Seeking Arrangements

Is it a huge time sink? Yes, indeed. And not everyone has the time. But the huge investment is really needed if (like me) you like a lot of variety. If you're just looking for 2-3 reasonable regulars, that is easy as cake to find. Maybe my memory is faulty, but I've been doing this for long enough going back to SW and CL days and I think we tend to over-romanticize the past. Things have actually gotten WAY better! Also, we lose the energy to pursue the way we once did. The scammers are easy to identify and steer clear of. Finally, I never block anyone. There is no need to take extreme measures. I've had ladies throw huge numbers at me and I just wait them out. In a weak moment (planning a trip to Florida) they will agree to a more reasonable arrangement. But you need to be very organized. The number of times I've had fellow mongers ask me who I'm talking about when we've discussed her many times just causes me to shake my head. Keep a notebook (physical or electronic) otherwise you're toast in this game (or any game that you wish to take seriously). If you're impatient and looking for quick results (like I need something today or now) you're going to have a lot of failures. Play the long game and you will do well. At least those whom I have shared with at some point or another will hopefully agree that a methodical and patient approach pays off in the end.

[QUOTE=NastySD;6875646]I think that you just have to play the law of large numbers. When I am looking I send the same message basically, making it clear that I'm not looking for anything serious but would love to discuss a ppm thing if she's into that. I get a lot of bites and often from girls you definitely wouldn't suspect some of them straight say they're not into it in their profile but they really are and the PPM is always reasonable. I get 400 the most frequently which can always be widdled down to 300 or even 250. I have had a couple say 1000 and I just blocked them and I've had some say 600 to which I always just politely say, wow. You're so pretty I get it. I just can't justify that to myself. Best of luck. 80% of the time they come down. I don't play with small talk. I get them off site asap and explain what I am looking for and ask what kinda allowance would work of they're game. This is as difficult as you make it. My advice is cast a wide net, see what bites negotiate with several then choose. It will take a few hours, but in the end you'll have at least a fist full of hopefuls.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6875703]Is it a huge time sink? Yes, indeed. And not everyone has the time. But the huge investment is really needed if (like me) you like a lot of variety. If you're just looking for 2-3 reasonable regulars, that is easy as cake to find. Maybe my memory is faulty, but I've been doing this for long enough going back to SW and CL days and I think we tend to over-romanticize the past. Things have actually gotten WAY better! Also, we lose the energy to pursue the way we once did. The scammers are easy to identify and steer clear of. Finally, I never block anyone. There is no need to take extreme measures. I've had ladies throw huge numbers at me and I just wait them out. In a weak moment (planning a trip to Florida) they will agree to a more reasonable arrangement. But you need to be very organized. The number of times I've had fellow mongers ask me who I'm talking about when we've discussed her many times just causes me to shake my head. Keep a notebook (physical or electronic) otherwise you're toast in this game (or any game that you wish to take seriously). If you're impatient and looking for quick results (like I need something today or now) you're going to have a lot of failures. Play the long game and you will do well. At least those whom I have shared with at some point or another will hopefully agree that a methodical and patient approach pays off in the end.[/QUOTE]DC finally expounds on his accumulated and sound wisdom and approach. Put in the work, play the long game, be organized, don't play to quick results. Yes, take notes, treat it like research or a trial. I agree, blocking is an unnecessary, hard response. Probably, a clue as to DC's success. Take the soft, long game and smart approach. Never mean spirited.

Nasty, as well, with this tactful gem: some say 600 to which I always just politely say, wow. You're so pretty I get it. I just can't justify that to myself. Best of luck.

The soft, positive, gentlemanly approach is your friend here. "Best of luck" plays perfectly to a girl thinking this guy's cool, polite and he didn't demean me. Nasty, you should have kept this gem to yourself, LOL.

You two will, have done, just fine.

Yeah I agree the long game is the way to go. Just be nice and not a creep and see who comes around. At the end of the day it's tax-free income for them and the people paying higher numbers dry up over time I'm sure.

I've had some girls who are taking 150 from me and I know 400 from other guys on here. Depending on the girl they just see us quick money and just want to get as much income as they can. But in terms of being organized the same girls have ended up blocking me simply because I'll hit them up randomly and by the time they get back to me I can't do the meet and they get frustrated. So I think reliability is big key to getting a good price although in the long run you might end up be paying more.

Lastly I found if I initially pay a higher price I've had success with negotiating a lower amount for repeat visits. Obviously they're not happy about it but we've already established a connection and they know I'm safe so they feel more comfortable taking 50 bucks or so off. "Hey can you do xxx amount? I want to see you but I'm a little strapped right now" Just something to think about.

