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Thanks, makes perfect sense.
[QUOTE=Deb4512;3598422]A lot of escorts are asked that. The worst that could happen is that they give you an attitude about it and that's on them. If I were you I'd just text escorts I'd seen before and see if they are willing to provide references for you, that way if they cop an attitude you don't have to deal with them on the phone. Otherwise I think most escorts would be willing to vouch for you.[/QUOTE]
If it's his first time or the providers he sees refuse to give him a reference? What then? Here in MA they don't arrest the escorts anymore. We are considered victims, which is ridiculous, but I'm happy they don't arrest us anymore. They only arrest the guys. I may decide to ask for references, and I have before if the guy sounds shady, or I won't see them at all. A great site to use is [URL]411.com[/URL] Providers communicate there and post bad clients. I also google phone numbers to see what I can find out and do a facebook search. Names show up on my phone generally. I will search their names via google and facebook. I found out a guy was a sex offender that way.
As far as asking providers what you like, it's not a waste of time. A guy told me that he was disappointed because I wasn't dominate and didn't take charge. How would I know that if he doesn't tell me? I'm not a mind reader. Another guy told me he was disappointed that I didn't wear lingerie. I change up and sometimes I will wear sexy dresses. How would I know unless he told me? Guys need to speak up and if the escort doesn't care about your preferences then she's a bad escort. I tell all the guys to tell me how they want their BJ, if they don't like my technique and if they want to fuck tell me to stop sucking.
[QUOTE=Cassie92;3598517]Personally, I don't mind giving references. It is reassuring to know that providers can give each other reliable information based on experience.
I can B. S. Some big long explanation on why I don't as to why I don't ask for references but honestly its due to sheer laziness and disordergnizstion.[/QUOTE]The worst thing about giving references is when a provider doesn't reply to another provider when asked.
I totally believe that the women need to stick together and help each other. It keeps the whole community safe.
I guess many feel that by not giving a reference on a hobbyist they keep them to themselves.
In my case it will actually make them less desirable. As a hobbyist it's my right to seek variety.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3598868]Voting with the wallet is the best way. Saying something usually doesn't accomplish much. Everyone has a bad or off day abd lets face it not everyone gets the same treatment. But my question is how much does one not going back actually hurt a provider. Also what does a provider actually consider a regular or valued customer. How many times a month does one need to show up to be considered a regular? Most guys like variety and always looking for someone new so even a great provider doesn't get a mongers monthly budget for play.[/QUOTE]I don't know what constitutes a regular. Good question for the chickies. I would think though, that if you visited even twice a month for an extended appointment and stopped, you're affecting their bottom line.
[QUOTE=CheroKid;3593735]Thought I would share some of the bounty this summer has brought me. The 1 sr pic I've been seeing for about 6 months found her on bachpage in an add that had no pics or phone number, the second posted on backpage about a year age, says she decided not to meet anyone, I kept texting her every few weeks for about 8 months until she finally agreed to meet. The 3rd I met this week, she was referred to me by another provider she was a friend who was in a jam. I have met a lot of other nice girls this summer as well but these 3 were my favorite. I don't have permission to share numbers.[/QUOTE]Let us know when and if you get permission to share digits. All 3 have great bodies.
I had a nice visit with one of the USA advertisers recently that told me that she was looking for regulars and didn't want to be high volume. I will review her in the right thread shortly.
So when she stated she wanted to establish a clientele of a few REGULARS. That led us to discuss what her idea of a regular is and how many clients she is wanting to have.
I was surprised that she was open to a few options. Most of the time there is the idea that weekly is the standard as a REGULAR. Not with her. We had a successful first meet and great. We will see if she and I can come to some type of understanding in the near future.
My point is if you do not ask the provider of what her expectation is of a REGULAR you won't know!
I am looking for a computer tech savvy provider for an idea that I have. Unfortunately (for both of us) it doesn't involve the fun kind of work that we all enjoy--Just an idea for a project that I am thinking of putting together. PM me on here if you are interested in heading up something worthwhile.
[QUOTE=CincyHobbist;3600385]I had a nice visit with one of the USA advertisers recently that told me that she was looking for regulars and didn't want to be high volume. I will review her in the right thread shortly.
So when she stated she wanted to establish a clientele of a few REGULARS. That led us to discuss what her idea of a regular is and how many clients she is wanting to have.
I was surprised that she was open to a few options. Most of the time there is the idea that weekly is the standard as a REGULAR. Not with her. We had a successful first meet and great. We will see if she and I can come to some type of understanding in the near future.
My point is if you do not ask the provider of what her expectation is of a REGULAR you won't know![/QUOTE]All providers want regulars. The also want guys who don't NCNS, cancel at the last minute, take up all day with texting, are on time, don't beg for BBFS, don't haggle on price, don't stay longer than they book for and are "fresh and clean.
Other than the begging for BB, the list could be a list from hobbyists.
