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[QUOTE=DMichael5;4645982]Don't waste time with out of state / country SB's. The most that you will get are offers to receive sexy pics / vids if you send some loot. My experience with the platonic seekers is mixed. Some probably do it to limit messages, but my approach is, if they send a message to you, it doesn't hurt to chat a bit, to hear what they are really looking for. Some may be shy in admitting that they are actually looking for a pay to play or some other sexual arrangement.[/QUOTE]Right. I should have stated that I know the out of states are a scam. Good to hear about the platonic ones though.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=FactoryRat;4645737]So I finally set up my profile, but haven't payed. I'm starting to get some views and messages from local, and out of state / country SBs. I've stated that I'm strictly interested in a FWB / NSA relationship, but when I look at some of their profiles it's says platonic. Do they just state that to scare away the riffraff, or do they actually think I'd pay them to just talk?[/QUOTE]How many have paid for the upgrade? Is it worth it? I keep getting the typical banner telling me how many more replies I'll get, etc. Always seems like just a scam / ploy.

[QUOTE=RoSteele65;4646483]How many have paid for the upgrade? Is it worth it? I keep getting the typical banner telling me how many more replies I'll get, etc. Always seems like just a scam / ploy.[/QUOTE]Ok, so I took the plunge and paid. Got a lot of bullshit messages from some not very attractive women, and those instantly asking for private pix (don't have a public one). Then get what looks like a hottie (can't see full face or body) message me today, and wants to meet. She played coy at first until I asked what she was looking for (thanks for the advice on that, BTW) then gets to the point. Very reasonable if she looks anything like I'm imagining although I won't pull the trigger unless I know for sure.

So, should I ask exactly what she's willing to do during our time? Obviously I wouldn't do it on the site, but is this something you vets do? Also, since I haven't shared a pic is it reasonable to ask for one of her? I'm skittish of showing pix from some stories I read on the Chicago board (some great advice there too).

Let me hear it gents.

[QUOTE=FactoryRat;4648019]Ok, so I took the plunge and paid. Got a lot of bullshit messages from some not very attractive women, and those instantly asking for private pix (don't have a public one). Then get what looks like a hottie (can't see full face or body) message me today, and wants to meet. She played coy at first until I asked what she was looking for (thanks for the advice on that, BTW) then gets to the point. Very reasonable if she looks anything like I'm imagining although I won't pull the trigger unless I know for sure.

So, should I ask exactly what she's willing to do during our time? Obviously I wouldn't do it on the site, but is this something you vets do? Also, since I haven't shared a pic is it reasonable to ask for one of her? I'm skittish of showing pix from some stories I read on the Chicago board (some great advice there too).

Let me hear it gents.[/QUOTE]I would move the conversation to text or email. You can be more direct. See if she is willing to swap a face pic. You may have to oblige and do the same. I do not pay for initial meetings. I have picked up a lunch tab, but only after agreements about future arrangements. I have used the line, "I would love to meet you in public grab a coffee, drink etc. , , see if we like each other and then, if we click, possibly move to some place more intimate. " At least you are up front with your expectations.

[QUOTE=FactoryRat;4648019]Ok, so I took the plunge and paid. Got a lot of bullshit messages from some not very attractive women, and those instantly asking for private pix (don't have a public one). Then get what looks like a hottie (can't see full face or body) message me today, and wants to meet. She played coy at first until I asked what she was looking for (thanks for the advice on that, BTW) then gets to the point. Very reasonable if she looks anything like I'm imagining although I won't pull the trigger unless I know for sure.

So, should I ask exactly what she's willing to do during our time? Obviously I wouldn't do it on the site, but is this something you vets do? Also, since I haven't shared a pic is it reasonable to ask for one of her? I'm skittish of showing pix from some stories I read on the Chicago board (some great advice there too).

Let me hear it gents.[/QUOTE]I normally meet up somewhere I can quickly exit from and where not too many people know me and then treat it almost like a normal date, and start discussing price for sex towards the end.

