Seeking Arrangements

Started using this message template a few days ago with really good results. Not 100% perfect, but, got some good data points.

Message Summary:

OMG, you won't believe this! There has been an influx of fake profiles on the site. It's political season.

Are you willing to do a 2 or 3 minute live, real-time call (Snap, WhatsApp, or Facetime) just to have a quick hello?

You can send a short, live video if you want.

Since we the hope is that we are going to meet up anyway. Might as well get it out of the way.

By the way, how's your Summer been?

Add maybe 1 line about their profile on something interesting. Ex. "Wait, your profile said some college? What Uni do you go to?

So, with this new message, I've been able to cut down on:

1. Incoming messages "Hey / Hi" profiles that were fake.

2. Outgoing. They see the message & quickly either block / remove / delete their profile.

3. Follow-Ups -- The ones that are real have actually been responding quickly if I haven't spoken to them in at least a month.

Overall, this message has been a quick filter to kind of quickly weed out some of the ones that I aim to go for, but are on the fence. It allows me to not waste time.

If you use it, recommend to have two two tabs open. 1) one for the profile search, 2.) one on the SENT EMAILS -- so you can quickly see the opens, and which ones have either blocked or hid themselves. LOL.

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;7025512]Started using this message template a few days ago with really good results. Not 100% perfect, but, got some good data points.

Message Summary:

OMG, you won't believe this! There has been an influx of fake profiles on the site. It's political season.

Are you willing to do a 2 or 3 minute live, real-time call (Snap, WhatsApp, or Facetime) just to have a quick hello?

You can send a short, live video if you want.

Since we the hope is that we are going to meet up anyway. Might as well get it out of the way.

By the way, how's your Summer been?

Add maybe 1 line about their profile on something interesting. Ex. "Wait, your profile said some college? What Uni do you go to?

So, with this new message, I've been able to cut down on:

1. Incoming messages "Hey / Hi" profiles that were fake.

2. Outgoing. They see the message & quickly either block / remove / delete their profile.

3. Follow-Ups -- The ones that are real have actually been responding quickly if I haven't spoken to them in at least a month.

Overall, this message has been a quick filter to kind of quickly weed out some of the ones that I aim to go for, but are on the fence. It allows me to not waste time.

If you use it, recommend to have two two tabs open. 1) one for the profile search, 2.) one on the SENT EMAILS -- so you can quickly see the opens, and which ones have either blocked or hid themselves. LOL.[/QUOTE]I ask questons like how long they lived there and what their favorite restaurant is. When they reply back and totally ignore the answer you know they are bots.

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;7025512]Started using this message template a few days ago with really good results. Not 100% perfect, but, got some good data points.

Message Summary:

OMG, you won't believe this! There has been an influx of fake profiles on the site. It's political season.

Are you willing to do a 2 or 3 minute live, real-time call (Snap, WhatsApp, or Facetime) just to have a quick hello?

You can send a short, live video if you want.

Since we the hope is that we are going to meet up anyway. Might as well get it out of the way.

By the way, how's your Summer been?

Add maybe 1 line about their profile on something interesting. Ex. "Wait, your profile said some college? What Uni do you go to?

So, with this new message, I've been able to cut down on:

1. Incoming messages "Hey / Hi" profiles that were fake.

2. Outgoing. They see the message & quickly either block / remove / delete their profile.

3. Follow-Ups -- The ones that are real have actually been responding quickly if I haven't spoken to them in at least a month.

Overall, this message has been a quick filter to kind of quickly weed out some of the ones that I aim to go for, but are on the fence. It allows me to not waste time.

If you use it, recommend to have two two tabs open. 1) one for the profile search, 2.) one on the SENT EMAILS -- so you can quickly see the opens, and which ones have either blocked or hid themselves. LOL.[/QUOTE]AKA common sense.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6999004]Not sure if I shared this one, but stay away from her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0a1e72eb-cc65-448b-9358-af0d598076f1[/URL][/QUOTE]Her older sister was amazing and I had my way with her back in the day, but yes this one seems a bit sketchy and messy.

