Not a report, but thanks!
Spent the last hour going over the old messages. Learning a lot. I have to work within a budget, so everything I learn is helpful. I really appreciate it!
Rays bar. Full of stripper UTR and BP advertisers all week
Place has been thick with them all week from strippers looking for additional $$ and a number of the BP girls. Been that way all week. Weekend was especially thick in there with them.
Unusual number in there last two days.
LOL a lot safer than knocking on a motel door not knowing what's behind.
[QUOTE=Barn0318;1447373]Not that you were advocating this, Doc, but sounds a bit risky to actually try to meet up with someone at a place like this, being so public, and out in the open.[/QUOTE]And definitely less scary than picking up a SW. You guys braver than I am by far. I'm a wus in comparison.
Place is full of UTR types. Near impossible for someone to differentiate from a "regular" date. Just a girl you met and picked up in a bar.
Just commenting on the "pro" level appears to be way up lately.
You and I are very similar
[QUOTE=Anksgf; 1448132]Nah, you just go about it in a different way and so it seems, have a bit more $ to burn.
It also seems you're not an oddball like me.
I do the vast majority of my drinking at home.
On the rare occasion that I go out, it's with friends, a genuine date or legit business over drinks.
If I'm just looking for a piece of ass, I'll hit the strolls or maybe have a look around online.[/QUOTE]If we ever meet. Will become friends I suspect.
Just go about things a bit different. I hardly ever drink at home. Go for a different type (but there still just a bought and paid for commodity. Mine just cost more)
I doubt anybody would say I'm not quirky. As they say here. They would say,"He ain't right".
Repeating the first rule of the Fight Club
Never talk about the Fight Club.
Many ladies know of the existence of the Fight Club. Many (new ones and non-sexual MT, especially) do not.
My last post was a very public and detailed review of a new lady (non sexual MT) in town. Beause someone shared my post with that lady, my personal policy will now be to share details of my visits, especially when I TOFTT, in PMs only. I will not judge people who choose otherwise, but I want to be as helpful as possible to my friends, and that is difficult for ME to do if I am always having to filter my comments though my perception of the lady's ears.
New UTR. PM me for details
I was recommended a new UTR by a friend. She is a true GFE and a very economical one too! She is no spinner but not a bbw either. I prefer spinners but this one ain't too bad. She is in her mid 30s and cannot host, so you got to be able to host or get a room. She doesn't advertise at all and prefers to be very low key, so I don't plan to share it with too many people. However, she needs a little more dough and is willing to see 2-3 more regulars.
Its the half your stuff (or more) severance package that hurts the most. ROLMOA.
[QUOTE=Gotta Run;1449068]Yea it dawns on all of them sooner of later. Some just handle the reality of it better than others. Hell a marriage license is just a job offer for legal prostitution with a 401K and severance package. LMFAO[/QUOTE]I would know.
Still pretty funny to me the semi-pros that tell me they never have and would never do it for $$$$. But they would go do me for the (take your pick). $$$ for rent, tuition, car payment, phone bill, doctor bill. You name it. LOL
Like I have said before. Big time denial in lots of them.
Hey Juliette, Where do I sign up?
[QUOTE=GFE Juliette; 1449094]I want to genuinely get to know him and enjoy his company because I feel that it makes our time together so much better. I have been known to go out to lunch and dinner with these men without asking for anything more other than a great conversation and I am definitely not a clock watcher (I have allowed some men to hang around for hours if we really hit it off). I adore and truly care about each of my friends that come to visit me. We chat by phone or email one another occasionally even if I don't have a visit from them in some time. Some I send photos of my flowers or dogs. Sometimes if I need a friend to talk to I may call one of them. To me, this is not all about the money. It's about true friendship.
Juliette[/QUOTE]I know I am going to take a ton of crap for this, but I want the experience you describe and I believe it can be found. We hear terms thrown around like "connection","special relationship" and they meet with immediate ridicule and disdain. On the other hand we here terms like "Cash for Gash","leasing a warm hole" and they are echoed throughout the ethos like profound truisms to be repeated and admired. I say to each their own but Just looking for a quick "romp and run" is no more or less legitimate than looking for a little more.
Truth is, this is for the most part a purely commercial venture, however there is room at the margins for two human beings to come together within the confines of a "business" relationship and be friends! Not lovers, not romantic partners but friends.
Admittedly, I have thrown some serious dream money down the "friendship" rathole and gotten mainly grief and ingratitude in return but my stupid ass is going to keep on truckin!
Now excuse me while I go change my Tampon.
Senna.
P. S. Juliette, what do expect from a guy called sexhound? LOL.
Want To Celebrate Senior Status
Fellow hobbyists, you will see that I have 26 reports and have been a member here now for over 15 months, finally having met the requirements for senior membership status. As many of you do, I love meeting a very few reliable locals regularly, but am always anxious to find someone new. I would love a UTR recommendation with whom to see to celebrate my senior status. Being a total GFE guy, at first I seldom found providers that met that criteria, as many just seemed to be rushing guys through like an assembly line. I have learned the hard way, until beginning to use this site.
I cannot boast enough about being here. When Alexis first told me of this site over 1 1/2 years ago, or perhaps it was Barbie, it was a real eye opener. It has saved me so much time, money, and effort. A few times I TOFTT, without knowing what I was doing, and saw some ladies who were just passing through. I've since learned that without reviews, stay away from them. And stay away from those that look TGTBT, because they usually are.
I certainly understand the need to keep some info only available to senior members, and that trust is tantamount to success in this business. I apologize for PMing some of you when the stipulation was clearly to have been a senior member. I did not know that there were even membership levels then, but since have.
I feel that I know some of you as Alexis, Barbie, and Jenna have spoken of your helpfulness from giving legal advice, to medical advice, to just being protective and helpful to everyone in this business. The list could go on and on, but many thanks to twopuppop, drholiday, walker2011, fastcars1966, wheelerjim, knoxyankee, newbutold, Fredzeppelin, sexhoundtn2, ruavol2, galtguy, bonifino, beaux, etc. I may have missed some I'm sure. And Jackson as moderator has been very helpful!
To illustrate how valuable this site has been, at first I had no idea what a UTR was, and that I could meet some really good quality providers here who did not advertise elsewhere. Jenna was one of those UTR's I found out about here, at least when she was when first starting out. I also saw Kelly very early on, and had I known some of the negatives, I would not have. This site has also stopped me from seeing Monica who advertises at Straw Plains. Many many thanks!