You're missing the point, which is ok.
[QUOTE=PumpFiend;3744593]You guys are pouring time and emotions down the proverbial toilet, and it's boring as fuck as well.
"anybody got any intell on Charise, She was meeting me at Long John Silvers for two hundred dolllars".
Just hire a worker for fucks sakes.[/QUOTE]There are benefits to finding needles in haystacks for some. There is also that intangible of knowing that the girl who has your cock in your mouth was selling real estate earlier that day, rather than laying on an infested mattress in a shithole motel on Shadeland, being fucked by her 8th John since noon. Needle tracks are far more of a rarity with SA women, as are "managers" who may or may not steal your car while you're in said motel.
For me personally, I like semi pros first and foremost. Many of them tend to be in it for the kicks as well as mortgage payment money. (There's another distinction. The word "mortgage" as opposed to "weekly rates".) If you're an experienced peruser of BP or any other escort listing site, you've probably developed the ability to quickly screen out the BS. Same goes for SD sites. So the meeting at Long John Silver's for 200 bucks may happen, but if you're somewhat savvy, then it won't. I still indulge in full on professionals, but I've developed a bit of an appreciation for the semi-pro or part timer.
One needle in the haystack I've found
[QUOTE=EarlyCuyler;3745432]There are benefits to finding needles in haystacks for some. There is also that intangible of knowing that the girl who has your cock in your mouth was selling real estate earlier that day, rather than laying on an infested mattress in a shithole motel on Shadeland, being fucked by her 8th John since noon. Needle tracks are far more of a rarity with SA women, as are "managers" who may or may not steal your car while you're in said motel.
For me personally, I like semi pros first and foremost. Many of them tend to be in it for the kicks as well as mortgage payment money. (There's another distinction. The word "mortgage" as opposed to "weekly rates".) If you're an experienced peruser of BP or any other escort listing site, you've probably developed the ability to quickly screen out the BS. Same goes for SD sites. So the meeting at Long John Silver's for 200 bucks may happen, but if you're somewhat savvy, then it won't. I still indulge in full on professionals, but I've developed a bit of an appreciation for the semi-pro or part timer.[/QUOTE]Just recently discovered this forum, but I've been in the SA game for a few years. My two cents. There is definitely some skill and patience required to successfully find the proverbial needle in a haystack. But they are one there, as I've found many over the past few years. Currently seeing 3, with very little out of pocket investment. Since I hate posts where guys brag about their success without sharing any intel, I'll reveal one needle in the haystack. Malee27. Mid 40's tatted up Asian. I read some discouraging posts about her previously, but for me she fits the bill. Especially since we've been hooking up for the past few weeks quite often with little to nothing out of pocket. She's in it for the experience, connection, and sex. Doubt you can be ass and have any success, you got to treat her right and have a little depth to your conversation. I don't mind sharing this one, so if anyone hooks up with her, return the favor to the board. Or PM me with a good lead on another.
Married vs. Unmarried success rate
It seems over the past few months, I'm running into more girls that prefer a married guy. I'm single with no kids, and I always say that up front, but once I had a couple tell me they prefer a married guy with a family I started saying I'm married and by gosh I started seeing an uptick in action. Maybe the site has gotten littered with young single punk guys and the girls are gravitating towards the married more stable guys. I don't know, just curious of others experiences. For now, I'm going to keep telling them about my imaginary family, LOL.
Not sure she's that bright
[QUOTE=KyBoyHere;3755113]I talked to her for a bit, but she was so pushy wanting to meet to hook up, hotel or car it didn't matter. She was blowing my phone daily and started getting an attitude when I wasn't ready to meet at the drop of the hat. I lost interest, but maybe she's great who knows.[/QUOTE]She had caught my radar as well. She asked if I ever came down to Indy and I said I do often and some other stuff. She then comes back with "Too bad you can't come down to Indy to see me?
I had never said I couldn't nor had she asked me to. I'm still trying to see if there is anything there but fear lights are on and no ones home.