Its illegal to video without your consent
[QUOTE=Botoman;3613551]Here's some previous posts about this girl. Her CL ad said status separated so maybe video BF, Fianc, Husband no longer in the picture. Previous posts.
FireWalkWithMe wrote.
I wish I had known this website / forum existed months ago because I would have come here immediately and written about my experience. But I only found out about this website a few days ago. And I am glad I did because it now gives me the opportunity to write about what happened to me. So, better late than never. I hope what I am about to write helps someone, anyone. The worst part about what happened to me is it's all my fault because I put myself in this situation.
Here's what happened to me. Back in 2015.
I had just gotten out of a long term relationship and I went about a month and a half of not having sex. I wasn't ready for another relationship, but I was desperate to have sex. I was aware of backpage and what went on there but I wasn't interested because, as I said, I was in a relationship. When that relationship ended, that's when I started considering going to BP. And then I did. I went there. And I started looking through the ads. I was new to this game, the whole game. So new I didn't even know the difference between incall and outcall.
Long story short, I wanted a woman who was somewhat young. Lived in a house or an apartment. Maybe had a job. And did this escort type thing on the side for rent money. Most of the women in most of the ads I saw were not to my interest. Most were asian.
Anyway, after a few hours of looking through ads and seeing which escort might be to my liking, I decided on about 3 girls. I texted all of them and got a reply from only one.
I tell the girl who responded to me that I want to come see her and if we can do the deed at her place. She says she has a house and, yes, we can do it at her place. I'm thinking this is fucking great. She asks how long do I want to stay, I ask what are her rates. She says, It's $$ for hr, $. 5 for hhr. Because I hadn't had sex in about a month and a half, I went with hhr because I wasn't going to last long. I tell her I don't want to have intercourse, I just want a BBBJ. She says that's fine. I thought that was fucking awesome, so then I keep going. I ask her if she can swallow my load. She says no, she doesn't do that. I ask her if I can cum on her face. She says, yes, that's fine. I'm thinking this is the best ever. At the same time, I was kinda nervous because I had never done anything like this before. I never picked up a streetwalker, never called an escort, never did anything like this. It was a new experience for me, just texting some random stranger to meet up and get sucked off just felt foreign and weird to me.
Anyway, so I go with the hhr. And then she asks when can I come. I tell her in about 3 hours cause I had some things to do. I ask for her address, she refuses and says she'll give it to me but only when I am heading out to her place. Some times goes by and then I am ready to go see her. I text her. She sends the address. I head out. I get to the location. I park several blocks away from where the girl lives because I am paranoid / nervous as fuck. I ain't never done anything like this and I have no idea what's going to happen when I get to this girl's house. So I start walking toward her place. I come upon a neighborhood. Low class type neighborhood. Not judging, just saying. Her house is easy to find. There's a fence in front of it with a gateway. I text her, tell her I am outside and to come meet me. She says just come in through the gate and walk on to the property. I walk through the gate. And right to the front door. I knock on the door. No one comes. I knock again. I wait. After about 40 fucking seconds, someone is unlocking the door from the inside. I'm so fucking nervous, the door finally opens. And there standing in the doorway is definitely the girl I saw in the BP ad. She's taller than I expected. She is not beautiful, she is plain-looking. But I am no supermodel myself and I was only there to get sucked off, so whatever. So anyway after exchanging plesantries and hugging, I enter her home and find myself standing in an empty living room. I immediately notice there is no furniture in the place with the exception of a small wooden chair in the corner of the desolate living room. There aren't even any pictures on the wall. I ask the girl if she is getting ready to move. She says no and looks confused by my question. I then realize maybe this girl is very poor, doesn't have a lot of money, maybe is on crack and maybe that's why the house was so empty. Because maybe she sold everything for either rent or drugs or both. But at the time, I wasn't really concerned with that, I was just there to get off. Although I do have to admit I kinda liked that the house was kinda fucked up and old and damaged because the condition of the place almost added to the sleaze factor of the experience, which, I have to be honest, was really getting me excited.