Good morning gentlemen I have been texting with this young lady I wonder if anyone has any info.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/04e0866b-4357-4187-98e5-a3bcdda08b1e[/URL]

I've said it in some post but the escort like girls will be reviewed on here more likely who will have time constraints or restrictions. The one's that want a situationship type deal have been more bang for the buck but also similar to dating. Just met the kid of my main SB who I'll be honest is getting me in the feels but we're both on the site so haha not fully immersing myself just yet. Had lunch with a new one in Federal Hill and dropped 185 with valet for her and myself plus our meal. She just wants to get taken out since her friends are broke moms with kids and she doesn't really have any others. She's had some guys want to meet up only for coffee but that's sat bad with her because they'll either want to split check or cover their own food. LOL I get it guys but it's an investment. Build that rapport first in conversation. Not full proof but at least softens the blow of "losing" money. She has kids too but she's made it apparent that she's attracted to me and wants to meet at her place when the kids are at school in the morning and go out to do something before she has to get them. LV 99, A Comedy Show, Go Kart etc. I'm also still relatively young compared to most on here I presume and childless so might have an unfair advantage. No mention of an allowance but with covering the cost of our adventure I wouldn't mind giving her 1 or 200 to get "dolled" up next time etc. That is if she's great in bed LOL. Her tits where nice and jiggly as we walked down Federal and chatted. To each their own though gents. Maybe escorts would be better for some than a SB who are looking for that simple cash to lay approach but like with dating, work on yourself, have the money, a little bit of game to woo her and make her laugh / smile and you'll get what you want (80% of the time haha). Look at ways to make money online too guys. Shit ton whether it be stocks, media or like me gambling hahahaha.

[QUOTE=PoorBill;6879688]Good morning gentlemen I have been texting with this young lady I wonder if anyone has any info.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/04e0866b-4357-4187-98e5-a3bcdda08b1e[/URL][/QUOTE]Either that link doesn't work or I blocked her or she blocked me. Can you attach a picture?

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6879978]Either that link doesn't work or I blocked her or she blocked me. Can you attach a picture?[/QUOTE][URL]https://maps.app.goo.gl/8fktjE8HCPUXQU1S7[/URL]

[QUOTE=PoorBill;6879688]Good morning gentlemen I have been texting with this young lady I wonder if anyone has any info.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/04e0866b-4357-4187-



98e5-a3bcdda08b1e[/URL][/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af74b406-3b70-4f88-a1b5-c8add4da4b4f[/URL]

She's pretty hot and talks sexy. I think she'll be good for some fun.

I can't download pictures anymore from the site.

[QUOTE=EmvLa;6879862]I've said it in some post but the escort like girls will be reviewed on here more likely who will have time constraints or restrictions. The one's that want a situationship type deal have been more bang for the buck but also similar to dating. Just met the kid of my main SB who I'll be honest is getting me in the feels but we're both on the site so haha not fully immersing myself just yet. Had lunch with a new one in Federal Hill and dropped 185 with valet for her and myself plus our meal. She just wants to get taken out since her friends are broke moms with kids and she doesn't really have any others. She's had some guys want to meet up only for coffee but that's sat bad with her because they'll either want to split check or cover their own food. LOL I get it guys but it's an investment. Build that rapport first in conversation. Not full proof but at least softens the blow of "losing" money. She has kids too but she's made it apparent that she's attracted to me and wants to meet at her place when the kids are at school in the morning and go out to do something before she has to get them. LV 99, A Comedy Show, Go Kart etc. I'm also still relatively young compared to most on here I presume and childless so might have an unfair advantage. No mention of an allowance but with covering the cost of our adventure I wouldn't mind giving her 1 or 200 to get "dolled" up next time etc. That is if she's great in bed LOL. Her tits where nice and jiggly as we walked down Federal and chatted. To each their own though gents. Maybe escorts would be better for some than a SB who are looking for that simple cash to lay approach but like with dating, work on yourself, have the money, a little bit of game to woo her and make her laugh / smile and you'll get what you want (80% of the time haha). Look at ways to make money online too guys. Shit ton whether it be stocks, media or like me gambling hahahaha.[/QUOTE]While your intentions are good (I think), let's put this in that old advice category of "wise men don't need it and fools don't heed it". How about some useful information like the scores of SBs you've tossed away per the request to JCLEARMAN1 in post #9199?

If you only supply the link, they cannot "mess it up". The SBs should weed the clowns out.

Again, only for those you no longer or do not intend to see.

Again, no numbers. Only links.

I do not know why this is so taboo here.

Anyone have the 411 on this women please inbox me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fa23f5d2-6a3d-442b-bca0-d8a5238d54fd[/URL]

Redhotred2323 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dede1751-b560-445d-8190-94c9c10131f5[/URL].

