Rants, Raves, and Stupid Tinfoil Hat Wearing Conspiracy Bullshit

[QUOTE=Purple45;3378554]A man and a woman having sex is normal with no second thought given unless it is forced. A woman who grabs her man by the tie and drags him to the bedroom where she undress him, blows him and rides him till the bed collapses well that would be heaven, but sadly it doesn't happen often in life so men have to look else where for satisfaction. Paying or asking for sex well we all are guilty of that and depending on the country you are in; you could lose your big head for it. Is looking and paying for sex a problem? Yes it is, because it comes to the point where every women you see is a mental fantasy and a potential sexual rendezvous. Ever try to be professional on the job and you really can't hear what she is saying because the eye contact is really for day dreaming? Life's focus becomes the thrill of the next fine piece of ass that you can tag and bag for your own satisfaction while work and family become a lower priority or not one at all. Sex can be like any other addiction, but worse because of the complex involvement of the mind, body and soul so reality becomes skewed between fantasy, lust, love. Selfishness will cost a person their mental peace, their job, their family and potentially their life if the downward spiral reaches rock bottom.

I mentioned that certain activities was disgusting and not normal, but not the people themselves. I'm ok with anything sexual between a man and woman. If a man and a woman want to shit on each other and have some stinky fun well IMO that is gross. Do I have a problem for feeling that way? I don't think so. I'm not ok with homosexuality, pederasts, pedophilia and bestiality because the behavior is sickening. Is my reality wrong for feeling that way? I don't think so and it doesn't bother me if others disagree. My opinion is obviously different and we are probably not going to change our views. There is no disrespect taken or given, but in life sometimes it's necessary to agree that its ok to disagree. Nothing was said about putting anyone in a padded cell and throwing away the key. To me there was no extreme example given because IMO those sexual classifications are all categorized together as a mental disorder.[/QUOTE]Homosexuality is no longer classified as a mental disorder. It hasn't been for a long time. Did you know women who expressed sexual urges were once thought to have a mental disorder called hysteria? Stop living in the dark ages man.

[blue]You always gotta ask yourself "why the hate" and every time I do I can only come up with one reason. Unresolved homosexual ideation. I think fucking a guy is gross, sorry, I do, same with sucking a cock, I'm literally repulsed by the idea, but I don't think there is anything wrong with somebody else doing it. I don't hate guys who are into M4M, I know it's trite but I really do have tons of gay friends. I don't even think there is anything wrong with it, there's people in the world who love eating spiders and that shit is fucking disgusting to me so I don't eat spiders, I don't hate people who eat spiders, I just think eating spiders is fucking gross.

So it's like, why the hate? Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is the opposite of love, you cannot hate something that is outside of you, detached from you, you need to be invested in something before you can hate it. It's really more sad then it is contemptible.

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[QUOTE=Purple45;3378554]A man and a woman having sex is normal with no second thought given unless it is forced. A woman who grabs her man by the tie and drags him to the bedroom where she undress him, blows him and rides him till the bed collapses well that would be heaven, but sadly it doesn't happen often in life so men have to look else where for satisfaction. Paying or asking for sex well we all are guilty of that and depending on the country you are in; you could lose your big head for it. Is looking and paying for sex a problem? Yes it is, because it comes to the point where every women you see is a mental fantasy and a potential sexual rendezvous. Ever try to be professional on the job and you really can't hear what she is saying because the eye contact is really for day dreaming? Life's focus becomes the thrill of the next fine piece of ass that you can tag and bag for your own satisfaction while work and family become a lower priority or not one at all. Sex can be like any other addiction, but worse because of the complex involvement of the mind, body and soul so reality becomes skewed between fantasy, lust, love. Selfishness will cost a person their mental peace, their job, their family and potentially their life if the downward spiral reaches rock bottom.
I mentioned that certain activities was disgusting and not normal, but not the people themselves. I'm ok with anything sexual between a man and woman. If a man and a woman want to shit on each other and have some stinky fun well IMO that is gross. Do I have a problem for feeling that way? I don't think so. I'm not ok with homosexuality, pederasts, pedophilia and bestiality because the behavior is sickening. Is my reality wrong for feeling that way? I don't think so and it doesn't bother me if others disagree. My opinion is obviously different and we are probably not going to change our views. There is no disrespect taken or given, but in life sometimes it's necessary to agree that its ok to disagree. Nothing was said about putting anyone in a padded cell and throwing away the key. To me there was no extreme example given because IMO those sexual classifications are all categorized together as a mental disorder.[/QUOTE]You both articulated your opinions very well you get an A+ for your homework assignment. Who's right? Who's wrong? Depending on who you ask, One of you are absolutely correct the other one needs to study more. Speaking of reality, this difference of opinion will neeeeever change. Why? Because it's who we are. Agree to disagree is a step to move forward in respect for others opinion / get shit done depending on the environment it's being applied. Or it can be total gridlock and disrespect for the other side. You see the differences everyday everywhere, on CNN on Fox on Pussy websites, at work, at home, Overheard conversations while people are talking TOO FUCKING LOUD on there cell phones while setting beside me. Different opinions will neeever change. Damn! Must be cool as shit to be Prince.

