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[QUOTE=JohnCena;6342245]Did you facetime / snap her? If not, facetime her and you'll know.[/QUOTE]I did not. We text about expectations and it never clicked from there. She disappeared for a while and I found another regular which just recently ended.
I had FAs number but it looks like she changed it. I'll message her on SA.
Thanks.
[QUOTE=JohnCena;6342256]Thanks for valuable suggestions. I haven't involved anyone yet and I am more afraid of false allegations. She don't know anything about me except my home address. I did use textapps, a fake snap I'd and I haven't sent my picture to her ever. I have deleted all my accounts, so no communications from her anymore. I'll wait for few more days. I hope these are all false threats.
Thanks all for showing concern.[/QUOTE]I think it will all blow over. Bullies eventually get tired and move To other targets or the next scam.
[QUOTE=Lsyfier;6341331]Not sure if she was being honest about the Bdsm thing or just using it to break it off with me. Thinking she may just be wanting to explore her sexuality further. She's already done the traditional things (marriage, etc). She's 37, hot, single, no commitments, starting a new life in a new place. Maybe I get it I guess. The thing is that she just doesn't seem the type to want to get tied up, choked and slapped around. Maybe she had some mental thing going on. But then again, maybe that's just her kink (or at least she thinks it's her kink). Been around awhile and still can't figure these women out and probably never will. God knows I love 'them though.[/QUOTE]A lot of profiles on SA are offering BDSM. I have met one in a cafe, sometime in Jan. She was wearing loose clothes but looks fine. She is flexible but into BDSM thing so not my type. She seems sweet, a responsible mother and even didn't ask for gas or anything. If someone is interested, here is her profile:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/313f9a15-fb30-4648-9fab-ade50ed3d2d5[/URL]
[QUOTE=JohnCena;6342915]A lot of profiles on SA are offering BDSM. I have met one in a cafe, sometime in Jan. She was wearing loose clothes but looks fine. She is flexible but into BDSM thing so not my type. She seems sweet, a responsible mother and even didn't ask for gas or anything. If someone is interested, here is her profile:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/313f9a15-fb30-4648-9fab-ade50ed3d2d5[/URL][/QUOTE]Offering Bdsm up front is fine. My issue with the one I was seeing is that she did not mention it in her SA profile nor the during the 3 months I was seeing her. I even asked her early on what she liked to do sexually. All she said was that she liked it from behind. That's it. So this Bdsm thing came out of left field. So I'm not sure if she was handing me a line of bs or she really wants to pursue the Bdsm lifestyle. She seemed to use the terminology associated with bdsm when she told me. She said she likes to be tied up, choked and slapped which made it sound like she had experience it before. Not sure why she would bs me about it rather than just say she wanted to end our visits (like an adult). Not sure why she just didn't pursue that lifestyle rather than show up on SA representing something other than that. Kind of pisses me off. I was really into her.
[QUOTE=Lsyfier;6340048]Met a woman on SA about 3 months ago. She is not what I view as typical on the site. 37, gorgeous, long dark hair, tall, intense green eyes that absolutely killed me, great body. She recently moved back to Michigan from Colorado after her dad passed away here. Smart, great job, worked remotely so we had lunchtime visits at her house. Is going to grad school too. We texted and talked on phone. Did everything bare. CIP. PPM was reasonable. She's a military vet. She been married and divorced twice before the age of 27. Both guys were military. Very short term marriages. Also had a bf in Colorado that she left to come to back to Mich (she's originally from the UP). Last meeting couple weeks ago, she is very distracted and disinterested. Not really kissing back. Lackluster BJ. Prior visits had been great. Figure something is up. Not good for me. Text her a week later about getting together she ghosts me. I call her and ask her to text me. She does and says sorry, want to stop visits. Vanilla sex is not what she needs or wants (ouch. Not going to lie. That stung the ego a bit) and is now pursuing the Bdsm lifestyle. WTF? She likes to be tied up, choked, slapped and have rules to abide by outside the bedroom. Never mentioned to me. I would have been happy to oblige her. She is so hot. She apparently had already been claimed by a dom and that was it for me. Like I said. I am very disappointed and pissed. Find a great one and this happens. Notice that she posts tributes to her dad on Facebook and Tik Tok. They were close, but seems excessive to me. Maybe daddy issues? She doesn't seem to maintain relationship with men (the 2 divorces / ex in Colorado). Maybe that's why the move to Bdsm life? Just wild speculation on my part. Anybody else ever meet up with her? Name is Jess. Lives in Macomb County. She is no longer on SA.[/QUOTE]Just letting you know you're not alone and that this kind of thing happens often. Late last year, I had been seeing a woman for about 6 months who is about the same age as the woman you mention here. I met her off a site (not Seeking) then one day she basically faded into non-existence. She always did 90% of the pursuing and initiating conversation. I had been to her house, etc the sex was great, she gave the best top I have ever had. She had texted me randomly a couple times after everything came to a halt but I could never get her out again. Don't take this stuff personally- I know rejection can breed obsession. Most of these women are very damaged emotionally & mentally on top of the fact that they're constantly receiving attention and thirst from other guys. Enjoy it for what it was.
