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I usually am super careful owing to my status, but I am tempted by the reward / risk ratio here. Tell me all the things I can screw up w / this. There is someone I have been in contact w / IRL who is a great SB candidate in my view. Super super sexy, from an immigrant family, quite quite beautiful. I've flirted w / her, she hasn't exactly come on to me, but still, there is sexual tension. I'd be interested in a surreptitious or sugar relationship. She just recently gave me her phone # to keep in touch better. With advice from a bowlbuddy who is a real swordsman, and who never gives sugar to his SBs, I developed a campaign to bed her.

I am trying to think about how to use her phone #. I obviously don't want to contact her from my regular cell #. I thought about using my GV number, however, I have never never ever mixed my sugar life w / my IRL. Also, I am told by some that when my GV number comes up on their caller I'd, it is as 'sugar daddy'. I am not sure I want her to see that. I am thinking about using the real cell # of my burner to contact her. I never use that number, but again, I am leery about mixing my sugar life w / my IRL. Has anyone gotten a second GV number?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6893797]I usually am super careful owing to my status, but I am tempted by the reward / risk ratio here. Tell me all the things I can screw up w / this. There is someone I have been in contact w / IRL who is a great SB candidate in my view. Super super sexy, from an immigrant family, quite quite beautiful. I've flirted w / her, she hasn't exactly come on to me, but still, there is sexual tension. I'd be interested in a surreptitious or sugar relationship. She just recently gave me her phone # to keep in touch better. With advice from a bowlbuddy who is a real swordsman, and who never gives sugar to his SBs, I developed a campaign to bed her.

I am trying to think about how to use her phone #. I obviously don't want to contact her from my regular cell #. I thought about using my GV number, however, I have never never ever mixed my sugar life w / my IRL. Also, I am told by some that when my GV number comes up on their caller I'd, it is as 'sugar daddy'. I am not sure I want her to see that. I am thinking about using the real cell # of my burner to contact her. I never use that number, but again, I am leery about mixing my sugar life w / my IRL. Has anyone gotten a second GV number?[/QUOTE]You have a hookup there. If she doesn't know about you sugaring. And she just gave you her number. She's inviting you to contact her and take it further. No sugar needed. Just work it as a regular date and take her out. And let the chemistry flow and get that booty. Don't overthink it. Free hookup pussy is always the best if it just costs you dinner.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6893797]I usually am super careful owing to my status, but I am tempted by the reward / risk ratio here. Tell me all the things I can screw up w / this. There is someone I have been in contact w / IRL who is a great SB candidate in my view. Super super sexy, from an immigrant family, quite quite beautiful. I've flirted w / her, she hasn't exactly come on to me, but still, there is sexual tension. I'd be interested in a surreptitious or sugar relationship. She just recently gave me her phone # to keep in touch better. With advice from a bowlbuddy who is a real swordsman, and who never gives sugar to his SBs, I developed a campaign to bed her.

I am trying to think about how to use her phone #. I obviously don't want to contact her from my regular cell #. I thought about using my GV number, however, I have never never ever mixed my sugar life w / my IRL. Also, I am told by some that when my GV number comes up on their caller I'd, it is as 'sugar daddy'. I am not sure I want her to see that. I am thinking about using the real cell # of my burner to contact her. I never use that number, but again, I am leery about mixing my sugar life w / my IRL. Has anyone gotten a second GV number?[/QUOTE]Respectfully, I think you might be looking at it wrong if your framework is "how do I convert to sugar. ".

If she gave you her number, and she hasn't identified as a sugar baby, offering her money is calling her a prostitute. It sounds like you could just see if there's an opportunity for the two of you to get together without compensation.

But caveat. If this is someone in your circle, or immediately adjacent, you're playing with fire. You and I, I think, have similar life circumstances. Don't poo where you sleep.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;6662671]Nice looking pics, but check out that video!

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[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6893155]So where are all the newer and younger girls? I have been on since 2015 and while it always took a long time to find someone you really wanted Its really bad. Are they simply not sugaring anymore in the traditional sense? I think someone here mentioned OF but with OF, my SBs that tried it gave up. You have to be basically be an amateur professional porn star on the grind to make real money, doing content and drumming up promotion continually. Seems more degrading and underpaid than a real job LOL.[/QUOTE]They are all on IG and TikTok if you want 18+ that's almost the only game in town.

