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[QUOTE=FlyGuyEddie007]Haha CJ,

I knew she would be back I called her once about a session when I seen her ad on CL and BP she was wouldn't pick up then texted me has a b*tchy upselling attitude, I think I told her its all good I'll see you back on the stroll, and sure enough she back.

LOL[/QUOTE]

Yipes! I guess you could say: I have her right were you wanted her. LOL ;)

While she was on BP she was very popular. This is quite a back slide for her.

I am not going to say what I gave her, but it was well worth it. I doubt that she’ll be able to get what she got on BP, on the streets. I have no doubt that once her regulars, from BP or the Street, are able to find her, she’ll do alright. The girl’s BBBJCIMWS is amazing. Her GFE, IMHO, is BP quality and not would you’d expect from a street walker. I cannot speak on her car date, but for a long FS date in a room – she cannot be beat. Not since Dyan, have I been so satisfied with a date.

She does need to put on a little weight, IMHO. You’d better get her before she finds her way back to BP.

YMMV

CookyJar

[QUOTE=CookyJar]Yipes! I guess you could say: I have her right were you wanted her. LOL.

While she was on BP she was very popular. This is quite a back slide for her.

I am not going to say what I gave her, but it was well worth it. I doubt that she'll be able to get what she got on BP, on the streets. I have no doubt that once her regulars, from BP or the Street, are able to find her, she'll do alright. The girl's BBBJCIMWS is amazing. Her GFE, IMHO, is BP quality and not would you'd expect from a street walker. I cannot speak on her car date, but for a long FS date in a room – she cannot be beat. Not since Dyan, have I been so satisfied with a date.

She does need to put on a little weight, IMHO. You'd better get her before she finds her way back to BP.

YMMV

CookyJar[/QUOTE]Did you got her digits?

[QUOTE=CookyJar]I am posting this review now to keep it timely. Gaetana is out there on Broadway and she is available. Her plan is to return to BP. With her looks and talent, she should have no problem, once the legal stuff has been taken care of.

CookyJar[/QUOTE]Gaetana looks like she would be one fine piece of ass if she put on a few pounds, ate a proper diet and stayed away from the crack.

I sometimes wonder, if I were to clean up certain girls like (Kat or Adriana), would they would make a nice girlfriend.

Or, if after getting them healthy and drug free I would just have a dumb, bored wh0re.

[QUOTE=FlyGuyEddie007]Did you got her digits?[/QUOTE]


Sorry no digits. She doesn't have a phone - yet. It won't be long before one of her regulars cop a phone for her.

CookyJar

Decided to make a trip to broadway today. Not many cops today but there were not many girls out.

Saw Natilie, for some reason I have never seen any reports on her, she was not on broadway that much but she has lost lot of regulars due to lack of phone. That also includes me, she is good but too much drama.

Also saw Jamie, I do have her picture but she does not want them posted.

Finally saw Daniel and decided to stop. I just had a double with her and tiff last week and it was fun. I will post couple pictures later today(without their faces).

Did a quickie in the car and I was a happy camper.

Today I saw Pita on Broadway.I am not sure if she was working.

Excellent was looking to do a cardate with G, but what legal trouble was she facing that made her go on the streets?

Hey Sjman,

Could Daniel and Danny be the same girl? Might Tiff and you have been the Girlfriend and Boyfriend in the room at the time Danny and I were talking? If so, it's a small world. Who knows, stranger things have happened. Wish we could have gotten together for a beer.

[QUOTE=Sjman]...saw Daniel and decided to stop. I just had a double with her and tiff last week and it was fun. I will post couple pictures later today(without their faces).

[/QUOTE]


I ran into a old friend from the past. Rather she ran into me. Gaetana and I were doing our thing. We were staged outside and near a local motel. I turned to get my other camera and saw a young lady approaching us. At first I thought it was someone from the Motel or an interested by-stander. It turned out to be Danny of; [post=545208] Danny - Another Great Fine [/post]

As Danny walked up to us, she said, “I know you.” It was obvious that she was talking to me; However, I could not see the expression on her face behind the large sunglasses. I hadn’t yet recognized her and I couldn’t tell whether she was angry or happy to see me. Standing up close, she says, “You took my pictures.” That was when I recognized her. I hadn’t seen Danny since 2007. Without missing a beat, Danny strolls over to the bench where Gaetana was sitting and starts posing with Gaetana.

Danny related to me a familiar story. Danny claims that someone from this site e-mailed her pictures to her then current boyfriend. She said that this person also sent the pictures to members of her family. Danny agreed with me when I reminded her that I had told her what I would do with her pictures. Also, she said that she liked the pictures and that they weren’t bad.

