If it is, I don't want to come back to reality. Let you know when I see her next Tuesday.
[QUOTE=Azman84;2176974]LOL you sure this real and not a make up story? LOL.[/QUOTE]
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If it is, I don't want to come back to reality. Let you know when I see her next Tuesday.
[QUOTE=Azman84;2176974]LOL you sure this real and not a make up story? LOL.[/QUOTE]
Was on craigslist Friday and saw posting for "blow your mind awesome companion". Sent reply and emailed for quite a while back and forth. Set up to meet near I-17 and Thomas area but the emails just stopped abruptly. One, anybody else respond to this one or have any luck? Two, I have had the abrupt stop occur several times with other ads, on Bo and another site. Is this common? I don't get rude, explicit or discuss money so thought maybe just a lot of flakes or fakes out there. Any info or suggestions would be cool. Thanks ahead of time and I look forward to sharing info with everyone as it happens.
Was on CL Friday and responded to ad "blow your mind awesome companion". Thought I was doing good emailing a while and set up tower near I-17 and Thomas area. Get near and the emails just stop coming. Does this happen often to anyone else? Fake or a flake? We conversed well enough I thought. Any one else respond to this one and actually get anywhere? Reminds me of similar post about two years ago in which I got what I wanted by meeting her at one of those one on one clubs. Any info appreciated and I WILL share any other experiences with the group her. Thanks!
Very real. Hooray team me!
[QUOTE=JaydeDinaz;2177417]If it is, I don't want to come back to reality. Let you know when I see her next Tuesday.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JaydeDinaz;2182560]Very real. Hooray team me![/QUOTE]Share dude let us all screen Hooray!
There is no way I'm screwing this up. Maybe after it runs it's course or she gets in bad financial spot. For now, a bird in hand.
[QUOTE=Azman84;2182588]Share dude let us all screen Hooray![/QUOTE]
Anyone else been having problems with you ads getting flagged down really quickly this week? I've been refreshing the same 4-5 ads for months, and this week they all got flagged down instantly. Tried over a few days. Posted a few new ads, same thing. Today my account is suspended.
When I say really fast, I mean within seconds of seeing it live, it gets flagged down. The ads do go live and show up in search results, then in seconds *bam*, down.
[QUOTE=Moloch2233;2185447]Anyone else been having problems with you ads getting flagged down really quickly this week? I've been refreshing the same 4-5 ads for months, and this week they all got flagged down instantly. Tried over a few days. Posted a few new ads, same thing. Today my account is suspended.
When I say really fast, I mean within seconds of seeing it live, it gets flagged down. The ads do go live and show up in search results, then in seconds *bam*, down.[/QUOTE]I've had that problem. It seems to me that once your caught up in the craigslist flagging that no matter when or how you post the ad CL will catch it themselves and take it down. You can usually get around it by making a new account. I've done that about 4 times now and used the same number since they don't seem to catch it.
[QUOTE=Moloch2233;2185447]Anyone else been having problems with you ads getting flagged down really quickly this week? I've been refreshing the same 4-5 ads for months, and this week they all got flagged down instantly. Tried over a few days. Posted a few new ads, same thing. Today my account is suspended.
When I say really fast, I mean within seconds of seeing it live, it gets flagged down. The ads do go live and show up in search results, then in seconds *bam*, down.[/QUOTE]It happens sometimes, there was a period for about a month back in Dec where I couldn't keep an ad up for more than a minute. Honestly though I never got any good bites on my adds, at least not what I am looking for.
Been doing this for a month now. Most are "verification"sites or dating sites. Had contact with 5 who were interested til they saw that I was a big boy (more husky than anything). And after the face pic, no more responses. So your not alone out there. And I have had 3 of my ads flagged too. So your not alone.
Any clue why messages flagged?
Because suggest money?
Because suggest sex?