In other news, I was messaging this person, and then she hit me with 300 ppm, which was reasonable, but then explained it was 1000 ppm with actual sex, and I just laughed and stopped talking to her.

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[QUOTE=RoSteele65;4646483]How many have paid for the upgrade? Is it worth it? I keep getting the typical banner telling me how many more replies I'll get, etc. Always seems like just a scam / ploy.[/QUOTE]I have upgraded one more than 1 occasion (took breaks). It has been worth it, but that's only if you're after something different than escorts or strip clubs. It will probably take some time to find that. There's everything from pros to scammers who want to get paid just to meet for coffee or drinks first and then ghost you to college students who honestly think platonic will work LOL. Definitely get off the site (text or whatever) to talk specifics. I've had good luck letting women lead the conversation. Some will be all business and others will want to chat at first. Good luck!

Thanks. But what I was wondering is if you have upgraded to Diamond. I am a premium member. I have met up with a couple. Some OK. A couple hot. A couple duds.

Has anyone done this? I suspect that it is more of a scam and likely not worth it, but wondered if anyone has any info about it and their experience.

[QUOTE=Marty9646;4650090]I have upgraded one more than 1 occasion (took breaks). It has been worth it, but that's only if you're after something different than escorts or strip clubs. It will probably take some time to find that. There's everything from pros to scammers who want to get paid just to meet for coffee or drinks first and then ghost you to college students who honestly think platonic will work LOL. Definitely get off the site (text or whatever) to talk specifics. I've had good luck letting women lead the conversation. Some will be all business and others will want to chat at first. Good luck![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jackknoff;4641537]Trying to message you, but your inbox is full.[/QUOTE]I can't find kty2020. Help me out!

I see literally no reason to upgrade to Diamond. You MIGHT get more escorts and high priced options that contact you first or something, but that's about it.

Anyone have experience with brittany546, she is pretty forward she wanted to just straight up meet at a room but with the hobby these days cautious is the first, middle and last name.

Has anyone seen or talked to this chick?

[QUOTE=Megatron81;4656697]Has anyone seen or talked to this chick?[/QUOTE]Been talking for a while, but have tried a few of times to nail down a day / time. And then nothing.

I really appreciate everyone's advice. I haven't taken the plunge on my initial contract, but she isn't rushing anything. I sent a pic and she sent hers. Not what I'd call a looker, but definitely a nice body.

Anyway, really enjoying the site. Have gotten a lot of requests from meets, to straight up hook ups. If they ask for a pic request right away I just tell them I'm not comfortable doing that yet, and would rather get to know them first. 99% are good with that. The ones that aren't usually say they don't understand why, or block me. I don't give a shit either way. Anyway got a message from this one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e91ad00b-7473-44dc-8828-1805caa7bef2[/URL]

Told me 400 bills. Said I'd think about it. Then messaged back how she saw that I didn't make that much money, so she'd give me a break. I informed her that information is voluntary, and maybe I made it look like I didn't make that much just to get SBs like her to feel sorry for me. She responded by telling that most men don't ask what she'd accept and just pay. Um, ok.

About a week in and really enjoying the chase. Thanks again for the advice.

BTW, anyone know if she's a pro? Great rates, and willing to stay multiple hours.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40b9ac45-e355-45ca-83c1-3a9aed36ca70[/URL]

Anyone have intel on this one? Any input would be greatly appreciated. PM if you like.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfaf7fd8-157b-4ec7-980b-d6dac6760915[/URL]

I saw her when in Detroit a few weeks ago. Conversation on SA and via text was good and I felt comfortable she would actually show up. We met at the hotel bar where I was staying for a drink before hitting a few spots downtown and going back to my room. While younger and hotter exist she is fun person to be around and can hold conversations. All I think we spent five hours together with lots of BBBJ, and BBFS on the table (for those of you that like that) for three.

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