Both Gaetana and I tried to get Danny to join us. For awhile, I thought I was going to get lucky again. At last, it wasn’t to be. Danny was there with a girlfriend and her girlfriend’s boyfriend. Apparently the boyfriend was sharing something and had plenty to share. Danny offered Gaetana a taste; that connection was never made. Gaetana and I left and proceeded to another motel.

(Since that encounter, I have taken an opportunity to check-out the 2007 pictures of Danny that her Boyfriend and Family may have seen. There were no shots of her with my dick stuffed in her mouth, no shots of her inserting objects and no shots of her posing with handcuff, laying like a captured pig. I am certain that she wouldn’t want her mom to see these pictures, but they could have been much worse. Actually, by today’s standards, they were pretty tame. )

CookyJar

It's a different girl.

Daniel is a bit thick. She is on broadway a lot lately. She did tell me that she prefers to go their after mid-night. I never been on broadway that late and I don't think I will ever do it. When she is out in noon she always wears sun glasses and she looks clean so she can be confused as a civilian or cop.

Hit town last night after I met with a UTR redhead with a nice furry red bush, Luv those redheads. Dropped her off in Gloucester city, then watched a SW get busted on broadway in GC, the cops where everywher in GC, decided since I was that close to Broadway in Camden I would take a stroll, 9:00-9:30pm

At Morgan there was a cop, then a thin blonde SW 7-9 walking north, but she was yelling something either at car in front of me or to someone walking on the otherside(pimp), there were a few SW's around Ferry nothing worth noting, then up to Kaign nothing till the triangle and again nothing worth mentioning. Then the SW's picked up, some decent SW's two nice blondes again 7-9, then I headed to Mikey D's dead there, so back down broadway again two different blondes, one who had meat on her bones and a tall thin one both nice 6-8. A couple HSW and few BSW, then LEO appeared again around the triangle

No pickups as at age 50 one good shot is enough and I turned in the key at the budget, so I headed home.

I was looking for Lee and Jessica

Sprat

Had her November 2007, no condom sex.

Any news of her? Number?

Thanks

[QUOTE=Tom Odd]Had her November 2007, no condom sex.

Any news of her? Number?

Thanks[/QUOTE]You had BB sex with Gaetana?

Do you have a deathwish?

[QUOTE=Socalcasualguy]You had BB sex with Gaetana?

Do you have a deathwish?[/QUOTE]I'll have g to second that!! Talk about an insane decision!

[QUOTE=Trashed201]I'll have g to second that!! Talk about an insane decision![/QUOTE]Doode, this was 2007. She was just fresh out there. Paid 40$ for BB at my camden apartment too. She smoked weed in my bathroom. LOL

Was out last night. No much to be found around 9pm but decided to cruise around Broadway around 10pm and several sw out then. Jessica dyed her hair red btw.

[QUOTE=JR Long]Was out last night. No much to be found around 9pm but decided to cruise around Broadway around 10pm and several sw out then. Jessica dyed her hair red btw.[/QUOTE]Was that Jessica? I thought it may be but wasn't sure.

Hit the stroll around 11P. Didn't see much out. Spotted a nice looking WSW walking between Rand and McD. Circled and she was talking to someone in a car at McD. Circled again and leo was performing a light show right across the street from where I last saw her. Ran down B'way and leo also had someone stopped near Washington. Came back a little later and spotted her on 7th in front of McD. Unfortunately, she turned toward B'way and I was going the wrong way.; By the time I circled she was gone. Also spotted a nice little figure near Spruce as she was turning the corner to jump in some other monger's car. Damn you! I keep seeing this one WSW between Pine and Chestnut. She has a nice figure and wears her hair up. Face doesn't look to special on the drive by. She always seems to be in a bad location for a scoop. Thought I had her last night standing at the corner of Spruce but when I rounded the block, the stupid ***** had walked to the middle of the block which would require a pickup on B'way. I don't do that. She's probably paranoid now since I've cruised her so much. Have to have Gina or Diane smack her upside the head for me.

Nice options on broadway this evening. Not sure if you guys have noticed but there are few good looking girls on broadway. Tff is the best one but her dressing sense is a bit odd. Daniele always takes careof her self but I have seen mongers confusing her with LE string. I also saw alisha today, she was not wearing glasses and was looking cute. Finally, I picked up Eliee. Nice BBBJ.

Here are my ratings for better looking SW's

Indoor date.