I see in some of the older posts some of you have had experience being the sugar daddy. So what helpful hints would you provide a guy that is just getting into that type of relationship? What is usually give in return for some time each week? Anything like a casual lunch or coffee involved? Can your acquaintance also be a friend? That creates a question like what is the difference between a FWB and a SD? Anyway an interesting topic I would be interested in hearing about. I really am tired of trolling CL and would love to settle down with the woman I have just met. Thanks.
[QUOTE=WorkForFood;2187151]I see in some of the older posts some of you have had experience being the sugar daddy. So what helpful hints would you provide a guy that is just getting into that type of relationship? What is usually give in return for some time each week? Anything like a casual lunch or coffee involved? Can your acquaintance also be a friend? That creates a question like what is the difference between a FWB and a SD? Anyway an interesting topic I would be interested in hearing about. I really am tired of trolling CL and would love to settle down with the woman I have just met. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have limited experience as a SD and anyone with more or different experience is welcome to share theirs I can only speak on what I have seen, its not nearly the same as normal hobby methods. First, there are a lot of women on the SD sites that are only expecting dates and shopping, or as seen refereed to on some none hobby related forums "no sex dates" sometimes these women will eventually be intimate but not always. Second, there are some who are more towards the hobby side as far as their expectations they generally use keywords such as NSA or FWB in their profiles on SD sites, they often opt for a per meet vs allowance type deal. Once again its no guarantee, I can tell you from what I have seen on a forum that's specifically for the other side of hobby that a lot of the girls on SD sites are closer to strippers with OTC meetings then escorts. Also, most SD sites try to separate themselves from the hobby so if reported for asking the wrong questions you can be banned. This leave very cryptic conversations, honestly I haven't had much luck met a couple girls but their prices were too high to maintain steady SD / SB relationship. A lot of the women will converse but once it moves towards actually meeting they tend to disappear. Then there are a few who are holding our for that millionaire to whisk them away across the world. When it comes to craigslist I have posted plenty of adds looking for a SB / FWB and gotten a few bites but nothing that met what I was looking for. As for the compensation, the low end is typically the girl looking for at least 1000 month for 1-2 meetings a month the per date type are more usually in the high class escort range or more. Casual lunch and coffee are the ice breakers for most first meetings in my own experience. I have seen on a forum for SB's talk of demanding money first and sneaking away from the date. To be honest if you are looking for someone to settle down with avoid SD / SB goto POF or OKCupid or something like that. If you are looking for a new avenue for the hobby SD / SB is more time consuming and more expensive. Now I am sure others have had different experiences but I am just throwing my $0. 02.
[QUOTE=DavePHX;2186930]Any clue why messages flagged?
Because suggest money?
Because suggest sex?[/QUOTE]The suggesting sex part alone rarely is instant flag but if you put words like generous, dollar signs, or flat out say money they seem to get flagged pretty quick. I assume its either some sort of auto flag system or the plethora of guys thinking they are going to get something for free on CL.
[QUOTE=WorkForFood;2187151]I see in some of the older posts some of you have had experience being the sugar daddy. So what helpful hints would you provide a guy that is just getting into that type of relationship? What is usually give in return for some time each week? Anything like a casual lunch or coffee involved? Can your acquaintance also be a friend? That creates a question like what is the difference between a FWB and a SD? Anyway an interesting topic I would be interested in hearing about. I really am tired of trolling CL and would love to settle down with the woman I have just met. Thanks.[/QUOTE]How about finding a GF who will be your companion? To these young girls all a SD is, is an ATM. There is no shortage of old fools willing to part with obscene amounts of cash just to have some young bimbo to talk to them. Don't be one of those old fools. If you have to pay a woman for companionship it is not a real relationship. When you get tired of paying to see her (and you will) watch how quick her tune changes. A FWB is just a mutual friend who you have sex with and you go on with your lives. This situation is dangerous too. There is usually someone who gets hurt in the end. If you are looking to settle down with a woman neither a SD or FWB is the healthy way to do it. Just find a GF you can hang with. Unless there is something wrong and the only way a woman would even give you the time of day is to pay her.
