Off-Topic Reports

[QUOTE=LBrad52;4090497]Yeah I get that, I thought the less the providers knew about this site the less chances of LEO PEEPING AROUND.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I agree, its hard to be honest when you know she will read what you really think about her. Granted, it could be a positive or a negative thing. To be honest, I am uncomfortable that they are reading everything, I mean the idea was to help other mongers not the ladies. Theres not much we can do about it anyways.

[QUOTE=LBrad52;4090497]Yeah I get that, I thought the less the providers knew about this site the less chances of LEO PEEPING AROUND.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]If you think Uncle is not peeping, you are mistaken.

Don't remember where I saw it, but there was a post on here linking to an article with a picture of LEO's computer in the background showing this site.

[QUOTE=LBrad52;4090497]Yeah I get that, I thought the less the providers knew about this site the less chances of LEO PEEPING AROUND.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]There is absolutely zero chance that Uncle LEO hasn't been well aware of this place for a long, long time.

[QUOTE=PSil;4084233]I have a tracfone bought with cash as are all the cards I've bought for it. My name has never been associated with anything on this phone. Could LE find me by tracking the phones location, sure. But that's the only way. If the provider gets picked up and gives up her phone and contact list, they are going to find a number with a first name that isn't even mine and no way for even tracfone to tell them whose owns that phone number.

It costs me $20 to get enough minutes for 3 months of use. I've never run out of minutes in the years I've had this phone.[/QUOTE]With concerns that someone from home could potentially find my hobby phon, I use google voice app for both texting and calls. It's free, I simple delete the app when I'm not using and reinstall when I need it. It retains call / message history etc. I never have my location turned on so no worries there anyways.

Big time police presence out here tonight. Stay frosty.

Has she gone UTR? Haven't seen any posts from her lately. I know that a user posted something about her that pissed her off royally. I reached out to set up with her a while back and she came off less than sweet but the service was good. Haven't tried since she's been silent on posting.

Anyone seen her lately?

You would think she could afford a phone to take pics with rather than this old pocket camera esp after how long she's been in the business.

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[QUOTE=ConGorilla;4694711]You would think she could afford a phone to take pics with rather than this old pocket camera esp after how long she's been in the business.

[URL]http://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/your-new-addiction-you-will-b/970399451125[/URL][/QUOTE]You are making the assumption they are new pics. Girls are notorious for using old pics if their looks have faded.

[QUOTE=ConGorilla;4694711]You would think she could afford a phone to take pics with rather than this old pocket camera esp after how long she's been in the business.

[URL]http://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/your-new-addiction-you-will-b/970399451125[/URL][/QUOTE]It looks like a fake / scam ad to me. Non local area code and many pictures of her face.

I am so missing the AMPs these days.

For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

So with this there are three options- 1. Stop completely 2. Let the addiction take control and watch my money / sanity disappear 3. Try to shape it into something I can control.

So I'm choosing option 3. If I'm getting older and I want to keep this hobby, and also remain married, there has to be rules. I have to be smart about it. How I have been approaching escorts has always been kind of the same- once I have enough money saved (like 150 or so) I let it overtake me and its all I can think about- I'm a junkie getting a fix and its all I can think about. And then it happens. And there's a cooling off period where I'm OK. Until the urges start over again. It's nice to have a little secret and a stress reliever, but its obvious this is crossing a line and is doing more harm than good (financially, psychologically, etc).

The solution: I will now only see an escort twice a year. Once in November (birthday month) and the other time in June. I think this is a healthier option because I don't cut it completely from my life. I still have these two days to look forward to, and the experience will feel more rewarding (I assume) once complete. I think what I will do is create a new secret bank account and will direct deposit a small percentage of my paycheck to this account every week, very small amount where it won't be noticeable to the wife. (like 3 to 5% of paycheck). I'll be saving money overall because I won't be constantly seeing different girls every few weeks / months. It would just be twice a year.

An added bonus to doing this: I can now see top tier girls. No more $150 girls. No more big bellies or stretch marks or ghetto girls. And since its only twice a year I can make it a special occasion- maybe drive to NY or something if there's a top tier girl that I can now afford.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4752861]The solution: I will now only see an escort twice a year. Once in November (birthday month) and the other time in June. I think this is a healthier option because I don't cut it completely from my life. I still have these two days to look forward to, and the experience will feel more rewarding (I assume) once complete. I think what I will do is create a new secret bank account and will direct deposit a small percentage of my paycheck to this account every week, very small amount where it won't be noticeable to the wife. (like 3 to 5% of paycheck). [/QUOTE]I for one, would not leave a paper trail. All the SO would have to do is get a look at the deduction portion of a payroll stub. , and the questions would start. 3-5% sounds high too! Lets say you make $25/ hr for ease of math. At 3% that would be $30 a week. In 6 months, you would have $780.00 for "fun". At 5% , $1300!

Not to preach, but I assume you are putting at LEAST that away in a 401 k or other retirement plan.

[QUOTE=MarriedTom;4753360]I for one, would not leave a paper trail. All the SO would have to do is get a look at the deduction portion of a payroll stub. , and the questions would start. 3-5% sounds high too! Lets say you make $25/ hr for ease of math. At 3% that would be $30 a week. In 6 months, you would have $780.00 for "fun". At 5% , $1300!

Not to preach, but I assume you are putting at LEAST that away in a 401 k or other retirement plan.[/QUOTE]Appreciate the input. Maybe I'll find another means to withdraw the money. Perhaps something like cashback at the grocery store from time to time, something that won't raise eyebrows if seen on bank statement. I do all the grocery shopping anyway.

That's a load to be sharing here, don't have any good advise except to tell you all good people are born in November & you'll figure it out.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4752861]Guess I'm entering semi-retirement[/QUOTE]BTW ever think of talking it over with the wife, may she'd be into it, but be careful it could backfire!

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[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4753413]Appreciate the input. Maybe I'll find another means to withdraw the money. Perhaps something like cashback at the grocery store from time to time, something that won't raise eyebrows if seen on bank statement. I do all the grocery shopping anyway.[/QUOTE]Cashback is a great way to hide taking extra money.

Just be careful with the store receipt.