Girl, Woman, Whatever. Staying Away Makes Sense
[QUOTE=Osito2789;2827337]So I texted this Poet girl today, arround 4 pm. She said she was having issues with screening, so asked me for facebook page and a fresh piic of me that's not on facebook or she won't be able to take new clients. So I did.
Then she told me she's located by the BMW plant.
Then she asked if I was a cop. I told her "nop girl I'm not".
From this point I think she gat upset I called her "girl". She reply with "" I'm not a girl. If I was that be messed up. I am a woman".
When I said GIRL I didn't meant it a bad way. Its a word I always use But I gues she took it the wrong way.
So then I agreed with her and asked if we could meet up tomorrow. She politely replies no thank.
Well I guess don't call the Poet a girl because she will get pissed. Haha at least she seem legit tho.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't take her reaction that seriously, except that to me it would be a warning that the service is unlikely to be any good. She's got a chip on her shoulder, that's understandable: Whatever had led her to the life of a provider can't be too pleasant, whether it was abuse at home, drugs, mental illness, extreme poverty. You're smart to stay away from her in the future. I once saw a gal ("gal" is better than "girl," right?) who got upset at me when I politely suggested that she had been sort of mechanical during the half-hour, and that at her requested rate (1. 5) there might be some guys who would only want to see her once. I reminded her that she was a young, very sexy woman, and with a little more effort she could develop a steady, repeat client list, and maybe wouldn't have to keep opening her door to so many strange men. She began to call me names and she began to cry and at one point I thought she was going to toss something at men. I meant well, of course, but in retrospect I should have just kept my mouth closed and silently added her to my NERL. My "never ever repeat list. ".
My opinion? You saved yourself some money and avoided an awful time with a provider who should be in another line of work. Maybe poetry, if she can get paid for any of her poems. . . .
Just my 2 cents.
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