[QUOTE=Gyxser70;6343155]Just letting you know you're not alone and that this kind of thing happens often. Late last year, I had been seeing a woman for about 6 months who is about the same age as the woman you mention here. I met her off a site (not Seeking) then one day she basically faded into non-existence. She always did 90% of the pursuing and initiating conversation. I had been to her house, etc the sex was great, she gave the best top I have ever had. She had texted me randomly a couple times after everything came to a halt but I could never get her out again. Don't take this stuff personally- I know rejection can breed obsession. Most of these women are very damaged emotionally & mentally on top of the fact that they're constantly receiving attention and thirst from other guys. Enjoy it for what it was.[/QUOTE]This is the right answer. It's only a matter of 'when' a rejection happens. I've had some good long-term arraignments, but they are hard to find and most aren't capable of just staying status quo for too long. Either you'll fall down on her calendar priority or she's looking for something else.
They're not doing escort sites bc they want something else than dates. An alpha dude to marry, a rich dude to put her up, a baby daddy, etc. I had a regular good thing 3-4 years ago with one I know many here agree is a good time, and it was pretty clear from the start she wanted marriage and have a guy support her siblings. Telling her upfront I wasn't what she was looking for was probably the start of the end and we went from regular, amazing appts that would often go all night to another 2 years of less of a good time and fewer meetups. I eventually ended it after some crazy texts and one crazy event. 18 months after that she emails, calls and texts multiple numbers within 10 minutes saying she needs to meet. Brings her newborn child over the next day. Calls me daddy, shares too much, etc. It turns out she was only momentarily ticked off at the baby's daddy along with other stress from mom's side. She then teases getting together off and on every month or so. If it happens, great, but I'm not expecting greatness again.
These girls can get every need met and are still always looking for something better that they think won't end up with them being rejected themselves. I'm never surprised when reality hits back and they realize they can get used too and they fall back to calling again. But, IMHO, unless you hit the lotto, you never get back what you had with someone like this, and if you did hit the lotto you wouldn't anyway. Best to look for the next great fleeting experience.
I texted with and met this girl: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a24697e2-c39a-4d4e-ac9e-53ccc501d7c3[/URL].
She is a beauty, with a thicker body than her first photo indicates, but toned. A fantastic backside and chest. Wears braces. She's a college grad and pretty bright.
I met her for a ppm 200 at a motel for a couple of hours. She's basically a massage girl, with limited touching. No GFE, no kissing, nothing with her vagina. HJ release is the only option. She's hot enough to make it work for me once, but I won't pursue this.
She's looking for something regular, maybe 2 x / month. PPM is probably flexible. She'll want more, but she didn't balk at 200. Best contact is a message on SA.
So basically: Hot girl, great bod, 200 for HJ.
[QUOTE=AnanaMo;6344037]I had someone try this with me. They were pretty good but I knew right away where it was going. Blocked and moved on.[/QUOTE]Even though I've basically called out their game. They continue to try to intimidate me. Text me and call me pretending to be the police. The funny part is they're using phone numbers that have escort ads tied to them. Hopefully sometime soon they stop texting and calling me.
[QUOTE=AnanaMo;6345656]Did the girl use the name brandy and uncle Mark? Was this the girl?[/QUOTE]Close! Amy and uncle mark.
[QUOTE=RoyalOaker;6345676]Close! Amy and uncle mark.[/QUOTE]If this is her, tell her I said hi! LOL.
[QUOTE=RoyalOaker;6345676]Close! Amy and uncle mark.[/QUOTE]Did uncle Mark consult his church at anytime. Or Amy dropped her laptop?
[QUOTE=AnanaMo;6345688]Did uncle Mark consult his church at anytime. Or Amy dropped her laptop?[/QUOTE]He did consult his church LOL. But she backed into her "grandpas" car and also the garage so of course I'm responsible for that and they wanted $3800.
