Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and Bullshit

[QUOTE=MutualRespect;3212320]Thanks Bendme.

When first meeting a provider (no personal history with her) do any of you guys show them you have the cash to make them comfortable or is it just better to not worry about it and leave it hidden until the dream is over?[/QUOTE]Try this:

Buy a prepaid card in the amount stated, plus a generous tip.

Show up at the agreed upon time, not a minute early or late.

Slide the card under the door or place it in plain sight.

Politely knock on the door.

Promptly leave, so as not to show any disrespect, and ensuring the provider remains comfortable.

Report back with the details.

[QUOTE=Bendme;3212832]Try this:

Buy a prepaid...
...ensuring the provider remains comfortable.

Report back with the details.[/QUOTE]Translation: Don't worry about it.

Ok bend ok. Ya got me LOL.

I got contacted around 2 am From a Kentucky-based provider who was spending some time in Chattanooga visiting family. Over the last few days she had an ad up in Chattanooga, in BP's dating section, and she commented that there were a few instances where she wasn't being compensated for her time.

After some silence. ,. , I figured that it was a crap shoot after reading her ad. I was surprised that she didn't realize that by posting in the BP Dating section, Women for Men, for which guys are used to getting cheap thrills for no compensation whatsoever, she was opening herself up to that. By posting in that section, she was being misleading to the guys who were used to showing up with nothing more than a rubber (if that much) and no funds in his pockets. I can't blame the guys for that.

Be smart,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;3232362]I got contacted around 2 am From a Kentucky-based provider who was spending some time in Chattanooga visiting family. Over the last few days she had an ad up in Chattanooga, in BP's dating section, and she commented that there were a few instances where she wasn't being compensated for her time.

After some silence. ,. , I figured that it was a crap shoot after reading her ad. I was surprised that she didn't realize that by posting in the BP Dating section, Women for Men, for which guys are used to getting cheap thrills for no compensation whatsoever, she was opening herself up to that. By posting in that section, she was being misleading to the guys who were used to showing up with nothing more than a rubber (if that much) and no funds in his pockets. I can't blame the guys for that.

Be smart,

Milfman.[/QUOTE]With the demise of the escort section on BP I think a lot of the providers have turned to the dating section as an alternative. Many of the posts there are identical to the posts that were previously on the escort section. I wonder how long it will be until that section is censored as well. If a provider wants to post an ad on the dating section that is not clear about her status she might consider explaning things once contact is made or better yet have a website and direct that individual to her site which will explain things.

HK.

You can now have sex with Mags.

[URL]http://www.escortdirectory.com/escort/Miranda%20Mynx-46428/[/URL]

[QUOTE=CrazyEddie;3243879]You can now have sex with Mags.

[URL]http://www.escortdirectory.com/escort/Miranda%20Mynx-46428/[/URL][/QUOTE]I do see a resemblance.

[QUOTE=GreenHornet99;3243899]I do see a resemblance.[/QUOTE]I saw this post and. I had a horrific image of Mags forcing a man to "butt-chug" moonshine. Before she mounts him with her homemade strap-on.

To anyone contacting females, mentioning this site for which she is totally unaware, saying that dudes are talking about them, and then trying to solicit additional favors from bringing forth that information. ,. ,. , no respect for you "Bro" (and I use that term loosely). It runs rampant with respect to SA. Major Fight Club / G-code violations. You know who you.

To prove their point, females even screenshot the communication, don't redact the phone numbers or messaging usernames, provide a dude's SA profile name in some instances, and similar nonsense.

Violating Fight Club/G-code is behavior unbecoming of a gentleman.

To everyone else, stay safe.

Always,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;3263967]To anyone contacting females, mentioning this site for which she is totally unaware, saying that dudes are talking about them, and then trying to solicit additional favors from bringing forth that information. ,. ,. , no respect for you "Bro" (and I use that term loosely). It runs rampant with respect to SA. Major Fight Club / G-code violations. You know who you.

To prove their point, females even screenshot the communication, don't redact the phone numbers or messaging usernames, provide a dude's SA profile name in some instances, and similar nonsense.

Violating Fight Club/G-code is behavior unbecoming of a gentleman.

To everyone else, stay safe.