[QUOTE=GetLost;2187241]How about finding a GF who will be your companion? To these young girls all a SD is, is an ATM. There is no shortage of old fools willing to part with obscene amounts of cash just to have some young bimbo to talk to them. Don't be one of those old fools. If you have to pay a woman for companionship it is not a real relationship. When you get tired of paying to see her (and you will) watch how quick her tune changes. A FWB is just a mutual friend who you have sex with and you go on with your lives. This situation is dangerous too. There is usually someone who gets hurt in the end. If you are looking to settle down with a woman neither a SD or FWB is the healthy way to do it. Just find a GF you can hang with. Unless there is something wrong and the only way a woman would even give you the time of day is to pay her.[/QUOTE]It would appear that this old fool is probably being taken. And will have to learn to say NO! It will soon be time to end the $ - so we will see what happens. I will keep you informed! My issue. Like many of you I suppose. Is the current marital status. I cannot go look for a girlfriend sadly. Maybe I should just stick to the CL providers for what I occasionally need.
Thanks again for the advice and input!
[QUOTE=PhxFunLover;2187235]The suggesting sex part alone rarely is instant flag but if you put words like generous, dollar signs, or flat out say money they seem to get flagged pretty quick. I assume its either some sort of auto flag system or the plethora of guys thinking they are going to get something for free on CL.[/QUOTE]I've never had problems with this. I usually mention money but my ads are as Descartes as they can be considering. But last week. Flag city. Was curious if anyone else had this problem.
[QUOTE=WorkForFood;2187643]It would appear that this old fool is probably being taken. And will have to learn to say NO! It will soon be time to end the $ - so we will see what happens. I will keep you informed! My issue. Like many of you I suppose. Is the current marital status. I cannot go look for a girlfriend sadly. Maybe I should just stick to the CL providers for what I occasionally need.
Thanks again for the advice and input![/QUOTE]Just please be careful. Most of these girls are drug addicts or have mental issues. If you're really intent on paying a woman for your sexual needs be sure that your needs come first. The best bet is, in my opinion, getting a BJ from a SW. I can usually get it done for 20-30 bucks and you go on your way. I did that for years. I also fine tuned my senses over that time and I would suggest you read the rules of mongering on this site. You need to protect yourself against ripoffs and LE no matter which route you choose. You need to remain anonymous and never ever give your number to a provider or let a provider use your phone. Never become attached to a provider in any way and for heaven's sake don't lend money to one. Also don't try to be a hero and save a provider. You cannot and it will only lead to you being taken advantage of. The bottom line is this: use a provider for the least she is willing to take and then leave her alone until you are ready again. There is ALWAYS one somewhere available.
[QUOTE=WorkForFood;2187643]It would appear that this old fool is probably being taken. And will have to learn to say NO! It will soon be time to end the $ - so we will see what happens. I will keep you informed! My issue. Like many of you I suppose. Is the current marital status. I cannot go look for a girlfriend sadly. Maybe I should just stick to the CL providers for what I occasionally need.
Thanks again for the advice and input![/QUOTE]Just a further update for you, I went checking other states because I would assume someone made a thread about sugarbabies and I was right. Go look at the Virginia / Richmond area there is a massive thread about sugarbabies that is I guess now the national thread for these forums for them. Some interesting post made me want to try another shot at the SD / SB thing.
[QUOTE=WorkForFood;2187151]I see in some of the older posts some of you have had experience being the sugar daddy. So what helpful hints would you provide a guy that is just getting into that type of relationship? What is usually give in return for some time each week? Anything like a casual lunch or coffee involved? Can your acquaintance also be a friend? That creates a question like what is the difference between a FWB and a SD? Anyway an interesting topic I would be interested in hearing about. I really am tired of trolling CL and would love to settle down with the woman I have just met. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have had a number of SD / SB relationships over the years, and quite honestly, rarely do they work well. I think PhxFunLover sums it up pretty well. With the SD sites you'll end up wasting a LOT of money and time trying to find the ideal relationship and girl for you. I've had a few good relationships, mostly with girls who themselves didn't have much experience being SBs, so didn't really know how to ask / take money from me. Others are professional blood-suckers and can suck you dry without you even realizing it. If you got millions and don't mind throwing it away, then it can work well; if you have a tight budget and just like the convenience of having a "go to girl" then it is a dream. Best to just get the number of a provider you like who has her own place and just call her up when feeling the need.
