Seeking Arrangement

[QUOTE=Wiggles0923;6508784]Short, black, cute in Ann Arbor. Do you know any that are reasonable?[/QUOTE]That's not the one I'm thinking about the one. I'm thinking about us up from the Waterford area and she does basically the same thing.

I will tell you definitely avoid the blonde from Detroit that says she's a dancer at legends. I think her current name on Seeking is like barbijams or something like that, but she will totally rip you off. She's really attractive and will even meet you in person but she wants this monthly amount upfront and then you'll never hear from her again LOL that's the biggest one I've got scammed from the whole time I've been doing this.

[QUOTE=RoyalOaker;6509292]That's not the one I'm thinking about the one. I'm thinking about us up from the Waterford area and she does basically the same thing.

I will tell you definitely avoid the blonde from Detroit that says she's a dancer at legends. I think her current name on Seeking is like barbijams or something like that, but she will totally rip you off. She's really attractive and will even meet you in person but she wants this monthly amount upfront and then you'll never hear from her again LOL that's the biggest one I've got scammed from the whole time I've been doing this.[/QUOTE]Do you have age / info on Waterford. Maybe if we all haggle it will drop the price.

[QUOTE=Wiggles0923;6509319]Do you have age / info on Waterford. Maybe if we all haggle it will drop the price.[/QUOTE]It was awhile ago. Probably three or four months ago. I have to go back and look but I want to say she was in her early 20's but I don't recall the username but I believe her name is Cass.

[QUOTE=Lsyfier;6491178]Adding pic of SA profile of GP303.[/QUOTE]SA profile GP303. Seems to have a boyfriend that may be around. She wants to meet during day during week only when boyfriend is not around. She hosts at her house. Would not want to be with her should boyfriend show up unexpectedly. The kind of potential drama that none of us wants or needs and looking to avoid. Just a heads up.

Very little activity on these boards these days, especially SA. Someone on another board said the hobby is dead. Is this the case? If so, is it the economy? Is it lack of quality girls? Too many scammers? All of the above? Why has activity fallen off so much? Was on SA for last month. Found very few decent options. A lot of messaging / texting but that's it. Comms by these girls has gotten worse (was always terrible). Did manage to hook up with one that I will probably continue to see but it took just about my entire 30 day subscription to find her. Another one I have been texting with for last month contacted me again yesterday to meet for initial coffee date (been trying to set this up for awhile). We were supposed to meet today, but then crickets in response to my texts. Is this happening to everyone? Curious about others recent experiences here. I'm more than willing to hook up with these girls, but they need to put in a little more effort.

Has anyone tried [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/[/URL] ? I was wondering if it was worth it to check it out. Any info would be appreciated.

[QUOTE=Vollan78;6528333]Has anyone tried [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/[/URL] ? I was wondering if it was worth it to check it out. Any info would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]It's as good as anything. I see a lot of women there and on Seeking. I guess you'd double your chances if she ignored your first interaction.

I gave it a shot a few months ago and had OK response. About what I'd expect, 10-25% response. I didn't pursue any.

I'm kind of curious if the women benefit in any way though from guys on any of their upsells. It's unlimited messaging for a cost; that's why we're there, I get that. But, hidden photos are another. Questions she answered are another. And some simps pay to be her biggest admirer or some dumb status like that.

The reason I wonder is some will just send you that they approved you for their hidden photos. But, then you have to send more tokens or whatever.

So, bc I wonder that, I avoided anyone doing that.

IDK anywhere better. It's all a roll of the dice and trying to catch someone at the right time, with the right message, and decent enough offer in the world.

[QUOTE=Lsyfier;6526507]Very little activity on these boards these days, especially SA. Someone on another board said the hobby is dead. Is this the case? If so, is it the economy? Is it lack of quality girls? Too many scammers? All of the above? Why has activity fallen off so much? Was on SA for last month. Found very few decent options. A lot of messaging / texting but that's it. Comms by these girls has gotten worse (was always terrible). Did manage to hook up with one that I will probably continue to see but it took just about my entire 30 day subscription to find her. Another one I have been texting with for last month contacted me again yesterday to meet for initial coffee date (been trying to set this up for awhile). We were supposed to meet today, but then crickets in response to my texts. Is this happening to everyone? Curious about others recent experiences here. I'm more than willing to hook up with these girls, but they need to put in a little more effort.[/QUOTE]Yeah, it's all a different world. From my vantage point I try to find some of these women on social media and connect that way. I have my doubts if a lot of the ones I connect with ever meet up, unless it's a ridiculous offer. I think they get cash app'd, tell a sob story and get money, or sell content or something like an only or streaming. I see a lot of BF shit all day that just makes me not really think a lot of them are looking for much other than 1-2 side guys.