So. Anyway. I ask her where are we going to do the deed. She says follow me. We walk through the living room and down a hallway. I notice there is a bathroom on the left as we are walking down the hallway. And there is another door to another room, but it's closed. The hallway is very short and at the end of it is a bedroom. We walk into the bedroom. There are curtains over all the windows making the bedroom dark as fuck (it was 3 pm outside). There is an air conditioner in one of the windows and it's turned on. The room is cool. There is a lamp in the corner of the room that serves as the only source of light. There is a small table and a wooden chair to the left of the air conditioner. There is a TV and other electronics around the TV. Most of the room is taken up by a bed. There is another door in the bedroom. It appears to be closet. The closet door is ajar with clothes and a red baseball cap hanging off the corner of the door. I turn and look down the hallway and point at the other door and ask the girl what room is that. She replies that it's another bedroom. I ask her if she lives alone. She says yes, except for him. She points at a small dog that is at the base of the bed looking at me like I am piece of shit, the dog barks at me when I look at him. She tells him to be quiet and he does. She closes the bedroom door and locks it with a deadbolt. She then sits on the bed and looks at me. I'm standing up at this point and she and I are just staring at each other like a couple of fucking idiots. That's when I go, so, can I get a blowjob. She says yeah. She then asks how long did I want to stay again. I tell her hhr. She says it's going to be $. 5 . She says to pay upfront and leave the money on the bed. I take out $. 5 and put it on the bed. She counts it. As she is counting it I start getting undressed. She takes the money, leans over the other side of the bed and puts the money into some sort of bag or something. She then gets off the bed and stands up. At this point I am totally naked and sitting on the edge of the bed. She asks if I can lay back on the bed. I say okay. I lay back on the bed. She gets on the bed. And tells me not to cum in her mouth. I remind her that she told me through texts that I could cum on her face. She says, yes, I can cum on her face, but not in her mouth. I say okay. And then she starts sucking me off fast and furious. I hadn't had sex for about a month and a half at this point so the feeling of my dick in this girl's mouth was awesome. Unfortunately, her oral skills were mediocre. And so even though I had gone without sex for so long, I wasn't going to cum any time soon. Not even after 5 minutes. After about 7 minutes, I ask her if we can change positions. She says okay. I sit on the edge of the bed and she gets on the ground on her knees and starts sucking me off. And this, ladies and gentlemen, is where things get really really really really really really really really fucked up.
So she's sucking me off. And it takes another 10 minutes before I feel as though I am going to cum. I tell her I am going to cum, I stand up, point my dick at her face, she strokes my cock until I unload a month and half of backed up cum all over her face. It was a beautiful sight. Her face looked as though someone had dumped a whole jar of mayonnaise on it. I came so hard I was shaking. Without a word, the girl, with eyes closed, stands up, goes to the bedroom door, unlocks the deadbolt, opens the bedroom door, heads down the hallway to the bathroom, goes into the bathroom and closes the door. I am in the bedroom all alone at this point. I start to get dressed and then that's when it happens. I hear someone sneeze. I freeze. I look around the room. There's nobody in the room. I walk around to the other side of the bed and see nothing but a black bag, which I think is the bag the girl put my money into. I kneel down and look under the bed. No one is under the bed. I look at the dog. And like a fucking idiot I ask the dog, "was that you?" the dog doesn't respond. And then I start to think it might've been the girl because the sneeze sounded somewhat muffled and she was in the bathroom with the door closed so I reason to myself maybe it was her. But at the same time, the sneeze sounded as though it came from somewhere close, somewhere inside the fucking bedroom. That's when I notice the closet door again. I noticed, as I did when I first came in, that it was slightly ajar. I walk up to the closet door and open it. And there in the closet is a naked male, mid-30's with a camera in his left hand and something else in his other hand. It looked like a knife or a gun. I couldn't tell. I was FUCKING SHOCKED AND NEARLY HAD A HEART ATTACK. I go, who the fuck are you? . The man turns away from me so I am staring at his back and he turns his head slightly around and says, "I'm after you". I don't know what the fuck that means so I ask him again, who the fuck are you?? Are you her boyfriend?. He goes, "No, I am just here to make sure nothing bad happens to my girl" . And then in a threatening tone he says to me, "close the fucking door". I slowly close the door and go over and sit on the edge of the bed, shaking. A million fucking thoughts are going through my mind. I am angry, scared, ashamed, I feel violated, I felt in that moment, if I had a gun I would have used it.
I was just ANGRY and deeply EMBARRASSED.
