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[QUOTE=NutritionFacts;7108337]Especially the full chest tattoo ruining their look. A lot of those ugly reverse tramp stamp on the front. Immediately next them if I see it.[/QUOTE]To each his own but I agree. Some tattoos are tasteful and fine. Cute little ones. But these make me basically say next when looking at girls.

Thigh tattoos, large.

Chest tattoos, especially names of people.

Any tattoo with birth and death dates.

Neck tattoos on the front or side.

Obviously face of any kind.

Too many, meaning more than like 2-3 small ones.

Hand tattoos.

I will also add lip piercings and that piercing on the side of the face. So trashy.

I will conclude with those super long nails. The ones that clack when she moves her hands. It's like tell me you're from the ghetto and have no desire to blend in anyplace that isn't the ghetto. They scream out, loudly, "I am the product of bad life choices and I intend to perpetuate them generationally".

Yes I'm judging at the end there. I do so when warranted.

[QUOTE=DongSmuggler;7137252]Hey Gents,

Just a heads up on this bullet I dodged. This woman hit me up on Seeking and asked me to text her. Her photos looked nice enough so I did and we had some nice banter trying to figure out what we were going to arrange. She said she was at the pool in her complex so her somewhat infrequent texts were understandable. I got around to asking her what she was into and how much she was looking for and got nothing back. Well, a couple hours later she replied and then immediately started bombarding me with texts calling me a loser for paying for sex. At first I thought it had to be meant for someone else, but she went in hard on some personal info that I had shared about me. Just beware that she doesn't seem to be on her meds.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3ff7a596-d457-4afd-9ad7-fc0e8635fbf0[/URL][/QUOTE]I had spoken w / her a year + ago. I just found the conversation odd, I'd describe her as autistic. Maybe a different way to say it is borderline. This is something that gets discussed on here from time to time, including by me.

Anyway, despite the fact she has such a rocking body, I was never able to get over the hump to get back in touch w / her. I think she is worthy of a block.

[QUOTE=Murrican;7153518] and have no desire to blend in anyplace that isn't the ghetto. They scream out, loudly, "I am the product of bad life choices and I intend to perpetuate them generationally".[/QUOTE]I'm way past looking for a gal I can introduce to my mom, or be the mother of my children, 'cause, I've got that.

So I don't mind the trashy gals that I can ride hard & put away wet.

If they don't respect themselves, why should I?

[QUOTE=Taws6;7154396]I'm way past looking for a gal I can introduce to my mom, or be the mother of my children, 'cause, I've got that.

So I don't mind the trashy gals that I can ride hard & put away wet.

If they don't respect themselves, why should I?[/QUOTE]Totally. And to each his own. I'm responding here not to try to convince you. Just for the entertainment value of it. For discussion sake.

My issue is that trashy girls don't turn me on. The opposite. Truth of the matter aside, they look diseased and cheap and borderline streetwalker to me. I see a girl with a tattoo across her chest and my dick goes limp.

I see a clean sweet girl with no tattoos and (again truth aside since no one of us knows each persons situation) I want to pillage that. I feel like I'm bringing her down to my level instead of slumming it down at hers. Kinda dark but yeah.

I saw a middle-aged nanny for the 2nd time. First time she was very complimentary, said I could date 20-somethings. This time, repeat of hot session, including kissing up her legs. I get to the crotch, onto the clothes, no resistance / comment, pull the shorts aside. I DATY, including put in the tip of my finger to stim the G-spot. She gets off, thanks me. I start to strip, she says nope, she is not a hooker. OK, no problem. Asks for a backrub and flips. I straddle her naked butt, I am no MT, but it feels great. I could have finished (in my shorts) if I wanted, too messy, but got off her and got off. Rest of session, fine. Next day, I get a text that her p* was sore, I'd harmed her, and she would not see me b / c my improper conduct. Trying to anticipate, I unfavorite her on the CC site and block her. But then I get an email from them that my account was deleted because of this. I believe she was ashamed she had gotten out of control, was blaming me for it, and reporting me was justification (in her own mind).

No biggie, my situation doesn't make it that easy to take advantage of CC girls.

[QUOTE=Murrican;7153518]To each his own but I agree. Some tattoos are tasteful and fine. Cute little ones. But these make me basically say next when looking at girls.

Thigh tattoos, large.

Chest tattoos, especially names of people.

Any tattoo with birth and death dates.

Neck tattoos on the front or side.

Obviously face of any kind.

Too many, meaning more than like 2-3 small ones.