And since they can get that in a minute but they're online for all day for months, I think they're mostly looking for free cash or that one guy that offers a ton.

Think about it. It's women want to be on the DL, so they aren't "hobbying," and so supply / demand says that prices for hobbying go up bc there's no new supply. However, the DL women see what escorts get and think they're on the DL so that's a premium. Some will say to me. You know I see escorts that get $_.

So, they want the premium, but it's bc they want it from 1 dude.

I think a ton of these women are looking for anyone some multimillionare to make them a trophy wife, and while she's testing the market for him, she'll accept a few dudes to pay rent.

Nearly none are looking to "hobby. ".

Pros and cons. But, for me it's been about finding someone at the right time, right offer, and just being happy with it while it lasts and always looking. 'Cuz they're online all day and all night always looking for a replacement potential future baby trap if the BFs keep sucking.

Not sure what you guys are doing that aren't having any luck on seeking. I restarted my membership last week just to get a new kitty line up to run through. And seeking did not disappoint.

The key is to look appealing to the women. You have to show them that you have money to spend every week. Cause that's all they really want is someone that's consistent. Also keep your profile simple and too the point. Everybody is there for the same thing. They know the deal. But when you're upfront on your profile a lot of the women will actually reach out to you. Which is the case with me. It also helps to have some decent pictures on your profile.

But good luck hunting. I'm willing to trade ladies. Got a few $100 do what you want for however long type.

Has anyone had any luck on Kik? I signed on and talked to a few girls but I’m 98% sure they were running scams. I'd love to snag a "miss right now" on there but I don't think I have figured out how to do it yet.

[QUOTE=Itrik;6530112]Not sure what you guys are doing that aren't having any luck on seeking. I restarted my membership last week just to get a new kitty line up to run through. And seeking did not disappoint.

The key is to look appealing to the women. You have to show them that you have money to spend every week. Cause that's all they really want is someone that's consistent. Also keep your profile simple and too the point. Everybody is there for the same thing. They know the deal. But when you're upfront on your profile a lot of the women will actually reach out to you. Which is the case with me. It also helps to have some decent pictures on your profile.

But good luck hunting. I'm willing to trade ladies. Got a few $100 do what you want for however long type.[/QUOTE]I haven't ever had a problem lining something up. I am to the point that I am much more picky than I was. I say the same few things each time and by the 3rd message they have confirmed we are on the same page. 4th message is contact info. Then we discuss details.

So do you need to purchase the credits on sb in order to communicate?

Does anyone have any advice about mongering on SA? Specifically, how do I know I'm not going to step into a sting of some kind? I have a connection set up. I'll share if she's cool with it. But I'm super nervous about whether this is a sting of some kind. Are there ways to protect myself or avoid stings? Does anyone have other advice? Or is this just not the hobby for me?

Thanks.

[QUOTE=Darwin2000;6536252]Does anyone have any advice about mongering on SA? Specifically, how do I know I'm not going to step into a sting of some kind? I have a connection set up. I'll share if she's cool with it. But I'm super nervous about whether this is a sting of some kind. Are there ways to protect myself or avoid stings? Does anyone have other advice? Or is this just not the hobby for me?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]My suggestion is to not offer to pay for sex and if she asks you to pay x dollars for a specific sex act then walk away.

[QUOTE=Darwin2000;6536252]Does anyone have any advice about mongering on SA? Specifically, how do I know I'm not going to step into a sting of some kind? I have a connection set up. I'll share if she's cool with it. But I'm super nervous about whether this is a sting of some kind. Are there ways to protect myself or avoid stings? Does anyone have other advice? Or is this just not the hobby for me?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Maybe share her name on here from seeking. Someone may have experience. Or mention what town or city she says she is from.