Eventually, the girl comes back into the room. Her face is cum free and clean and she looks a little weary. She sits on the bed and asks if I had a good time. I tell her I met her little friend. She looks at me with confusion. I tell her the friend who was in the closet the whole time watching and filming us. She is at a lost for words. As I am sitting on the bed, I ask the guy in the closet if he is into cuckolding. He doesn't respond. I thought maybe he didn't hear me, so I raise my voice. But again he doesn't say anything. I ask him if I could have the footage he filmed of me getting a blowjob. To that he responds with a loud, "Nope!" from behind the closet door. The girl starts laughing. I ask her who the guy in the closet is. She tells me it's her boyfriend. I ask her if she has done this with other men. I ask her if other men have contacted her from backpage, come over, and fucked her while her boyfriend stood in the closet videotaping them. In an extremely unconvincing tone of voice, she tells me, no, this was the first time. She then puts her hand on my shoulder and tells me not to worry because the videos are for their viewing pleasure. She tells me they won't put it on the internet. At this point, I wanted to fucking cave this girl's skull in with a snow globe. With clenched fists and feeling extremely angry and embarrassed and ashamed, I stood up and asked the girl if she could show me out of the house. She obliges. We leave the bedroom. Walk down the hallway. She shows me to the front door. I walk outside, turn around and then I idiotically tell her that I probably won't be back. She says I don't blame you. She then (uncovincingly) apologizes to me for what happened. I turn and leave. I get to my car. And then I go home. The drive home was the longest drive I ever took in my life.
There are more details about this incident, but I have to work tomorrow so I can't stay in front of my fucking computer all night typing, which I hate. I hate typing. I know there are probably going to be a lot of questions. Believe me, I know what questions some of you have. I just don't have the time to cram all the details and / or answers to your questions into one post. I just wanted to write about what happened to me with my first backpage experience as quickly as possible.
I know some of you are wondering about who this girl is. For personal reasons (and because I am paranoid) I didn't post her name. I am willing to tell anyone here who this girl is through the Private Message system under the condition that you have more than 100 posts and are regular posters. If you have 20 posts, sorry, I'm not talking to you. Maybe I am too paranoid, but you'd be to if what happened to me happened to you. This fucking girl and her piece of shit boyfriend filmed me getting a blowjob. It's all on film. Without my fucking consent. 7 years from now if I get married and start having a family, that fucking video of me getting sucked off by this fucking moron will still exist somewhere. Who knows, maybe this girl and her bf already uploaded it to amateur porn sites for all I know.
I've read through the reviews on this site to see if any of you other gentlemen have seen her and reviewed her. Unfortunately, some of you have seen this girl.
I feel blessed to have found this site cause now I can use this forum to fight back in whatever little way I can. As for all the poor sons of bitches who go to see this girl. Sigh. They have no fucking idea that this girl's boyfriend is standing in the closet, watching, filming, and probably even jerking off to them fucking her. When I opened that closet door, he was completely naked, and, afterwards when I was thinking about it, I remembered smelling the pungent odor of sweat and semen. This couple is into cuckolding and filming it and then watching it back and getting off on it.
I personally am not into cuckolding both in porno or in real life. However, I have nothing against people who are. What makes what happened to me so fucked up was that this girl and her stupid fuckhead boyfriend weren't upfront with me. If she had told me that I could come over and get a BBBJ from her and I could cum on her face, but, oh yeah, her boyfriend would be in the room the whole time filming and jerking off, I would've been like go fuck yourself. I am not going to put myself in a situation like that. So rather than tell me what they wanted to do, they hide it from me and decided to do what they wanted. If some of you went and saw this girl (and there are people on this forum who have) you can now consider yourselves unwitting porn stars. Because you are most likely on videotape. I envy the guys who haven't seen this girl. Or who were thinking about seeing her and just never got around to seeing her.
I'm tired now and have to get up for work early tomorrow.
If any of you have questions. Don't hesitate to ask. When I have free time, I'll do my best to answer all your questions. I'm tired and depressed reliving this experience.
To be continued.
Kokuryo1 said.
I was having a good day till I read this and it brought back a memory I tried to forget. Once you said damaged empty house and red cap on a door that was ajar, I knew exactly who it was. I had a horrible experience with this provider, especially at the end of session. But I won't go into any detail as I had a particular situation that's specific to myself which is why I never posted about this. I specifically remember the door that was ajar and my spidey senses were going off telling me I was being watched but unfortunately I was thinking with the little head. So I think I was also being filmed. After realizing this I AM FUCKING FURIOUS! But I am trying to keep a cool head.
I have PM'ed a few members who I know have seen this provider and I feel others should be made aware. I also know her real name and provider name but won't post in case their on here (links should be enough). If you have seen her please don't call or text her about it cause we don't know what they will do with the films. I also know that its not only her and her boyfriend, there are other people involved with whatever they are doing. We all have families, friends, and jobs and want to keep that separate from what we do and this has the potential to ruin some lives.
WE NEED TO DO SOMETHING! Any suggestions other than going to uncle?[/QUOTE]First, it is illegal what they are doing. I would contact an attorney who will explain to you your rights. I suggest contacting LE and get their opinion (some some you know in LE). Find out who owns the property and have your attorney take action on them. Quite sure it is a serious violation. Have someone with telephoto lens and photograph the culprits. It would be helpful if you post their address and their discription. Just saying.