[QUOTE=XHippie;3378614]You both articulated your opinions very well you get an A+ for your homework assignment. Who's right? Who's wrong? Depending on who you ask, One of you are absolutely correct the other one needs to study more. Speaking of reality, this difference of opinion will neeeeever change. Why? Because it's who we are. Agree to disagree is a step to move forward in respect for others opinion / get shit done depending on the environment it's being applied. Or it can be total gridlock and disrespect for the other side. You see the differences everyday everywhere, on CNN on Fox on Pussy websites, at work, at home, Overheard conversations while people are talking TOO FUCKING LOUD on there cell phones while setting beside me. Different opinions will neeever change. Damn! Must be cool as shit to be Prince.[/QUOTE]I am reminded of an exchange between Johnny Carson and a guest he asked for his definition of an alcoholic.

The guest responded that an alcoholic was anyone who drank more than him that he didn't like.

Members are a little selfish on this forum and for different reasons. Who can you really trust and who is better at taking care of yourself? Well the answer is; me, myself and I. Why? Fear and the love of money or pleasure.

P45.

Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]Short answer Sure It happens all the time. Many monger's get into playing this game and get out of playing this game for different reasons. Same for the lady providers, they get in and out for different reasons. There is no simple answer to your question because this is real people having real encounters. You could ask 10 different people and probably get 10 different answers / advice based on THEIR current or past experience's. Here's my opinion, Sometimes it's just a sex attraction sometimes the two people actually do connect and sparks fly! She may have friends that will give her advice or she's thinking don't fall for him he's just another swinging dick that will eventually dump you or fuck around behind your back after all that's the way he met you right? Or the guys will say to you once she's had a taste of making money with that pussy, hands or mouth she will return to her old job once the love honeymoon is over. BUT it's like I said if the two REALLY connect on a level above all the sex etc. That's different. Sexual attraction is great but human attraction is something special, we all know when it's real you can feel it, It's what keeps us awake at night staring at the ceiling thinking about someone (oop's Freudian Slip). However I will say if she remained in the business of seeing others for cash and tries to hold a relationship, that's kinda like swimming up stream with a cinder block tied to your foot. But if she's getting out of the business and YOU yes YOU quit fucking other girls, you are one step closer to getting a mini van together which there is abosolutly nothing wrong with. We all need some love in our life.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]Go in with the expectation you will used, and she will absolutely cheat on you. Then you can't go wrong.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]Yep happen all the time. Times it works and times it don't. But the question is why would you want this? This is a relationship which no monger wants. If asked why they monger its "I don't want a relationship" The wife won't take care of me" or the popular "I pay them to leave". But these are the same guys who give bad reviews because they didn't get a GFE, was rushed, or didn't get to hang afterwards. Go figure. My opinion is if you want a relationship then go civy date and be a good boyfriend. Help them with the bills the same as you are with the P4P girls. I have no idea why you monger or why mongers need or want to insert themselves into a working girls life but more often it ends badly. Does this girl have any job skills? Have her punch a clock for awhile and see how long she last. Money is always a killer of a lot of relationships so hows that going to work? Some things to think on. Good luck whatever you choose.

[QUOTE=Purple45;3393779]Members are a little selfish on this forum and for different reasons. Who can you really trust and who is better at taking care of yourself? Well the answer is; me, myself and I. Why? Fear and the love of money or pleasure.

P45.[/QUOTE]I think its our own Egos that push us to our limits in anything we choose to do as humans. I also believe that in this business everyone is a squirrel and every nut is spoken for before it falls to the ground.

MZ.

[QUOTE=BeepBeepItsMe;3406323]Go in with the expectation you will used, and she will absolutely cheat on you. Then you can't go wrong.[/QUOTE]She is the one who said this was never her intention to do this. She is the one who said in 3 months she is done. She's doesn't do drugs, she truly has a plan and a great head on her shoulders. We're friends on FB too. She opened up pretty quick. Not going to say too much more. All she truly wants is for a friendship to develop. Hell, she mentioned she'd love to just go for coffee or tea and have meaningful conversation. Cuddle up and watch netflix.

Doesn't sound like someone who wants to do this or wants to hurt others.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406394]She is the one who said this was never her intention to do this. She is the one who said in 3 months she is done. She's doesn't do drugs, she truly has a plan and a great head on her shoulders. We're friends on FB too. She opened up pretty quick. Not going to say too much more. All she truly wants is for a friendship to develop. Hell, she mentioned she'd love to just go for coffee or tea and have meaningful conversation. Cuddle up and watch netflix.

Doesn't sound like someone who wants to do this or wants to hurt others.[/QUOTE]Wrong place to come seeking advice on love. This is a pussy board. You know her and your situation better than a bunch of guys masked with a username. Just saying.

Please don't take one of the good ones! There aren't that many of them left.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GiantG;3406497]Please don't take one of the good ones! There aren't that many of them left.[/QUOTE]She's going to leave the business within the next 3 months. We'll see how things develop with a relationship once she settles in.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]Can it work? Sure! Is it likely that it will? Probably not. The dynamic is already all wrong. You may grow insecure and find that she's not as sexual as when you paying her and she may start to resent giving you sex for free when she used to be paid for it.

[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3406658]Can it work? Sure! Is it likely that it will? Probably not. The dynamic is already all wrong. You may grow insecure and find that she's not as sexual as when you paying her and she may start to resent giving you sex for free when she used to be paid for it.[/QUOTE]You appear to be a very active member of this board. Do you plan to continue visiting sex providers or you ready to go cold turkey. This is an addiction to some. Not saying you. But some.