Always,

Milfman.[/QUOTE]I was the last person sending a reply to this thread. But, my post was a sarcastic "gutter humor" reply about having sex with the character "Mags" from the tv show "Justified". So, my question to you is who on the forum pissed you off?

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;3263967]To anyone contacting females, mentioning this site for which she is totally unaware, saying that dudes are talking about them, and then trying to solicit additional favors from bringing forth that information. ,. ,. , no respect for you "Bro" (and I use that term loosely). It runs rampant with respect to SA. Major Fight Club / G-code violations. You know who you.

To prove their point, females even screenshot the communication, don't redact the phone numbers or messaging usernames, provide a dude's SA profile name in some instances, and similar nonsense.

Violating Fight Club/G-code is behavior unbecoming of a gentleman.

To everyone else, stay safe.

Always,

Milfman.[/QUOTE]Hopefully it wasn't ine of us, the long time seniors! Most know the code but plenty of new seniors and newbs who don't understand the code and respect lile you, myself, Bez, Sk, Dr, Nick and a good few others. Hate to hear someone did this to another monger. Honestly I've gotten to where I am very selective with who I share with and help on here.

Hey man you showed up a few days ago, sent out 3 form letters to 3 different forums, asked for info on 3 chick's, say you dreamed with Carla but gave no link to her and offered no info. You want pm's to give that out. You need to adjust your attitude and act like the Newby that you are. You get nothing else from me tIll you offer up at least twice as much info as you have taken in the short time you have been here. Honestly, I have serious concerns about what you are doing here.

Too All the Barking Lap Dogs On This Site!

Bow Bow Wow Every Dog Has His Day!

This Site Was made by a monger for mongers to trade info on Having sex with women.

Some members need to learn and remember that.

[QUOTE=Skboy;3287699]Too All the Barking Lap Dogs On This Site!

Bow Bow Wow Every Dog Has His Day!

This Site Was made by a monger for mongers to trade info on Having sex with women.

Some members need to learn and remember that.[/QUOTE]***** all you want about unnamed folks, but it's all ignored unless you don't want to be a "barking lap dog" and name names. You are what you complain about.

BS.

[QUOTE=BallSwinger;3290515]***** all you want about unnamed folks, but it's all ignored unless you don't want to be a "barking lap dog" and name names. You are what you complain about.
BS.[/QUOTE]Most of the time, one doesn't know specifically to name names. Many blokes read these boards, but don't contribute to the open forum. Some have a tendency to contact the females in question and sing like songbirds related to the contents. Yes, the ladies could stumble upon it and read the content themselves; however, we're talking about Fight Club rules here. If the actual offenders were known, they would be contacted directly through PM (and save others the trouble of reading the PSA). This is just one way to let the "lap dogs" know that their indiscretions didn't go unnoticed.

Stay safe,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;3290540]Most of the time, one doesn't know specifically to name names. Many blokes read these boards, but don't contribute to the open forum. Some have a tendency to contact the females in question and sing like songbirds related to the contents. Yes, the ladies could stumble upon it and read the content themselves; however, we're talking about Fight Club rules here. If the actual offenders were known, they would be contacted directly through PM (and save others the trouble of reading the PSA). This is just one way to let the "lap dogs" know that their indiscretions didn't go unnoticed.

Stay safe,

Milfman.[/QUOTE]I don't get it. But I'm certainly open to guidance / suggestions from anyone, especially those that have been here a lot longer than me. If the First Rule is we don't talk about it, how are we supposed to refer each other to providers? I want details. Because the only way I know to do it is to give the provider a heads up that trusted senior members of the club will be contacting them. Why else would the providers go along? Do we expect (or want) them to just accept everyone that contacts them because without some info that's what they would be doing (I. E. How is the provider going to know that someone contacting them is someone I recommended?) I suppose we could all agree to use a code word or something when we call that the provider has been told in advance but I don't see a big difference in that because that would still be evidence of an organized effort whether we name our "club" or not. It seems to me any provider with at least half a brain is going to want to have some idea of who will be contacting them and why they should be trusted.

What am I missing? Again, provide DETAILS of a better way to do it and I will follow. By the way, I contacted Admin asking for guidance on this a couple of weeks ago and the response I got was less useful than tits on a bull (I will forward it to anyone who wants to see it).