Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=Wren44;7030909]Sometimes they lie as a marketing technique and sometimes they are telling the truth. There are a lot of very wealthy people out there that that kind of money is not a lot to them. I am certainly not one of them, but in my experience they can pretty much have anyone they want. The reason it doesn't last isn't so much that it's not sustainable, but more because the fact they can have anyone means they get bored and move on. There's always a newer hotter girl out there when you have that kind of money.[/QUOTE]I agree 100% with everything you said. That is my understanding and experience as well.

[QUOTE=KrogMe2000;7031510]Pretty sure I know this one. Does she purr?[/QUOTE]That I'm not sure of. She never did that with me.

[QUOTE=TripJ;7019941]Has anyone seen or been in contact with this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/38e74f32-96d9-4b0d-86aa-0b752a583614[/URL][/QUOTE]Took her to dinner a couple months ago. Beautiful and great personality. She is from southern Cal, and when she told me previous financial expectations (xxxx), I told her this isn't LA, she negotiated for this market, but still too pricey for me.

[QUOTE=Niterider450;7031557]I sent her a message but she never responded and when I checked my messages I noticed her account has been deactivated.[/QUOTE]She must not have liked your messages bc it looks like she blocked you as the link for her profile is still working for me.

[QUOTE=DrJack51;7031908]Took her to dinner a couple months ago. Beautiful and great personality. She is from southern Cal, and when she told me previous financial expectations (xxxx), I told her this isn't LA, she negotiated for this market, but still too pricey for me.[/QUOTE]You take these girls to dinner? Really?

[QUOTE=Niterider450;7032280]You take these girls to dinner? Really?[/QUOTE]All depends on the girl. Some don't like to think of themselves as sloots and get offended if you want to jump straight into the sheets. Some don't care either way. Depends on the quality of the girl too. I would never take some beat up skank to dinner, but a young smoke show? $50 is awfully cheap to crack the seal.

[QUOTE=FireBall99;7032391]All depends on the girl. Some don't like to think of themselves as sloots and get offended if you want to jump straight into the sheets. Some don't care either way. Depends on the quality of the girl too. I would never take some beat up skank to dinner, but a young smoke show? $50 is awfully cheap to crack the seal.[/QUOTE]If I wanted to go that route I would just stick to traditional relationships; no offense friend but when you do things like that it inflates their egos and makes it harder on the rest of us, and not to mention you are opening the door to being used by these chicks as many of them are out to get everything they can off of men.

I often sit back and am impressed and amazed at all the different ways people engage in this hobby. I've read fantastic reviews about girls who, based on their photo alone, I know I would not enjoy fucking. Just as some girls prefer not to think of themselves as h00 kers, some guys prefer not to see themselves as johns. Even though, at the core, that's what we all are. Personally, these days I love the illusion. I can make myself orgasm all by myself. (Although I do enjoy a nice HE massage, from time-to-time.) I am not spending money like old Dr Doctor did (nor am I stealing the money I spend), but I've taken SA girls to Key West, Super Bowls and NYC. With few exceptions, I enjoyed every fucking minute of those trips. As well as the non-fucking minutes.

Which reminds me: the least enjoyable SA trip I ever took was with a 20-year-old to NY. She was physically perfect. Model-esque She had essentially never been anywhere outside East Tennessee, and she spent waaaay too much time and energy raking selfies for her instagram. LOL. Live and learn.

Different strokes, different folks. I love it.

[QUOTE=Niterider450;7032280]You take these girls to dinner? Really?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Niterider450;7032632]If I wanted to go that route I would just stick to traditional relationships; no offense friend but when you do things like that it inflates their egos and makes it harder on the rest of us, and not to mention you are opening the door to being used by these chicks as many of them are out to get everything they can off of men.[/QUOTE]Of course, no offense taken at all. I will disagree in the sense that I think they're egos are already inflated. Hence, why they don't want to feel like a hOOker. Now I can try to deflate that ego which experience tells me won't happen, or I can play the game and take them to dinner (usually it's coffee tbh) Then, fuck them 100x all while they're thinking I'm special compared to other dudes.