[QUOTE=RoyalOaker;6345705]He did consult his church LOL. But she backed into her "grandpas" car and also the garage so of course I'm responsible for that and they wanted $3800.[/QUOTE]Nothing to worry about. Tell him you're turning yourself in, and you're sorry. That you have prayed about it and have to face your sins. You're all good. I dealt with these fool. I told them to meet at the police station and come in with me cause I couldn't live with myself.
I am visiting over the weekend, does anybody have one to share that is 20-30 and not overweight. Be glad to repay the favor of your ever in Phoenix.
[QUOTE=JoeDocks11;6347731]I am visiting over the weekend, does anybody have one to share that is 20-30 and not overweight. Be glad to repay the favor of your ever in Phoenix.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1c29a06-052f-4b97-9df9-b06515961865[/URL]
She's younger and some may say a little thick. But she's nice, clean and knows how to have a good time and likes to please. She does have some shit going on in her life that she'll tell you about. But nothing that others don't deal with. Lend her an ear and you could have some fun.
[QUOTE=MyWagoneer;6348629][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1c29a06-052f-4b97-9df9-b06515961865[/URL]
She's younger and some may say a little thick. But she's nice, clean and knows how to have a good time and likes to please. She does have some shit going on in her life that she'll tell you about. But nothing that others don't deal with. Lend her an ear and you could have some fun.[/QUOTE]Hi! Do you know if she can host? Thanks.
Anyone? She's eager to meet. No gifts discussed yet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd66b430-2879-4a6c-a962-9f60ac239577
[QUOTE=LoVecchio;6352792]Hi! Do you know if she can host? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Yes she is staying at a hotel. She is basically seeing everyone and anyone.
[QUOTE=OneExcitingGuy;6353961]Yes she is staying at a hotel. She is basically seeing everyone and anyone.[/QUOTE]She is not harmful but be cautious as she does it raw too. Yes, everyone and anyone.
Does anyone have a number for her?
[QUOTE=MyWagoneer;6348629][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1c29a06-052f-4b97-9df9-b06515961865[/URL]
She's younger and some may say a little thick. But she's nice, clean and knows how to have a good time and likes to please. She does have some shit going on in her life that she'll tell you about. But nothing that others don't deal with. Lend her an ear and you could have some fun.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TheBigDog890;6354653]Does anyone have a number for her?[/QUOTE]I'm also interested in this one. What's her PPM?
[QUOTE=Lsyfier;6343033]Offering Bdsm up front is fine. My issue with the one I was seeing is that she did not mention it in her SA profile nor the during the 3 months I was seeing her. I even asked her early on what she liked to do sexually. All she said was that she liked it from behind. That's it. So this Bdsm thing came out of left field. So I'm not sure if she was handing me a line of bs or she really wants to pursue the Bdsm lifestyle. She seemed to use the terminology associated with bdsm when she told me. She said she likes to be tied up, choked and slapped which made it sound like she had experience it before. Not sure why she would bs me about it rather than just say she wanted to end our visits (like an adult). Not sure why she just didn't pursue that lifestyle rather than show up on SA representing something other than that. Kind of pisses me off. I was really into her.[/QUOTE]I've read all your posts about this girl and it's hard to watch. Sorry, not trying to be mean. But what exactly did you think was going to happen with this girl? If you're getting all attached, which you clearly were, you're doing it wrong IMO. I'd just forget all about her, and appreciate the good times you did have. She looks hot, I'm sure she was fun. I'd be bummed it ended too, but wouldn't waste another second trying to figure out why.
[QUOTE=TheBigDog890;6354653]Does anyone have a number for her?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MyWagoneer;6348629][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1c29a06-052f-4b97-9df9-b06515961865[/URL]
She's younger and some may say a little thick. But she's nice, clean and knows how to have a good time and likes to please. She does have some shit going on in her life that she'll tell you about. But nothing that others don't deal with. Lend her an ear and you could have some fun.[/QUOTE]I'm interested in her number too. PM is fine as well.
TIA.
[QUOTE=GoodKarmaGuy;6359109]I'm interested in her number too. PM is fine as well.
TIA.[/QUOTE]Can someone pm me her number?
[QUOTE=HotDon;6359185]Can someone pm me her number?[/QUOTE]I'll take her number also please. I was going to sign up, but my prepaid card doesn't work. Does any one brand work better than a other? Thanks.
[QUOTE=SingDong99;6359033]I've read all your posts about this girl and it's hard to watch. Sorry, not trying to be mean. But what exactly did you think was going to happen with this girl? If you're getting all attached, which you clearly were, you're doing it wrong IMO. I'd just forget all about her, and appreciate the good times you did have. She looks hot, I'm sure she was fun. I'd be bummed it ended too, but wouldn't waste another second trying to figure out why.[/QUOTE]Had previous experiences with SA girls. No issues when things ended before. I moved on. I just fell down the rabbit hole with this one. She is gorgeous, lives close to me and the visits were great (so I thought). She got in my head. I just wished that the arrangement lasted a bit longer. You're right though. I'll remember the time I had with her fondly.