[QUOTE=Darwin2000;6536252]Does anyone have any advice about mongering on SA? Specifically, how do I know I'm not going to step into a sting of some kind? I have a connection set up. I'll share if she's cool with it. But I'm super nervous about whether this is a sting of some kind. Are there ways to protect myself or avoid stings? Does anyone have other advice? Or is this just not the hobby for me?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have been on here for years a met a lot of wemon. I was nervous at first. Then I started to figure it out. First let me say there are easier ways for them to do a sting. I always had them meet me at my room. Stings never come to you. So I stay away from new profiles, one pic profiles, and TGTBT profiles. There are a few types on there. Fakes, flakes, content sellers, working girls, and normal ones. I always ask for their snapchat. Verify on there. Talk for a bit and get comfortable. I ask what their allowance expectations are and work it out from there. Never talk about and sexual acts before allowance. Once comfortable I may ask what they are into. If you have questions feel free to pm me. Also, after years there is a good chance I've met them or at least talked. I will help you if I know of the person.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/792cb12c-beaa-4294-b5bd-0916d970c9de[/URL]

She just moved down to FL. Anyone see her?

Have been doing the same SB for a while. Seems like we are married. Have you guys swapped?

[QUOTE=CostasCarl;6545728]Have been doing the same SB for a while. Seems like we are married. Have you guys swapped?[/QUOTE]Like Married? So you are bored with her?

I have talked with this one a few times over the years. Never have been able to confirm she's legit. Any info would help.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/406c74fc-72f2-4ec6-a5bc-def442724af2[/URL]

I suggest we post a screenshot of the seeking arrangement members' profiles with the photograph. Many of us don't have a membership so we can't tell you if we run into them. I don't think this would be a violation of the board rules but I don't claim to know everything. I no longer have a seeking arrangement profile so I can't see any of the members you are inquiring about but when I did have a profile, they were plenty of women advertising on seeking arrangement that were also on skip the games. I think if we do, as I suggest we could enter into the arena with more information.

[QUOTE=HungaryMan;6548305]Like Married? So you are bored with her?[/QUOTE]LOL No, I want to buy her a nice diamond ring for anniversary this year. That kind of married.

No, not bored. I really like her. But I was wondering if anyone has done a SB swap.

[QUOTE=AnanaMo;6548657]I have talked with this one a few times over the years. Never have been able to confirm she's legit. Any info would help.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/406c74fc-72f2-4ec6-a5bc-def442724af2[/URL][/QUOTE]The user is gone. It is not legit if the profile disappears.

Anyone have any luck with gift cards or other avenues to pay for subscription.

I was looking for her profile on seeking.

Can't find it. Any info would help.

[QUOTE=BoogMan;6553934]I was looking for her profile on seeking.

Can't find it. Any info would help.[/QUOTE]I don't have her profile but in searching on that site you have to be exact in spelling the username. And I mean EXACT. Lower or upper cases matter and so do spaces.

[QUOTE=FictionGenius;6553241]Anyone have any luck with gift cards or other avenues to pay for subscription.[/QUOTE]I have used a visa card from Walmart several times. It costs about $5. 00 to buy one, then you add as much as you want.

[QUOTE=Lsyfier;6526507]Very little activity on these boards these days, especially SA. Someone on another board said the hobby is dead. Is this the case? If so, is it the economy? Is it lack of quality girls? Too many scammers? All of the above? Why has activity fallen off so much? Was on SA for last month. Found very few decent options. A lot of messaging / texting but that's it. Comms by these girls has gotten worse (was always terrible). Did manage to hook up with one that I will probably continue to see but it took just about my entire 30 day subscription to find her. Another one I have been texting with for last month contacted me again yesterday to meet for initial coffee date (been trying to set this up for awhile). We were supposed to meet today, but then crickets in response to my texts. Is this happening to everyone? Curious about others recent experiences here. I'm more than willing to hook up with these girls, but they need to put in a little more effort.[/QUOTE]I've been wondering the same thing and posed the same question in the Flint boards.

I can only speculate a combination of the following: 1. Providers have access to cheaper & stronger candy, so they don't need to earn as much to get their fix. 2. Uncle LEO cracking down. 3. Online opportunities such as OF becoming so lucrative.

If anyone else has any idea, I'm curious on what others think.

[QUOTE=BoogMan;6553934]I was looking for her profile on seeking.

Can't find it. Any info would help.[/QUOTE]If it is who I think it is, then she might not be on Seeking anymore.

[QUOTE=Ronny49;6554521]I've been wondering the same thing and posed the same question in the Flint boards.

I can only speculate a combination of the following: 1. Providers have access to cheaper & stronger candy, so they don't need to earn as much to get their fix. 2. Uncle LEO cracking down. 3. Online opportunities such as OF becoming so lucrative.