I adjust my approach based on what each individual girl is telling me. Figuring out what it's going to take to get them into the sack is half the fun with the SA girls.

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;7032648]I often sit back and am impressed and amazed at all the different ways people engage in this hobby. I've read fantastic reviews about girls who, based on their photo alone, I know I would not enjoy fucking. Just as some girls prefer not to think of themselves as h00 kers, some guys prefer not to see themselves as johns. Even though, at the core, that's what we all are. Personally, these days I love the illusion. I can make myself orgasm all by myself. (Although I do enjoy a nice HE massage, from time-to-time.) I am not spending money like old Dr Doctor did (nor am I stealing the money I spend), but I've taken SA girls to Key West, Super Bowls and NYC. With few exceptions, I enjoyed every fucking minute of those trips. As well as the non-fucking minutes.

Which reminds me: the least enjoyable SA trip I ever took was with a 20-year-old to NY. She was physically perfect. Model-esque She had essentially never been anywhere outside East Tennessee, and she spent waaaay too much time and energy raking selfies for her instagram. LOL. Live and learn.

Different strokes, different folks. I love it.[/QUOTE]Dang with that kind of money you could have some serious fun!

[QUOTE=Niterider450;7032632]If I wanted to go that route I would just stick to traditional relationships; no offense friend but when you do things like that it inflates their egos and makes it harder on the rest of us, and not to mention you are opening the door to being used by these chicks as many of them are out to get everything they can off of men.[/QUOTE]It's just an introduction to try to get to know them. As has been said, most girls don't want to feel like sloots, so if I'm not impressed with conversation, then all I'm out is the cost of dinner, which I don't mind. But it also shows them I'm serious about wanting to get to know them, which we all know that all women just crave that attention.

[QUOTE=DrJack51;7033163]It's just an introduction to try to get to know them. As has been said, most girls don't want to feel like sloots, so if I'm not impressed with conversation, then all I'm out is the cost of dinner, which I don't mind. But it also shows them I'm serious about wanting to get to know them, which we all know that all women just crave that attention.[/QUOTE]I'm upfront about what I want, and I'm NOT taking these girls out to dinner, I rarely even do that with my traditional girlfriends; the entire premise of the hobby is to get what you want without having to go through all that crap.

I am not trying to be mean here but when you feed their validation by putting them on a pedestal it inflates their ego and makes it hard on the rest of us. Simple economics if no one pays the inflated price it goes down or goes out of business.

Does anybody have any information of this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1c606343-7737-47c5-b1bf-365929996ad9[/URL]

I texted her and seems like a pro to me. And she has bad grammar.

[QUOTE=Niterider450;7033230]I'm upfront about what I want, and I'm NOT taking these girls out to dinner, I rarely even do that with my traditional girlfriends; the entire premise of the hobby is to get what you want without having to go through all that crap.

I am not trying to be mean here but when you feed their validation by putting them on a pedestal it inflates their ego and makes it hard on the rest of us. Simple economics if no one pays the inflated price it goes down or goes out of business.[/QUOTE]People pay for whatever fantasy or service they desire. I've had providers tell me plenty of guys pay just for time / companionship, not even anything sexual. I think seeking would lean more towards date / sugar baby lifestyle where it entails plenty of dinners and non sexual encounters.

Messaging girls off skipthegames and asking them to go to dinner is a different story. Those women don't even have teeth to chew food.

[QUOTE=Occupant;7033408]Does anybody have any information of this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1c606343-7737-47c5-b1bf-365929996ad9[/URL]

I texted her and seems like a pro to me. And she has bad grammar.[/QUOTE]I decided not to meet her based on her poor communication skills, always in a rush, etc!