[QUOTE=StevenWalker;6894304]Condom sex doesn't count guys. Lets make a pact to report all girls who make us wear rubber.[/QUOTE]LOL This is something that should be a given and known for a very long time. One of the main draws of sugaring is to be able to get a true GFE in bed. Full raw. Especially at some of the crazy amounts some of you guys are dropping on these chics. If she's making that a requirement especially at those crazy prices and you're accepting. Then I'm sorry to say but you're doing it wrong. You might as well get a street ho that already has those requirements at 5 to 10 times less. Usually average 100/120 per hookup. Yes I know some of you cats have SOs and choose protection to avoid bringing something home. But the sugarbaby should still allow you the option of going full raw. That's one of the main appeals of sugaring. In all my years of doing this. I had only one girl always want a rubber for sex. BJ was bare. And a handful of other girls that requested rubber for the first meet or two for sex but then went raw as well either in later fuck rounds or in subsequent meets. BJ has always been no rubber. And the large majority of all my other girls full raw from the beginning. So full raw should always be available as much as possible. It should only be up to you if you want to wear a rubber for whatever reason. If you're paying a lot of money then you should be getting a true GFE in bed. With a real girlfriend you don't wear a rubber for fucking or BJ. In sugaring you're paying essentially for the fantasy of having a real girlfriend. So that fun time in bed should be similar.

[QUOTE=Lexx1;6894766]LOL This is something that should be a given and known for a very long time. One of the main draws of sugaring is to be able to get a true GFE in bed. Full raw. Especially at some of the crazy amounts some of you guys are dropping on these chics. If she's making that a requirement especially at those crazy prices and you're accepting. Then I'm sorry to say but you're doing it wrong. You might as well get a street ho that already has those requirements at 5 to 10 times less. Usually average 100/120 per hookup. Yes I know some of you cats have SOs and choose protection to avoid bringing something home. But the sugarbaby should still allow you the option of going full raw. That's one of the main appeals of sugaring. In all my years of doing this. I had only one girl always want a rubber for sex. BJ was bare. And a handful of other girls that requested rubber for the first meet or two for sex but then went raw as well either in later fuck rounds or in subsequent meets. BJ has always been no rubber. And the large majority of all my other girls full raw from the beginning. So full raw should always be available as much as possible. It should only be up to you if you want to wear a rubber for whatever reason. If you're paying a lot of money then you should be getting a true GFE in bed. With a real girlfriend you don't wear a rubber for fucking or BJ. In sugaring you're paying essentially for the fantasy of having a real girlfriend. So that fun time in bed should be similar.[/QUOTE]Not trying to argue. Just a counterpoint. And yes I have a SO and yes you're right in the logic there. But beyond that let me just say a few things.

If you're paying a girl for sex, you're not dealing with a debutante. I don't care how clean, fresh, innocent, new, etc she seems. By the time she's accepting money for sex, she's been around the block many times. You're not planting any flags. You're not the only person she's sleeping with I promise you. You know how I know girls lie? Because we all do also. Convincingly.

Dude wear a condom. The last thing you want is to contract some disease you have to disclose to future partners for eternity (unless you already have one of those). This game is so much fun. But make the investment in your longevity here. Give yourself the opportunity to do it well into your later years. Keep your dick healthy so you can do this forever.

[QUOTE=Murrican;6895856]Not trying to argue. Just a counterpoint. And yes I have a SO and yes you're right in the logic there. But beyond that let me just say a few things.

If you're paying a girl for sex, you're not dealing with a debutante. I don't care how clean, fresh, innocent, new, etc she seems. By the time she's accepting money for sex, she's been around the block many times. You're not planting any flags. You're not the only person she's sleeping with I promise you. You know how I know girls lie? Because we all do also. Convincingly.

Dude wear a condom. The last thing you want is to contract some disease you have to disclose to future partners for eternity (unless you already have one of those). This game is so much fun. But make the investment in your longevity here. Give yourself the opportunity to do it well into your later years. Keep your dick healthy so you can do this forever.[/QUOTE]Murrican I know that already man. I've already said that myself that I know there's no exclusivity in sugaring especially with these career sugarbabies. That's why I said in my other posts it's best to try as much as possible to find a fresh girl and at its purest form of a baby. A non-pro. Technically a girl can only be a non-pro one time. Before she's ever been paid directly for sex. After that the term becomes a gray area. So I know what's up in this sugaring world. That's why to hopefully try and minimize how many daddies a girl can possibly be seeing. I avoid career sugarbabies and girls that have been on a site for a long time.

If I choose to wear a rubber that's my decision. But I'm paying and got into this world of P4 P because of not having to. Don't think I'm just going in raw blind. I ask for tests and I get tested as well. And I've never caught anything in all these years. The only time I got sick. Was when a baby didn't tell me she was just starting to get a cold. And I made out with her and of course ate her out too. So I got the cold too. LOL But that's it. So I'm doing fine going raw and will continue to do so. That's one of the main reasons to get into sugaring. If not I might as well go back to street mongering which is a heck of a lot cheaper and there are street hos out there that have model quality looks. Rubber is required in that world.