If anyone else has any idea, I'm curious on what others think.[/QUOTE]I made a longer post that I won't repeat, but I don't believe any of those are true for the majority of women on arrangement sites.

1 - most I've connected with are on more prescription stuff for mental shit than anything else, but otherwise IDK about the prices of anything or why that'd be a big dropoff. 2 - not happening on these places that I can tell or we would be hearing more. 3-OF requires work to make money. Most aren't nearly as ambitious as they need to be. I follow a decent enough number and have known a bunch of women with OFs. I'd say most that do something with it make a few hundred a month, tops. Most that charge $25/ month for a few pics probably have a handful of 30 days chumps that think they're going to meet.

It's more likely IMHO most do it on the DL, via Seeking / etc. , find a few dudes, replace if they can upgrade / upcharge, and then settle.

Now, I just found one on the boards that looks like your #1 and #3 are probably true. She was easy to find on all the SM and has an Only that she posts like 4 pics a month to for $25. I rolled the dice on doing that and became a 30 day chump vs paying to contact on her SB post sites. She looks like she lives in a dump with a dude supporting it, and does a streaming site that she made like a few hundred before commissions over an afternoon. I made an inquiry and got a video message, but my offer probably wasn't life changing enough or something. I suspect again she's fine with using her ads to get a few hundred, paying for today's fix, and is waiting for a whale.

I believe though that most aren't close to that ambitious but probably catch a few dudes a month for 4 figures and are fine spending their time looking for the next dude, rather than caring about quantity.

No body wants to work in 2023.

If anyone wants to trade videos from hot girls on seeking only, pm me.

[QUOTE=CostasCarl;6548982]LOL No, I want to buy her a nice diamond ring for anniversary this year. That kind of married.

No, not bored. I really like her. But I was wondering if anyone has done a SB swap.[/QUOTE]I feel you bro LOL. If I don't add some spice to a SB relationship, it goes stale. Tasting vanilla all the time gets boring.

I did swap with my previous SB, but not with other SBs. We would pretend that she is was my wife, and we swapped with other couples, and did threesomes. Unfortunately, she left town. I just started a relationship with another SB and she is also willing, so we shall see. A swap with another SB sounds intriguing. Send me a message and lets talk.

Anyone chat with this one? Gives off pro vibes.

[QUOTE=Lsyfier;6513767]SA profile GP303. Seems to have a boyfriend that may be around. She wants to meet during day during week only when boyfriend is not around. She hosts at her house. Would not want to be with her should boyfriend show up unexpectedly. The kind of potential drama that none of us wants or needs and looking to avoid. Just a heads up.[/QUOTE]Just seeing this and all your posts. For the girl you posted about. She strung me along for a good three weeks than ghosted me. Hindsight does appear to have a SO she is hiding this from.

[QUOTE=Swanchez99;6576329]Just seeing this and all your posts. For the girl you posted about. She strung me along for a good three weeks than ghosted me. Hindsight does appear to have a SO she is hiding this from.[/QUOTE]Just sent you a private message regarding GP 303.

[QUOTE=Ronny49;6554521]I've been wondering the same thing and posed the same question in the Flint boards.

I can only speculate a combination of the following: 1. Providers have access to cheaper & stronger candy, so they don't need to earn as much to get their fix. 2. Uncle LEO cracking down. 3. Online opportunities such as OF becoming so lucrative.

If anyone else has any idea, I'm curious on what others think.[/QUOTE]I'm not experiencing this at all. I had three women last week, four the week prior. Strippers and UTR girls. Keep at it.

I attended the Michigan-UNLV game in Ann Arbor today with family. While walking to the stadium from central campus, I saw hundreds of lovely young ladies in the skimpiest attire — tube tops, bandanna tops, and bikini tops, paired with tiny skirts or Daisy Dukes. One girl stopped me and handed me her phone and asked me to take photos of her group of about twenty sweet, slender, gorgeous little freshmen girls. I was floored at what I was seeing everywhere on the streets. If even half of one percent of these girls are on SA, then I'm sold.

Scammer ignore.

Has anyone met her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9d7f4e66-c590-4bcb-a822-b09ac4894ffd[/URL]

Anyone have the opportunity to see this one she is pregnant might squirt as well.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0051db38-5893-4716-a1c0-9cdec4adba2e[/URL]