If you are wanting more than just a sexual outlet, meaning a little social time now and then and a guaranteed GFE, then try finding the elusive fwb.
Having spent a few years living abroad, I've found non-American women are most adaptable to such a relationship. American girls are the worst, but that is what we are stuck with now! Though of late I've had a few experience with some Latinas and find they generally are most open to a conducive SD / SB relationship.
CL is very hit and miss, mostly miss, taking lots of time. But there are some golden rewards to be had if you can be patient and know exactly what you want and don't waste time on other things, no matter how tempting they might be. While waiting to land the perfect girl, fortunately there is always 27th, Bell, and VB!
Stay safe,
RW.
Thought I might share in case you get contacted from a CL post or see her post on CL. She has responded to mine and I did to hers. That's how we managed this meeting. Ask her name. She told me Jules. Nice curly / wavy blondish blond hair. Certainly a BBW. Although not extreme. Very friendly! She carries her top really NICE! She needed a room for a few days so I got her a deal at a decent place. Hopefully to get her out of her car.
Anyway. Lots of play. She loves sex. And loves penetration. Says she is tight and I believe her. She asked a lot of questions about likes and dislikes and erotic fantasies. So maybe when the urge is there a little kinky with her? Due to my condition penetration was not happening so between the two of us we got her off first. Very clean. Nice and wet. Lots of moans. Loves hard breast massage. She did wonderful things to me after her satisfaction and knows where your sweet spot is.
Other than slightly larger than I like. She is a really nice experience. What else can I tell you. If you find her. Enjoy.
[QUOTE=WorkForFood;2193037]Thought I might share in case you get contacted from a CL post or see her post on CL. She has responded to mine and I did to hers. That's how we managed this meeting. Ask her name. She told me Jules. Nice curly / wavy blondish blond hair. Certainly a BBW. Although not extreme. Very friendly! She carries her top really NICE! She needed a room for a few days so I got her a deal at a decent place. Hopefully to get her out of her car.
Anyway. Lots of play. She loves sex. And loves penetration. Says she is tight and I believe her. She asked a lot of questions about likes and dislikes and erotic fantasies. So maybe when the urge is there a little kinky with her? Due to my condition penetration was not happening so between the two of us we got her off first. Very clean. Nice and wet. Lots of moans. Loves hard breast massage. She did wonderful things to me after her satisfaction and knows where your sweet spot is.
Other than slightly larger than I like. She is a really nice experience. What else can I tell you. If you find her. Enjoy.[/QUOTE]Is this the Jules who answered your CL add?
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No that was not the same Jules. She was blondish and a little fuller.
[QUOTE=NDave;2193351]Is this the Jules who answered your CL add?
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[QUOTE=NDave;2193351]Is this the Jules who answered your CL add?
[ATTACH=CONFIG]339393[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]Who is that one? Any info on her?
So back in May, I posted an ad on CL offering a bouquet. A girl answered and we emailed back and forth. I met her at a restaurant because she wanted to "feel safe. " I took the chance since we hadn't discussed money or anything. She had a quick drink and we went to my motel room and had a great time. She said it was her first time doing this and she seemed sincere. Cost $100 for 2 hours of her time. I didn't think I would hear from her again. A couple of days later, she texted and asked if I wanted to meet again. So, we did. Long story short, we now meet about once a week at her place for at least two hours and one time five hours. No rush true GFE. She seems to have a really good time and I know that I do.
