ButtHurt for What?!? (Slot machine analogy)
This is not my sandbox and I don't treat it as such. Along those lines, I have a hard time understanding how someone can become ButtHurt over what someone claims to do with a provider or discussions they've had with a provider. The prodding question on repeat is "You mad bro?" as a monger gets so wrapped up in a single provider that he appears obsessed. I often wonder why he doesn't simply visit another provider and work out all of his aggression. Providers don't treat us all the same or charge us the same even for the same service, we treat some providers better than others, and that is the essence of YMMV.
I often have to step back and think about why I'm here:
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What is the purpose of this Forum?
The purpose of this Forum is to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women.
[/QUOTE]If what you are contributing doesn't fit that objective, it's just noise and pointless. For the non-moderated, you've used decent judgment to a great degree to ensure that but. ,. , for the moderated, A2 helps you out a bit.
Providers as Slot Machines not Investment Portfolios:
Over time, you'll have to view some of these providers as slot machines and your activities as merely gambling (not an investment portfolio as some may like to think). You put your money in, pull the slot, then hope that it comes up with a combination that is favorable for you. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, but overall. You hope that you win enough to make it worth your while. As a general rule, recall "the house always wins".
With the ButtHurt going on, I imagine some dudes huddled around a single slot machine. .,., all day and all night as if it's only calling his name. ,. , thinking that that next slot pull will be that hit of a lifetime, but he is forced to keep putting loads of money into it just for that chance. Those dudes see people winning all around them, but it doesn't matter, that single machine calling his name is the only one that matters. If you're a fan of the Twilight Zone, see "The Fever" (Season 1, Episode 17) (use "the twilight zone the fever" in your favorite video sharing site).
This hobby is supposed to be fun and exciting while sharing our exploits, not antagonistic and vitriolic while attacking each other. Some of the most excited I get is knowing that pu-c is coming to me or I'm on my way to get some pu-c: either way, it involves pu-c. For the ButtHurt among us, you may have let limerence get in the way of enjoying your mongering journey. I encourage the ButtHurt to step back and think about why you're mongering in the first place and whether you're truly built for this hobby which can be brutal at times. Answer this to yourself: when you run across a provider who made your toes curl/eyes roll back in your head thus you experienced one of the most erotic encounters ever, (1) are you excited to share the info with your fellow mongers with whatever criticism may arise as you look for the next NEW find or (2) are you inclined to try to keep her to yourself and defend, at all costs, the honor of an adult business woman who can fight her own battles? One of those predisposes you to a hobby of ButtHurt and Fight Club violations.
I'm thankful that I'm allowed to play in this sandbox which has saved me a lot of time, money, and headaches. I'm about to go get some pu-c, and I hope that you are too.
Respecting the game while revering the journey. ,.
Milfman.
Pissed off women and the election collateral damage
I just realized hundreds of thousands of men if not millions will not get to have sex tonight or in the coming weeks because of our next president.
Thank God for Whor*s!
Rrayr.
Info from competing providers
[QUOTE=TheOneThing;3160234]Sorry if I caused any issues for anyone on this site. I've watched BP for over a year without seeing anyone. I picked a couple of ladies to see and just asked a question based on what I heard from one of them. I was thinking of trying to see Whitney but it sounds like she will not be seeing newbies and I can certainly understand.
I guess I've got a lot to learn if I'm going to dabble in this lifestyle.
Again I'm sorry if I offended anyone. That was not my intend.[/QUOTE]You are not "out of line" to post a question about a provider. But, if the source of your info about a provider is another provider. Don't believe it is true. They are very competitive about building a client list. Most will spread false rumors in order to "hurt" the rep of their competition.
Hell, some of them would make more money running a "dirty' election campaign for a politician.
Interacting with providers following their public LEO troubles
The increasing number of providers receiving public ridicule from getting arrested, the rumors swirling, and the different criteria mongers use to determine whether or not they will see the ladies again is intriguing.
It seems like once a lady is on LEO's radar, she is immediately blacklisted by many mongers. Those mongers are likely the least vocal, but their actions indicate that they will never see her again. Whether she is rumored to be working with LEO or not is irrelevant, an arrest is enough is disqualifying. Other mongers wait a bit to determine if she is safe and proceed based on their comfort and risk-tolerance levels. They may be hesitant and skittish, but will still visit the provider once a warm and fuzzy feeling is obtained.
I can't fault any monger for proceeding with caution based on the level of risk with which he's comfortable. The provider's embarrassment of being publicly chastised by LEO pales in comparison to the level of anxiety once their family, friends, and co-workers get wind of the offense. Rumors begin to run amuck. Regardless of whether a monger chooses to blacklist her or proceed like she never had LEO issues, the provider still deserves the dignity and respect to deal with those new legal, family, and other issues in private regardless of how public the arrest was. Numerous providers, some who have ads on this site and had a long track record of stellar service, have met unfortunate circumstances so considering whether or not to see them is not merely hypothetical any more. I've heard about providers who were solely dependent on providing have resorted to regular jobs to supplement or dropping the bottom out of their prices just to make ends meet. This dilemma isn't going to simply disappear, so providers and mongers alike have important choices to make going forward.
Stay safe,
Milfman.
