Getting dances from girls
Strippers reject men for several reasons:
1) You seem creepy. If you look, smell, sound, or act funny, sometimes this triggers the girl to deem you unfit for her time
2) Money. She assesss her ability to make money off you vs the opportunity cost of someone else and decides to partake elsewhere.
3) Regulars. Anxiety, conditioned income, and friendships are at hand here. With a regular, the girl knows what to expect. With you, they don't. The ones with anxiety are going to stick to their regulars if available.
4) She's interested in you. Not very common, but I have experienced it before. If the girl is genuinely interested in you but has other issues, she may avoid you till those issues are resolved.
5) She's drunk, tired, or upset and doesn't want to work. Enough said
6) She forgot. It does happen, so remind her.
7) Someone is paying her to talk to them. Yes, just because she's not dancing for him doesn't mean he's slipping her money at some point
8) She's more interested in someone else NOT because of the money factor. I've met quite a few girls who used a strip club to find their next provider.
9) She doesn't want to make someone else jealous (customer, girl, boyfriend on premise). Are you someone else's regular? Are you currently sitting with another girl?
10) Have you been tipping girls or getting dances? Some girls watch this and make decisions based on observed activity at the club.
11) You're not drinking alcohol or don't seem intoxicated
12) You look too young. Yes, if you look under 30 some girls won't talk to you. They feel like if you're under 30-40 years old, you're looking for a girlfriend and they don't like being hassled.
Also, remember, a very high percentage of these strippers have anxiety of some sort. Maybe you trigger their anxiety.
All you can do is let the girl know you are interested either through asking her directly, tipping her, or sending over a waitress/another dancer to remind her. Don't be overbearing and if they are worth your time, let them know you mean business. Tipping a messenger works well.
Don't be offended if a girl doesn't dance for you. It may be irritating and guys are used to getting what they want when you flash money around, but not all girls are there for money.