And of course girls lie. I've said men lie more than women. But women are much more skillfull and better at it than us. Girls have been playing with men's hearts since they were little girls. That first man being their father. Daddy's little girl and princess. That little girl knows how to get out of trouble with her father and pout or lie about what she did. And a father is usually going to spoil his little girl and not punish them. It's all innocent when a woman is a little girl. But that's where it starts for later in life a woman to charm and manipulate a man sometimes and their heart. So yes women lie. And they're much better than us at it.

[QUOTE=SBlover;6893435]Spanish dream- 800 covered or 1500 raw creampie overnight.

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Bunni- A fun one. 1000 covered, will go bare for extra but no cip.

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Perfect baddie- 500 covered.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b9319298-65c0-4e86-bbce-513527adb783[/URL]

Maria- 500 bare cip.

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Gia- 600 covered.

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Metagirl- if you, you know.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/08f3b3c4-5b3b-47f6-8db6-b5364c063b5a[/URL][/QUOTE]Bro, most of these girls just joined. How do you get them so fast? And they are quite young too! Good job and amazing.

[QUOTE=Uncountable;6895890]Bro, most of these girls just joined. How do you get them so fast? And they are quite young too! Good job and amazing.[/QUOTE]Man if you don't know how to get them fast. You need to go back to sugaring 101. It's easy. You just do a search and set filter for newest. Nothing magical or hard to do.

[QUOTE=Lexx1;6893089]Well technically SGV is still LA county but it's edging to OC and IE. But I've had some finds there that were great girl next door types and not pricy. Usually Latinas and Asians.[/QUOTE]Read back in the posts and you are no longer on Seeking. What are you using? I used to be able to get pussy for $ to $$. 50 at the most. Now even starting at $$50 is tough.

[QUOTE=LargeEss;6896091]Read back in the posts and you are no longer on Seeking. What are you using? I used to be able to get pussy for $ to $$. 50 at the most. Now even starting at $$50 is tough.[/QUOTE]Hey Large Ess I posted that I'm back to basics. I've always used regular dating sites mixed with sugaring / nonpros. And I've always picked up chics in public too. Dating sites can offer a mix of girls from actual gf types to girls that are looking for arrangements too. And like HG using social media as well. But social media can be tricky because you usually don't know what the girls location is until you strike up a conversation through DMs and ask. And im not paying for flights. I look for local girls I can drive to in OC, IE and LA county of course. I've used Facebook which is better at knowing a girls location. Just got to branch out man to other ways of talking to and meeting girls. In other mediums don't always have a monger / sugaring mindset. Some girls shouldn't always be approached as a POT sugarbaby. Some can be hooked up with just a regular date. You can offend some girls if you try and offer sugar. Because alot don't see themselves spreading their legs for cash. They feel like they're a wh0re / prostitute if they ever did. So I guess what I'm doing is freelancing? LOL I don't know what to call it exactly. But it's a brave world out there and you just got to wrangle it in.

New to Seeking. Been reading reviews for a while. The girls in LA just charge so much I'm thinking about traveling or flying out to somehtin a little more economic. What states are the best and also how do I change the location on my SA.

The entitlement and lack of effort from women these days is just unmatched. I don't understand how it got this bad. I never had that mentality. I always wanted to work hard and give back as much as I could. I gain satisfaction out of providing value to others and trying my best. These women are really something else.

[QUOTE=StevenWalker;6896963]The entitlement and lack of effort from women these days is just unmatched. I don't understand how it got this bad. I never had that mentality. I always wanted to work hard and give back as much as I could. I gain satisfaction out of providing value to others and trying my best. These women are really something else.[/QUOTE]Feminism and things like the Me Too movement have caused that. But also I've also seen the younger generation including guys and girls have a sense of entitlement. I'm Gen X and grew up with hard working parents that immigrated to this country from Central America. Granted I did do some stupid shit here and there when I was young being born and raised in LA. But seeing my parents work hard and also them doing their best to raise me. Made me appreciate a hard earned dollar and also get myself into college to earn my engineering degrees. These younger folk don't seem to appreciate a hard earned dollar because everything is handed to them now and alot don't get disciplined properly when they fuck up.

But back to females and where this rant is coming from. Frankly I don't see why pussy should be so expensive. Women give sex away all the time. Sometimes just for dinner or drinks and sometimes for nothing at all. It's not rocket science, as the old saying goes, to suck and fuck a dick. In my profession I'm actually working hard with my mind to solve engineering issues and design and that's why I get paid well. Fucking is not hard to do and when normally given away freely. Why be pretentious and snooty with GPS / PPS mentalities that fucking is something hard and be expected to get paid high dollars like you're working in a higher level profession. Sugaring is meant to provide some extra help to a girl. Not make it income like a regular job. If a girl is expecting it to be like regular income. Then she really isn't a sugarbaby anymore. She has now become a prostitute. A prostitute makes her living from selling her pussy fulltime.