Tiff (she is very close to being my ATF)

Alisha. Nice BJ skills, OK for an indoor date, but her pussy is not that tight anymore. She also rushed me a little bit last time.

Danielle- best value for money on broadway. Clean girl with very nice attitude. She is bit heavy but

Mellisa. I am still seeing her but she didn't call me today morning. May be she found someone else who is willing to pay her more. She is also one of the girls with good value for money, because I always go to her apt and save motel room money. Another reason is her house is on the way tomy work and it's easy to stop there, get the job done and go to work.

I believe, I have had all the good looking girls on broadway I will try to find some new ones over the weekend. BTW, I can confirm there is some action in woodbury. I was passing by Tuesday and saw this girl who gave me a smile and walk up to my car but when she came close she looked really young and I did not pick her.

[QUOTE=Tom Odd]Doode, this was 2007. She was just fresh out there. Paid 40$ for BB at my camden apartment too. She smoked weed in my bathroom. LOL[/QUOTE]

Now I have more reasons to believe her drastic weight loss is caused by something much more serious than just her drug habits...you need to get tested, "doode".

[QUOTE=Tom Odd]Doode, this was 2007. She was just fresh out there. Paid 40$ for BB at my camden apartment too. She smoked weed in my bathroom. LOL[/QUOTE]
Who gives a fuck? Fresh out there? Shit that doesn't mean she wasn't HIV+! I hope you got tested and are O.K.

[QUOTE=Rhodes4688]Was that Jessica? I thought it may be but wasn't sure.[/QUOTE]

Yes, Jessica dyed her hair red. BTW I also spotted the two good looking blondes in Sprat's report. I've seen one of them on Broadway alot...petite blonde with long curly blonde hair which she usually keeps up. I saw her get picked up once but the other night the two blondes walked down a side street and when I stopped they just said wassup and kept on walking.

I was cruising the B this past Tuesday and spotted a real gem. Just north of the triangle by the "twin lions church" picked up Diane.

Diane has shoulder length dark Blonde hair, green eyes, and look very clean and young. I'm sure she was old enough but I doubt she had seen 20 yet. She was hanging with a male and another SW who could have passed/been her sister. "Sister" was older by a few years and look like she was showing the wears of the street.

Diane was pleasant and after the LEO check we went to a nice seclude spot. Told me she only had been doing this for a few weeks. Also said that she neg. On the oral cover wise, never does FS without. Her stated menu was $20 for the BJ. I concurred completely. I went for a BBBJ which was fantastic. Started out slow and the progressed to faster a deeper. She was able to DT me and a few minutes later I popped.

Paid the advertised price + a tip for outstanding performance.

Repeatable? Most definitely

YMMV as always

[QUOTE=Tom Fusnr]I was cruising the B this past Tuesday and spotted a real gem. Just north of the triangle by the "twin lions church" picked up Diane.

Diane has shoulder length dark Blonde hair, green eyes, and look very clean and young. I'm sure she was old enough but I doubt she had seen 20 yet. She was hanging with a male and another SW who could have passed/been her sister. "Sister" was older by a few years and look like she was showing the wears of the street.

Diane was pleasant and after the LEO check we went to a nice seclude spot. Told me she only had been doing this for a few weeks. Also said that she neg. On the oral cover wise, never does FS without. Her stated menu was $20 for the BJ. I concurred completely. I went for a BBBJ which was fantastic. Started out slow and the progressed to faster a deeper. She was able to DT me and a few minutes later I popped.

Paid the advertised price + a tip for outstanding performance.

Repeatable? Most definitely

YMMV as always[/QUOTE]Did Diane have a Tatoo on back of her neck? I think I picker her up the other night. If same girl she claimed to be 23. Lived in Camden since 16. The BBBJ was fantastic and $20. She seemed like she was on something based on her slur, but nothing to bad.

On the tv show Jersey Shore, a grenade is an ugly chick who you can't get rid of. On Broadway, a grenade is a bad sw who you can't get rid of.