I think these two are real. Their accounts are several years old. Anyone get a price, I know they are out of my budget so I didn't want to even talk money. I messaged Vanessa and she confirmed it was her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3236b6d6-3015-43d7-9e52-b183efdb39bd[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/58708a9b-4104-4015-bde8-5ddd9a0ddc0a[/URL]

[QUOTE=Rome400;7028592]I think these two are real. Their accounts are several years old. Anyone get a price, I know they are out of my budget so I didn't want to even talk money. I messaged Vanessa and she confirmed it was her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3236b6d6-3015-43d7-9e52-b183efdb39bd[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/58708a9b-4104-4015-bde8-5ddd9a0ddc0a[/URL][/QUOTE]You're linking to messages not profiles so it's not working.

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;7028692]You're linking to messages not profiles so it's not working.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/74cf24f6-9229-40eb-b318-43f0243b4926[/URL]

Other one went dark she must have left the city.

[QUOTE=Rome400;7028853][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/74cf24f6-9229-40eb-b318-43f0243b4926[/URL]

Other one went dark she must have left the city.[/QUOTE]Research:

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/lilystarfire.tv/[/URL]

[URL]https://x.com/LilyStarfirex[/URL]

Only problem is I haven't found any of her links that states she's in Boston. Profile shows using the same name, so it's likely her.

But it's more likely could be marketing lead generation for her Onlyfans.

[QUOTE=Rome400;7028592]I think these two are real. Their accounts are several years old. Anyone get a price, I know they are out of my budget so I didn't want to even talk money. I messaged Vanessa and she confirmed it was her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3236b6d6-3015-43d7-9e52-b183efdb39bd[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/58708a9b-4104-4015-bde8-5ddd9a0ddc0a[/URL][/QUOTE]Can you screenshot?

Good research. For what it's worth, Jay and Kassidy, both from Boston, follow her. But so do 55 k others from all over. Most likely a tourist and GPS. Decent quality content on X though.

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;7028905]Research:

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/lilystarfire.tv/[/URL]

[URL]https://x.com/LilyStarfirex[/URL]

Only problem is I haven't found any of her links that states she's in Boston. Profile shows using the same name, so it's likely her.

But it's more likely could be marketing lead generation for her Onlyfans.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;7028905]Research:

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/lilystarfire.tv/[/URL]

[URL]https://x.com/LilyStarfirex[/URL]

Only problem is I haven't found any of her links that states she's in Boston. Profile shows using the same name, so it's likely her.

But it's more likely could be marketing lead generation for her Onlyfans.[/QUOTE]She is probably a pro or semi pro doing a tour of NE. With the loss of many of the typical escort sites SA has become a favorite for many of the pros.

Clear your inbox bro.

[QUOTE=ShineDrums;5973660]No link? Who are you talking about?[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/76acf8fe-218b-43e1-bf3b-7fe6204a5fba[/URL]

Anyone have any info?

Agreed to meet but seems a bit TGTBT maybe. I'm expecting an ask for money for the Uber or something on meet day.

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;7033600][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/76acf8fe-218b-43e1-bf3b-7fe6204a5fba[/URL]

Anyone have any info?

Agreed to meet but seems a bit TGTBT maybe. I'm expecting an ask for money for the Uber or something on meet day.[/QUOTE]Traded snapchats to communicate. We talked about what I was looking for sexually and she was down with that and she seemed to be really digging me. Made plans to meet, and was asking for my address the night before and I said we haven't even discussed money. Gave her an address to a coffee shop and said lets meet there if everything vibes well we go to my place.

She wanted to discuss money in person which was fine. I let her know I was not a guy that overpays but not super cheap.

Day of the meet she's like I'm having second thoughts, long story short she said she lived in charlestown which is less then 10 miles from me. Sends me her cash I'd asks me for 30.00 for gas. I'm like if you don't have enough gas to go 10 miles lets scrap this. I told her I would give her 30 at the coffee shop either way. She asked again and I blocked her.

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;7033600][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/76acf8fe-218b-43e1-bf3b-7fe6204a5fba[/URL]

Anyone have any info?

Agreed to meet but seems a bit TGTBT maybe. I'm expecting an ask for money for the Uber or something on meet day.[/QUOTE]Might be a fake. The photo of the chick is on OF.