Hand tattoos.

I will also add lip piercings and that piercing on the side of the face. So trashy..[/QUOTE]Super long nails kill it for me.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7160508]I saw a middle-aged nanny for the 2nd time. First time she was very complimentary, said I could date 20-somethings. This time, repeat of hot session, including kissing up her legs. I get to the crotch, onto the clothes, no resistance / comment, pull the shorts aside. I DATY, including put in the tip of my finger to stim the G-spot. She gets off, thanks me. I start to strip, she says nope, she is not a hooker. OK, no problem. Asks for a backrub and flips. I straddle her naked butt, I am no MT, but it feels great. I could have finished (in my shorts) if I wanted, too messy, but got off her and got off. Rest of session, fine. Next day, I get a text that her p* was sore, I'd harmed her, and she would not see me b / c my improper conduct. Trying to anticipate, I unfavorite her on the CC site and block her. But then I get an email from them that my account was deleted because of this. I believe she was ashamed she had gotten out of control, was blaming me for it, and reporting me was justification (in her own mind).

No biggie, my situation doesn't make it that easy to take advantage of CC girls.[/QUOTE]Whoa, there's all types of crazy! Sounds like it was a satisfying session but sorry you have to deal with the aftermath. So what did the CC folks say was the reason for you being kicked off? Because you fingered her, or was it just some generic BS like "improper conduct"?

[QUOTE=Taws6;7154396][QUOTE=Murrican;7153518]To each his own but I agree. Some tattoos are tasteful and fine. Cute little ones. But these make me basically say next when looking at girls.

Thigh tattoos, large.

Chest tattoos, especially names of people.

Any tattoo with birth and death dates.

Neck tattoos on the front or side.

Obviously face of any kind.

Too many, meaning more than like 2-3 small ones.

Hand tattoos.

I will also add lip piercings and that piercing on the side of the face. So trashy.

I will conclude with those super long nails. The ones that clack when she moves her hands. It's like tell me you're from the ghetto and have no desire to blend in anyplace that isn't the ghetto. They scream out, loudly, "I am the product of bad life choices and I intend to perpetuate them generationally".

Yes I'm judging at the end there. I do so when warranted.

I'm way past looking for a gal I can introduce to my mom, or be the mother of my children, 'cause, I've got that.

So I don't mind the trashy gals that I can ride hard & put away wet.

If they don't respect themselves, why should I?[/QUOTE]I'm way past looking for a gal I can introduce to my mom, or be the mother of my children, 'cause, I've got that.

So I don't mind the trashy gals that I can ride hard & put away wet.

If they don't respect themselves, why should I?[/QUOTE]I'm with you. I don't have a long list of No's and dealbreakers. Certainly not tats or chicks with designer names like ChanelDior LOL. If you eliminate chicks with current fashion trends, 99% of the girls posting won't make the cut. There aren't too many girls like who look like Playboy centerfolds of the 70's, 80's, 90's or even the 2000's. Social media has changed the norms.

However I do admit it's awesome to find a girl with short nails without even a drop of paint. Like this 20 yo 100 pound girl below. When she spreads her pussy lips for you, her 3 inch claws won't distract while looking at her tight pussy LOL.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7160508]I saw a middle-aged nanny for the 2nd time. First time she was very complimentary, said I could date 20-somethings. This time, repeat of hot session, including kissing up her legs. I get to the crotch, onto the clothes, no resistance / comment, pull the shorts aside. I DATY, including put in the tip of my finger to stim the G-spot. She gets off, thanks me. I start to strip, she says nope, she is not a hooker. OK, no problem. Asks for a backrub and flips. I straddle her naked butt, I am no MT, but it feels great. I could have finished (in my shorts) if I wanted, too messy, but got off her and got off. Rest of session, fine. Next day, I get a text that her p* was sore, I'd harmed her, and she would not see me b / c my improper conduct. Trying to anticipate, I unfavorite her on the CC site and block her. But then I get an email from them that my account was deleted because of this. I believe she was ashamed she had gotten out of control, was blaming me for it, and reporting me was justification (in her own mind).

No biggie, my situation doesn't make it that easy to take advantage of CC girls.[/QUOTE]Didn't they investigate and hear your side of the story? Unless she sent screenshots of your conversations where you admitted you got physical. I never initiate but most cuddlers will let me know extras are available to keep me as a customer.

So many old women on these websites now. WTF.