Lets hope you don't appear on the web.
Another suggestion, is get some big dudes and straighten the situation out on their turf.
The above is only an opinion.
Xenia / Russian on Craigs
Aloha Gents.
Been lurking here for quite a bit. And decided it was time to contribute.
Xenia / Vera. Russian on craigslist.
Texted for 90 minutes appointment- got a response within 10 minutes asking for name / giving parking info & Century center unit number. Arrived on time at Century Center unit 2403 (Thailand massage) - and can confirm it is 100% her in the pictures and she DAYUM hot.
In a nutshell. Asked for HF upfront (dropped a $100- should have gotten by $10 change back but didn't even mention it). I stripped down while she was in the room and she made no attempt to give me a towel. Little bit of chit chat about where I was from etc. Do not expect to receive a quality massage- it was a GF style back rub for about 15 minutes while she waits for you to pop a stiffy then tells you to turn over. She comes off as extremely shy- didn't imply much until she said "so why are you here"- I didn't want to offend her with any offerings and said I usually get a happy ending- and she said ok / didn't talk price. After a couple strokes / testicle fondling she asked me to pay (without any price given) and waits for me to grab my wallet. Definitely seemed to stereotype and when I asked about the cost of full service I felt the vibe that she didn't think I had the money. It ended up being $$ to her / plus the house fee.
The Juicy:
- Her face is about an 8 to 8. 5 (exactly like the picture) her ass is a 10/10 (Leia was an 8. 5, Luka a 9) and her rank is an 9/10 (B or C cup. Natural) - estimate about 23 why / o. Her ass is fantastic- probably one of the best I've seen.
- I had paid $100 for what should have been 90 minutes to the house- and left the $10 as an implied tip. Which ended up costing me more due to $$ for full service.
-We had to be "quiet" and I had to flush the condom in the toilet (she repeated that three times) - which leads me to believe the thai massage place she works out of thinks she is legit- she had to tell me twice not so much noise (my balls lightly tapping on her ass).
-10 minutes in she asked me if I was ready to cum- and every 3 minutes after- I was not really happy about that. She also checked her phone 2-3 times during the backrub. And after the third time she asked me while I was smashing it in missionary- she said her customer was almost there (this was 55 minutes in to what I thought was a 90 minute session) So apparently she booked me for the hour instead of 90 minutes- didn't offer change on my initial house fee (would have taken $40 back over $10 on a $).
No offer for BJ / Straight lube on condom and a little fondling / started off cowgirl / doggy / missionary / popped in cowgirl (she did continue riding for a min after pop).
She is super shy (avoided eye contact) - and we had to smash super slow to prevent noise. She thought I was a dick because I wasn't trying to pop in an hour and I thought she was being a shitty provider because I thought I had 90 minutes- take it as you will.
Ultimately- even with a shitty massage and a little rush- she was hot enough that I don't regret it- but definitely won't repeat.
LOL CL Shopping Girl out of Kapolei (which I'm sure means Makakilo)
This girl has posted a couple times over the last couple days about looking for somebody to take her shopping, most recently [URL]https://honolulu.craigslist.org/oah/cas/6394935189.html[/URL] but flagged / removed since though she will repost. Didn't partake but mostly posting because of the pure amusement I got off talking to her. Went back and forth a bit then she was like "Well I only shop with a $2 K budget and only car play after it's spent". I couldn't stop laughing especially when she kept trying to play afterwards "Well other guys have did it before" . Yeah no, not for your used up beat up looking local self. Just be aware guys not so much at the price but don't even bother wasting your time, I'm sure even if you whittled her down to a $100 the service would be bad with a attitude like that.
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Save Your Time Another Fake
Just another fake ad. Chinese network.
[URL]https://honolulu.craigslist.org/oah/thp/d/professional-asian-energy/6395217164.html[/URL]
Thanks but her post got flagged. :(
[QUOTE=Botoman;3627785][URL]https://honolulu.craigslist.org/oah/cas/d/play-w4m/6393432928.html[/URL][/QUOTE]No way to communicate with her without the email link in the craigslist ad. I don't think she published a phone number.
Anyone Sam-poh Jasmine from Kailua?
Love me some older asian wahine, but Idk if legit or not.
[URL]https://honolulu.craigslist.org/oah/thp/d/take-care-of-your-body-get/6400760798.html[/URL]
Anyone wen sam-poh?
