small door bell and firmly pressed only to met with silence. Rain pelting my face I stood in the street the only white guy in a sea of Chinese passerbys who I assumed knew my guilty intentions.
It was then that I heard the click of an unlocking as the door slid open to reveal a milfy Asian in a leopard print dress. Sparkling red lipstick and Botox stretching her face like the pins from Hellraiser. Didn't speak a word of English so I couldn't get her name but managed to acquire the price of a half hour massage. $30. Yep. 30 $. Lead into a cramped hallway with tiny little massage tables with no doors but curtains draped over the cubicle. (That explains the need for the front door lock). I undressed and then the sensual rub down commenced. You know the typical soft touch around the legs and ballsack. A tease to get the juices flowing. Eventually I got bored of it, and decided to mosey things along. I lifted up her skirt to reveal some nice red underwear and started to do a little P rubbing of my own. She motioned for a HJ and I shook my head. She then motioned for FS with a fist pump and pelvic thrust and I nodded in agreement. She said $80. And all I can say is god damn it literally boils down to half the price for both house fee and FS. These ladies look just as good as any you'd find here in NOVA. Not telling you how you should spend your money but simply making an interesting observation.
Off came her clothes to reveal some pasty augmented Cs. A nice rack given her age. Body wasn't thin but wasn't fat either. For her age she was in pretty decent shape. My only complaint was her inability to let her face wrinkle. I much prefer natural looks and I find it kind of sad when Asians of all people who age pretty gracefully feel the need to turn to plastic surgery but I won't hold it against her especially given that in just a few minutes time I'd be holding something else against her. She opened a jar of oil containing a bucket a hats and proceeded to give me a pleasant BBBJ. Here in Chinatown it's basically a given. She then placed a hat on junior and I bent her over the table and plowed away grabbing on to both her tits until I busted my nut in the condom. $110. I spend that much here just for a handshake most days.
My hunger was ravenous and I decided hell since I brought $$. 3 with me let's see if I can make magic happen with the other half of my stipend and traveled even further down Elizabeth street until I came across another spa. This one was on the first floor of an apartment complex and I had to be rung into the building. After getting access via the buzzer I headed down the hall and came across a steel bolted door with a print out picture of a women getting a massage and figured this must be the place. Before I could even knock or press the doorbell, I heard the click for the second time today and the door opened to reveal an older lady with a gorgeous face and a skinny body. She was wearing a tshirt and sweatpants but made it look good. Pretty banging body given she was probably nearly twice my age. I was lead into the spa where a couple of other ladies were having tea. One with blonde hair, a bit pudgy but not too bad. The other was a little more frumpy and although perhaps only a few of you will get the reference but looked like the lady who runs Anna hessentoil here in NOVA. Lucy, the one who opened the door for me lead me all the way into the back room and told me to undress. It was another doorless cubicle style room with a massage table and a curtain draped over the wall. A little bit more spacious at least then my previous venture. I was kind of stricken by Lucy's beauty, everything about her was natural from her shoulder length dark hair to her slender frame, and was hoping she would be the one attending me.
She came back wearing red dress but I overheard another gentlemen enter at this time and be placed into the room and I guess he had requested her because she told me she had another appointment and that there will be another girl to attend me. She saw the look of disappointment in my face and whispered to me "come back next time I do for you" but like a cool vagrant I replied "there won't be a next time. I'm not from around here. I'm from the land of lovers. The good ol VA. Maybe my monger senses were activating but I could sense it. This chick is as wild and I couldn't let the opportunity pass me as I was about to have a most glorious fuck. The loins were screaming. Caveman hormones began to take over and I really got the urge to want to rail this chick senseless so I channeled my inner trump and established the art of the deal. I says to her I says. 5 minutes! That's all I need. Give me 5 min of your time and I promise you. I'm gone and you can continue with your regularly scheduled programming.
She goes 5 min?
5 min and 100 $.
She paused. $120.
Deal.
And with that I paid her the money pulled down her dress to reveal her slender butt naked body and began nursing away at those soft natural B titties.
I pulled her up into the table and motioned my rock hard rod inside her. BBFS was given the greenlight as long as I didn't finish inside her. For the next 4 min I was going in and out of that tight pussy like speed racer on track. She was moaning loud and a part of me wondered if the cuck next door to me was getting erect at the thought of giving him my sloppy seconds. She told me she wanted me to cum on her tits. But as I thrusted harder and leaned closer to her she says no on second thought "I want you to cum in my mouth" I lean into kiss her and I could taste the cigarettes she must smoke like 4 packs a day but hell who am I to judge she's in great shape.
I pull out from mish and turn her around to get onto the table. She grabs junior, soak and wet from her pussy juices and plops that bad boy into her mouth and begins bobbing for apples like she's about to make the best damn pie. She's throating my dick hard and her skills were out of this world. A minute of her sweet orchestral rhythm comes to a crescendo and I unleash a symphony of semen right into her throat. She gags but like a champ swishes my children in her mouth like listerine and spits it into a paper towel.
For $$. 3 I was taken to cAMP heaven. I hope NOVA can step it up because I might just have to take more trips to Manhattan C-town. Maybe I'll try that blonde next time.
NYC sexguide has a pretty popping board so I figured I'd share here. Feel free to PM me any cool stories if you brahs have any. I always love a good story.
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