[QUOTE=TnaStylez;7167269]Didn't they investigate and hear your side of the story? Unless she sent screenshots of your conversations where you admitted you got physical. I never initiate but most cuddlers will let me know extras are available to keep me as a customer.[/QUOTE]There was no investigation, just an email that my profile was deleted. I wasn't that excited by the site, there is a very static roster, so I just deleted everything. I have an active account on seeking just now, that keeps me very busy. And I get contacted by old SBs periodically as well. I have plenty of opps for young women for play, the only question is the price point. The cuddler cost me 300 and she got the room, and I didn't even get FS, I have a SB who will let me come to her apartment for 250.

[QUOTE=StevenWalker;7152020]Guys just give up. This hobby is dead. You can smash this caliber of woman for free on Tinder with minimal effort. "Hey want to hookup?" Literally that easy. I deleted my seeking, humaniplex, whatsyourprices, p411. At least we go to experience the glory days. Time to throw in the towel and grow up.[/QUOTE]I agree with you bud. I was mongering since I was 29 and I was the young gun and would get freebies or more for my money because I looked young and the ladies seemed to like that. I not 44 and have given up since 2 years ago. I go on this forum for fun and entertainment now. LOL Not much has changed except for the pricing LOL inflation at it's finest.

[QUOTE=WhiteCollarGuy;7044691]I know that some have had mixed results from using SecretBenefits, but anyone have recent experience that is helpful one way or another? Prior posts have said some guys have received messages from girls but the girls claim that they never sent a message. Or, that girls are shown as being online but they actually aren't. Seems like a shady operation, even by sugar website standards.[/QUOTE]I agree that there's a scam going on. I posted about this awhile back too. I've had great luck with Seeking Arrangements overall. The goal is to find a fine girl you can fck for a decent rate and some degree of convenience. So it's going to be a niche find anyway, right? Seeking is probably 50% scam and international messages, so disregard those. The about 30% of the girls are not what I'm looking for. Not my type, too expensive, clearly pros, etc. So, with about 20% to choose from, some get back to you, some don't. Most of the real girls, are off the site in a matter of months. So I feel like my best luck has been (and here's the tip, I guess) going for girls who are within a 5 mile radius of my place and who are new on the site. Works pretty good.

Secret Benefits, on the other hand. Yikes. Clearly a TON of fakes on there. I will say that I met 4 girls on there, fck'd them all and only had to pay 2 of them. One of the one's I paid was a Korean girl who is out of the US now and was maybe the best I've been with. BUT other than that, at lot of wasted time and money on Secret. Never again.

[QUOTE=PapitaFrita;7238493]I agree that there's a scam going on. I posted about this awhile back too. I've had great luck with Seeking Arrangements overall. The goal is to find a fine girl you can fck for a decent rate and some degree of convenience. So it's going to be a niche find anyway, right? Seeking is probably 50% scam and international messages, so disregard those. The about 30% of the girls are not what I'm looking for. Not my type, too expensive, clearly pros, etc. So, with about 20% to choose from, some get back to you, some don't. Most of the real girls, are off the site in a matter of months. So I feel like my best luck has been (and here's the tip, I guess) going for girls who are within a 5 mile radius of my place and who are new on the site. Works pretty good.

Secret Benefits, on the other hand. Yikes. Clearly a TON of fakes on there. I will say that I met 4 girls on there, fck'd them all and only had to pay 2 of them. One of the one's I paid was a Korean girl who is out of the US now and was maybe the best I've been with. BUT other than that, at lot of wasted time and money on Secret. Never again.[/QUOTE]Secret Benefits doesn't sound like it's worth the cost and effort.

Speaking of Seeking, I've been able to use a VISA gift card purchased at Ralphs successfully, but the last one that I got hasn't worked for a week. The other ones usually took a few days before they finally worked. Anyone running into issues using gift cards on Seeking recently?

[QUOTE=MrBlueSea;7265079]I gave up with trying to get back on Seeking for the time being. Silver lining being that I am spending less time searching as the numbers I can interact with is limited, so I have been focusing on quality. Don't get me wrong I miss all the action on Seeking, but I have been doing ok with SugarDaddyMeet and SugarLifeNow. Secret Benefits is too pricey as far as messaging, and no girls seem to reply on there as well. Haven't been in contact with this one yet, but she's totally my speed.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/henneessssy/[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, for Secret Benefits, one reason you might not be getting a lot responses is "zombie accounts" (basically real profiles that have been abandoned and are run by bots now).

Since you're doing well with SugarDaddyMeet and SugarLifeNow, it sounds like you're not missing Seeking too much.