Easy plausible deniability
[QUOTE=CuriousGeor;5156642]Not to discourage anyone from taking whatever precautions they feel are necessary but this is why I mostly stick with slightly higher end / more expensive places. They're not as worried about all working girls so much as they are the ones that are gonna cause trouble elsewhere.
Furthermore NEVER discuss explicit acts over text / phone. It's always just "I'd like to set up some time together" or "a session". That's easy easy plausible deniability and there's no way a the will try and file charges with evidence like that. Now if you go texting this girl "do you do BBBJ" then ask her what her rate is you've automatically put in writing that you're soliciting someone. Like not to be rude but most of the people busted for this sort of stuff are not that bright and don't think twice about straight up asking about specific acts and costs. Like all these posts I see on here where someone inquires about BB and is told it's an upcharge. That's direct evidence of solicitation in writing.
Now you might end up spending a bit of money on an experience that's a bit different than what you wanted, like maybe you show up and find out the girl only does CBJ or whatever, but at the end of the day that's an easy tradeoff for me vs having a written record of solicitation.[/QUOTE]You called it "easy plausible deniability" - now that's what I'm talking about. Whether in person in a store, or by text or email, or on the phone, there is nothing wrong with asking questions like: are you open minded, do you know anybody that does housekeeping, or even- do you know anyone that's trying to make some extra money? Since you don't mention sex for money you could easily claim that you needed a housekeeper or gardening advice. Yes anyone could say "but we know what you meant". But that's impossible to prove. If the girl knows what you mean then it's mission accomplished. If anyone else hears about it just deny it all day long.
I tried using our code word roses in another forum to ask how much certain jobs pay. I was trying to ask without actually referring to money. They didn't understand the reference and told me that nobody gets paid in roses.
GB40.
Started records once the ex-wife left
I definitely record and try to keep pics. I only got 6 last year because of rona. I had 20 the year before. I had a scare with a lady who got blood all over my balls. I had a condom and The dr said it was low risk, but I sweated about it for 6 months. Happy to report I was clean.
[QUOTE=Bouinage;5158482]So not sure how many of you do this; I have known a few mongers to track their mongers over the year. One guy I know kept a detailed spread sheet LOL. I don't go to that extent but I do track who and when. It all started when a cover broke while with a provider with questionable hygiene. You know that feeling, your doing the deed and all of a sudden it starts feeling really good, then you bust a big nut. You pull out and see that rubber ring at the base and your cock is all shiny with the mixed juices LOL. That was a sinking feeling for me and I was worried about STDs, so I recorded the date and her name. I came up clean but the habit stuck. I know alot of guys on here have SO so that's not a good idea, but its just me. So last year I made 95 recordings (obviously not all reported on here) I was stunned when I did the math at what I had spent. Any one else keep track of their visits or is this crazy and I should stop doing it immediately LOL. Don't think it would really prove anything in court if it came to that, my text messages are way more detailed lmao.[/QUOTE]
Making a living or supporting demon habits
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;5211082]I understand when someone posts that she has demons, it's referring to a drug addict and drug use. I get that.
And that seems to be the norm with many young women that need money. This is how they finance their habit.
It is rare to find a woman who will fuck for money and use the money for something other than drugs.
So, what is the objection to seeing a girl who has demons? Is it not wanting to be around a drug user? Or afraid her behaviour will be shady?
Many girls I know are functioning addicts. Yes they can cause trouble but I think that's just part of the game.
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GB40.[/QUOTE]My former and current favorites entertain mongers because that's how both of them make their living. I am very certain that neither one of them are under the influence of demons. I'm also sure there are other escorts out there who only do this for the money. But I do agree that a lot of escorts do this to support their demon habits.
Sometimes I prefer the demons
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;5211082]I understand when someone posts that she has demons, it's referring to a drug addict and drug use. I get that.
And that seems to be the norm with many young women that need money. This is how they finance their habit.
It is rare to find a woman who will fuck for money and use the money for something other than drugs.
So, what is the objection to seeing a girl who has demons? Is it not wanting to be around a drug user? Or afraid her behaviour will be shady?
Many girls I know are functioning addicts. Yes they can cause trouble but I think that's just part of the game.
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GB40.[/QUOTE]Just about all these girls have some sort of problem. Its a rare byrd that doesn' but I have met a few older gals who were just nymphos looking to profit off their vice. With drug use at least we know what the issue is. Sometimes you get to know a girl whose problem you could not see at first and that problem is even worse or more dangerous. Not going to go into any details or stir any pots which some details will do but I will use a cliche to explain it even though I hate cliches. The devil you know is less dangerous that the devil you do not know.
Some of the best sex I have had was with women so high they couldn't tell time or figure out my 20 minute bareback QV went on for hours with multiple creamings. Sometimes I get with girls so desperate to feed the demon that the menu expanded. This is the devil I know, when dealing with a devil I do not know I can spend a lot of money on a lot of visits before I figure out how to go further with a girl. To me its a game of how far can I get a girl to go, it might not even be sexual. I find something they shield and I like to bring their defenses down. I am not a predator or anything so when they let their guard down they are not in danger but I get a rush out of women trusting me. I have better orgasms, and enjoy them that much more. The more of them they share with me the better I treat them too.