I was crusing down Broadway last night and I didn't spot much out. There was a good looking brunette and a blonde that were scooped up pretty quickly. I passed by a cute petite brunette wsw with shoulder lenght brown hair wearing a baseball cap and black shorts and a white t-shirt. From the car, she looked pretty cute so I picked her up. She told me that her name is Shannon. She says that she has been in camden for 2 years but I dont' think that I've ever seen her before. She is about 5' tall and 110 lbs. She has a tatto of a scorpion on the side of her neck. She told me that she was 28 but could have easily passed for younger. First, WTF...she doesn't look nearly as good up close. As we drove away...another WTF...I spotted Melissa looking pretty good in a black dress. It looked like if I waited a few more minutes a bunch of good wsw's that I know had just come out. Well,we found a spot and she proceeded with a mediocre BJ...WTF! While slobbering all over me I noticed a bad odor...WTF...which I think was her saliva/mouth. After awhile I basically told her to stop and I wanted to just drop her off and maybe find a girl that I know. She asked me to drop her off at the McD's. We get to the McD's and she refuses to get out...WTF. I'm like get the F... out. She says that she is hungry and she wants me to buy her something to eat. WTF...I don't really want any trouble so I go thru the drive thru because the main part is closed and get her something to eat. BTW I'm in the drive thru for like 20 minutes because there are like 7 cars ahead of me. We drive to where I picked her up and I basically say bye. She basically refuses to get out. WTF...I know that I should have just gone ape shit on her. I'm like you need to get the F... out of my car. She's like I just want to eat my hamburger first. Well, she takes about 15 minutes to eat her hamburger and fries while dropping half of it all over my car and rubbing her greasy fingers on my seat and console...WTF! Well, then she falls asleep. I'm like get the F... up and out of my car. She wakes up and starts yelling at me and then falls back to sleep. After a few more minutes, after yelling at her she finally decides to get out of my car. Well, of course when I pull back onto Broadway I pick up a police escort out of Camden...WTF! I get home and I notice brown fingerprints on my shorts and underwear and I reek...WTF!!!
Well, if you ever see Shannon I recommend that you take a pass on her...otherwise the grenade will explode in your car!

[QUOTE=Rhodes4688]Did Diane have a Tatoo on back of her neck? I think I picker her up the other night. If same girl she claimed to be 23. Lived in Camden since 16. The BBBJ was fantastic and $20. She seemed like she was on something based on her slur, but nothing to bad.[/QUOTE]Probaly was although she quite lucid and I did not see nor was I looking for a tattoo under the should length hair. Fantastic and 20 does match however. Tried to find her again; no success.

I noticed a Gloucester city cops on a segway scooter. I have heard camden city is also investing some $$$$ to buy these scooters. It's a good thing to control the crime rate in these area but it may impact SW activities.

Its the new foot patrol. They use them all over DC, especially in the mall area.

dame..not to be a wiseguy but that is funny shit... been there but not nearly as bad...

Once a sw falls a sleep while giving me a bj, I decided to j-off and cum all over her face. I did clean it up a bit before I wake her up ..

[QUOTE=JR Long]On the tv show Jersey Shore, a grenade is an ugly chick who you can't get rid of. On Broadway, a grenade is a bad sw who you can't get rid of.

I was crusing down Broadway last night and I didn't spot much out. There was a good looking brunette and a blonde that were scooped up pretty quickly. I passed by a cute petite brunette wsw with shoulder lenght brown hair wearing a baseball cap and black shorts and a white t-shirt. From the car, she looked pretty cute so I picked her up. She told me that her name is Shannon. She says that she has been in camden for 2 years but I dont' think that I've ever seen her before. She is about 5' tall and 110 lbs. She has a tatto of a scorpion on the side of her neck. She told me that she was 28 but could have easily passed for younger. First, WTF...she doesn't look nearly as good up close. As we drove away...another WTF...I spotted Melissa looking pretty good in a black dress. It looked like if I waited a few more minutes a bunch of good wsw's that I know had just come out. Well,we found a spot and she proceeded with a mediocre BJ...WTF! While slobbering all over me I noticed a bad odor...WTF...which I think was her saliva/mouth. After awhile I basically told her to stop and I wanted to just drop her off and maybe find a girl that I know. She asked me to drop her off at the McD's. We get to the McD's and she refuses to get out...WTF. I'm like get the F... out. She says that she is hungry and she wants me to buy her something to eat. WTF...I don't really want any trouble so I go thru the drive thru because the main part is closed and get her something to eat. BTW I'm in the drive thru for like 20 minutes because there are like 7 cars ahead of me. We drive to where I picked her up and I basically say bye. She basically refuses to get out. WTF...I know that I should have just gone ape shit on her. I'm like you need to get the F... out of my car. She's like I just want to eat my hamburger first. Well, she takes about 15 minutes to eat her hamburger and fries while dropping half of it all over my car and rubbing her greasy fingers on my seat and console...WTF! Well, then she falls asleep. I'm like get the F... up and out of my car. She wakes up and starts yelling at me and then falls back to sleep. After a few more minutes, after yelling at her she finally decides to get out of my car. Well, of course when I pull back onto Broadway I pick up a police escort out of Camden...WTF! I get home and I notice brown fingerprints on my shorts and underwear and I reek...WTF!!!
Well, if you ever see Shannon I recommend that you take a pass on her...otherwise the grenade will explode in your car![/QUOTE]