Money? Once she told me to keep my money. The other times she asked for $50 to $100 to get her nails done or something. She's super cool and fine with my need to be discreet. She says I am a secret from her friends, also. She texts me at random to say Hello, and sexy talk and a few sexy photos. Since meeting her I have not looked for anybody.
No real report, just a chance for me to tell somebody my story. It took me awhile to meet somebody like this off CL but it is possible and I didn't try to find something like this. Otherwise, there is no way a 47 doofus like me could hang with a 35 year hottie like this. I keep looking for the downside but have not seem one yet. Maybe if I tried to stop seeing her but, I feel no need to do that.
[QUOTE=NDave;2193351]Is this the Jules who answered your CL add?
[ATTACH=CONFIG]339393[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]Can you guys share info on this Jules lady, she looks fine.
[QUOTE=RickySuerte;2193896]So back in May, I posted an ad on CL offering a bouquet. A girl answered and we emailed back and forth. I met her at a restaurant because she wanted to "feel safe. " I took the chance since we hadn't discussed money or anything. She had a quick drink and we went to my motel room and had a great time. She said it was her first time doing this and she seemed sincere. Cost $100 for 2 hours of her time. I didn't think I would hear from her again. A couple of days later, she texted and asked if I wanted to meet again. So, we did. Long story short, we now meet about once a week at her place for at least two hours and one time five hours. No rush true GFE. She seems to have a really good time and I know that I do.
Money? Once she told me to keep my money. The other times she asked for $50 to $100 to get her nails done or something. She's super cool and fine with my need to be discreet. She says I am a secret from her friends, also. She texts me at random to say Hello, and sexy talk and a few sexy photos. Since meeting her I have not looked for anybody.
No real report, just a chance for me to tell somebody my story. It took me awhile to meet somebody like this off CL but it is possible and I didn't try to find something like this. Otherwise, there is no way a 47 doofus like me could hang with a 35 year hottie like this. I keep looking for the downside but have not seem one yet. Maybe if I tried to stop seeing her but, I feel no need to do that.[/QUOTE]Congratulations! What a find. The possibilities are out there, just takes a lot of patience.
Enjoy!
RW.
So. A long story short. I am in an old age crisis - 60 - and have spent the past few weeks attempting to enjoy some adult activity. However due to ED from radiation treatments my enjoyment is purely BBBJ and cim. Mutual caressing is on the top of the list as well. So anyway a reply to one of my CL posts led me to an older (40?) but VERY sweet woman. She is professional and very good. Very quiet spoken but will certainly hold a conversation. Talk to here and she will find out what you like and desire. She may not be a 10 and maybe living in a run down motel. But I can tell you she performs admirably. Probably not the first meeting but if you decide to go back I would bet she would go a little on the playful side. She mentioned to me a vibrating ring. You get the idea. She is in Mesa and goes by the name Nix. And for a little more than the cost of supporting her with the cost of the room and some food. I really do enjoy her company. [ATTACH=CONFIG]340089[/ATTACH][ATTACH=CONFIG]340092[/ATTACH][ATTACH=CONFIG]340091[/ATTACH].
[QUOTE=WorkForFood;2196875]So. A long story short. I am in an old age crisis - 60 - and have spent the past few weeks attempting to enjoy some adult activity. However due to ED from radiation treatments my enjoyment is purely BBBJ and cim. Mutual caressing is on the top of the list as well. So anyway a reply to one of my CL posts led me to an older (40?) but VERY sweet woman. She is professional and very good. Very quiet spoken but will certainly hold a conversation. Talk to here and she will find out what you like and desire. She may not be a 10 and maybe living in a run down motel. But I can tell you she performs admirably. Probably not the first meeting but if you decide to go back I would bet she would go a little on the playful side. She mentioned to me a vibrating ring. You get the idea. She is in Mesa and goes by the name Nix. And for a little more than the cost of supporting her with the cost of the room and some food. I really do enjoy her company. [ATTACH=CONFIG]340089[/ATTACH][ATTACH=CONFIG]340092[/ATTACH][ATTACH=CONFIG]340091[/ATTACH].[/QUOTE]I am allowed to share her contact info if you PM me.
