OK I Get It. It's The Challenge.
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Most of this info you won't find on the boards. It is traded in PM's but rarely do people give away their best leads because it can and has ruined the situation for them.[/QUOTE]I understand what you're saying. I'm not a challenge type guy. I like to know beforehand that whatever I'm looking for is what the massage therapist (or provider for that matter) is offering on the first visit. The legit spa I go to is just that, legit. No extra play is hinted at or offered. And that's fine with me. I do enjoy a great legit massage. When I'm in a massage playing mood then I go see those therapists. (not at the legit place) They do give decent enough massages. Not like the legit place I go to. But I know extra play will happen.
On your last point, I agree totally. My best leads stay with me.