Did some recon in Camden tonight around 7pm which is the first I have been in town since my little problem with Camden LE. I have to say that the amount and quality of SW has gone way up. On one pass there must have been a couple dozen at least from Transportation Center to Morgan. Surprisingly, the one SW I did not see was Camille at Morgan which is the first time in a long while. I did not partake in anything and was just scoping out the situation a little. There was very little LE around at the time, but I'm sure that was just a fluke from what I have heard. Been seeing someone via phone for a while and will probably do so for a while longer till something breaks with LE. I also noticed how much more provocative the girls are dressing concidering the amount of LE in the area at times. Be safe out there and watch you back!
JB

I have a question to throw out there to you guys, especially the seasoned mongers, about emotional involement with a SW. Have any of you gotten involved with a SW you dated on a regular basis that started to become too personal and emotional? I have been doing this for a good many years and have dated many SW having mixed experiences with all of them, some good some bad. Usually when you begin to see a SW on a regular basis, there is something about them you enjoy, which is usually sex, but can be other things such as personality etc... SW's are humans like any other only most with addictions of some kind which is why they are out there in the first place. Sooner or later, as with dating, you will find one that you connect with on a different level. I am not naive and stupid enough to think you will find your soul mate on the streets of Camden or Phila. much less want to marry one, but you can become emotionally involved with a SW if you get to know them on a regular basis.
I have been seeing a SW from the Camden area for about 3-4 years. I am not naming anyone, and you can speculate all you want. I will neither agree or deny anyone you bring up. She is well known and has been reviewed here in the past however has not worked Camden in some time. As we have gotten to know each other through our dates I have spent many hours just talking about life and what she has been through. I know these girls will say anything to empty your wallets, and believe me, that is not the case with this SW. When she got off the streets she went to methadone clinic and cleaned up somewhat but still dabbled on the side occasionally. As time has gone on I found out she dropped the clinic and is back on meds full time again. She has managed to keep up her drug habit without going back to the streets, which is tough, but can be done with the right amount of funding from where she is staying. She is driving again which helps with the back and forth to Camden to get meds. The problem is she is getting worse by the day and I don't know where it will end. She called me earlier in the week to see if I could help her out because she was out of gas, cigs and money. She was afraid she would have to do something stupid to get by because she was getting sicker by the minute. I met her outside Camden to help her out a little and took a look at her and it wanted to make me cry. Her arms were so bad it was disgusting with cuts, scabs and abcesess'. If she goes back to the streets she will be dead in a month from OD or something because she is not used to living on the streets anymore. I wanted to cry just looking at her. I told her I could not do this anymore and she said she was going to clinic Monday. Now she does'nt return my texts which is no surprise because she won't get any money from me. I'm afraid she will end up back on the streets and there is nothing I can do. It's her choice, but it still hurts to watch someone you call a friend of sorts do this to themself. We all do this for various reasons. Some for a quick release, some because they're not getting enough at home, some for photo modeling, some to boost ego, but we all do it for companionship in one way or another and unless your a cold hearted asshole you can't help but care for one every now and again. Lets just all hope she gets well and does'nt end up dead on the streets of Camden. I am still curious if any of you have felt this way about SW's you have dated. Stay safe and take care.
JB