I know a provider who has had a rash of NCNS and last minute cancellations. If she pulled that shit, she would be lambasted and given a bad name.
The hobbyists who do the above give all of us a bad name. They make the women jaded which can negatively affect what a good guy gets when we see them.
It should be a rule that you can't post a review without a link.
Long reviews that describe a sexually exciting and fulfilling experience that don't include ad links or contact info is something that should be banned and if a hobbyist does it twice, they should be banned.
It is like looking at candy and not being able to buy it. It is like watching adult programming on Cinemax. Interesting but unsatisfying.
Quit bragging about how good you have it without sharing. Those that do this probably eat banquets in front of starving Ethiopians.
[QUOTE=BTBear;3600963]It should be a rule that you can't post a review without a link.
Long reviews that describe a sexually exciting and fulfilling experience that don't include ad links or contact info is something that should be banned and if a hobbyist does it twice, they should be banned.
It is like looking at candy and not being able to buy it. It is like watching adult programming on Cinemax. Interesting but unsatisfying.
Quit bragging about how good you have it without sharing. Those that do this probably eat banquets in front of starving Ethiopians.[/QUOTE]What would we do with all the time we use to spend trying to figure out who the heck the review is about, is she still in business, or what the lady looks like, of what are her particulars, or how she can be contacted, or have I seen her before under some other name, or... Well, come to think of it I could probably find something else to do. Good idea BTBear.
[QUOTE=BTBear;3600963]It should be a rule that you can't post a review without a link.
Long reviews that describe a sexually exciting and fulfilling experience that don't include ad links or contact info is something that should be banned and if a hobbyist does it twice, they should be banned.
It is like looking at candy and not being able to buy it. It is like watching adult programming on Cinemax. Interesting but unsatisfying.
Quit bragging about how good you have it without sharing. Those that do this probably eat banquets in front of starving Ethiopians.[/QUOTE]Most never happen so it's hard to post links, or my personal favorites " it happened awhile back" or the ever popular " she likes me so much she deleted her profile. Some just have to tell stories, but some actually like reading the fiction while others just out right drink the grade kool-aid and believe every word.
[QUOTE=BobbyLinn;3601128]What would we do with all the time we use to spend trying to figure out who the heck the review is about, is she still in business, or what the lady looks like, of what are her particulars, or how she can be contacted, or have I seen her before under some other name, or... Well, come to think of it I could probably find something else to do. Good idea BTBear.[/QUOTE]My personal solution is just to assume every review is about Lexi (or Lexy, Lexxy, Lexxxi, Lackshi, Lechxhi, Lektioy) and then write it off as being forever unknowable, like Gravity, or what "I'm Fine" actually means.
[QUOTE=BTBear;3600963]It should be a rule that you can't post a review without a link.
Long reviews that describe a sexually exciting and fulfilling experience that don't include ad links or contact info is something that should be banned and if a hobbyist does it twice, they should be banned.
It is like looking at candy and not being able to buy it. It is like watching adult programming on Cinemax. Interesting but unsatisfying.
Quit bragging about how good you have it without sharing. Those that do this probably eat banquets in front of starving Ethiopians.[/QUOTE]Many of us see UTR girls, and with them, I personally offer the good ones a review on them. For the duds or scammers I just post. Some want a post and want me to share their contact information which I have done many times, some want me NOT to post or share any information, and the latest, a past USA advertiser that had a large clientele wanted the post just to let her prior regulars know she was still available and not to give out her number. I am a firm believer in getting permission prior to making a post on a good one and adhere to girls wishes on giving out number. IMHO It is only right to adhere to the girls wishes as far as my evaluation of girl and sharing number.
[QUOTE=SinsinnatiToy;3601572]Many of us see UTR girls, and with them, I personally offer the good ones a review on them. For the duds or scammers I just post. Some want a post and want me to share their contact information which I have done many times, some want me NOT to post or share any information, and the latest, a past USA advertiser that had a large clientele wanted the post just to let her prior regulars know she was still available and not to give out her number. I am a firm believer in getting permission prior to making a post on a good one and adhere to girls wishes on giving out number. IMHO It is only right to adhere to the girls wishes as far as my evaluation of girl and sharing number.[/QUOTE]Big believer in respecting the girls wishes but posting a penthouse type of review knowing you can't or won't share a link or contact info is useless. This type of post is either looked at as bragging or pure fiction. Nobody really cares for braggerts but some do like fiction. For me after I see a trend developing on the stories I just ignore them as fiction writers. Some I guess feel better spinning tall tales.
After my first scheduled appt fell through this morning, I set up with EE only for the lady to have personal issues and she could not and then another provider who I waited on 45 minutes after the appointed time and I left. This followed by sending 8 text messages out to providers with ads only to not get any replies. Really? Why even post an Ad if they are not going to be avail. I finally went to a AMP for a great massage. And left happy. A shame when AMPs beat out providers for service and money. I get Tired of playing games, and just feel like calling it quits.