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I stopped using the site. It kept asking, "Verify with a Selfie". I'm not doing that. If anybody know how to work around it, please let me know.
[QUOTE=Bran2025;7213910]You can no longer make a new account without using their 'send a pic' system.
I won't be doing that (and had already deleted my account) . . . So absent using a work-around I'll never have a SA account again.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7214131]Same. That site is dead for me. Just as well, because I sort of had my fill over the years. My bucket list is completely checked off![/QUOTE]This is how I feel. Definitely had a ton of amazing encounters. . . And enough shite that I'm no longer pressing my luck.
And despite this being a HUGE college town, it's pretty clear that college and grad school women are no longer participating. Not nearly to the extent they were 2012 to 2020. There were Wellesley college girls on SA back then; I picked up and dropped off several from in front of their dorms. Bentley too. Nada for quite a while. I guess they learned that it wasn't the easy money they'd hoped for.
Same. Add BC, Suffolk, and UMass to the list. Not sure if it's the ladies backing out or us guys not willing to put in the effort we once did. I know that back in the day I was putting in a lot of effort to secure those gems. It did not come easy. And now I'm satiated. Not as eager to put in the same effort. Moving on to other things. Bucket list is all checked off. At least for now.
[QUOTE=Bran2025;7214390]This is how I feel. Definitely had a ton of amazing encounters. . . And enough shite that I'm no longer pressing my luck.
And despite this being a HUGE college town, it's pretty clear that college and grad school women are no longer participating. Not nearly to the extent they were 2012 to 2020. There were Wellesley college girls on SA back then; I picked up and dropped off several from in front of their dorms. Bentley too. Nada for quite a while. I guess they learned that it wasn't the easy money they'd hoped for.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7214420]Same. Add BC, Suffolk, and UMass to the list. Not sure if it's the ladies backing out or us guys not willing to put in the effort we once did. I know that back in the day I was putting in a lot of effort to secure those gems. It did not come easy. And now I'm satiated. Not as eager to put in the same effort. Moving on to other things. Bucket list is all checked off. At least for now.[/QUOTE]May be some of both; I did put in HOURS. . .
But in the past couple of years just browsing the profiles frequently led me to see that those college and grad school ladies are just not on the site in nearly the numbers they used to be.
As recently as this fall starting with the return of students to the city I gave it a good try. . . So I think that my data are pretty accurate and thorough to conclude that "sugaring" has largely gone out of style among that crowd, whereas it was pretty hot in the 5 years before covid for example.
But absolutely when we've lost our motivation to put in the time and effort. . . It of course looks grim in any event. I have the time on my hands; I'd do it if I thought the returns outweighed the risks.
[QUOTE=IOnDaStreet;7211124]User is JBoombaby, She would contact me, chat very little and then ghost me. I'm on a break from paying and of course she reaches out to me but this game has been going on too long.[/QUOTE]Oh yeah, she's bogus. We discussed an arrangement, made plans agreed on time and place. I sat waiting for her in a hotel lobby for hours. Finally she said she was too busy to come meet, and wanted to reschedule. We rescheduled and she flaked again. That was it for me.
Good morning everyone!
I've been texting with Carolina for a few days now and we have plans to meet up this Friday.
Has anyone met her? Good or bad experience?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4548d7e8-61f5-42bd-97b6-71cd254644ec[/URL]
Thanks!
[QUOTE=Fbrd68;7215907]Good morning everyone!
I've been texting with Carolina for a few days now and we have plans to meet up this Friday.
Has anyone met her? Good or bad experience?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4548d7e8-61f5-42bd-97b6-71cd254644ec[/URL]
Thanks![/QUOTE]Says she's in Groton? I'm guessing Connecticut. Maybe that board can be of help.
It lists groton ma but she's closer to Nashua.
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;7218304]Says she's in Groton? I'm guessing Connecticut. Maybe that board can be of help.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Fbrd68;7218381]It lists groton ma but she's closer to Nashua.[/QUOTE]I'm on social media with her but has been quiet lately. She has been on SB and SA for a while. I never pulled the trigger as she isn't really my type. Works in SNH lives near Groton.
[QUOTE=Fbrd68;7218381]It lists groton ma but she's closer to Nashua.[/QUOTE]Ohhhh gotcha! Sorry for the confusion.
She seems real. Texted with her a bit but she proved to be nothing but a huge time waster never actually met even though we made plans to multiple times. Kinda the opposite of what she says in her profile but I am curious if anyone on here had actual luck with meeting her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/643b8efc-1702-4217-a9d6-a6eb99503d22[/URL]
Actually had a meeting set up which I canceled because you have to pay for a room and 700 is non negotiable.
[QUOTE=OptimusSlime;7232202]She seems real. Texted with her a bit but she proved to be nothing but a huge time waster never actually met even though we made plans to multiple times. Kinda the opposite of what she says in her profile but I am curious if anyone on here had actual luck with meeting her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/643b8efc-1702-4217-a9d6-a6eb99503d22[/URL][/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7516059f-62bf-41ca-b8ea-ac8d69384239[/URL]
She seems real. I offered her $200 ppm and she countered that she has been offered 400 and 600. I told her to take those then as I am attractive and attentive so she can make the decision that bests suits her.
[QUOTE=CSheen1;7233188]Actually had a meeting set up which I canceled because you have to pay for a room and 700 is non negotiable.[/QUOTE]She told me 600 recently! I also found her to be a huge time waster, pain in the ass to text with, and never met her, there is no way I am paying 600 for someone over 30, I can meet women over 30 for free at bars (I probably wouldn't pay 600 for anyone, I am usually in the 400-500 range for college girls, this woman intrigued me a little bit but 600? Nope.
[QUOTE=ItsNev;7233226][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7516059f-62bf-41ca-b8ea-ac8d69384239[/URL]
She seems real. I offered her $200 ppm and she countered that she has been offered 400 and 600. I told her to take those then as I am attractive and attentive so she can make the decision that bests suits her.[/QUOTE]$200 good luck with that number, sure you can find women that will go that low but they usually do so for a reason.