[QUOTE=Johnboy]I have a question to throw out there to you guys, especially the seasoned mongers, about emotional involement with a SW. Have any of you gotten involved with a SW you dated on a regular basis that started to become too personal and emotional? I have been doing this for a good many years and have dated many SW having mixed experiences with all of them, some good some bad. Usually when you begin to see a SW on a regular basis, there is something about them you enjoy, which is usually sex, but can be other things such as personality etc... SW's are humans like any other only most with addictions of some kind which is why they are out there in the first place. Sooner or later, as with dating, you will find one that you connect with on a different level. I am not naive and stupid enough to think you will find your soul mate on the streets of Camden or Phila. much less want to marry one, but you can become emotionally involved with a SW if you get to know them on a regular basis.
I have been seeing a SW from the Camden area for about 3-4 years. I am not naming anyone, and you can speculate all you want. I will neither agree or deny anyone you bring up. She is well known and has been reviewed here in the past however has not worked Camden in some time. As we have gotten to know each other through our dates I have spent many hours just talking about life and what she has been through. I know these girls will say anything to empty your wallets, and believe me, that is not the case with this SW. When she got off the streets she went to methadone clinic and cleaned up somewhat but still dabbled on the side occasionally. As time has gone on I found out she dropped the clinic and is back on meds full time again. She has managed to keep up her drug habit without going back to the streets, which is tough, but can be done with the right amount of funding from where she is staying. She is driving again which helps with the back and forth to Camden to get meds. The problem is she is getting worse by the day and I don't know where it will end. She called me earlier in the week to see if I could help her out because she was out of gas, cigs and money. She was afraid she would have to do something stupid to get by because she was getting sicker by the minute. I met her outside Camden to help her out a little and took a look at her and it wanted to make me cry. Her arms were so bad it was disgusting with cuts, scabs and abcesess'. If she goes back to the streets she will be dead in a month from OD or something because she is not used to living on the streets anymore. I wanted to cry just looking at her. I told her I could not do this anymore and she said she was going to clinic Monday. Now she does'nt return my texts which is no surprise because she won't get any money from me. I'm afraid she will end up back on the streets and there is nothing I can do. It's her choice, but it still hurts to watch someone you call a friend of sorts do this to themself. We all do this for various reasons. Some for a quick release, some because they're not getting enough at home, some for photo modeling, some to boost ego, but we all do it for companionship in one way or another and unless your a cold hearted asshole you can't help but care for one every now and again. Lets just all hope she gets well and does'nt end up dead on the streets of Camden. I am still curious if any of you have felt this way about SW's you have dated. Stay safe and take care.
JB[/QUOTE]

Dude, I lived with a former dancer / streetwalker for 3 years got her clean with suboxone. That is the easy part believe it or not. the harder part is issues, issues, issues and the fact that they don't get the fact that they get older and guy will not throw money at them for the rest of their life! Check ur PM.

[QUOTE=Sam Iam]Dude, I lived with a former dancer / streetwalker for 3 years got her clean with suboxone. That is the easy part believe it or not. the harder part is issues, issues, issues and the fact that they don't get the fact that they get older and guy will not throw money at them for the rest of their life! Check ur PM.[/QUOTE]

I have not and do not want to get anywhere near that close to her! I just find it disturbing that she has gotten to this state when I have seen her so much better. In a different life things may have been different, but I do not want her lifestyle in my personal life. I know how we started seeing each other and that was still the case even recently, but spending enough time with someone changes your perspective of them, and that is what happened here. Normally I would'nt care what a SW does to themself, they made their bed and must lie in it, but that changes with time. Some deserve what becomes of them however in this case I personally feel she deserved better of life.

Johnboy,

I understand what you are saying. I fell for something similar. I thought I could be the one to turn her around. That is, until the drain and the cash poured out. I wasn't helping her at all. I was contributing to now an excessive drug habit. My realization was when I figured out that she only cared about the cash and not me. I now treat this "Hobby" as a business. I pay, they deliver, we part ways.I can be friendly and approachable, but will never get emotional, again. There are a few regulars I see, but even if I wanted to get emotional, there are too many disappearing acts for lock-ups, found other men (cash sources), drug rehab. With the unreliability, it can be too confusing. I like keeping things simple.

Good luck!

PS. BTW, the one your speak of is probably already back on the street (based on the fact that you cannot reach her). That is the life they know and in many cases, they know how to survive there.