I just got lucky with a reply from w4 m craiglist for massage but this girl got no incall and doesn't have a car. Finally agree for a car date fifty cents. 20 years old native american very petite and will take all your load. Pm me for her number and details.
[QUOTE=Peacekeeper;2200526]I just got lucky with a reply from w4 m craiglist for massage but this girl got no incall and doesn't have a car. Finally agree for a car date fifty cents. 20 years old native american very petite and will take all your load. Pm me for her number and details.[/QUOTE]Hi. Would love her info so I could contact. Thanks!
[QUOTE=WorkForFood;2197978]I am allowed to share her contact info if you PM me.[/QUOTE]For Those Of You Who Inquired. Its nixlove2014. Not nixphoenix2014. Sorry For The Confusion.
[QUOTE=Peacekeeper;2200526]I just got lucky with a reply from w4 m craiglist for massage but this girl got no incall and doesn't have a car. Finally agree for a car date fifty cents. 20 years old native american very petite and will take all your load. Pm me for her number and details.[/QUOTE]Hey man is this her?
There were some comments a while ago about Stacy. Has anyone seen her recently. And if you have would you be willing to share a contact? I remember her original CL post for a massage but it is LONG gone. I am not a psychiatrist. But I lone the thrill of a head case. LOL! Thanks in advance. Feel free to PM me.
[QUOTE=Azan84;2200973]Hey man is this her?[/QUOTE]O.
That is not her. The one I saw look much better with bigger chest.
Okay, I have to admit that CL does proved but shit it's time consuming and not my kind of thing. I found 2 yesterday and was well worth it. One was 19 AA. She is very new to the hobby, but she knows how to handles the stick!! Very tight will forward number to all AA lovers.
2nd Chloe, tall 5"11 chick cool laid back picked her up brought her back home talked went up and she does it all. Man one wild ride. Don't think she wants eh number given out.
So I had posted an ad on CL and finally got a response from a Maddy. We texted back and forth and finally agreed on a time and place. 0. 60 for FS covered. She is in the east valley. I am greeted by a petite woman. We head to the room and she starts to perform BBBJ. Afterwards, cover goes on and I pump away. We go through all the positions and I finally fill the hat. I proceed to dress and this is when things get interesting. The door busts open to the room and in walks a male (pimp?) he starts yelling and cursing at me and threatens to kick my ass for being with his woman. Then he asks me for my money. All I had was what we had agreed on earlier. He halfheartedly swiped at my head. He just made a ton of noise and was throwing stuff around. I grabbed the rest of my things and bolted. Left unscathed but things could have gotten much worse.
I finally woke up from this nightmare. Stay safe. PM me if you'd like more details.
[QUOTE=Azman84;2200973]Hey man is this her?[/QUOTE]Met her last week and have a review on her and ad link as well. She is planning to go to San Diego. Not sure if its temp or permanent. She is a good provider, had a good multi hour session that is reasonably priced.
Review: [URL]https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=262547[/URL].
Ad: [URL]http://san-diego.dating.com/female-escorts/other/sidney-above-average-kinky-pla/078922189523[/URL].
- DTD.
[QUOTE=DoToDont;2218743]Met her last week and have a review on her and ad link as well. She is planning to go to San Diego. Not sure if its temp or permanent. She is a good provider, had a good multi hour session that is reasonably priced.
Review: [URL]https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=262547[/URL].
Ad: [URL]http://san-diego.dating.com/female-escorts/other/sidney-above-average-kinky-pla/078922189523[/URL].
- DTD.[/QUOTE]That's is her. She sent me one of those pics she posted in SD when we were trying to meet.
Is still at it. Looks like she put on weight. Too bad about her attitude.
[URL]http://phoenix.craigslist.org/nph/cas/4684512034.html[/URL]