From your side it is double booking from her side it is no shows
[QUOTE=VansVille2010;3140692]I've had this happen many times, with many girls, can anyone explain this one to me?
Did a higher paying customer arrive at the same time? Was it all a joke? Did they pass out high?[/QUOTE]VV,
It is not just ladies doing flaky stuff. Tons of guys make appointments and don't show up. If a lady has two guys coming she figures one may not show; So the first guy to the parking lot gets seen first. Should both of them show up then she will juggle it somehow. There is always the possibility neither of the guys will show. I have had my share of when I call a lady twice and she doesn't answer once I am at the notel. Everyone hates being in a notel parking lot waiting to see if the lady will call you back. If you book an appointment and one of her regulars books an appointment 2 minutes after you for the same arrival time who do you think she wants to see? A known regular or some guy she has never seen before? You are talking about a BP lady with no reviews not a well reviewed high end agency lady. It is all part of the game, try to roll with it.
I am not surprised by double booking behavior whenever I have never met a lady before. I would be very disappointed in a lady who would double book on any subsequent meeting.
I read this article off of beefeater where uncle LEO complained that they had over 60 calls but only arrested 2 guys who showed up. That means ladies get a lot of calls and a lot of no shows. Guys phone shop and make multiple appointments and then maybe only show up at the lady they think best matches their fancy. Leaving the other ladies as backup should their first lady fall through. You think these pricks call the other ladies and cancel. No show behavior by guys encourages a lady to double book.
After you have finished a meeting while you are getting dressed, just ask a lady if she gets a lot of guys who make appointments who don't show up? If you take the time to ask ladies about the hobby from their perspective then you might learn something. Don't ask about this stuff before you have finished your business or she might vent her spleen for a hh about all the assholes who don't show up. I have found many ladies will openly share information about the hobby from their perspective if you ask nicely. Listen and learn to what they have to say; Don't argue with them about their experiences.
I even had one of my previous ATFs bump her appointment w a new customer to get me in because I had a small time window and I was a regular and I tip my ATFs.
BS