[QUOTE=Johnboy]I have a question to throw out there to you guys, especially the seasoned mongers, about emotional involement with a SW. Have any of you gotten involved with a SW you dated on a regular basis that started to become too personal and emotional? I have been doing this for a good many years and have dated many SW having mixed experiences with all of them, some good some bad. Usually when you begin to see a SW on a regular basis, there is something about them you enjoy, which is usually sex, but can be other things such as personality etc... SW's are humans like any other only most with addictions of some kind which is why they are out there in the first place. Sooner or later, as with dating, you will find one that you connect with on a different level. I am not naive and stupid enough to think you will find your soul mate on the streets of Camden or Phila. much less want to marry one, but you can become emotionally involved with a SW if you get to know them on a regular basis.
I have been seeing a SW from the Camden area for about 3-4 years. I am not naming anyone, and you can speculate all you want. I will neither agree or deny anyone you bring up. She is well known and has been reviewed here in the past however has not worked Camden in some time. As we have gotten to know each other through our dates I have spent many hours just talking about life and what she has been through. I know these girls will say anything to empty your wallets, and believe me, that is not the case with this SW. When she got off the streets she went to methadone clinic and cleaned up somewhat but still dabbled on the side occasionally. As time has gone on I found out she dropped the clinic and is back on meds full time again. She has managed to keep up her drug habit without going back to the streets, which is tough, but can be done with the right amount of funding from where she is staying. She is driving again which helps with the back and forth to Camden to get meds. The problem is she is getting worse by the day and I don't know where it will end. She called me earlier in the week to see if I could help her out because she was out of gas, cigs and money. She was afraid she would have to do something stupid to get by because she was getting sicker by the minute. I met her outside Camden to help her out a little and took a look at her and it wanted to make me cry. Her arms were so bad it was disgusting with cuts, scabs and abcesess'. If she goes back to the streets she will be dead in a month from OD or something because she is not used to living on the streets anymore. I wanted to cry just looking at her. I told her I could not do this anymore and she said she was going to clinic Monday. Now she does'nt return my texts which is no surprise because she won't get any money from me. I'm afraid she will end up back on the streets and there is nothing I can do. It's her choice, but it still hurts to watch someone you call a friend of sorts do this to themself. We all do this for various reasons. Some for a quick release, some because they're not getting enough at home, some for photo modeling, some to boost ego, but we all do it for companionship in one way or another and unless your a cold hearted asshole you can't help but care for one every now and again. Lets just all hope she gets well and does'nt end up dead on the streets of Camden. I am still curious if any of you have felt this way about SW's you have dated. Stay safe and take care.
JB[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Snapper123]Johnboy,

I understand what you are saying. I fell for something similar. I thought I could be the one to turn her around. That is, until the drain and the cash poured out. I wasn't helping her at all. I was contributing to now an excessive drug habit. My realization was when I figured out that she only cared about the cash and not me. I now treat this "Hobby" as a business. I pay, they deliver, we part ways.I can be friendly and approachable, but will never get emotional, again. There are a few regulars I see, but even if I wanted to get emotional, there are too many disappearing acts for lock-ups, found other men (cash sources), drug rehab. With the unreliability, it can be too confusing. I like keeping things simple.

Good luck!

PS. BTW, the one your speak of is probably already back on the street (based on the fact that you cannot reach her). That is the life they know and in many cases, they know how to survive there.[/QUOTE]

I don't want to make it sound like I am falling apart over this, and I want nothing of this in my personal life. It is just sad to watch someone go down this path in front of your eyes and I can't help but feel sorry for her. BUT this is the life she chose.
BTW, I should add that I am NOT the one supporting her full time or living with her. That is not what this is about!

[QUOTE=Johnboy]I have not and do not want to get anywhere near that close to her! I just find it disturbing that she has gotten to this state when I have seen her so much better. In a different life things may have been different, but I do not want her lifestyle in my personal life. I know how we started seeing each other and that was still the case even recently, but spending enough time with someone changes your perspective of them, and that is what happened here. Normally I would'nt care what a SW does to themself, they made their bed and must lie in it, but that changes with time. Some deserve what becomes of them however in this case I personally feel she deserved better of life.[/QUOTE]

The situtation I got into was a mess and I agree stay away. Yes, you are right they make their bed and have to lay in it. I have known a few gals who deserved better and they are their own worst enemys.

[QUOTE=Sam Iam]The situtation I got into was a mess and I agree stay away. Yes, you are right they make their bed and have to lay in it. I have known a few gals who deserved better and they are their own worst enemys.[/QUOTE]
I feel really bad for the guy who is supporting her, because she is taking his money for meds rather than what he is giving it to her for. His situation is his own doing and I hope he comes out of this ok. My situation is just emotional connection rather than money. With few exceptions supporting a SW is a recipe for disaster as has been stated. I have lost nothing I was'nt prepared to lose and just a little depressed that this is happening to someone that I enjoyed being with and can no longer continue to see until things get better if ever.

[QUOTE=Johnboy]I feel really bad for the guy who is supporting her, because she is taking his money for meds rather than what he is giving it to her for. His situation is his own doing and I hope he comes out of this ok. My situation is just emotional connection rather than money. With few exceptions supporting a SW is a recipe for disaster as has been stated. I have lost nothing I was'nt prepared to lose and just a little depressed that this is happening to someone that I enjoyed being with and can no longer continue to see until things get better if ever.[/QUOTE]

Wow, do I hear you loud and clear. Yes I also know a gal who was great and I spent alot of time with her for next to nothing, we are talking bout sw rates. She went downhill, hooked up with a crazy guy and it hit that same point where I can no longer see her till things get better. The gal I mentioned before who I had as a gf lived with me, took the conditions I laid out which was numerous and I didn't loose my shirt. Also she went straight! I am glad she is gone and feel sorry for the guy who is with her and has to deal with her issues. He is not going to be broke just mentally exhausted! You are right 95% of the time it is a recipe for disaster. So with my all time favorite out of the picture I know how u feel. Keep your head up and keep looking!