[QUOTE=GoodKarmaGuy;6359109]I'm interested in her number too. PM is fine as well.
TIA.[/QUOTE]Apologies guys. I don't have her contact info anymore. I saw her a handful of times last year but she had gotten a boyfriend and I wasn't as interested anymore.
Best of luck.
I was talking to this girl a couple months ago and she went dark. Today she reached out and is looking to hook up. Can't even find her profile any more. Anyone recognize?
[QUOTE=JoeLefty;6362525]I was talking to this girl a couple months ago and she went dark. Today she reached out and is looking to hook up. Can't even find her profile any more. Anyone recognize?[/QUOTE]Ditto. AFAIK she went by Kelly I think. I still have a message for her but it shows her SA name. So she either deleted her account or got banned. Never met but seemed a bit flaky. Usually when someone goes dark, crazy shit in their personal life or they found someone to support them for a bit. I don't waste my time with one's like that as it's usually not worth the hassle. Best of luck though and let us know how it turns out if you do see her.
[QUOTE=MyWagoneer;6360357]Apologies guys. I don't have her contact info anymore. I saw her a handful of times last year but she had gotten a boyfriend and I wasn't as interested anymore.
Best of luck.[/QUOTE]I have her number and I'm willing to trade. I saw her a few times and I'm not interested in seeing her again, but I'll gladly trade it out for other girls in the area. Message me.
[QUOTE=JoeLefty;6352864]Anyone? She's eager to meet. No gifts discussed yet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd66b430-2879-4a6c-a962-9f60ac239577[/QUOTE]Did you end up meeting her?
[QUOTE=LoVecchio;6352792]Hi! Do you know if she can host? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Any PM her number to me?
I have been chatting with MoxiE and PlushnSupple on west side. I think they are the same girl haha. Has anyone seen her? Any info is appreciated.
Is this the Polish Anna mentioned in this forum? We have been PMing and I am looking for info. Thanks in advance!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7902454f-e76e-420a-8494-f29807bf4751[/URL]
[QUOTE=SR7D1;6369884]Is this the Polish Anna mentioned in this forum? We have been PMing and I am looking for info. Thanks in advance!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7902454f-e76e-420a-8494-f29807bf4751[/URL][/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure I met her a few years ago. She worked as a bartender. I can't see her profile- so I suppose she blocked me when I stopped messaging her. She's a nice girl. So many options- so little time. That's my story!
[QUOTE=MichRusty;6369387]I have been chatting with MoxiE and PlushnSupple on west side. I think they are the same girl haha. Has anyone seen her? Any info is appreciated.[/QUOTE]I think they are the same person as well. Moxie I was talking to her for a while and have something set up to meet but I decided not to go through with it. She definitely seems like she is a sexually charged but honestly besides big tits she isn't much my type. Lives in ferndale.
[QUOTE=SR7D1;6369884]Is this the Polish Anna mentioned in this forum? We have been PMing and I am looking for info. Thanks in advance!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7902454f-e76e-420a-8494-f29807bf4751[/URL][/QUOTE]Not the same Anna, this one was fun saw her a couple weeks ago. I had a good experience friend said his wasn't as good.
She's got a hot little body and seems friendly. Has anyone seen her yet?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/829d6622-d921-464d-bbb4-d2d2fcc3a7eb[/URL]
[QUOTE=DonDula;6370214]Not the same Anna, this one was fun saw her a couple weeks ago. I had a good experience friend said his wasn't as good.[/QUOTE]Don, care to elaborate and compare notes? "Fun" does not tell me much. LOL PM is fine.
[QUOTE=FrankBeans;6370399]She's got a hot little body and seems friendly. Has anyone seen her yet?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/829d6622-d921-464d-bbb4-d2d2fcc3a7eb[/URL][/QUOTE]Saw her awhile ago. She's a SP. Works out of house in Roseville. Messy room, mattress on floor. Visit will be short stay. She gets you in, do deed, wants you out. One shot. She will make excuses if you try to stay (she has appt, friend picking her up, etc.). Not a fan of being touched. Used to be a dancer at club as I recall. She does not look like pics. She is super thin now due to ongoing medical issues. Mouth is messed up. Her teeth are rotting due to illness or maybe meth use?? Look for past comments about her. I did not repeat. Save your $$s. Better out there.