Good for a fuck, but didn't scratch my itch in a way that makes me want to repeat.

Lily [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1158067e-8a83-4438-abf2-4e6bf9ec8b43[/URL].

Was fun, but honestly too skinny. I need big titties.

Jay [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eed4a2f3-507d-43e1-8d46-cd5cd784d997[/URL].

Yep, that's her. I spent $500, which is why I won't repeat, but I had to fuck her at least once.

Natalia [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/909ce085-56ee-4c8c-bdb8-bd826e7976aa[/URL].

Mediocre, so no repeat.

Norainnoflower3 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/93fc37ea-ec6a-44be-b58a-46da648d24ef[/URL].

I asked about her a few weeks ago, and ended up seeing her. $500 and squirts every time she cums, which is many times when she's getting fucked. I counted 5 different sprays.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6881175]Redhotred2323 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dede1751-b560-445d-8190-94c9c10131f5[/URL].

Good for a fuck, but didn't scratch my itch in a way that makes me want to repeat.

Lily [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1158067e-8a83-4438-abf2-4e6bf9ec8b43[/URL].

Was fun, but honestly too skinny. I need big titties.

Jay [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eed4a2f3-507d-43e1-8d46-cd5cd784d997[/URL].

Yep, that's her. I spent $500, which is why I won't repeat, but I had to fuck her at least once.

Natalia [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/909ce085-56ee-4c8c-bdb8-bd826e7976aa[/URL].

Mediocre, so no repeat.

Norainnoflower3 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/93fc37ea-ec6a-44be-b58a-46da648d24ef[/URL].

I asked about her a few weeks ago, and ended up seeing her. $500 and squirts every time she cums, which is many times when she's getting fucked. I counted 5 different sprays.[/QUOTE]None of the links in this thread work for me ever, I always get this window every single time even when I'm logged into SA. What am I doing wrong? Or what do I need to do to be able to access the profile?

[QUOTE=Jimmmy;6882470]None of the links in this thread work for me ever, I always get this window every single time even when I'm logged into SA. What am I doing wrong? Or what do I need to do to be able to access the profile?[/QUOTE]Don't use Google chrome. Try using Firefox or another internet.

[QUOTE=EmvLa;6880743]Me it's about the principle of you worked for it and earned it. I've shared SB info via PM or email with those who had equal or better SB's to trade. Key word is trade. I put effort in my messages to these SB's, planning the date and Cash. I don't value that as free information. Like I said there are escort like SB and situationship ones and I tend to find the latter. They don't want another set of 100 guys hitting them up for sex witout the prior effort I or another SD did for them. And some of it is simple like giving rides, buying a few groceries or going together, or an Uber Eats order LOL. I have more respect for the ones I'm not interested in seeing because I chose to then the ones asking for free information without contributing to the forum at least. But rest assured when I come across one who delivers but feel wronged or was a waste of time it'll be on here bud. That way you can decide to roll the dice or avoid completely and save you time and effort. Sounds like a even trade for free information.[/QUOTE]

I'm not as prolific as you and others. I see very few and over long periods of time. When I'm no longer seeing that SB and I've moved on, she is typically no longer on SA. However on the rare occasions that she is, I've put in on here. I do not see anything wrong with that. I do not delude myself in to believing that a short comment from me would add "another set of 100 guys hitting them up". Even if it did, it is probably still negligible compared to the amount of hits they all receive everyday.

Maybe if I was doing the volume and spending the time and money that you, are I would feel differently. Who knows? As we do with the scammer SBs that hit us up, we hide them and move on. They are easy to spot.

But thank you for your magnanimous efforts in preserving the princely and honorable efforts of all SDs out there! OK, bud?

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6881175]Redhotred2323 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dede1751-b560-445d-8190-94c9c10131f5[/URL].

Good for a fuck, but didn't scratch my itch in a way that makes me want to repeat.

Lily [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1158067e-8a83-4438-abf2-4e6bf9ec8b43[/URL].

Was fun, but honestly too skinny. I need big titties.

Jay [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eed4a2f3-507d-43e1-8d46-cd5cd784d997[/URL].

Yep, that's her. I spent $500, which is why I won't repeat, but I had to fuck her at least once.

Natalia [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/909ce085-56ee-4c8c-bdb8-bd826e7976aa[/URL].

Mediocre, so no repeat.

Norainnoflower3 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/93fc37ea-ec6a-44be-b58a-46da648d24ef[/URL].

I asked about her a few weeks ago, and ended up seeing her. $500 and squirts every time she cums, which is many times when she's getting fucked. I counted 5 different sprays.[/QUOTE]For the quick summary. Appreciated.