Cut her loose and move on, you will not regret it.

The voice of experience.

Sprat

[QUOTE=Sam Iam]Wow, do I hear you loud and clear. Yes I also know a gal who was great and I spent alot of time with her for next to nothing, we are talking bout sw rates. She went downhill, hooked up with a crazy guy and it hit that same point where I can no longer see her till things get better. The gal I mentioned before who I had as a gf lived with me, took the conditions I laid out which was numerous and I didn't loose my shirt. Also she went straight! I am glad she is gone and feel sorry for the guy who is with her and has to deal with her issues. He is not going to be broke just mentally exhausted! You are right 95% of the time it is a recipe for disaster. So with my all time favorite out of the picture I know how u feel. Keep your head up and keep looking![/QUOTE]Been there and done that! Actually twice. First time was a minimal financial burden. Nickel and Dime. Became friends, got to spend lots of time with her and her wonderful daughters. Became a weekly weekend outing. Almost like a divorce spending time with the kids on the weekend. This situation included the mom. She did great for about five years. Got clean, got her kids back full time, got a menial job which she worked her way up to supervisor. Unfortunately the company closed it's building and moved two hours away leaving her without a job. Instead of immediately looking for another she sat home with her saving for a couple of months, became lazy and the demons started knocking at the door. Within a few months she was back on the shit and lost everything. Disappeared and haven't heard from her for years. That was the good experience! The bad one a total disaster. I came into a large inheritance several years ago around the time I met and became emotionally and sexually attached to a SW in Philly. She was young and I felt a victim of bad circumstances. I tried to get of the dope which while it may be the easier part in this case was impossible. I tried for two long and made some very foolish choices of which none worked. 10, 000. 00$ later I gave up and threw her out of my life. Subsequently she went to jail for a while. I now never get emotionally involved and also treat this like a business. I'm convinced it's the only way to go. Helping these woman is next to impossible. If they're out in the street 99 times out of a hundred it's a lost cause. While it's often sad and even heartbreaking once they've met us it's pretty much all over. Gentlemen hold on to your $ and save your emotional connections for those that have the capacity to fully appreciate them. Don't get burned!

[QUOTE=Trashed201]Been there and done that! Actually twice. First time was a minimal financial burden. Nickel and Dime. Became friends, got to spend lots of time with her and her wonderful daughters. Became a weekly weekend outing. Almost like a divorce spending time with the kids on the weekend. This situation included the mom. She did great for about five years. Got clean, got her kids back full time, got a menial job which she worked her way up to supervisor. Unfortunately the company closed it's building and moved two hours away leaving her without a job. Instead of immediately looking for another she sat home with her saving for a couple of months, became lazy and the demons started knocking at the door. Within a few months she was back on the shit and lost everything. Disappeared and haven't heard from her for years. That was the good experience! The bad one a total disaster. I came into a large inheritance several years ago around the time I met and became emotionally and sexually attached to a SW in Philly. She was young and I felt a victim of bad circumstances. I tried to get of the dope which while it may be the easier part in this case was impossible. I tried for two long and made some very foolish choices of which none worked. 10, 000. 00$ later I gave up and threw her out of my life. Subsequently she went to jail for a while. I now never get emotionally involved and also treat this like a business. I'm convinced it's the only way to go. Helping these woman is next to impossible. If they're out in the street 99 times out of a hundred it's a lost cause. While it's often sad and even heartbreaking once they've met us it's pretty much all over. Gentlemen hold on to your $ and save your emotional connections for those that have the capacity to fully appreciate them. Don't get burned![/QUOTE]

Wow, you guys were in way deeper than I ever want to be. Financial ruin and support were never in my plans. She finally got back to me last night asking for more money which I expected. As much as I want to believe her intentions with that money, I am not that naive. She has never asked me for money like this before and our time was always standard rates plus extra time hanging out without compensation. Now desperation has taken over and I feel like i'm on the clock even talking to her. That is all this is about. I feel for you guys who tried to support the girls in your life, but that is something I would never try or want to do. I just feel I have lost a good friend.